A question for any IRBW OR IRBM

A question for any IRBW OR IRBM

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Level 3

Since: May 12

Metairie, LA

#1 Nov 9, 2013
Do you prefer white because you prefer white or is there an agenda attached? And if the answer is that there's an agenda I.e. black men are no good or black women all have attitudes, if those things were not the case(which they aren't) would you then still prefer white or would that change? Not looking for a fight just intelligent responses.

“Out of the US back in France”

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Since: May 13

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#2 Nov 9, 2013
To be honest, I wouldn't have minded dating a black American guy last year. But after being on this forum, I really don't think I could, at all.
I'm with my man because of his non physical attributes like his intelligence, compassion, honesty, sweetness, strength and good moral values; the fact that he has green eyes, white skin and silky hair is just an exotic bonus.

“White Humanist”

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Since: Feb 13

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#3 Nov 9, 2013
Silverness wrote:
To be honest, I wouldn't have minded dating a black American guy last year. But after being on this forum, I really don't think I could, at all.
I'm with my man because of his non physical attributes like his intelligence, compassion, honesty, sweetness, strength and good moral values; the fact that he has green eyes, white skin and silky hair is just an exotic bonus.
If you don't mind me asking: Where do you reside and where you from originally?

As for the op question: I'm a wm & if a bw has an agenda she will never be in my company. If she prefers white flesh...ok... I can deal with that. But I think the best bw are the ones that don't care what color you are but they desire what you behold within... passion, personality, & various other dynamic qualities a human can behold. And that is a women that gets my vote & my loving.

Level 3

Since: May 12

Longville, LA

#4 Nov 9, 2013
Silverness wrote:
To be honest, I wouldn't have minded dating a black American guy last year. But after being on this forum, I really don't think I could, at all.
I'm with my man because of his non physical attributes like his intelligence, compassion, honesty, sweetness, strength and good moral values; the fact that he has green eyes, white skin and silky hair is just an exotic bonus.
so what is it about this forum that tells you that you can't date black American men? I don't wont to assume that I know your answer I'd like you to tell me. But I guess I will assume a little bit, have you noticed how many if the white male posters are disrespectful to black women? Doesn't that sway you away from them as well?

Level 9

Since: Nov 10

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#5 Nov 9, 2013
Silverness wrote:
To be honest, I wouldn't have minded dating a black American guy last year. But after being on this forum, I really don't think I could, at all.
I'm with my man because of his non physical attributes like his intelligence, compassion, honesty, sweetness, strength and good moral values; the fact that he has green eyes, white skin and silky hair is just an exotic bonus.
After being on THIS forum??... and after following and listening to Capree, right?

[email protected] forum...

I can not believe folks are using the comments on this racist/IR site for making decisions in their personal lives.

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Since: Nov 10

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#6 Nov 9, 2013
mrman0351 wrote:
<quoted text> so what is it about this forum that tells you that you can't date black American men? I don't wont to assume that I know your answer I'd like you to tell me. But I guess I will assume a little bit, have you noticed how many if the white male posters are disrespectful to black women? Doesn't that sway you away from them as well?
Exactly! I wouldn't told no one that....

“Out of the US back in France”

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Since: May 13

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#7 Nov 9, 2013
Body-Guard wrote:
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If you don't mind me asking: Where do you reside and where you from originally?
As for the op question: I'm a wm & if a bw has an agenda she will never be in my company. If she prefers white flesh...ok... I can deal with that. But I think the best bw are the ones that don't care what color you are but they desire what you behold within... passion, personality, & various other dynamic qualities a human can behold. And that is a women that gets my vote & my loving.
lol. Very complicated. I will stick to general locations. Originally African. Nationality European. Where am I now? USA. Just for the rest of the year.

“Out of the US back in France”

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#8 Nov 9, 2013
mrman0351 wrote:
<quoted text> so what is it about this forum that tells you that you can't date black American men? I don't wont to assume that I know your answer I'd like you to tell me. But I guess I will assume a little bit, have you noticed how many if the white male posters are disrespectful to black women? Doesn't that sway you away from them as well?
The culture is so different and I'm really not interested in learning it. I have never actually met a black American guy, like a true African American, there were none in my class or workplace. I have however met white American men, mostly nice blokes but even though I really don't see myself ever being with one, it's just not an appealing thought.
As for the disrespect, yeah that is one more thing. There seems to be too much drama about race here. It was fascinating when I first arrived but now it's just maddening. Like ask for a simple baby name and immediately it's white men this black men that....

“Out of the US back in France”

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#9 Nov 9, 2013
MsNewNew wrote:
<quoted text>Exactly! I wouldn't told no one that....
And the language too, it's just so different. I have to read it at least 5 times to understand what is being said.
"I wouldn't told no one that."

Level 9

Since: Nov 10

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#10 Nov 9, 2013
Silverness wrote:
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And the language too, it's just so different. I have to read it at least 5 times to understand what is being said.
"I wouldn't told no one that."
Anyone, no one... It doesn't matter because it proves you're still slow if it took you 5 times when you shouldn't guessed and been through with it... Don't forget it's THIS forum... Duh!

Level 9

Since: Nov 10

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#11 Nov 9, 2013
Lol!! The same person who selects her dates from the COMMENTS on THIS forum... is tripping on COMMENTS.

Go figure...

Since: Aug 11

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#12 Nov 9, 2013
I understand everyone has a preference but I personally think people should get with someone based on their spirit inside. When you go by preference you're going after them for their appearance and what they posses on the outside. Which in turn can also be what you're talking about when you say they have an agenda. It's one thing when people happen to fall in love with someone who is a different race but it's another to go out looking for a specific race. You're actually going after them for their appearance then finding out about their personality.

Since: May 12

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#13 Nov 9, 2013
mrman0351 wrote:
Not looking for a fight just intelligent responses.
Lol!

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Level 5

Since: Mar 12

los angeles

#14 Nov 9, 2013
Well there isn't a agenda and there's no reason to wonder what if because things are how they are for a reason and it works for me.

Level 3

Since: May 12

Humble, TX

#15 Nov 9, 2013
Silverness wrote:
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The culture is so different and I'm really not interested in learning it. I have never actually met a black American guy, like a true African American, there were none in my class or workplace. I have however met white American men, mostly nice blokes but even though I really don't see myself ever being with one, it's just not an appealing thought.
As for the disrespect, yeah that is one more thing. There seems to be too much drama about race here. It was fascinating when I first arrived but now it's just maddening. Like ask for a simple baby name and immediately it's white men this black men that....
well you specifically said that this forum wood be the reason for you not dating American black men. You didn't originally say white men also, which Is why I asked you the question, it sounded as if you were saying that you'll ignore disrespect as long as it came from a white man

Level 3

Since: May 12

Humble, TX

#16 Nov 9, 2013
MsNewNew wrote:
<quoted text>Exactly! I wouldn't told no one that....
yes it confused the heck out of me.

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Since: Jul 13

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#17 Nov 9, 2013
mrman0351 wrote:
Do you prefer white because you prefer white or is there an agenda attached? And if the answer is that there's an agenda I.e. black men are no good or black women all have attitudes, if those things were not the case(which they aren't) would you then still prefer white or would that change? Not looking for a fight just intelligent responses.
Sir, I believe true love isn't focused on race but on the content of one's character, heart, values, spiritual beliefs, etc.

“I am an awesome person”

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Since: Jun 08

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#18 Nov 9, 2013
I looked for character in a woman, but for me what I have seen over the years more and more WW acted more womanly like. I am attracted to all kinds of women except for Oriental Women, they are too squat looking. You have to have a physical attraction to the opposite sex for any kind of conversation takes place. If BW acted more feminine in my experience then they would be more appealing to me.
Big Knob

United States

#19 Nov 9, 2013
@ silverness having read your post which gives me a look into your mindset, your anti-logic double standards, trust me you're doing american bm a big favor.........we wont miss you!

“Out of the US back in France”

Level 5

Since: May 13

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#20 Nov 11, 2013
mrman0351 wrote:
<quoted text> well you specifically said that this forum wood be the reason for you not dating American black men. You didn't originally say white men also, which Is why I asked you the question, it sounded as if you were saying that you'll ignore disrespect as long as it came from a white man
Yes, this forum believe it or not portrays quite a bit of the African American culture, or it at least brings an issue to my attention and then I dig deeper. Remember it's not just the race threads that are here although most people just skip right to those. There are threads like these:

http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/T97NUGJOD730O...

http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/T4R2Q7JAIRNVB...

http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/T3QJ8ET4GLLJJ...

http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/THDHI1426P99V...

And of course the controversial;

http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/TR3L5VARDOL36...

I had no idea what Ghetto gaggers was...

And then combined with YouTube...

As for the white men, I thought you were asking about black women who are currently dating white men and whether they would date a black guy if what they did not like about them stopped. So I felt no need to comment on that seeing as I am in a relationship with one.

I have no idea where you got that I would ignore disrespect only if it came from white men... That is absurd.

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