How to deal with ghetto people who se...

How to deal with ghetto people who seem to have no sense of social boundaries?

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#1 Jan 25, 2012
Not every person from the ghetto fits this description. Yet, there undeniably are a lot of people from the ghetto who do. It's no news that ghetto people (usually ghetto black people) tend to act a hot fckn mess. I've seen ghetto Asians and whites, but none of them acted as bad as the ghetto Blacks and Latinos. I'm just being honest, and this is coming from an African American woman! That's sad!
Anyway, there are a lot of ghetto people who simply lack social boundaries. They don't know how to handle situations rationally appropriate to the age and the setting. For example in a school setting where someone is trying to do their job and they may be interfering with the other student's education that they payed for. A lot of ghetto blacks get highly over sensitive then start sh*t over something very tiny or nothing at all. Then they try to create this stupid, dramatic 'war' type thing where they need to be prideful and demand respect they have not earned. A lot of them tend to automatically react with anger and not logic and understanding. I personally think a lot of people who come from the ghetto are just plain fucked up. That's not to say that you are going to be messed up mentally because you're from the ghetto or that people who aren't from the ghetto won't get mentally messed up. Yet, it really just seems like a lot of people who come from the hood have fucked up perspectives.
Anyhow, there's this ignorant ghetto trash guy at my school who made a very ignorant comment about me being an 'Uncle Tom'. Although he and I have never even had a conversation! If he says something like that in front of me, I plan on defending myself and putting the spotlight on his ignorance! Yet, a couple of my male friends who have talked to him say he's crazy, he carries a gun, and he might choke me for not kissing his ass and standing up for myself. As if he's my father and I just owe him the utmost respect. Psht! So I don't know how to handle this situation without facing unnecessary drama yet defending myself. How can I? What is your opinion on this topic?

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Ang

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#2 Apr 12, 2012
Ghetto people just need to leave.

RyGuy88

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#3 Apr 12, 2012
I was not raised in the ghetto. I don't talk black. The most you will ever see me act black is online. Other then that I act and speak white. I remain civil with white people at all times because really they are civil with me. In the end ghetto blacks have a very big chip on their shoulders that no matter what they do. They can't get rid of it because they don't see it.

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RyGuy88

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#4 Apr 12, 2012
My bro's friends are basically all white and so is my sis's friends. Just check their facebook but I am not going to give it to you. I want to keep my family away from this website. Same with my white stepfather.

RyGuy88

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#5 Apr 12, 2012
He has a facebook too.

RyGuy88

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#6 Apr 12, 2012
SO does my two aunts.

RyGuy88

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#7 Apr 12, 2012
So does my stepfather's daughter's family

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#8 Apr 12, 2012
I hate ghetto people, that's whites and asians included with the blacks as well. They just like to yell and try to start shit over anything.

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Poultry Connoiseur

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#9 Apr 12, 2012
Ghetto peopled need to get traybooned.
Common

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#10 Apr 12, 2012
I live in hood you might as well murk half my zipcode. All my friends are black,African or latino they really are my associates. Me and wp are ok.

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#11 Apr 12, 2012
ignore thrm
Keyvon

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#12 Apr 13, 2012
I know right!!!! Majority of the ignorant black people is the ghetto black women. Ghetto black men are usually hella coo , but stupid at times. Well majority of black womem, it's crazy how common is that they're usually loud, rude, and nasty looking(no really nasty) even on YouTube it confirmed my thesis that they're more ignorant n think they can get angry to intimidate ppl. Must be why they're still living in da ghetto with 10 kids n 5or 6 baby daddys who left her nasty ass waiting on foodstamps n always complaining .(I'm sorry but damn u are so damn right) NO NOT A RACIST
Keyvon

United States

#13 Apr 13, 2012
Oh yea on da trash guy, ignore his ass or get ur guy friends jump him, I doubt he has a gun, cmon he a trash guy
Common

United States

#14 Apr 13, 2012
Live in da Cliff I must ignore ignorance everyday of my life.

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#15 Apr 13, 2012
Miss_Cocoa wrote:
Not every person from the ghetto fits this description. Yet, there undeniably are a lot of people from the ghetto who do. It's no news that ghetto people (usually ghetto black people) tend to act a hot fckn mess. I've seen ghetto Asians and whites, but none of them acted as bad as the ghetto Blacks and Latinos. I'm just being honest, and this is coming from an African American woman! That's sad!
Anyway, there are a lot of ghetto people who simply lack social boundaries. They don't know how to handle situations rationally appropriate to the age and the setting. For example in a school setting where someone is trying to do their job and they may be interfering with the other student's education that they payed for. A lot of ghetto blacks get highly over sensitive then start sh*t over something very tiny or nothing at all. Then they try to create this stupid, dramatic 'war' type thing where they need to be prideful and demand respect they have not earned. A lot of them tend to automatically react with anger and not logic and understanding. I personally think a lot of people who come from the ghetto are just plain fucked up. That's not to say that you are going to be messed up mentally because you're from the ghetto or that people who aren't from the ghetto won't get mentally messed up. Yet, it really just seems like a lot of people who come from the hood have fucked up perspectives.
Anyhow, there's this ignorant ghetto trash guy at my school who made a very ignorant comment about me being an 'Uncle Tom'. Although he and I have never even had a conversation! If he says something like that in front of me, I plan on defending myself and putting the spotlight on his ignorance! Yet, a couple of my male friends who have talked to him say he's crazy, he carries a gun, and he might choke me for not kissing his ass and standing up for myself. As if he's my father and I just owe him the utmost respect. Psht! So I don't know how to handle this situation without facing unnecessary drama yet defending myself. How can I? What is your opinion on this topic?
I always avoided those, and in class I sat near the hispanics, 80% of my friends are hispanic, the rest are any race. They can tell if you don't like when you don't acknowledge them.
Common

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#16 Apr 13, 2012
Jstylez wrote:
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I always avoided those, and in class I sat near the hispanics, 80% of my friends are hispanic, the rest are any race. They can tell if you don't like when you don't acknowledge them.
Hmmm the Hispanics I know some are great some racist.

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#17 Apr 13, 2012
These people I tend to ignore. People who act like that in my opinion dont have no home training and sometimes their mindsets are just completely gone. It starts at the home and they saw their parents acting like that so they contiune the behavior. Too me, its a generational thing that gets passed on and its up to us to break that cycle ot behavior

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#18 Apr 13, 2012
And your not an "Uncle Tom" because you speak properly. An Uncle Tom is somebody who sees the world through Whites. Clarence Thomas, Herman Cain and Larry Elder are all perfect examples of this in my opinion. Somebody who sides with White people on all subjects and titles. And you have Blacks from the ghetto who hold an Uncle Tom mindset as well.
Common

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#19 Apr 13, 2012
Girl18 I totally agree with you.

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#20 Apr 13, 2012
Common wrote:
<quoted text>Hmmm the Hispanics I know some are great some racist.
agree, my age group is alright. I think it depends on the area

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