So let me get this straight you have issue's with her choices in men because she happens to have a preference for WM that just so happen to remind her of her father.<quoted text>
Stop trying to convince yourself with the limited degree of reasoning your brain is capable of. Any confident man happy with the amount of women he attracts will be at ease with himself and not care if the odd few see nothing in him. The fact your view is based on race also lets me of the hook. It's like being upset that a lesbian is not attracted to you. I already know I'm a handsome man (confirmed by all races) so don't waste your time. Your lack of understanding of the diversity of looks in Black people means I know you are going by your own narrow perception of Black. In fact that narrow view you have may be based on the ugly Black people in your own family. Your perception is your own problem and nothing to do with me, go cry somewhere else. I feel blessed that regardless of my political views on who I want to be with today, I've the ability to see beauty in so much more than you'll ever comprehend That is your loss not mine. And I have a girl so don't waste your time tying to sell yourself as something I'd want to like me.
But say for instance if her father was black and she claimed she only dated BM you wouldn't have an issue with it?
The next question I would have to ask is why does her preference bother you? Is it because she say's she finds the features of WM most attractive and this is what's bothering you?
LOL you can't make people find you attractive.