Black men seem to jealous of White men
London

Powell, OH

#1138 Mar 24, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Personally I don't like weaves but if I did I would expect my husband to be more concerned with whats under the weave and not act like some little bytchy hair stylist.
lol. exactly. it's such a turn off to hear so many guys talking about women's hairstyles!
London

Powell, OH

#1139 Mar 24, 2013
Redefined wrote:
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No! You dunno. Those who are educated on this subject matter know. There are PPL who study Human Civilizations for a living.
Please. Those who "study" human civilizations have emphatically stated that SLAVERY AND COLONIALISM *CHANGES* the culture and people. They even have certain markers they use to know when certain groups migrated here and there. Not all of it is unquestionable but the one thing they all agree on is that slavery and colonialism is the end of something; not the beginning.

You can't compare free people to non free "people." It simply doesn't work like that.

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#1140 Mar 24, 2013
London wrote:
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lol. exactly. it's such a turn off to hear so many guys talking about women's hairstyles!
And it's a turn off for women to wear smelly weaves. Those things stank. Also, men talk about preferring blonde over brunette or red heads being more exotic. So why is it a problem to have a preference towards weaves??? Bw seem to be the only women who don't try to appease their men in any way.

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#1141 Mar 24, 2013
London wrote:
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lol. exactly. it's such a turn off to hear so many guys talking about women's hairstyles!
Weave wearing shows insecurity..It is a poison. If you don't like your own genetics (which you have shown in several threads that you don't) you won't be with me or even around me. Period.
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#1143 Mar 24, 2013
-0h_really- wrote:
<quoted text>When you CRYbaby blacks come up with something new and more creative to WHINE about.
What's the matter Oh not really.....shouldn't you be somewhere stalking Frank ? What's the matter, did he get a cyber restraining order against your azz? Go and refight the Civil war with your toy soldiers and let me know how it works out for you this time! lol

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#1144 Mar 24, 2013
London wrote:
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lol. exactly. it's such a turn off to hear so many guys talking about women's hairstyles!
And since it's only a turn off to hear bm talk about women' hairstyles, then maybe you women should try living up to white male expectations. Their women have to starve themselves, wear their hair in ways that appeal to wm. I took a couple classes a few years back with this white girl and she decided to wear cornrows on the side with a nice lil ethnic look to it, and the white guys immediately made their feelings felt. They told her they didn't like it and it resembled a black girl's hair style. Guess what, the next day she came to class with her hair back in it's natural form. And she was loving those cornrows, but it wasn't appealing to white men. And the other white females never attempted to emasculate those men for their stance. White women just seem to have the game on lock and just know how to play the game.
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#1146 Mar 24, 2013
London wrote:
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If you were really nice you would remove yourself from her presence while out in public to begin with.
And if you really loved yourself, you would make a greater effort to realize when you were making a fool out of yourself.....oh the shame, the rest of your personalities must feel!

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#1147 Mar 24, 2013
Black Elite wrote:
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But sassy, not even with your vagina are you able to attract men, hence why so many of you are single. If your VAGINAS had some form of value, you probably would have the ring on and happy. But yours got no value just like the rest of your miserable black women on here.
And its by design that no one wants you. Because no man wants a black woman who is ready to fight and cuss and wear fake hair to be white women all the time. We just a natural black female.
Today, i walked out again and i saw all the white females with their natural hair, whereas, not one black woman was seen with their natural or Afros. You are all self-haters.
Honestly though I barely ever cared about marriage and after a finace cheated on me I still didn't care. My bigger concern is having kids some day with a good man who is responsible enough to care for all of us.
Cee Cipher

Dallas, TX

#1148 Mar 24, 2013
I guess we know those that got some jealousy towards white boys. Writing thesis and bumping tha hell outta this muthafkka. smh

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#1149 Mar 24, 2013
Most bw don't like their hair, but they wanna claim bm are the sellouts. And claiming we shave our heads bald to hide our hair is stupid. Some of us are losing our hair, some of us just want to rock bald heads because it's fashionable and others just are too lazy to comb it so they cut it. But none of that equate self hatred like all you women display. Relaxing your hair (not perming, I hate when you women claim to perm your hair. White women perm, black women relax) damages your hair, causes burns if not properly based and is not a reflection of your own hair. None of you want to get into this subject because I will burn you. I've been cutting hair for years, and I am the rare breed of straight men that know how to style and design hair.
Nicole Little

Philadelphia, PA

#1150 Mar 24, 2013
Black Elite wrote:
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Sweetheart, i am not uplifting any white female. I am just showing your the differences between you and them.
Have you ever seen a white female walk slxtty in public? NO.
HAve you ever seen a black female walk slxtty in public> ALL THE TIME.
And stop your BS about black men being at the bottom of the totem poll when all the facts and figures shows you are VERY LAST OPtION for every man ( if they remember).
Nicole, just check the stats and you will see even on dating websites black females send the most messages out to white men, but they are the least replied too. lmbao.
You all are BIG JOKE. LMBAO.
There you are on a dating website and begging white men to take you and you are LEAST TO BE REPLIED TOO. But you are here trying to talk some nonsense.
Sassy knows very well that black females are the least desired by any man and she won't talk that sheet.
It doesn't matter because when it comes to POWER and STATUS, black men are at the bottom of white men. We're not talking about dating. We're talking about power and status. If you want talk about me being the least desired in dating, I'm going tokeep telling you that you are at the bottom of the social ladder. Don't be thinking that you are above black women because you are black too, and blacks as a whole are at the bottom, so it doesn't matter how much white pussy you get, compare to white men, you ae at the bottom. Sorry to break it to you.
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#1153 Mar 24, 2013
ladondaruler1 wrote:
Most bw don't like their hair, but they wanna claim bm are the sellouts. And claiming we shave our heads bald to hide our hair is stupid. Some of us are losing our hair, some of us just want to rock bald heads because it's fashionable and others just are too lazy to comb it so they cut it. But none of that equate self hatred like all you women display. Relaxing your hair (not perming, I hate when you women claim to perm your hair. White women perm, black women relax) damages your hair, causes burns if not properly based and is not a reflection of your own hair. None of you want to get into this subject because I will burn you. I've been cutting hair for years, and I am the rare breed of straight men that know how to style and design hair.
And remember, we stepped out with the shaven domes when having a bald head was still VERY unusual and unfashionable. We did so without checking with and getting the approval of the gay boys in Hollywood or Madison avenue that the sisters must first secure permission from before they give a thumbs up to their appearance in the mirror. We did so when the white boys were still walking around with cul-da-sacs on the top of their heads! So, try as these dodo birds may, we don't conform to any aesthetic standard of white America!

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#1154 Mar 24, 2013
Nicole Little wrote:
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It doesn't matter because when it comes to POWER and STATUS, black men are at the bottom of white men. We're not talking about dating. We're talking about power and status. If you want talk about me being the least desired in dating, I'm going tokeep telling you that you are at the bottom of the social ladder. Don't be thinking that you are above black women because you are black too, and blacks as a whole are at the bottom, so it doesn't matter how much white pussy you get, compare to white men, you ae at the bottom. Sorry to break it to you.
But we don't envy white men for being at the top because we know what they had to do to get there. It's black women that seem the most concerned about where wm and bm rank in this so call social latter as a whole. I have never stopped to think about it, nor any bm in my circle. It's not something we waste time pondering over.

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#1155 Mar 24, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
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And remember, we stepped out with the shaven domes when having a bald head was still VERY unusual and unfashionable. We did so without checking with and getting the approval of the gay boys in Hollywood or Madison avenue that the sisters must first secure permission from before they give a thumbs up to their appearance in the mirror. We did so when the white boys were still walking around with cul-da-sacs on the top of their heads! So, try as these dodo birds may, we don't conform to any aesthetic standard of white America!
Exactly!!! Anybody who wishes to be honest will have to admit that most bm don't care what others think about us. Now there are bm that want to outshine bm (which I don't like) but we could care less what white boys or Asians think about us. It's part of our swagger to not give a fck what people think, because we're gonna do what we do. Rocking Kid n Play flattops, dreads, mohawks, or whatever other style is nowhere near conforming to white society. Hell, we have being hearing whites telling blacks to pull up their pants (which I wish they would) and they haven't stopped to listen to white yet. We pretty much do what make us happy, and we don't try to appease white society.
Enlightened

Zebulon, NC

#1156 Mar 24, 2013
Nicole Little wrote:
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Black Elite is VERY verbally abusive to black women by telling us that we are not as marketable as non-black women and that we are undesirable and nobody wants us. You see this is the black men that we deal with every day. He talk about some he's doing this to make black women be better women whereas these same black men will wife up a bitchy, attitudinal, fat, ugly, out-of-wedlock children having non-black women and they are very forgiving of non-black wome and their flaws. The reason why he thinks that we are not marketable enough is because we are not light enough, we have kinky hair and Africa features. Because those same black men that give black women higher standards will give below-average non-black women a pass. So it's not because of our behaviors or the way we dress. It's because we look too BLACK! Black Elite always remind black women that we ain't shit, and then compare us to non-black women. Then he had the audacity to tell me what I want and what I DON'T want. He said that I don't want to be single. GTFOOH! Who the fuck does he think he is? Black men like that are the reasons why I remain single. I will never date black men again.
BM have a tendency to be harsher on BW. They definitely do not treat us the same as they do other races of women. BM are angry and they try to hide it like a wolf in sheep's clothing. Most try to say its because of BW attitudes but I'll never believe that because most black women I know are just as good to their men or better to them than other women. They seldom are pampered by their men. I've seen BW bend over backwards trying to please their men. I've seen lots of BM take BW for granted and take advantage of BW. Then they blame her for being vulnerable to loving them. I don't believe all BM are like this though. There are still very few who still love BW and it seems they may be dying out slowly.
TheBenchpress

Grovetown, GA

#1157 Mar 24, 2013
Nicole,you never cease to humor me.You were obviously near tears about the valid points Black Elite brought up about bw,so you figured you would throw social position in us bm's faces.Unfortunately for you,bm aren't offended because we rest assured that all a bm has to do is work for his social position while bw has to have a whole change of lifestyle to get a glimpse of respect from the rest of us.( And if we don't value bw,why would we be upset about anything she falsely claims?) Nice try though hon: >

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#1158 Mar 24, 2013
Enlightened wrote:
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BM have a tendency to be harsher on BW. They definitely do not treat us the same as they do other races of women. BM are angry and they try to hide it like a wolf in sheep's clothing. Most try to say its because of BW attitudes but I'll never believe that because most black women I know are just as good to their men or better to them than other women. They seldom are pampered by their men. I've seen BW bend over backwards trying to please their men. I've seen lots of BM take BW for granted and take advantage of BW. Then they blame her for being vulnerable to loving them. I don't believe all BM are like this though. There are still very few who still love BW and it seems they may be dying out slowly.
or being killed off slowly
Nicole Little

Philadelphia, PA

#1159 Mar 24, 2013
TheBenchpress wrote:
Nicole,you never cease to humor me.You were obviously near tears about the valid points Black Elite brought up about bw,so you figured you would throw social position in us bm's faces.Unfortunately for you,bm aren't offended because we rest assured that all a bm has to do is work for his social position while bw has to have a whole change of lifestyle to get a glimpse of respect from the rest of us.( And if we don't value bw,why would we be upset about anything she falsely claims?) Nice try though hon: >
How do you figure that I'm near tears? I don't know what you're talking about? Black women are just as beauiful and wanted asany woman.

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#1160 Mar 24, 2013
Nicole Little wrote:
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How do you figure that I'm near tears? I don't know what you're talking about? Black women are just as beauiful and wanted asany woman.
Well, the beautiful part you have correct. But the only reason bw aren't as wanted by bm is because of the attitude you all give us. But I will concede on the beautiful part.
race observer

Downers Grove, IL

#1161 Mar 24, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>Honestly though I barely ever cared about marriage and after a finace cheated on me I still didn't care. My bigger concern is having kids some day with a good man who is responsible enough to care for all of us.
Come on bro,Clean up the grill dude!!!!

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