“100%”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#1086 Mar 24, 2013
London wrote:
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I don't need a lesson from you on my personal growth. You think I would come to this forum for self growth? ha! Don't make me laugh.
As far as focusing on what others are doing, I've done no such thing. In fact, you are the one focusing on womens hairstyles and actually going so far as to place judgment on them. You also refuse to call bm out for not wearing their naps but yet the first ones to talk about bw who choose not to. One would think you'd have no desire to speak on such a thing.
Now if that's not focusing on others to the point of neglecting yourself, I don't know what is.
LIES. Quote where I have JUDGED a woman about her hair?? One poster said she does NOT care what BM think about her natural hair & I supported her because BW should NOT to be pressured too permanently change their hair for society. Are BM pressured to do this?? No they are NOT.

You are the one who has openly admitted that 'naps' are undesirable & women should change them which doesn't help counter the beliefs that Black hair is bad hair. If so many BW do this, it just reinforces natural hair is bad hair for BW & this is NOT TRUE. You believe this & you want society to believe this as well. BP need to have forward thinkin' & this begins with self empowerment, something you do not want Blacks to focus on. All you want is for Blacks too focus on what is going in society or better yet remain distracted by BS such as what is trendy, who has the most social status or money, who celebrities are dating. How does worrying about these things benefit us??
Nicole Little

Philadelphia, PA

#1087 Mar 24, 2013
Black Elite wrote:
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Nicole, no black man wants an angry, bitter, fat, weave wearing, classless, wig wearing, hair-hat liking, self-hating, loud, slxtty black woman.
Because this is how you have marketted yourself. Its not like anyone force you to do it. You just decided, that your vagina a big arse, big titties and a bed is what defines you and then you expect us to respect you.
Up to this time, you have been cussing at me for absolutely nothing at all.
One of the most telling truths of how whites view aaw was with the "black barbie doll" litmus test. And it was slxtty in the making...because you love to be slxtty and fk each and every male on earth, without thinking what comes next.
You don't see white, asian, latino, hispanic, arab females behave like you..only you do this sheet.
You don't even cver your arses when you go out anymore. Its all there with a piece of rope right there in the middle of your arse.
JUST CLASSLESS AND NOT MARKETABLE AT ALL.
First of all, you don't know SHIT about me. If I have something to say, then I'm going to speak my mind. It's funny how you say that a black man doesn't want angry, bitter, fat, weave wearing, classless, wig wearing, hair-hat liking, self-hating, loud, slxtty black woman, but you will turn right around and date those same non-black women who have those negative traits. It's like a black woman has to be a 10 for black men to get with her but when it comes to non-black women, she can be angry, bitter, fat, weave wearing, classless, wig wearing, hair-hat liking, self-hating, loud, slxtty, etc, and you will still wife them. I know a LOT of black men who wife up fat, ugly, classless, racist, mouthy, slutty non-black women. You black men are VERY forgiving when it comes to non-black women's negative flaws but if a black woman operates in these things, you will dump her like a bad habit. The truth of the matter is you will give fat, ugly, loud, slutty, bitter non-black women a pass because she's not black. You will marry a nonblack woman who sleeps with the whole football team, but won't do the same thing for black women who do it. See the double standard.

And you want to talk about classless??? Everybody knows that white women are the biggest sluts. White men will tell you that. But because she's WHITE, you will give her a pass and wife her. I've been around long enough to see a lot of white women who curse more than I do, slutty, have a bad attitude yet she still get married, so please, stop using that shit as an excuse to trash black women because I will shut you down. You don't want to mess with me. You will NOT stereotype and trash black women in my presence.

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#1088 Mar 24, 2013
London wrote:
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Great advice. Although, myself I always tell ww having this problem to simply do blackface. lol.
Thanks! Blackface! LMAO!!!!!!!!!! I think if she looks like a upper-middle class, conservative will drive the brothers off away quicker than bees,lol!

“100%”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#1089 Mar 24, 2013
London wrote:
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No proof of African colonialism?? Are you serious? Sir, all but 2 countries were colonized by whites. That means all sir. That means they were under direct influence and control of a whole different group and people. That changes things, forever. And when you add on that they weren't free even before that, because of Arabs, well, do you see how silly you sound speaking of African customs? I don't know why some of you believe slavery and colonialism affects nothing and things just continue on as they once were and should be treasured but you are sadly and sorely mistaken.
It doesn't PROVE their customs were affected by colonialism. If so PROVE this. Many of their religion is however due to colonialism but some of them still practice indigenous religions & speak their Native languages which disproves ur comment.

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#1090 Mar 24, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Thanks London, you have made many intelligent agruments to him also about why the Jews are as white as any other whites but he refuses to listen. I bet he isn't going to answer my question about the star because that would blow his little Jews look different from whites theory.
Yes, there are many Jews who look white, but that doesn't change genetics. And any Jew who wasn't wearing a star of David would face severe punishment. But you all keep ignoring the fact that Jews and Arabs are one in the same, just that SOME Jews look white.

“100%”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#1092 Mar 24, 2013
Capree wrote:
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That is very common among bw who were raised old school but we all as black women must realize that it isn't black women's duty automatically run to defend, protect or assist black men who would a do the same for any other races of women before they would black women. I also feel that no type of hair is bad hair.
She believes hair that grows out someone's head is bad. Unless she believe Humans can grow bad body parts or traits. If that is the case, we can argue that some races have good & bad traits.
London

Powell, OH

#1093 Mar 24, 2013
Redefined wrote:
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It doesn't PROVE their customs were affected by colonialism. If so PROVE this. Many of their religion is however due to colonialism but some of them still practice indigenous religions & speak their Native languages which disproves ur comment.
Are you kidding me? OF COURSE their customs were affected by colonialism. What the f do you think colonialism and slavery is sir?
Nicole Little

Philadelphia, PA

#1094 Mar 24, 2013
Black Elite wrote:
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Nicole, you cannot prove one area where a whie female is a slxt that you die to want to fit in just to get noticed.
I don't care about white women or black women who are slim fat etc etc etc...I got myself an African woman who is nothing like you.
You aaw will do anything to be accepted by white society just to fit in. You don't mind going through a train of white men just to get a decent one and try your best to immitate white females.
If you're so proud of yourselves, why don't you sport your Afros? why don't your raise your kids, instead of being loud, slxtty, rude, arse showing in public.
You're just not marketable. No one wants you. Not even on the Topd world Magazines are you wanted, because you are just worthless.
When you begin to cover your arses in public, raise your kids, stopd being loud, obnoxious, rude, annoying, repulsive, jezebel, hworing your arses, then we will give you the time of day. Until then, NO ONE WILL WANT YOU.
YOU ARE THE LAST OF ANY FEMALE, JUST NOT MARKETABLE.
Blah blah blah. Am I suppose to be hurt by this? White women are known to be the biggest freaks out there yet you think that these are classy women? You are so delusional. Be gone!

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#1095 Mar 24, 2013
Black Elite wrote:
Sassy, I think Nicole is somewhat better than you. She at least may just find a good man to fall in love with in the next two decades. But I don't see this happening to you, EVER.
You just don't seem to have what it takes to pull positive people around you. You are just purely unworthy, of anything good.
And if women in their middle 20's like Nicole take you who is in her middle 39's seriously, she will end up worst than you and man-less with her fake arse hair forever.
Your opinion does not matter to me and my future husband.

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#1096 Mar 24, 2013
And for the record I am not trolling this is my only name I use here.

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Since: Jan 10

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#1098 Mar 24, 2013
ladondaruler1 wrote:
<quoted text> Yes, there are many Jews who look white, but that doesn't change genetics. And any Jew who wasn't wearing a star of David would face severe punishment. But you all keep ignoring the fact that Jews and Arabs are one in the same, just that SOME Jews look white.
Of course these Jew would face severe punishment because without the Star of David they would be mistaken for non-jewish white. Your posting on gentics doesn't disspell that Jew are not Caucasians or that Jews are races at all.

“100%”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#1099 Mar 24, 2013
London wrote:
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Are you kidding me? OF COURSE their customs were affected by colonialism. What the f do you think colonialism and slavery is sir?
Africa has thousands of ethnic groups. Your homework is too show me with PROOF that every single ethnic group was affected by colonialism & list them by names.
London

Powell, OH

#1100 Mar 24, 2013
Redefined wrote:
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LIES. Quote where I have JUDGED a woman about her hair??
Below is where you placed judgment.
Redefined wrote:
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This is the attitude we should all have. If our natural hair is a blessing (which I believe it is) than changing would mean you allow someone to steal it from you.
This is a judgmental reply sir!
Redefined wrote:
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One poster said she does NOT care what BM think about her natural hair & I supported her because BW should NOT to be pressured too permanently change their hair for society. Are BM pressured to do this?? No they are NOT.
I didn't say bm were pressured to change their hair. I simply said bm don't show their naps and they don't! Bw aren't pressured either EXCEPT by mostly bm who don't even show their own naps!!
Redefined wrote:
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You are the one who has openly admitted that 'naps' are undesirable & women should change them which doesn't help counter the beliefs that Black hair is bad hair.
Now you are lying. I'll await that post where I said this.
Redefined wrote:
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If so many BW do this, it just reinforces natural hair is bad hair for BW & this is NOT TRUE.
As I said, until you show this same judgmental attitude toward black guys who don't show their naps your words are empty. You sound silly. You actually believe women changing hairstyles isn't normal. gtfoh.
Redefined wrote:
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You believe this & you want society to believe this as well.
Society doesn't give two farts how we wear our hair. That is nothing more than another "problem" black guys have created and thrown in the lap of bw to figure out. Unaware bw, who are blinded by the games bm play are the only ones playing along. The rest of us ignore you guys and tell you to worry about your own naps.

As far as my PERSONAL **PREFERENCE**(isn't this a word black guys love?) I have already said I don't like nappy hair. I make no apologies for it. I don't like it but you are free to like what you want and I think bw who choose to wear their hair with naps showing should have the freedom to do so. However, they shouldn't be BULLIED in to doing it. That is a PERSONAL CHOICE.
Redefined wrote:
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BP need to have forward thinkin' & this begins with self empowerment, something you do not want Blacks to focus on. All you want is for Blacks too focus on what is going in society or better yet remain distracted by BS such as what is trendy, who has the most social status or money, who celebrities are dating. How does worrying about these things benefit us??
If you don't know how social status and money could benefit blacks as a whole, well I don't know what to tell you.
London

Powell, OH

#1101 Mar 24, 2013
Redefined wrote:
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She believes hair that grows out someone's head is bad. Unless she believe Humans can grow bad body parts or traits. If that is the case, we can argue that some races have good & bad traits.
Again, please post where I've said this. Don't worry, I'll wait.

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Since: Jan 10

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#1102 Mar 24, 2013
Redefined wrote:
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She believes hair that grows out someone's head is bad. Unless she believe Humans can grow bad body parts or traits. If that is the case, we can argue that some races have good & bad traits.
Well I definitely don't go alone with her theory which was promoted and started by some straight hair people because the coarser hair people's hair felt and looked different.

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#1103 Mar 24, 2013
London wrote:
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Again, please post where I've said this. Don't worry, I'll wait.
I didn't see where you said that either, I thought she was talking about another poster.
Flask

Decatur, GA

#1108 Mar 24, 2013
What is this talk about bm wanting bw to wear naps, didn't you all used to say how bm want you to wear weave while wm love your natural hair, and that most irbw have natural hair? Irbw will say anything in the moment to say bm are doing something wrong.

“100%”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#1111 Mar 24, 2013
London wrote:
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Below is where you placed judgment.
<quoted text> This is a judgmental reply sir!
<quoted text> I didn't say bm were pressured to change their hair. I simply said bm don't show their naps and they don't! Bw aren't pressured either EXCEPT by mostly bm who don't even show their own naps!!
<quoted text> Now you are lying. I'll await that post where I said this.
<quoted text> As I said, until you show this same judgmental attitude toward black guys who don't show their naps your words are empty. You sound silly. You actually believe women changing hairstyles isn't normal. gtfoh.
<quoted text> Society doesn't give two farts how we wear our hair. That is nothing more than another "problem" black guys have created and thrown in the lap of bw to figure out. Unaware bw, who are blinded by the games bm play are the only ones playing along. The rest of us ignore you guys and tell you to worry about your own naps.
As far as my PERSONAL **PREFERENCE**(isn't this a word black guys love?) I have already said I don't like nappy hair. I make no apologies for it. I don't like it but you are free to like what you want and I think bw who choose to wear their hair with naps showing should have the freedom to do so. However, they shouldn't be BULLIED in to doing it. That is a PERSONAL CHOICE.
<quoted text> If you don't know how social status and money could benefit blacks as a whole, well I don't know what to tell you.
That comment can apply to anything that may be consider bad by society. The subject is about Natural hair tho & I still don't see how you think my comment was a negative judgement toward BW. Once again, I don't care how a BW or BM wear their hair, it is about how Natural hair in general is perceived. If someone stated that Black skin was bad, of course I'm going to comment because it's an inaccurate statement. Does this mean I'm placing judging on a BP who is bleaching their skin?? This is ur logic. Like I said, all you want is for BW to focus on things that are not beneficial or things they cannot control. If we all did this, we would not get anywhere in life.

“100%”

Level 8

Since: Jan 10

United States

#1112 Mar 24, 2013
London wrote:
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Again, please post where I've said this. Don't worry, I'll wait.
Aren't you the same poster who was claiming all BP don't have nappy hair & the original BM hair was not nappy??
Nicole Little

Philadelphia, PA

#1113 Mar 24, 2013
Black Elite wrote:
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Sweetheart, you can still be a freak and have clas. Because freaks operate behind close doors, not in public like aaw. Thats the difference between you and them.
Nicole you are at least 23 to 25. You probably feel unhappy with your pickings of black men around you and feel you now need other man-less women like *capree and sassyntrashy* to help you out. They can't tell you anything positive, because they (themselves) have no clue what to do to find a good man.
All the stories they give you about they have a white man ( are all lies). This is what they need to say, to fool you in thinking, that they know what its about, but they don't.
Why do you think they are still on this forum as bitter as this, making threads lambasting black men? Its only because they see the pickings and desirability of black men and they (aaw), just keep on being refused by everyone.
The biggest let-down by black females are by other black females, who just love to see sisters miserable just like them. Its very sad that this happening, instead of those females trying to tell you the truth about themselves.
First and foremost, the weave, wigs, and hair-hats must go. No need to be white women, because white women find you (being a black woman) is a down-grade and laugh at your dumbarses, when they see you wearing wigs, weaves and hair-hats.
Be yourselves to find a man.
White women are also freaks out in public, and I find it strange that you will uplif white women while trash black women and you have a black wife. Does your wife knows that you are degrading black women while uplifting white women? You are painting white women like they are angels and when I told you that they are far from it, you shot me down. WHITE WOMEN ARE NOT ANGELS! I'm starting to get a feeling that you truly want white women even though you have a Nigerian wife. That's why you feel that you have to trash black women because you are just not physically attracted to them. Be honest. You want a white woman. I've notice that you have a beef with black women and white men, and if a black woman wants a white man, so what. That's her preference.

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