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White women leaving Black men for... Asian men?

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“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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#1 Nov 9, 2013
This is interesting to me, and I'm not kidding at all, but I've been noticing this. I see more White women with Asian men in my city now than with Black guys - I see it ALL the time, literally. Today I saw probably around 20 of these couples because it was game day and my city was packed. Most Black people I see are together these days, which is cute, but do you think IRBM Black guys would go nuts if this becomes the new trend in America? lol. They seem to depend on it so much for their self esteem - the idea of White women loving them. They might have to bite their tongue. Asian guys have more money, are better educated, seem less into cheating and are nicer guys it seems in the U.S, and maybe White women are catching on?

Plus, I hear that Asian guys aren't actually bad in bed or with showing affection as some people have made it seem. They seem like good guys.

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#2 Nov 9, 2013
i heard that too from my friends in college who date asian men.

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#3 Nov 9, 2013
It's funny, they actually said they were scared to date black men.

“Bow Chika Wow Wow”

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#4 Nov 9, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
It's funny, they actually said they were scared to date black men.
Well some Asian gangmembers are terrifying! lol. But most of the ones in the U.S aren't that type, so yeah, they don't have that stereotype.
Dont Be Dopey

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#5 Nov 9, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
It's funny, they actually said they were scared to date black men.
Is that an example of "logic prevailing over emotion"?
sleepnumber

United States

#6 Nov 9, 2013
I agree that, in general, Asian dudes are good guys, and I wish them the best, but I seriously have not noticed this trend at all, OP. And I live in an area with lots of whites and Asians, so I would be in a good position to notice such a trend.

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#7 Nov 9, 2013
Dont Be Dopey wrote:
<quoted text>Is that an example of "logic prevailing over emotion"?
If that's how you perceive it to be, no emotion entailed here, just informing what i hear from worldly examples.

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#8 Nov 9, 2013
PinkPearl wrote:
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Well some Asian gangmembers are terrifying! lol. But most of the ones in the U.S aren't that type, so yeah, they don't have that stereotype.
Wow the only asians i've seen come close to gangbangers were the ones in Gran Torino, lol. If they are as chronically terrifying as you say they are, im glad i haven't met them yet, hope i never.

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#9 Nov 9, 2013
sleepnumber wrote:
I agree that, in general, Asian dudes are good guys, and I wish them the best, but I seriously have not noticed this trend at all, OP. And I live in an area with lots of whites and Asians, so I would be in a good position to notice such a trend.
Where do you live? I live in the region of the country with the most Asians. I'm in a place to notice the trend as well, and I actually have been noticing it a lot fsr. Ever since around last year, and suddenly it was like it was all over here and growing.

Not just East Asians either, I mean, I see a lot with Indian guys too here. Maybe you're not paying attention because you haven't been 'told' too. Most people exaggerate certain IR pairings because they're told to look out for them already.

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#10 Nov 9, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
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Wow the only asians i've seen come close to gangbangers were the ones in Gran Torino, lol. If they are as chronically terrifying as you say they are, im glad i haven't met them yet, hope i never.
There is one Asian gang in Southern California that I've heard is really dangerous, like they kill people and torture them in worse ways than just drive bys and stuff. They aren't a street gang, they're an organized gang with money behind them and everything. They have a name, but I can't remember it. They are coming here directly from Asia, where they are more powerful.

So yeah, they're kind of creepy.
Juno

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#12 Nov 9, 2013
PinkPearl wrote:
This is interesting to me, and I'm not kidding at all, but I've been noticing this. I see more White women with Asian men in my city now than with Black guys - I see it ALL the time, literally. Today I saw probably around 20 of these couples because it was game day and my city was packed. Most Black people I see are together these days, which is cute, but do you think IRBM Black guys would go nuts if this becomes the new trend in America? lol. They seem to depend on it so much for their self esteem - the idea of White women loving them. They might have to bite their tongue. Asian guys have more money, are better educated, seem less into cheating and are nicer guys it seems in the U.S, and maybe White women are catching on?
Plus, I hear that Asian guys aren't actually bad in bed or with showing affection as some people have made it seem. They seem like good guys.
Personally I don't think Asian men are good guys,they have a history of opressing their own women and they are very racist.Whenever you see racist wm/ww and bm attacking black women asian men are always in the mix.They instigate and insult black girls to get male approval from those guys,I'm not a fan.
As far as ww/am couples go I believe Asian men worship white women as much as bm but they weren't really on white womens radar before.Although i dont think its the same type of white women going for Asian and Black men white women do follow trends and each other so it could catch on.I have seen some of these parings myself.
Black men do rely on the love of ww like its a permanent thing the same as white women loving white men.The white Latina's moved on to white men so you don't hear bm talk about them so much and they worshipped those gals.It is actually weird to think about how much bms world revolves around ww.Their music,media publications,porn sites,tv shows all cater to the bm/ww demographic.

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#13 Nov 10, 2013
ah verkligen wrote:
<quoted text>Your "friends in college" are what you consider "worldly" examples?
....smh...
Yes.

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#14 Nov 10, 2013
ah verkligen wrote:
<quoted text>Your "friends in college" are what you consider "worldly" examples?
....smh...
Sir or maam, try to expand on what your opinions are towards my responses, since they in some way bother you, is there a problem?
Dont Be Dopey

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#15 Nov 10, 2013
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
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Sir or maam, try to expand on what your opinions are towards my responses, since they in some way bother you, is there a problem?
You got caught lying.
Your college buddies don't represent "world" opinion.
You're the only one with a problem right now.

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#16 Nov 10, 2013
Dont Be Dopey wrote:
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You got caught lying.
Your college buddies don't represent "world" opinion.
You're the only one with a problem right now.
I "got caught lying" because i'm stating something my college friends said? They aren't the only variable that represent "worldly examples" (which are examples in the world)there are other things as well. So, what is my "problem"?

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#18 Nov 10, 2013
I do believe that this pairing will grow once WW see how rich Asian men are becoming.

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#19 Nov 10, 2013
PinkPearl wrote:
This is interesting to me, and I'm not kidding at all, but I've been noticing this. I see more White women with Asian men in my city now than with Black guys - I see it ALL the time, literally. Today I saw probably around 20 of these couples because it was game day and my city was packed. Most Black people I see are together these days, which is cute, but do you think IRBM Black guys would go nuts if this becomes the new trend in America? lol. They seem to depend on it so much for their self esteem - the idea of White women loving them. They might have to bite their tongue. Asian guys have more money, are better educated, seem less into cheating and are nicer guys it seems in the U.S, and maybe White women are catching on?
Plus, I hear that Asian guys aren't actually bad in bed or with showing affection as some people have made it seem. They seem like good guys.
I can't imagine BM caring because the two go for different type of WW.
Britney

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#20 Nov 10, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text> I can't
imagine BM caring because the two go for different type of WW.
BM don't have a type of white of woman anymore,they like all kinds of white girls.White women already date Hispanic men more than they date black men but ww/bm couples just get more attention in the media.

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#21 Nov 10, 2013
Britney wrote:
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BM don't have a type of white of woman anymore,they like all kinds of white girls.White women already date Hispanic men more than they date black men but ww/bm couples just get more attention in the media.
Of course because the media loves to stir up drama between black and white.
Jax

Ridgewood, NY

#22 Nov 10, 2013
White women belong to da brothas. End of story.

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