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#65 Jun 10, 2014
Wizwords wrote:
<quoted text> I can see where your belief system is terribly flawed. AA men are even losing their own AA women to other races of women. African women don't understand AA men and AA men sure don't understand the many different types of African women there are, being black just isn't enough. How many real successful, lasting marriages between AA men and black African women do you know of? Not many. African women will marry AA man if she is starving and wants to come to states but the marriages don't last long. She either leaves him to get with one of her own in the U.S. or graduates to a white man.
Stop with your generalizations because those are only your experiences. You do not speak for hundreds of millions of African women, speaking of flawed logic..... Then you say AA men don't understand African women because of their types, but other men who marry African women do???? I fail to see your logic. I know friends in successful marriages with non American black women. All your post does is try to put a wedge in between AA's and other Africans and I will not allow that to stand. You know what you know, I know what I know. Don't listen to the naysayers people get your passports.
SadButTrue

Arlington, VA

#66 Jun 10, 2014
HUEMAN DIASPORAN wrote:
<quoted text>
Stop with your generalizations because those are only your experiences. You do not speak for hundreds of millions of African women, speaking of flawed logic..... Then you say AA men don't understand African women because of their types, but other men who marry African women do???? I fail to see your logic. I know friends in successful marriages with non American black women. All your post does is try to put a wedge in between AA's and other Africans and I will not allow that to stand. You know what you know, I know what I know. Don't listen to the naysayers people get your passports.
Insecure jealous Maceo different profile name! lmao

Maceo Patterson

Well you chased, married and only did for White women for 35 years so that's your fault! If you were worried about Black race and the Black family you would have done something other than whine like a Bytch!

Your a 60 year old man too late, time for the rest of us to "MOVE ON"! We know your not doing for the race everybody says it!

All you want to do is Control Black womens' choices Sorry but you've done nothing for the race! We gathered together and made the choice to "Move on" without Black males!

Lets be honest, YOU DIDN'T DO FOR YOUR MOTHER, NOR FAMILY OR THE BLACK RACE BUT YOU SURE KISSED MANY WHITE FOLKS ASSES AND EVEN RAN A MARATHON TO BE ACCEPTED BY YOUR EX WHITE IN LAWS BUT YOU'VE DONE NOTHING FOR ANY BLACK WOMEN OR BLACK PERSON HYPOCRITE!

YOU'VE DONE NOTHING!

ARE YOU INSANE MACEO?

Nobody wants to hear the BS Slave Stories, or White men are dividing the Black race when its YOU!

All you claims that only White women deserve good treatment and Black women don't deserve anything except to be used for Sex and money is Bull Schitt !

NOBODY LIKES A WEAK MAN MACEO SO STFU! MENTOR, GIVE BACK , DO SOMETHING BUT YOUR WHINES ARE WEAK!

Since: May 14

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#67 Jun 10, 2014
yasmin m wrote:
<quoted text>
Ohh if you only knew what reputation you people had out there....stick to your kind here in America.
You don't speak for everyone. Your sampling of Africans who you talked that is just that a sampling. Don't listen to naysayers AA's get your passports! AAM and AAW are desired by other blacks throughout the diaspora. The only ones with bad reps are the ones with pants hanging of their a$$ and in and out of jail. Successful educated good looking AAM and AAW can and will find someone in the black world if they so chose to. Stick to your kind(is what you said) WTF? is that supposed to mean?? I mean some of you people are so full of yourselves and hate for AA's especially AA males it is sickening. I stand by my original post in this thread. Get your passports people. Others who are not African looking are marrying Africans, but AA's are being discouraged from having relations with people who look most like them? I cram to understand the logic behind this.

“Peace, Love and Happiness”

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Since: May 12

Canada

#68 Jun 10, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text> It was the crakka in him that caused him to do that, not the asian part. Now i dont give a fk about ww or what they think you have me twisted, i dont see bm on here begging ww to date bm, like sbt does the other way around do you?........with 16.6 million ww single 4.7 million more ww than wm, then add more poor wm than numbers of bm in america, the gay population then the 70% of america's ir marriage rate its ww who have less to choose from, when it comes to her male counter part where is the media on this, i hate to be blount like this, but you have more wm than men of color in america, but you dont have enough for ww the shortage is in the millions, which means bm dont have to compete, and since men marry their own race of women first, and non bw usually end up with the cream of the crop bm.........you fill in the rest.
Sorry but I don't think the Asian v.s. white thing is correct. Ever hear of harakiri which is a Japanese form of suicide by disembowelment and it still isn't against the law for low income farmers in China to drown their newborn baby daughters because they are thought of as worthless. So murder and suicide comes easy to many Asians. I agree there are more white women than white men like there are more black women than black men. As long as white women have been allowed to date IR, they have used that option. Dating non-black South Americans, Native Americans, Mexicans, Asian and black men. But for most attractive white women especially from a middle to upper class backgrounds, black men are last on the list, that is if they made the list at all.

“Peace, Love and Happiness”

Level 1

Since: May 12

Canada

#69 Jun 10, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text>So, youre trying to convince foreign bw that AABM are no good, do AABM do the same to you? Not that i care about what she thinks, im just saying. you have the game twisted youre suppose to measure up to the mans standards, when you ir, you lose that b/girl attitude, for example.........and the bm will accept no less.........
I am just referring to my own experiences and I am not talking about any other black men. Yes, some of the black male friends of a couple non-black men that I was dating at different times, told them men they would be better off with latinas or white girls. Now you are just talking this male dominance, macho bull that black men love to shovel. I am a person of value, a creation of God and I don't need to try to measure up to somebody's else's stupid standards. Accept me for who I am or step to left. Don't get me wrong men are of value also and women must be deserving of good men but by her own merits and not by his made up standards. Some black men just have it twisted,

“Peace, Love and Happiness”

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Since: May 12

Canada

#70 Jun 10, 2014
On My Own Two Feet wrote:
A black marketing consultant once told me that the first 3 things 7 out of 10 newly graduated black women do is buy a Lexus, a Louis Vuitton handbag & join an interracial dating site, sounds sad but predictable such as our so called black women of higher education are nowadays, sad & predictable.
What is sad about that? These black women have worked hard to get their college degrees so that they can get better jobs. They deserve to treat themselves to some nice things and also meet good men.who are on their levels.
MsMiniMarple

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#71 Jun 10, 2014
Wizwords wrote:
<quoted text>
I am just referring to my own experiences and I am not talking about any other black men. Yes, some of the black male friends of a couple non-black men that I was dating at different times, told them men they would be better off with latinas or white girls. Now you are just talking this male dominance, macho bull that black men love to shovel. I am a person of value, a creation of God and I don't need to try to measure up to somebody's else's stupid standards. Accept me for who I am or step to left. Don't get me wrong men are of value also and women must be deserving of good men but by her own merits and not by his made up standards. Some black men just have it twisted,
Very well said! If black men want train something to their standards, they had better buy dogs.
MsMiniMarple

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#72 Jun 10, 2014
HUEMAN DIASPORAN wrote:
<quoted text>
Stop with your generalizations because those are only your experiences. You do not speak for hundreds of millions of African women, speaking of flawed logic..... Then you say AA men don't understand African women because of their types, but other men who marry African women do???? I fail to see your logic. I know friends in successful marriages with non American black women. All your post does is try to put a wedge in between AA's and other Africans and I will not allow that to stand. You know what you know, I know what I know. Don't listen to the naysayers people get your passports.
I agree that people from different cultures can have successful marriages and think them being black also can be a real plus.

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Since: May 13

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#73 Jun 10, 2014
HUEMAN DIASPORAN wrote:
<quoted text>
You don't speak for everyone. Your sampling of Africans who you talked that is just that a sampling. Don't listen to naysayers AA's get your passports! AAM and AAW are desired by other blacks throughout the diaspora. The only ones with bad reps are the ones with pants hanging of their a$$ and in and out of jail. Successful educated good looking AAM and AAW can and will find someone in the black world if they so chose to. Stick to your kind(is what you said) WTF? is that supposed to mean?? I mean some of you people are so full of yourselves and hate for AA's especially AA males it is sickening. I stand by my original post in this thread. Get your passports people. Others who are not African looking are marrying Africans, but AA's are being discouraged from having relations with people who look most like them? I cram to understand the logic behind this.
That's the problem with AA. Just because you share our color, doesn't mean we're interested. We are interested in happy, educated, interesting, fun, stable, creative, steady income, etc. Not just color. I am not saying AA cannot be all of that - but so many emphasize color as if that trumps all when for most nonAA that means nothing without the above criteria. Should be obvious, but I can tell you from most of my interactions with AA in different places, many believe skin tone is sufficient.
SadButTrue

Arlington, VA

#74 Jun 11, 2014
MommieMaple-TimeforLies-WizWor ds-Maceo wrote:
<quoted text>

Since Obama got elected president the number of wm joining hate groups has tripled, biker gangs, crystal meth, hate crimes, the meth is more dangerous than crack, and has wiped out communties, but your racist media wont broadcast that like they broadcast crack will they, when is the last time have ever heard in america's history a congressman call a president a lair during the state of the union speech..
Maceo

Plenty of President's have been attack but don't remember because you only associate with Obama. Yes, there's plenty of racist groups but there's also change in the Country where there's more minorities

I have a problem with your Racism and hatred towards Black women and not doing for your own people but you will do for White people. You've been doing that for the last 35 to 40 years now!

The Country is down sizing and folks have a tendency to look out for their own except Black men like you! As you said, "Black women and children don't deserve anything since she opened her legs for Black men therefore they can raise their babies alone!

Your Demented Warped Mindset saying you didn't do for your Mother because she should have had a husband is SICK but THAT'S YOU!

Again, I don't feel any sympathy anymore you destroy yourselves and your communities! Whites and other races see it, there in awe that you only do for White women and not the Black race and then you brag on it!

Many of the things they say about Black men is TRUE and you know it! Your just as "Irresponsible, selfish, self Centered as many of the other Black males. Like I told someone yesterday, better for me to date and marry out less I get "Physically and suffer verbal abuses from Black males calling me Ugly Nappy Headed Hoe or them telling me how they prefer White women over Unattractive Nasty Black woman like myself.(funny they don't even know me)

Sorry I don't want to hear the rants!
MommieMaple-TimeforLies-WizWor ds-Maceo wrote:
<quoted text>

This devil has done halle berry the sameway Thomas Jefferson did sally hemming sally was a sex slave, halle is an economic slave, what man does a woman like this, did k-fed do brittney like, this, this is a gawd damn shame, but this devil doesnt give a fk do he..........
Maceo

So you were a Demon chasing Trashy Fat Whit women in your office behind your White wife's back all why calling, harassing and telling Black women their Bytches, Sheboons and Ho's!

Of course I have no respect for you either, your a very selfish, self centered Weak Man. I'm glad that your Ex White wife "Grew some Balls" and let your Monkey Arse go!

You did more for yourself and your material things than your Ex White wife and your family which is shameful!

You got exactly what you deserved! lmao
yasmin m

Grand Prairie, TX

#75 Jun 11, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text> You appear to be suffering from malnutrition, why would i go to an african fourm and tell them AABM dont like African women, does that and would that make sense, i'd keep my mouth closed, ive met many bw from around the world at the pan-african flim festival and i didnt encounter your attitude, it was quite the opposite, the AABM has his faults, but hes the most advanced bm anywhere in the world, you have to come here to get to my level, not the other way around. Even Garcelle has said she'd only date bm who are the AABM type and shes haitian, but AABM dont want her after the white dude, so she'll have to find a thirld world bm, or another pink dude.........all jokes aside, have you eaten today!
Look Africans are pretty nice people to any one. Like I told you before I may not like someone but I just pretend and be nice to them. Those women who meet might have been nice to you but they probably joke around how aas are behind closed doors or are indifferent to you doesnt mean they like you. What are you going to give me koolaid and fried chicken ?
yasmin m

Grand Prairie, TX

#76 Jun 11, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
<quoted text> You appear to be suffering from malnutrition, why would i go to an african fourm and tell them AABM dont like African women, does that and would that make sense, i'd keep my mouth closed, ive met many bw from around the world at the pan-african flim festival and i didnt encounter your attitude, it was quite the opposite, the AABM has his faults, but hes the most advanced bm anywhere in the world, you have to come here to get to my level, not the other way around. Even Garcelle has said she'd only date bm who are the AABM type and shes haitian, but AABM dont want her after the white dude, so she'll have to find a thirld world bm, or another pink dude.........all jokes aside, have you eaten today!
Most successful black man why not just man ? I didn't come here to live like an African American
yasmin m

Grand Prairie, TX

#77 Jun 11, 2014
Wizwords wrote:
<quoted text> May I ask your race?
Am Ethiopian !
yasmin m

Grand Prairie, TX

#79 Jun 11, 2014
MsMiniMarple wrote:
<quoted text>
I agree that people from different cultures can have successful marriages and think them being black also can be a real plus.
Keep on living in your deluded world shaniqua
yasmin m

Grand Prairie, TX

#80 Jun 11, 2014
Soul Hunter wrote:
yasmin m"
Nope many of us don't like aa men. We are pretty smart in what we want from men. Let them go and ruin other women's life. They don't rule America.Actually a lot of women who date aa men are even complaining about them.
American bm don't like African women at all and you know this so stop acting like we do!
Not that am losing any sleep over it. You are the trash of america. Have no power in America. Generally irresponisble and usually not goodlooking. Only a few of you are succesful. Goodbye

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#81 Jun 11, 2014
Lmbao!...only on Topix!
SadButTrue

Arlington, VA

#82 Jun 12, 2014
yasmin m-BigKNob-Maceo wrote:
<quoted text>
Look Africans are pretty nice people to any one. Like I told you before I may not like someone but I just pretend and be nice to them. Those women who meet might have been nice to you but they probably joke around how aas are behind closed doors or are indifferent to you doesnt mean they like you. What are you going to give me koolaid and fried chicken ?
Maceo

Just like you married and chased after Poor White Trash! lmao

You LOST the little you had because your ARROGANT SELFISH AND SELF CENTERED!

YOUR EX White Wife was UGLY some WM reject! EVen the WW in your office that you chased and bragged about having Anal Sex with was Trashy Low end, big, Fat, White, Poor and Uneducated.

Even a couple of your Black male friends laughed about it and said its TRUE! lmao

Your ready to retire not one of these 16M White women will even look at you!!!

YOu don't have anything!

Fuggly White Wife..........she GONE!
No Kids..........You were too selfish and self centered!
No Family..........Your Ashamed your marriage didn't out after you Kissed Arse to be accepted!
No Friends..........Go die alone! lmao
Poor Health----------most BM with no Caretakers die sooner! lmao

I really don't understand how you feel your some prize!

So you support the Structure you married and chase their women and refuse to do for The Bllack Race!

Nothing wrong with IR its that you didn't do for the Black race and you never will!
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#83 Jun 12, 2014
Big Knob wrote:
Nobody went for wm elliot rodgers, and he had priviledge and everything, he said, " im a wm im entitled to you, youre not supposed to turn me down" its supposed to be like in the movies, i get the girl, bytch........pop pop pop bang 9mm automatic!
Maceo

No Black woman went for you either you took a WM reject!

BM have to Complete with WM for Attractive Educated BW

You don't have access to Attractive Black women they go for white males! lmao

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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Since: Jul 11

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#84 Jun 12, 2014
HUEMAN DIASPORAN wrote:
<quoted text>
You don't speak for everyone. Your sampling of Africans who you talked that is just that a sampling. Don't listen to naysayers AA's get your passports! AAM and AAW are desired by other blacks throughout the diaspora. The only ones with bad reps are the ones with pants hanging of their a$$ and in and out of jail. Successful educated good looking AAM and AAW can and will find someone in the black world if they so chose to. Stick to your kind(is what you said) WTF? is that supposed to mean?? I mean some of you people are so full of yourselves and hate for AA's especially AA males it is sickening. I stand by my original post in this thread. Get your passports people. Others who are not African looking are marrying Africans, but AA's are being discouraged from having relations with people who look most like them? I cram to understand the logic behind this.
Exactly....thanks for clearing things up!

And congrats!....you've hit the nail dead on the head!

I'm an AAM and I've dated all sorts of bw....from all sorts of places!

Both from the Continent,the islands and other places....and I was even engaged to one...the only reason that we broke up was because she got an opportunity to work and go to school on the other side of the globe....and we were in our twenties.....and I couldn't deal with another long distance deal!

And even thought in the end I married the girl next door...several of my exes are married to AAM and live right here in the states!

And I have had close friendships with non-white,non-bw from other places as well..some of which were open to dating me...but I've never been into the whole ir thing!

*Mind you some of these very same young black women started out stating that they "only dated the men of their culture".

As you stated to the poster that you replied to....she definitely doesn't not speak for all non-AAw

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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Since: Jul 11

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#85 Jun 12, 2014
*As a matter of fact...now that I mentioned this...on the day that I met my wife....the next thing that I asked her after having asked her name was...."So where are you from"...I just knew that she was going to say somewhere on the Continent or some island!

That's how common it had become with me always meeting and dating non-AAW at the time!

My family got to the point where they started to tease me about "Okay where's this one from"...whenever I mentioned bringing a girl home for the holidays..during and just after college!

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