Why do black men like to blame their ...

Why do black men like to blame their problems on other people?

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Since: Mar 07

Piscataway, NJ

#1 Apr 5, 2007
First it was the WM exclusively
Now it is WM and BW
then next it wil probably be the WW included

What is going on?
Jay

Columbus, IN

#2 Apr 6, 2007
Claiming our share little girl, claiming our share of this American Pie. You two are the biggest obstacles in our way and we see it clearly.
Jay

Columbus, IN

#4 Apr 6, 2007
Phuck you. You and those that think like you are not man enough to admit that when confronted with real black manhood, you are outclassed, paralyzed and just plain intimidated. LOL. You don't have the balls to confront us directly, so you resort to cowardly tactics like this forum to air your racist views. Whatever. I see punks like you every time I venture out and they can't even look me in the eye.....If I knew exactly where you lived, buddy, I'd come and do you myself! Got some marksmanship training courtesy of the U.S. Gov't., you would never know what hit you. HAHA. Better stay in your hole, pussycat, I live to find jokers like you. You can't stop whats about to happen in this country anymore than you could hold back the sea. Think about that the next time you want to put up one of your little posts, mkay?
Cuteblkdude

AOL

#5 Apr 6, 2007
Jay wrote:
Phuck you. You and those that think like you are not man enough to admit that when confronted with real black manhood, you are outclassed, paralyzed and just plain intimidated. LOL. You don't have the balls to confront us directly, so you resort to cowardly tactics like this forum to air your racist views. Whatever. I see punks like you every time I venture out and they can't even look me in the eye.....If I knew exactly where you lived, buddy, I'd come and do you myself! Got some marksmanship training courtesy of the U.S. Gov't., you would never know what hit you. HAHA. Better stay in your hole, pussycat, I live to find jokers like you. You can't stop whats about to happen in this country anymore than you could hold back the sea. Think about that the next time you want to put up one of your little posts, mkay?
Before you can defend us against white people, you must first love yourself. Which clearly you don't. Leave this job to the real brothas of topix.
L ALL OVER

Santa Maria, CA

#6 Apr 6, 2007
Jay wrote:
Claiming our share little girl, claiming our share of this American Pie. You two are the biggest obstacles in our way and we see it clearly.
Ok, perhaps this is asking for something vile that I don't want to hear, but how are black women one of your biggest obstacles?
watitdos little cousin

Paramount, CA

#7 Apr 7, 2007
emergence wrote:
First it was the WM exclusively
Now it is WM and BW
then next it wil probably be the WW included
What is going on?
we got issues.

but that is what struggle is about. that is what we doing.

what has been done to us is not going erase overnight.

yet that still does not give the free will of blatant non-thinking deeds.

our future is in OUR hands.

every man/woman must bear their own burdens.

meaning that blaming someone else will get us more chastisement.

what you do will not help me and what i do will not help you... unless we are working together...

in order for us to reason, we must have a through knowledge of self. Who is going to teach us that knowledge of self? Who are we waiting for to teach you the knowledge of self?

Surely, not your slave-master, who blinded you to that knowledge of self. The slave-master will not teach you the knowledge of self, as there would not be a master-slave relationship any longer.

this is a all-black notice.

http://www.shanghai-ultimate.com/photos/i_lov...

we better be smart.
observer

Irving, TX

#8 Apr 7, 2007
Jay wrote:
Phuck you. You and those that think like you are not man enough to admit that when confronted with real black manhood, you are outclassed, paralyzed and just plain intimidated. LOL. You don't have the balls to confront us directly, so you resort to cowardly tactics like this forum to air your racist views. Whatever. I see punks like you every time I venture out and they can't even look me in the eye.....If I knew exactly where you lived, buddy, I'd come and do you myself! Got some marksmanship training courtesy of the U.S. Gov't., you would never know what hit you. HAHA. Better stay in your hole, pussycat, I live to find jokers like you. You can't stop whats about to happen in this country anymore than you could hold back the sea. Think about that the next time you want to put up one of your little posts, mkay?
you sound like a homosexual..
franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#9 Apr 7, 2007
Jay wrote:
Phuck you. You and those that think like you are not man enough to admit that when confronted with real black manhood, you are outclassed, paralyzed and just plain intimidated. LOL. You don't have the balls to confront us directly, so you resort to cowardly tactics like this forum to air your racist views. Whatever. I see punks like you every time I venture out and they can't even look me in the eye.....If I knew exactly where you lived, buddy, I'd come and do you myself! Got some marksmanship training courtesy of the U.S. Gov't., you would never know what hit you. HAHA. Better stay in your hole, pussycat, I live to find jokers like you. You can't stop whats about to happen in this country anymore than you could hold back the sea. Think about that the next time you want to put up one of your little posts, mkay?
posts like this are idiotic. Talking about using your "marksmanship" to prove a point. ANy idiot can point a weapon! HOw about using your brains to try to prove your point through intellect .. this is what a forum is supposed to be all about.

I hope you get kicked off this forum.

Since: Mar 07

Piscataway, NJ

#10 Apr 7, 2007
L ALL OVER wrote:
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Ok, perhaps this is asking for something vile that I don't want to hear, but how are black women one of your biggest obstacles?
Dont listen to this fool, he is his own obstacle.

Level 1

Since: Apr 07

United States

#11 Apr 7, 2007
watitdos little cousin wrote:
<quoted text>
we got issues.
but that is what struggle is about. that is what we doing.
what has been done to us is not going erase overnight.
yet that still does not give the free will of blatant non-thinking deeds.
our future is in OUR hands.
every man/woman must bear their own burdens.
meaning that blaming someone else will get us more chastisement.
what you do will not help me and what i do will not help you... unless we are working together...
in order for us to reason, we must have a through knowledge of self. Who is going to teach us that knowledge of self? Who are we waiting for to teach you the knowledge of self?
Surely, not your slave-master, who blinded you to that knowledge of self. The slave-master will not teach you the knowledge of self, as there would not be a master-slave relationship any longer.
this is a all-black notice.
http://www.shanghai-ultimate.com/photos/i_lov...
we better be smart.
We don't have anymore issues than BW do! We are all in this struggle together! I worked with young BW for many years and they would often cast blame on others when they made bad choices in their lives also! No matter how much help I and others tried to give them they still fell into the same traps, but ii was somehow everyone elses fault but their own! this is why I chose dealing with computers instead! LMAO!
Jay

Columbus, IN

#12 Apr 7, 2007
observer wrote:
<quoted text>
you sound like a homosexual..
And of course, we get two cents worth from a denizen of that brilliant state known as Texas, home of steers, queers, and geniuses in ten gallon hats. Nice job sending us your best and brightest up here to run the country, he is doing a bang-up job of running the government and advancing the banner of the "white race" for the whole world to see! Oooooweee, send us some more of that good Texas stock, it doesn't get any better than W! LOL......Punk, I don't expect any better from you, whoever you are, its just like a white person to take cheap shot at the truth and a man that states it. I'm in Maryland, you know, a Union state, is the Confederacy still trying to clinch the war where you are? Good luck with that but we may be sending u a package soon.....
Jay

Columbus, IN

#13 Apr 7, 2007
franko wrote:
<quoted text>
posts like this are idiotic. Talking about using your "marksmanship" to prove a point. ANy idiot can point a weapon! HOw about using your brains to try to prove your point through intellect .. this is what a forum is supposed to be all about.
I hope you get kicked off this forum.
Oh you must know, canuck, that there is more to me than just impotent debating skills. My intellect does not need validation from someone like you, and I walk it like i talk it, up to and including being able to kill. Now if that bothers you, too bad. I am nobody's victim, and I know how to attack as well as defend. OH CANADA! I am going to visit Montreal and see how the French-speaking Canadians view you English settlers, I am sure they are dealing with the same frustrations as we are here in the U.S.But things are changing.....
Jay

Columbus, IN

#14 Apr 7, 2007
Cuteblkdude wrote:
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Before you can defend us against white people, you must first love yourself. Which clearly you don't. Leave this job to the real brothas of topix.
Whatever, soundboy, this fight is not about the majority of black people anymore, most of those plantation slaves, like you, have what they need...if not what they want. I am making a stand for myself and for those like-minded men who see that there are bigger and better things to be had than just nice clothes and shoes, buffalo wings, sports channels, flashy cars, and good pussy. You can't understand that, because you are a well-trained servant, a factotum, and you can't see the bigger picture. Whatever, I laugh at jokers like you because you are happy with your helping of humble pie. Try to understand however, that there is some heavy lifting that remains to be done and that only real men are going to be the ones that do it. Sorry, you don't qualify for that. Just tolet you know.
watitdos little cousin

Paramount, CA

#15 Apr 7, 2007
Ashland on the 14th wrote:
<quoted text>
We don't have anymore issues than BW do! We are all in this struggle together! I worked with young BW for many years and they would often cast blame on others when they made bad choices in their lives also! No matter how much help I and others tried to give them they still fell into the same traps, but ii was somehow everyone elses fault but their own! this is why I chose dealing with computers instead! LMAO!
i concur.

that is why we don't like math. because we don't like problems.

these are the issues and you are right we are in this together and the main issue is solve this problem together.

i am not writing to those who feel the need to solve the problem and the problem is quickly becoming our need.

in the terms of mentally speaking. we are worst off now than when we were in physical bondage.

why?

when we were on the massa plantation we could NOT do anything but what massa told us and we knew nothing

now,

that we are "free" we still do nothing but what massa tells us, but, "we know everything".

this is "our conversation".

Level 1

Since: Apr 07

United States

#16 Apr 7, 2007
watitdos little cousin wrote:
<quoted text>
i concur.
that is why we don't like math. because we don't like problems.
these are the issues and you are right we are in this together and the main issue is solve this problem together.
i am not writing to those who feel the need to solve the problem and the problem is quickly becoming our need.
in the terms of mentally speaking. we are worst off now than when we were in physical bondage.
why?
when we were on the massa plantation we could NOT do anything but what massa told us and we knew nothing
now,
that we are "free" we still do nothing but what massa tells us, but, "we know everything".
this is "our conversation".
this thread just sounds like some more whining that BW claim that BM do! What issues this person has with black men I'm sure there are some BM out there that has some stories to tell about her also! I have yet (except on a few occasions) to have spoken to a woman who hasn't told only a slanted version of her relationships with men! the story almost always depict her as being the sole victim in any instance!
watitdos little cousin

Los Angeles, CA

#17 Apr 7, 2007
i see it as identifying the root cause of that what must be corrected.

you must have a base.

the first thing to do is accept what must be done and then go to work on it.

or else people will be blaming their problems on their problems instead of solving the problems.
Cuteblkdude

AOL

#18 Apr 7, 2007
franko wrote:
<quoted text>
posts like this are idiotic. Talking about using your "marksmanship" to prove a point. ANy idiot can point a weapon! HOw about using your brains to try to prove your point through intellect .. this is what a forum is supposed to be all about.
I hope you get kicked off this forum.
I hope he gets kicked out of her too. I can't stand his ass. His posts are filled with nothing but hatred and bitterness.
Cuteblkdude

AOL

#19 Apr 7, 2007
Jay wrote:
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Whatever, soundboy, this fight is not about the majority of black people anymore, most of those plantation slaves, like you, have what they need...if not what they want. I am making a stand for myself and for those like-minded men who see that there are bigger and better things to be had than just nice clothes and shoes, buffalo wings, sports channels, flashy cars, and good pussy. You can't understand that, because you are a well-trained servant, a factotum, and you can't see the bigger picture. Whatever, I laugh at jokers like you because you are happy with your helping of humble pie. Try to understand however, that there is some heavy lifting that remains to be done and that only real men are going to be the ones that do it. Sorry, you don't qualify for that. Just tolet you know.
Until you learn it our entire struggle both black men and women, not just the black people who think like you. We're all in this struggle together, but youÂ’re too angry and bitter to realize that. You must have had a difficult past. Until your fight is for all black people, your cause will have no validity or merit. Think about that and stop being so damn angry all the time!
Ashley

Littleton, CO

#20 Apr 7, 2007
Jay wrote:
Claiming our share little girl, claiming our share of this American Pie. You two are the biggest obstacles in our way and we see it clearly.
You do realize that this girl is only 15, right? She's has a lot of growing up to do. Now I must say....I'd never thought I'd actually agree with Tyrone-asaurus, the biggest racist on topix, but he's right.....you'll always stay behind your "obstacles" because you seem (and I did not say for sure) like you're highly angry because of your personal failures to succeed. The "black" woman and "white" man are not holding you back from anything Jay. If anything, the only person who can hold you back is yourself. I hope you find happiness in whatever you want to achieve because life is too short to be so angry that's for sure.
Jay

Columbus, IN

#21 Apr 7, 2007
Ashley wrote:
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You do realize that this girl is only 15, right? She's has a lot of growing up to do. Now I must say....I'd never thought I'd actually agree with Tyrone-asaurus, the biggest racist on topix, but he's right.....you'll always stay behind your "obstacles" because you seem (and I did not say for sure) like you're highly angry because of your personal failures to succeed. The "black" woman and "white" man are not holding you back from anything Jay. If anything, the only person who can hold you back is yourself. I hope you find happiness in whatever you want to achieve because life is too short to be so angry that's for sure.
Hey I am not talking about the future, that is still up for grabs! And I am not trying to hurt that little girl, she is just trying to get a better understanding..It's those who have gone before me that I have a beef with...They've sold themselves to the highest bidder, body and soul, and that's the way it is in both the public and private sectors. If being succesful in this country means you have to offer yourslef up to evil on a silver platter I wish someone had warned me before I stepped onto the playing field. It's corrupt as hell, and if I had known it was that way before I started, I would have found another way to go. What do you do when you are confronted with a playing field that isn't level and gives your white male counterpart a big head start? You can man up and compete regardless, but you'll always get second best no matter how hard you work. It's an anti-black male machine, and at the end of the day they are only trying to take your best work and spit you out of the tail end. If black women can work in such a toxic environment, let 'em, they seem to have a survival instinct that supecedes any sense of right or wrong, but I am not going to let myself be corrupted or destroyed by that machine.
The Nazi war machine used to have the same effect on people; after a certain point, you couldn't tell right from wrong anymore. If I gotta do that, lets just say I would rather go to war straight up than subject myself to some 9 to 5 nonsense and die a slow death. I'm working, just not in a career, and I am looking for alternatives so that i don't have to get chewed on fighting that monster. Okay? I've explained myself. I'm no failure, just not a fool.

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