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“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#23 May 1, 2014
Ugh wrote:
Spotted_Girl,
Your logic makes no sense. And there is no scripture or verse that says God "command" mortal humans to not have sex. In fact, it is an Asexual person that is to be the Anti-Christ. Did you know that? And your caricature looney-tune how Men wakes up in the morning thinking about constant sex is exaggerated and does not reflect reality.
I'm a Man that likes sex but I do exercise control and can conduct myself without it to deal with important matters. Man's brain functions still moves on if turned down for sex, okay? My Latina does that sometimes when she doesn't want to have sex, and I do. That's enough for me to not ...
No, the "command" is internal to the person. When you have the Spirit living in you, you hear the commands that are specific to you and obey them. God has an INDIVIDUAL plan for each person. There is no such thing as corporate salvation. Each person has to come to God, admit all their faults, and ask for it. It is God who gives you your sexual orientation and your race, and to try to "love" outside of either would be to disrespect God and spit in his face.

The AC is not asexual. Actually, he's been here before and raped the women. Read the Old Testament. That is the real reason for the flood, to destroy the offspring of that. Of course, they could only inbreed, and that dropped the lifespan of all humans to around 120 years of age at that point, which by the time of King Solomon had dropped to around 70. Some do live over 100, particularly in other parts of the world, and they do here too, but usually with a lot of medical support (and the Bible sort of mentions that saying that some will use "strength" to live past that age and that it will be a tough time).

As for your interest in women who are off-limits to you, maybe you can take a pill or get therapy or something. You should first look in the mirror and remind yourself who you are and the people you HAVE TO be with. Or join a support group. "Hi, I'm Jamal, and I'm addicted to thinking about White women though I know it is wrong." "Hi Jamal, welcome to the group."

My caricature is not Loony Toons, as that that program is copyrighted and trademarked by Warner Brothers, and I didn't use Buggs Bunny, Elmer Fudd, Daffy Duck, Yosemite Sam, the Roadrunner, etc. Remember that parables tend to be more exaggerated to give more clarity over the points being illustrated.

“The Spotted Girl News Network”

Level 8

Since: Apr 09

Spotted World

#24 May 1, 2014
Now some people are addicted, like the man who spotted a woman at a traffic light and thought she was hot. He smiles, and she smiles back, and he assumes that means she wants him. But she was just being polite. He keeps following her and she accelerates trying to lose him. He assumes she is playing hard to get. He finally catches up to her and is in the passing lane and she has the expression of pure terror. He mistakes that expression for pure lust. He keeps following her, and she finally starts to slow down. So he figures he'd follow her home. She starts to get out, and then he starts to get out too, not realizing where he was or even noticing the cop cars parked nearby. He followed her to the police station. He couldn't understand how he misread the signals he was so sure she was giving off. He soon got into a 12-step program for addicts of that sort and told that story at his first meeting.

The audio book on that topic told another story where a woman was a romance addict. You know, the kind that get suckered into one night stands and think there is something there that isn't and then tries to pin the guy down to it and faces rejection. He only saw her as a booty call, and she was desperate for so much more. The woman in the book really humiliated herself, and the guy she tracked down to go see let her nearly freeze to death outside. That was the wake-up she needed. I've met women who were about as bad. They'd think every man with any authority "loves" them and has a "thing" going. One used to be like that around here. She thought she could do whatever she wanted because the police captain "loved" her. That was only in her imagination. Then I didn't see her around for a long time, and I didn't have to wonder why. I figured she went to jail or prison.

And there was a White woman standing on the front porch of the apartments where I used to live. She was flashing her top at passing guys, and the way she was acting, I figured she was either drunk or high. One brotha walking by asked her to show some dignity and button her top.

And then there are the ones caught on police videos. Like one woman was arrested for DWI, and she asked the cops with a slurred voice if they could work out a sexual deal with her. Then when asked to give a breathalyzer test, she refused, "I won't blow in no machine but I will blow you!" Later, they told her what she said. She denied it until they showed the video evidence. That was when she asked them how to get into AA. Apparently, the video got through to her and let her know her drinking was out of control.

“Home is Where the Heart is”

Level 2

Since: Dec 09

Location hidden

#25 May 1, 2014
@SG
You're welcome and very interesting.. for me...I don't feel any emotional or sexual attraction to women whatsoever...and for men..it's far and close to none existences...there is some rare occasion..and that only happens within a stable relationship/marriage where the emotional bond is built...then and only then do I feel any type of sexual attraction...outside of that...there is nothing..so I do understand how it's possible for you to feel nothing.. Growing up..I never had crushes either...neither did I dream of marriage and children..
I do believe the percentage of asexuals are higher than what's reported...I'm sure there are asexuals who are in believed "happy" relationships/marriages (like so many homosexuals or lesbians were/are) because of social pressures..who have zero to very low sexual attraction for their partners (which probably effective some marriages and parenting..due to the fact societies pressure motherhood/fatherhood on women/men who don't want the role of wife/mother or husband/father)..then there is the fact that many asexuals marry each other and raise children together..some of the rare occasion for sex could be motivated by another factor besides sexual gratification..such as emotional intimacy, or reproduction..as romantic orientation is not the same as a sexual one.
Drilling for the nerve

Rochester, NY

#26 May 1, 2014
Ugh wrote:
My Latina does that sometimes ...
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Edited for brevity much like a suffering animal is euthanized
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It's great you finally managed enough pocket change to buy inner-tube patches for your "Latina."

I'm sure she's a beautiful girl ...lol... and best of luck to you both.
Ugh

Pasadena, TX

#27 May 1, 2014
Spotted_Girl....I think we had this talk a long time ago like last year, when I was under a different handle. You do know who I am, right? You do know you and I once teamed up to help separate our kinds from each others? Do you remember that?

Anyway, I told you then as I am telling you now, your understanding of scriptures is not correct, Spotted_Girl. You should be open to a "student" that invested more time studying the scriptures than you have....and can actually run circles around your keen sense of intellect, okay? That was a compliment by the way. The same as a Teacher gives to his pupil. Understand?

Now listen, why I do agree that we should separate and not mate on a larger scale, it is not scriptural that Whites and Blacks shouldn't mate. What is scriptural is that a Believer shouldn't mate a Non-Believer for God's concerns is that it would turn those offspring away from Him who are to be of the posterity of the Children of Israel. That's WHY God feels so strongly about it. Not, because this mate is White and that mate is Black.

Understand, Spotted_Girl.....the Blacks are the answer to wipe out the Whites. If this happens, everything goes back to normal again for the world did not open with a White People sect. Whites came as a result of Sin by the Black Man and Black Woman. Not as a "side People" to Blacks. That thinking is incorrect and not supported by any scriptures. Any scripture that you do find that may tailor to your talking points, you are only deluding yourself if you think it's speaking to a "White People" that far back in time.

Now, if we take the Garden of Eden account, we understand the Serpent tricked Eve. And we understand God came and questioned the Man and the Woman. The result of that, God punished all 3: The Black Man, the Black Woman and the Serpent....known as the Devil.

To the Serpent, God said:

Genesis:

15 And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed and her seed; it shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise his heel.

Now, we understand here, a "People" is to come in some distance future that represent the Serpent's (Devil) seed. Before we can move on from that, we first have to understand who were Adam and Eve as far as "color" in order to differentiate and identified who this "mysterious" People that will come from Satan's posterity.

And given anthropology studies, we understand the Black Man is the modern Human and Africa represents all the major phenotype from which Mankind was mold. Therefore, it is safe ascertain that the Black Race is to whom Adam and Eve were apart of. And that would mean the White Man and his ethnicity undoubtedly has to be Satan's seed that was promised to come.

And with that revelation, we see that it was only due to Eve's sin that this ethnicity of People came, and inflict the original children of the Earth because of Adam and Eve' sin. In that regard, God couldn't possibly had in mind to "create" White People as a joint-creation to the Black People. For we know, all Mankind came from ONE blood: The Black People.

Having said that, Whites were NOT meant to be here, Spotted Girl. Since they are, they do NOT hold a higher-title as a People. We do. Not you. You are inferior. We are Superior. Your mating with us is to your benefit not ours. Therefore, we can breed out the inferior White ethnicity. Understand that.

Level 4

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#28 May 1, 2014
Matthew_1 wrote:
So you are capable of having kids but choose not to. Got it.
Just like you are technically capable of killing another, you're capable of eating yourself to obesity, you're capable of cutting off your pinkie toe, you're capable of getting a proper education...but you choose not to...why is this hard to understand?
Lopez

Perris, CA

#29 May 1, 2014
I think a person wants to be celibate or remain asexual thats fine in the eye's of God (even though I dont think was his original plan for a man and woman together) but it wont get you brownie points into heaven nor would for a married couple only in engage in sex anonymously with each other.

It's an individual choice really.
Lopez

Perris, CA

#30 May 2, 2014
monogamous not "anonymously"

“Univ. of Texas-Med School!!! ”

Level 5

Since: Dec 12

Houston, TX

#31 May 2, 2014
Spotted Girl wrote:
<quoted text>
No, that is just a lie that needy losers tell themselves about women. If you are born with the unchangeable asexual orientation, you will never be capable of such desires, and attempts to brainwash such a person won't work. That is like telling a gay man that he will eventually want to have an intimate relationship with a woman. It doesn't work that way.
And I don't appreciate your sexism. If you are born without romantic and sexual desires, you will never have them regardless of your gender. Everything that is possible for a man is possible for a woman and vice-versa. Remember, this is America, and in America, you HAVE TO treat men and women the same and assume the same things about both.
But don't fear, you yourself are going to eventually want an intimate relationship with a man. There are support groups for men like you everywhere, and you don't have to live in denial nor repression of your same-sex attractions any longer. Your local PFLAG chapter and your local MCC church will be good places to start.
The Likeable Racist wrote:
<quoted text>
Not necessarily, I know of at least one woman who is completely asexual, nothing on Earth will turn her on, a lot of guys think she just needs converting, but they're fooling themselves...she has all the bits a woman should have but her wiring isn't connected...if you licked or stroked her clit, it's just like getting a hair in the nose to her...a d!k in her foo-foo is just ike having a turd in the back passage...

Believe me, your view of sexuality is VERY simplistic...
Well.... Thank God for normal women then..... geesh...

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Australia

#32 May 2, 2014
Spotted Girl wrote:
<quoted text>
It is not unusual at all, but I never mentioned children.
Since you are so obsessed, here is what you do. You go find you an underground doctor who is willing to deliberately cause an eptopic pregnancy. He can pump you up with progesterone and implant an embryo inside your abdominal cavity. After a month, the hormone treatments will be stopped, since the placenta will make all that is needed from then on. And you will have to be monitored closely, since this is the most dangerous way to get pregnant. You would lack a womb, so the egg might attach to the intestines or something. They would have to do C-section, and you'd be lucky if you both survive. But AFAIK, nobody has actually done this.
Another option being explored would be a uterus transplant from a donor. That would have its risks, and if there is any delay from the time it is implanted to the time you get an embryo, you'd need to be on prednisone or something to prevent tissue rejection. Then once you get pregnant, the changes should make tissue rejection less likely (since there are chemicals given off to make your body able to accept the baby). You'd likely need a cesarean since you'd likely keep all your parts and wouldn't have the muscles down there needed for pushing. Then with the baby, the uterus could be removed too and keep you from needing steroids or other drugs the rest of your life.
See, that is the thing, all asexual women are perfectly normal. God just had a better plan for them that didn't include being owned as property by a man (that is what marriage is - ownership and control). Look at the customs. You know what dowry is? It is payment by the bride's father to have the privilege of his daughter marrying the groom's son. She isn't worth enough to get him in the eyes of sexist men, so her father has to pay to make up for her not being a man. Just like there are men created with no such desires, there are also some women. They just don't have any desires nor attractions for others, and no interest in sex. They might have a normal sex drive, but no need to take care of it with others. Sometimes such persons have Asperger's or SPD (schizoid personality, and this has no relation to schizophrenia). But the lack of desire is always stable, and it is nothing that needs to be corrected nor change, and there are no underlying health issues.
Here is some more information:
http://www.asexuality.org/home/
Do keep in mind that asexuality (opposite of bisexuality) is a range or gradient, and there are different shades of asexuality (I'm at the far end of it). Not all have an interest in romance, and not all have an interest in sex, and some have neither. So if you lack either and get in ANY sort of relationship, it would feel so wrong and fake, and you'd have to live a lie, pretend to like it, and play some stupid game. It is like what a gay guy feels for years with a woman. So the comments on the home page saying they are capable of romantic relationships only applies to some. That site tends to be biased, and the most extreme asexuals won't feel welcome there. They have message boards attacking asexual elitism, calling oneself a "true asexual," etc.
ever think of becoming a nun.. lol.. anyway jesus did say, some people are born that way.. not me, but virginity is by choice.. i believe.. if god wills, it.. i, will marry and experince it.. the way, god created it

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Australia

#33 May 2, 2014
Lopez wrote:
I think a person wants to be celibate or remain asexual thats fine in the eye's of God (even though I dont think was his original plan for a man and woman together) but it wont get you brownie points into heaven nor would for a married couple only in engage in sex anonymously with each other.
It's an individual choice really.
this is true, in fact.. he cammanded them to have many childern.. adam was created in the image of god meaning of love.. while lust is a form of taking aka, rape. Or abuse of the woman aka porn etc.. celibacy is more of a witness.. to the culture of death.. that our body will not be use for prositiution
carmen

Memphis, TN

#34 May 2, 2014
Spotted Girl wrote:
<quoted text>
No, the "command" is internal to the person. When you have the Spirit living in you, you hear the commands that are specific to you and obey them. God has an INDIVIDUAL plan for each person. There is no such thing as corporate salvation. Each person has to come to God, admit all their faults, and ask for it. It is God who gives you your sexual orientation and your race, and to try to "love" outside of either would be to disrespect God and spit in his face.
The AC is not asexual. Actually, he's been here before and raped the women. Read the Old Testament. That is the real reason for the flood, to destroy the offspring of that. Of course, they could only inbreed, and that dropped the lifespan of all humans to around 120 years of age at that point, which by the time of King Solomon had dropped to around 70. Some do live over 100, particularly in other parts of the world, and they do here too, but usually with a lot of medical support (and the Bible sort of mentions that saying that some will use "strength" to live past that age and that it will be a tough time).
As for your interest in women who are off-limits to you, maybe you can take a pill or get therapy or something. You should first look in the mirror and remind yourself who you are and the people you HAVE TO be with. Or join a support group. "Hi, I'm Jamal, and I'm addicted to thinking about White women though I know it is wrong." "Hi Jamal, welcome to the group."
My caricature is not Loony Toons, as that that program is copyrighted and trademarked by Warner Brothers, and I didn't use Buggs Bunny, Elmer Fudd, Daffy Duck, Yosemite Sam, the Roadrunner, etc. Remember that parables tend to be more exaggerated to give more clarity over the points being illustrated.
Do you think an individual can evolve into a form of asexuality due to environmental stressors which make them afraid for any potential offspring they may have?

Great thread btw.
Lopez

Perris, CA

#35 May 3, 2014
Samoan Irish wrote:
<quoted text>this is true, in fact.. he cammanded them to have many childern.. adam was created in the image of god meaning of love.. while lust is a form of taking aka, rape. Or abuse of the woman aka porn etc.. celibacy is more of a witness.. to the culture of death.. that our body will not be use for prositiution
Yes,it verily was commanded to us.

I see what your saying ,celibacy is a gift just as what Paul had.

But also remember that God blessed the union between Man and Woman which is Marriage.

Anyways,it;s good to see you Samoan,hope all is well with you buddy...keep drinking that spiritual milk to keep you growing.
ummmmm

Lompoc, CA

#36 May 3, 2014
I wish I was asexual. I wouldn't have to worry about impressing anyone.

Since: May 10

Sheffield, UK

#37 May 3, 2014
If you read all that.. You need a SLAP!!!!!! FFS

Since: May 10

Sheffield, UK

#38 May 3, 2014
Let's put this on fire.. Are you ready?
Queen

Tulsa, OK

#39 May 3, 2014
carmen wrote:
<quoted text>
Do you think an individual can evolve into a form of asexuality due to environmental stressors which make them afraid for any potential offspring they may have?
Great thread btw.
Great questions

“me! chee hoo! LOL!”

Level 6

Since: Oct 09

Australia

#40 May 7, 2014
Lopez wrote:
<quoted text>Yes,it verily was commanded to us.
I see what your saying ,celibacy is a gift just as what Paul had.
But also remember that God blessed the union between Man and Woman which is Marriage.
Anyways,it;s good to see you Samoan,hope all is well with you buddy...keep drinking that spiritual milk to keep you growing.
lol.. yeah, thanks.. i still believe one day illl meet her.. lets pray soon, not when im 60..

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