PICTURES of Black men----that date outside their race

[ABeautifulMemory]

It breaks me apart to think that a white man, asian man, hispanic man but SPECIFICALLY a black man would look at me and not be turned off by my looks, but because they think I'd be "ghetto".

black is "this" and black is "that".

It hurts when you meet new white people and they think that all black people listen to and LOVE "Lil Wayne".

It hurts more when a black guy starts to generalize and think that all black women are "ghetto" and rude.

It hurts to think that there ARE some black men that look at EVERY black woman and become disgusted, but when in the presence of a lot of white women they become at ease.
A lot of black women feel negative towards black men and adore white men just the same.

THAT'S A BIG PROBLEM.
This is only destructive.

We can't label eachother, no matter how many black people in this world you bump into that are "ghetto" and rude.

We can't think that we're only going to date/avoid dating one race EXCLUSIVELY based off of past experiences with a man/woman of a particular race.

To me, this is what the people who hate black people want. They don't want black people to be able to be unified and love.

And I HATE to see ALL black women being referred to as "ghetto", which I interpret being " loud, inconsiderate, arrogant".

And black men leave black women because other races are supposedly "understanding" to the "black man struggle". As if we ALL don't have our own personal struggles in life (as individuals, not races), noone has a PERFECT life "BELIEVE IT OR NOT", NO MATTER how they make it seem.

[Wow]

willneverforget wrote:

Check out these PICTURES of Black men-----that date outside of their race.
Click on this LINK http://afieldnegro.com/photos.html
Everybody has a right to be happy

Wow that really brings it back around...I mean Danny Glover? I thought he was old school like a grandpa or something.

[The Moor]

willneverforget wrote:

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You're right
The Black man ctach hell on his job, and he aint trying to come home and catch hell

CS 1,000%

YEAH...I WOULD HAVE TO GO WITH YOU ON THAT ONE....AND THAT IS WHY I NEED A BLACK WOMAN...WHO KNOWS WHAT TIME IT IS....WITHOUT THE CRAZY ISSUES THAT SOME OF THESE WOMEN HAVE...

I DON'T NEED TO COME HOME TO MY BIGGEST ENEMY/FOE!

[The Moor]

ABeautifulMemory wrote:

It breaks me apart to think that a white man, asian man, hispanic man but SPECIFICALLY a black man would look at me and not be turned off by my looks, but because they think I'd be "ghetto".
black is "this" and black is "that".
It hurts when you meet new white people and they think that all black people listen to and LOVE "Lil Wayne".
It hurts more when a black guy starts to generalize and think that all black women are "ghetto" and rude.
It hurts to think that there ARE some black men that look at EVERY black woman and become disgusted, but when in the presence of a lot of white women they become at ease.
A lot of black women feel negative towards black men and adore white men just the same.
THAT'S A BIG PROBLEM.
This is only destructive.
We can't label eachother, no matter how many black people in this world you bump into that are "ghetto" and rude.
We can't think that we're only going to date/avoid dating one race EXCLUSIVELY based off of past experiences with a man/woman of a particular race.
To me, this is what the people who hate black people want. They don't want black people to be able to be unified and love.
And I HATE to see ALL black women being referred to as "ghetto", which I interpret being " loud, inconsiderate, arrogant".
And black men leave black women because other races are supposedly "understanding" to the "black man struggle". As if we ALL don't have our own personal struggles in life (as individuals, not races), noone has a PERFECT life "BELIEVE IT OR NOT", NO MATTER how they make it seem.

COSIGNS

EXACTLY!

[Da 9th Element]

ABeautifulMemory wrote:

It breaks me apart to think that a white man, asian man, hispanic man but SPECIFICALLY a black man would look at me and not be turned off by my looks, but because they think I'd be "ghetto".
black is "this" and black is "that".
It hurts when you meet new white people and they think that all black people listen to and LOVE "Lil Wayne".
It hurts more when a black guy starts to generalize and think that all black women are "ghetto" and rude.
It hurts to think that there ARE some black men that look at EVERY black woman and become disgusted, but when in the presence of a lot of white women they become at ease.
A lot of black women feel negative towards black men and adore white men just the same.
THAT'S A BIG PROBLEM.
This is only destructive.
We can't label eachother, no matter how many black people in this world you bump into that are "ghetto" and rude.
We can't think that we're only going to date/avoid dating one race EXCLUSIVELY based off of past experiences with a man/woman of a particular race.
To me, this is what the people who hate black people want. They don't want black people to be able to be unified and love.
And I HATE to see ALL black women being referred to as "ghetto", which I interpret being " loud, inconsiderate, arrogant".
And black men leave black women because other races are supposedly "understanding" to the "black man struggle". As if we ALL don't have our own personal struggles in life (as individuals, not races), noone has a PERFECT life "BELIEVE IT OR NOT", NO MATTER how they make it seem.

I easy could replace bm for bw in your post, do you realize that?

[Da 9th Element]

typo:

easily...

[Vega]

Swade wrote:

Begs...I have yet to meet a man who doesn't aspire for a trophy wife as far as looks go. In his prime years and if he is decent guy,he should get such a woman. Average brothers should get with average sistas. but I don't adhere to the normality as others might. That goes for my total package,not just looks. If I got. rejected by the sexy sistas,and sex non blk sistas...then I would naturally lower my bar to an average sista<quoted text>

Oh balognie! All average looking brothers to even brothers who are far below average think of themselves the same way,lol!

[Vega]

Swade wrote:

That's the whole point. I do leave them alone due to them not Being my first choice. But your debating with me because their not my first pick. Everyone has as prefernce. You may not three with it which is cool, but atleast respect it<quoted text>

No, you choose who you want, no sweat off my back but the reason I am debating with you because you said in one breath that you don't ignore averages sisters while trying to get with the primos but in another breath who said that you would whether try 50 times to get with them most beautiful women then if you could get one you would settle for average. That's being a hypocrite.

[Vega]

Correction Couldn't get one.

[Boomshakaboom]

why would anybody go for someone they consider average?

Obviously your always gonna go for the girls you are most attracted to so this argument between vega and swade is ridiculous

[Vega]

Boomshakaboom wrote:

why would anybody go for someone they consider average?
Obviously your always gonna go for the girls you are most attracted to so this argument between vega and swade is ridiculous

I have been told by many people about how pretty I am but if I was average looking, I would still be proud of that. What's wrong with being average looking anyway? You don't have to live an average life because God gave you brains to choose what you want to do with your life but if God gave you average looks that is because he wanted you to have them. Face the facts the majority of people in the world, male or female,white, black, asian,indian etc.. are not stunningly beautiful or horribly ugly. The majority of the people are (can we say it) average. That's way I am amazed especially by some men's ignorance by going for only the much smaller percentage of women who are gorgeous knowing full well that there are not enough of them to go around and first passing up the nice average looking women who has the same functioning body parts of beautiful women and can have the same personalitie. Changes are even when you an average guy beat through the crowd of other men to buy some time with one of these gorgeous women, odds are she is so conceited from all the attention given her and knowing that she could always get other men, why would she even take you serious and not just trade you in when a better looking or wealthier man comes along?

[Vega]

Boomshakaboom wrote:

why would anybody go for someone they consider average?
Obviously your always gonna go for the girls you are most attracted to so this argument between vega and swade is ridiculous

I say this not as an insult but the truth. If that is your picture then, you are a very average looking black man. So way do you want a stunning female so much instead of an average looking female who matches your own looks and who may be more content with you? What's more important is what would a stunningly beautiful woman want with an average to below average looking man, unless you had something like riches or fame to compensate? I'm not saying I am very beautiful but I know I am pretty which puts me in the above average category so can you tell me why would a gorgeous or above average woman want an average or below average looking men? I mean there is always chance but the odd will be against a beautiful woman reproducing beautiful children with an unattractive man. Kimora got away with it because her daughters she had with Simmons are gorgeous but look at Heidi Klums poor kids that she had with her unattractive man Seal.

http://lh4.ggpht.com/fisherwy/R-vNnmV-s2I/AAA...

http://cdn.buzznet.com/media-cdn/jj1/headline...

[Boomshakaboom]

Vega wrote:

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I have been told by many people about how pretty I am but if I was average looking, I would still be proud of that. What's wrong with being average looking anyway? You don't have to live an average life because God gave you brains to choose what you want to do with your life but if God gave you average looks that is because he wanted you to have them. Face the facts the majority of people in the world, male or female,white, black, asian,indian etc.. are not stunningly beautiful or horribly ugly. The majority of the people are (can we say it) average. That's way I am amazed especially by some men's ignorance by going for only the much smaller percentage of women who are gorgeous knowing full well that there are not enough of them to go around and first passing up the nice average looking women who has the same functioning body parts of beautiful women and can have the same personalitie. Changes are even when you an average guy beat through the crowd of other men to buy some time with one of these gorgeous women, odds are she is so conceited from all the attention given her and knowing that she could always get other men, why would she even take you serious and not just trade you in when a better looking or wealthier man comes along?

Your view of what people find attractive and who people are attracted to seems warped, u seem to beleive that everybody finds the same people attractive. You also seem to have a vindictive view of how people operate aka not everybody is like you.

But yeah :D lol

[Boomshakaboom]

Vega wrote:

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I say this not as an insult but the truth. If that is your picture then, you are a very average looking black man. So way do you want a stunning female so much instead of an average looking female who matches your own looks and who may be more content with you? What's more important is what would a stunningly beautiful woman want with an average to below average looking man, unless you had something like riches or fame to compensate? I'm not saying I am very beautiful but I know I am pretty which puts me in the above average category so can you tell me why would a gorgeous or above average woman want an average or below average looking men? I mean there is always chance but the odd will be against a beautiful woman reproducing beautiful children with an unattractive man. Kimora got away with it because her daughters she had with Simmons are gorgeous but look at Heidi Klums poor kids that she had with her unattractive man Seal.
http://lh4.ggpht.com/fisherwy/R-vNnmV-s2I/AAA...
http://cdn.buzznet.com/media-cdn/jj1/headline...

Once again your just showing your views, which your entitled to but thankfully most of the females i know arnt that fro lack of a better word "dumb"

[Vega]

Boomshakaboom wrote:

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Your view of what people find attractive and who people are attracted to seems warped, u seem to beleive that everybody finds the same people attractive. You also seem to have a vindictive view of how people operate aka not everybody is like you.
But yeah :D lol

Vindictive, I have not, just truthful.

[Vega]

Boomshakaboom wrote:

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Once again your just showing your views, which your entitled to but thankfully most of the females i know arnt that fro lack of a better word "dumb"

Why not just answer my questions?

[ABeautifulMemory]

Da 9th Element wrote:

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I easy could replace bm for bw in your post, do you realize that?

That's why I put:
"A lot of black women feel negative towards black men and adore white men just the same"
(Just the same as some black men praise white women as more worthy than a black woman)

and

"We". As in me referring to both black men and women. Didn't you read/see that?
My guess is, "no".

[Boomshakaboom]

you asked a question?:/

[Nicoley]

wow...looking at that site was the biggest laugh I had all day!

[Swade]

Vega

Your arguments can't be serious. You know that mean value beauty in a women above anything else. I have met a lot of conceited women of all races,but also I've met women who where gorgeous..flawless...proposed to one of them...and those.l women where as humble as ugly betty. A 24 year old college educated blackman,no kids,"average looking",financially stable,and no disease or down low....I'm a rare brother. Sad that doing what I consider the basics is rare, but it Is. A lot of the Sexier women I've dated was simple because of my stats. Plus,you hear more when someone says.."how did he get her" instead of "how did she get him" more. Why,because men value beauty more. Simple as that.