Why do black women like latino men?

Created by BlackTantraGoddess on Oct 19, 2007

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Nitta

Houston, TX

#1110 Jan 29, 2012
Maaan I stumbled upon this sight and got a Latin history lesson, comedy show (with all knock down drag out fights) and read some good stories of every day people getting love where they find it. Im an A A female,with a mix of French,and yes,"she got Indian in her family," lol. So I live in the south,dark reddish skin,I wear my naturally wavey hair,and Im more Niami Cambell built opposite Trina the "baddest chick"built lol. However Latin men,(especially 1 inparticular who has been in love with me for 14yrs together,and now apart) find me exotic. And a lot if the blk men here likes "the trina" type or flat out date outside their race which is their choice. Latin men are juuust beautiful and interesting to me. Love the culture,FOOD,music and people in general.
Ale

Gainesville, FL

#1111 Mar 7, 2012
I live in gainesville FL. is a college with great diversity. My story: I used to liked black woman. I find them very hot and appealing. I met a couple in extracurricular activities and they were fun to be around. The problem began when I started dating. Apparently the black males did not like the idea of a latino guy dating black females. With this girl I was, all her friends used to look down on me and even when we went out to clubs I almost got into fights with other black guys, etc. Something similar happened again with another girl. I just gave up. I am not trying to generalize that is just my story.

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Since: Feb 12

Location hidden

#1112 Mar 7, 2012
I've always been attracted to them. Something about them.

Level 1

Since: Jan 12

Houston, TX

#1113 Mar 8, 2012
Ale wrote:
I live in gainesville FL. is a college with great diversity. My story: I used to liked black woman. I find them very hot and appealing. I met a couple in extracurricular activities and they were fun to be around. The problem began when I started dating. Apparently the black males did not like the idea of a latino guy dating black females. With this girl I was, all her friends used to look down on me and even when we went out to clubs I almost got into fights with other black guys, etc. Something similar happened again with another girl. I just gave up. I am not trying to generalize that is just my story.


Thats too bad. Some black men do get jealous when they do it themselves. I was dating a white guy when some black dudes were walking by starring us down then they were all by his car when we were living the resturant. Not an easy situation lol. But loving someone you want to be with is worth the fight huh?

“Obsidian Princess”

Level 8

Since: Sep 09

louisiana

#1114 Mar 8, 2012
he has a to be a very dark latina or a very tanned one with african features for me to look back at him.
Darkerbrown

Toronto, Canada

#1115 Mar 8, 2012
So for some reason, I decided to google this random question since you can find pretty much almost everything online these days when your bored and can't go to bed even tho you have an early pick up for work the next day.
I am a black woman ofcaribbean decent that was born, raised and still living in Canada and ever since I can remember I have been attracted to black man but I must admit that black men are not the only men I've been attracted to. A man of Any race to me can be attractive not stating that one kind on its own breeds a troop of beautiful men, because you can find unattractive woman and men in all races and nationalities. Anyway back to point lol... I've had 2 boyfriends, both american but first one was Haitian American and the other one was Jamaican American both good men of course with flaws but I loved em anyway LOL.
Most recently last year in September I met this guy through friends at a Champagne party and let me tell you I didn't know he was of hispanic decent, but as soon as we shook hands I knew I like him!!! Told my gf who is latina right away and she just took a look at him and was like "whaaaat that is not your type girl!!? Throughout the night he noticed we both had bbm's and came over to ask if we could exchange pins and numbers and so we did. As soon as we parted ways after the exchange, he sent me a msg right away obviously stating that he was attracted to me and was surprised at what he saw when I first walked in to him and his friends hotel suite.
Its been now 7 months and him and I still talk and he developped in me a new love for latino men I didn't know I had. The reason why I am attracted to him is because, he dresses with care, smells soo good, and he knows it. The first time I went out with him and his friends, he treated me like a queen and I could tell his friends were surprised too, mind you they were a mix of black, white and spanish guys! Maybe because I was chocolate toned lol I don't know!!!? All I know is that, he was so attentive, love it when he speaks spanish mmm, checks up on me all the time, hardworking, he cares and he never changed since I've met him and still calls me sexy and says I'm cool and funny, he has a big heart, is so passionate and has a lot of love and last but not least... He is a great and one of the best sex I have ever had yet! He aint all that perfect, who is... He has things that erk me about him just like there's things that erk him about me! LOL keeping it real!! Though that doesn't even define him. He looks at my dark skin and kisses it and compliments it and doesn't put up that wall most ppl put up about skin tones. That to me is a man who knows how to be a man and treat a woman. The way he treats me is like royalty, passed the race, pass my dark shade and his light shade (he could pass for a white boy, like seriously). We are human and we wanna treat others like we want to be treated, with the same respect. I'm no prejudice, I was raised that way, understanding some ppl have their preferences, I have mine too and my weakness is a sexy black man as I am BUT if a man is a man, a good man... I'm attracted to that man and I want that man. And still today, we are not togetherexclusively but express to eachother how much we want eachother, me a single woman would change my status in a heart beat just to be with him... We are just both career driven and busy young individuals. I wish it was that easy and that a lot of ppl would look pass the race, the age (I'm 24, he's 23 and more successful then both black men I've dated who are well over 28-30).
Sooo sorry for the novel! Lol

Level 1

Since: Jan 12

Houston, TX

#1116 Mar 8, 2012
@ darkerbrown. Girl your right that was a novel. A very good one lol. Im up,cant sleep. I must say I enjoyed picturing that love story. I hope you to get together and commit. You can always change careers, and have a career. But to have someone who truly loves, and easy on the eyes,and makes you feel loved in return is rare. I was career driven and I moved away from the one man (Hispanic) that truly loved me unconditionally and broke his heart. I was his first love. He got married while I was out doing me, and when I moved back he told me how he felt and wished he married me and had a family with me. Go figure. At the end of the day success is more fulfilling when you have someone you love to share it with.
Darkerbrown

Canada

#1117 Mar 9, 2012
Nita212 wrote:
@ darkerbrown. Girl your right that was a novel. A very good one lol. Im up,cant sleep. I must say I enjoyed picturing that love story. I hope you to get together and commit. You can always change careers, and have a career. But to have someone who truly loves, and easy on the eyes,and makes you feel loved in return is rare. I was career driven and I moved away from the one man (Hispanic) that truly loved me unconditionally and broke his heart. I was his first love. He got married while I was out doing me, and when I moved back he told me how he felt and wished he married me and had a family with me. Go figure. At the end of the day success is more fulfilling when you have someone you love to share it with.
You are so right @Nita212 but I think right now we are both young and stubborn. I've delt with so much that at such a young age I know what I want and after I met and got with someone like him I'm ready to say *I know what I want in a man* He knows I wanna be with him and I know I can change careers but I love my job. He loves his job as well but the issue digs deaper, he has a drama filled pass relationship with this ex and I get the feeling he's confused and that confuses me. So tho we both want eachother in each others lives,(and trust me I tried to get out of his life since we haven't known eachother long, he doesn't want to let go) He has issues to deal with and while he is dealing with them, I need to keep an open mind, go on dates (even tho I haven't) meet new men (I push em off) and I'm ready for a relationship, don't need one but want one if it happens. To raise a point tho, if he found out I was talking to a next man, or see me talk to another men, he wouldn't like it even tho he still has his things dragging. Most Hispanic are very Territorial and keep a *that's mine mentality so I also think he's gonna be here for a hot minute!

Talking about it definetely helps and I hope to meet a man just as great or better. I need to get out there.

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Since: Dec 11

Mobile, Alabama

#1118 Mar 9, 2012
They're romantic and I find them very cute.
SEXYCUBANLA

La Mirada, CA

#1119 Mar 19, 2012
what i got to say is i love latina and black women there the best!!! im a sexy cuban papi from L.A CA get at me black girls!!! much love 1
alexis

United States

#1120 Apr 1, 2012
they are sexy ha :)
Lefty Louie

Austin, TX

#1121 Apr 1, 2012
Nita212 wrote:
<quoted text>
Thats too bad. Some black men do get jealous when they do it themselves. I was dating a white guy when some black dudes were walking by starring us down then they were all by his car when we were living the resturant. Not an easy situation lol. But loving someone you want to be with is worth the fight huh?
Damnn right. We get angry. BW are made for BM only. You bytches belong to us. That's right. Don't let me catch anyone of you with White or Mexican dude or I'll kick in your uterus. For real ya'll. Sellout race traitors.
miguel

United States

#1122 Apr 2, 2012
Lefty Louie wrote:
<quoted text>Damnn right. We get angry. BW are made for BM only. You bytches belong to us. That's right. Don't let me catch anyone of you with White or Mexican dude or I'll kick in your uterus. For real ya'll. Sellout race traitors.
Like I told you before if I catch disrespecting them and I'll kick your behinds punk.
Derek

Bronx, NY

#1123 May 2, 2012
to be honest black women like anything none white theres some black women with white men dont get me wrong but it seem like most black females dont find white guys that atractive black women stick to they own race most the time but out they race they tend to date latin men rather than white and asian men and not every latin men just puerto ricans dominicans cubans even some panamanians you know the latinos with black blood in them
ANM

Oakland, CA

#1124 Dec 21, 2012
Well all I can say is that I love all damn women shapes and colors...
Blacks (get the respect from and "You're IN", Asians "never tried but personally in love with japanese girls and Whites (this race tends to be a bit controversial mostly because of their stupid belief of being the master race which is totally ridiculous)
I do not include Latina cause is not a definition of race genetically speaking...but the advantage of being Latino is the mix of all DNA in one pot. SO to describe Latina is not necessary they got all the angles...from the three races yummy!
Peace to all you punks =)

Level 1

Since: Jan 12

Minneapolis, MN

#1125 Dec 29, 2012
Lefty Louie wrote:
<quoted text>Damnn right. We get angry. BW are made for BM only. You bytches belong to us. That's right. Don't let me catch anyone of you with White or Mexican dude or I'll kick in your uterus. For real ya'll. Sellout race traitors.
Maaan whats really goin on?? I dont know rather to laugh, be paranoid, so ima laugh.....
Papi

United States

#1126 Jan 12, 2013
Hola to all you Gorgeous black beautiful woman I'm Latin I just love the fact of a nice brown sweet black woman what can I say is unexplainable how umuch I like chocolate and coffee that's how I like my future wife to be nice and sweet

Since: Jan 13

Dickinson, ND

#1128 Jan 12, 2013
What are u talking about?

Since: Jan 13

Dickinson, ND

#1129 Jan 12, 2013
You crack heads don't know how to treat a black beautiful woman it's so nice to know that black girls like Latin men. But it's ok run ur mouth i wish i knew you punk and step up to your face u wont do shit have respect for woman's for all you lady's looking for hope here is a tip. We are lovers and friends u haters can't break the passion and knowledge we are born with it open mind not racist at all as far is me I LOVE BLACK WOMEN they got. Style" and sweetness ooohhh!!! And I well married a black women cuz it's what I want it's what I like its what I love good luck to all you hopes up!! Never give up.....

Since: May 10

Location hidden

#1130 Jan 12, 2013
BlackTantraGoddess wrote:
I love latin men! They are crazy sexy, good lovers, sweet and kind. They are soulful and in-touch with their roots. I especially luv a Cuban or Puerto Rican man because we share African roots.
Cubans and PRs don't all share he same racial roots.

LOL!

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