Just give Black Men What They Want

Just give Black Men What They Want

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DimplesPlusSmile

Tampa, FL

#1 Jul 5, 2013
We need to give Black Men what they truly want and be done with them. Let them have White Women, maybe they can teach them to be responsible adults. Black Women have tried and failed to make Black Men act like grown-ups. It’s time Black Women step aside and give other women a chance. To be honest, I don’t think we really had a chance. Black Men have always wanted White Women and like a kid throwing a temper tantrum until they get what they want we should give it to them.

Black Women have other options, we need to explorer those options. This mainly goes to the Older Black Female Generation because I think the younger ones see it. Most of them can’t see a future with a Black Man so they have moved on. We need to teach the old Black Female Generation that lesson. I just have one question for them.

Aren't you tired of waiting?

“I love being a Black Man”

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#2 Jul 5, 2013
You guys over estimate the desire for White women.
Axe-Me-Anything

Denver, CO

#3 Jul 5, 2013
Black men are welcome to our trash. We certainly don't want those dumb, obese, bestiality-inclined hogs.

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Since: Sep 08

Las Vegas

#4 Jul 5, 2013
DimplesPlusSmile wrote:
We need to give Black Men what they truly want and be done with them. Let them have White Women, maybe they can teach them to be responsible adults. Black Women have tried and failed to make Black Men act like grown-ups. It’s time Black Women step aside and give other women a chance. To be honest, I don’t think we really had a chance. Black Men have always wanted White Women and like a kid throwing a temper tantrum until they get what they want we should give it to them.
Black Women have other options, we need to explorer those options. This mainly goes to the Older Black Female Generation because I think the younger ones see it. Most of them can’t see a future with a Black Man so they have moved on. We need to teach the old Black Female Generation that lesson. I just have one question for them.
Aren't you tired of waiting?
I support interracial relationships for black women as much as I do black relationships for black women. It's all about choice. Just do you above any racial obligations or loyalty. Black men put themselves first all of the time so why should black women sacrifice themselves trying to hold the black community together when most black men could care less?

“Be wise as a serpent”

Since: May 13

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#5 Jul 5, 2013
*scratches head* I don't think you ever had a say in it tho. Any BM who wants a WW won't seek the approval of BW. So, this thread is really stupid.

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Since: Sep 08

Las Vegas

#6 Jul 5, 2013
MumRa wrote:
You guys over estimate the desire for White women.
We may over-estimate white women desirability to black men because many black men go crazy over white women and worship at their feet as though you think white women are yalls saviors. White men don't even do this and it's their same race women. Regular white men won't accept any trash white women like black men will and put on a high pedestal so what are black women to think when black men act like fools over white women?

“I love being a Black Man”

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#7 Jul 5, 2013
Vega wrote:
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We may over-estimate white women desirability to black men because many black men go crazy over white women and worship at their feet as though you think white women are yalls saviors. White men don't even do this and it's their same race women. Regular white men won't accept any trash white women like black men will and put on a high pedestal so what are black women to think when black men act like fools over white women?
So you have seen Black men jump to the ground and worship White women's feet? I don't believe that.

You seem to put White men on a pedestal more than Black men put white women on a pedestal. White men date trash White women all of the time. Maybe you need to take a trip to Walmart and see how is actually dating trash white women.
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#9 Jul 5, 2013
Axe-Me-Anything wrote:
Black men are welcome to our trash. We certainly don't want those dumb, obese, bestiality-inclined hogs.
Ouch that's pretty harsh you know RedneckBeauty21 is going to see this right?

“Be wise as a serpent”

Since: May 13

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#10 Jul 5, 2013
Sebovone92 wrote:
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I don't think the OP was asking Black Men to seek approval from BW. It sound like the post was directed at BW to get out of the way so Black Men can be with White Women which is fine with me. I have so many Black female friends that are single and waiting for a good Black Man to come alone all the while they are letting other men pass them by. I have a good man and he happens to be Non-Black and before you Jump he's not White either. There are more relationships than Black and White. But I agree Black Women do need to expand their horizons.
I never implied that she was "asking" Black Men to seek approval from BW. What I stated had more to with her erroneous line of thinking that BW her somehow in the way or have to grant permissions to BM before they seek relationships with white/non-black women, and this is just fiction. A BM who wants a WW won't seek the permission/approval of BW, for the most part. So, there is no need for any BW to get out of the way, cuz they weren't in the way in the first place.

“I love being a Black Man”

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#11 Jul 5, 2013
Just because a Black man chose to date a White woman. That doesn't mean he was going to date you.

Nobody is promised to anyone. If you put yourself in a better position. You will have your choice of who to date and I'm sure you wouldn't appreciate some stranger telling you what to do with your life.
brownskin_beauty

Houston, TX

#13 Jul 5, 2013
There's someone out there for everyone, if you are an amazing person, someone's going to be attracted to you and see beauty in even your ugly ways. They are going to look past every and anything that may make you seem undateable . I know this statement is overused but love truly is color blind, there are stereotypes of BM dating WW for superficial reasons in the end let them pay for that, but don't let that make you believe some of them aren't actually in love. The same for IRBW. You can't fight somebody for their attraction to a look you may oppose, you just be happy for them appreciate the brothers that are into your kind and go on about your business. Some women focus so much on the man that don't want them, they miss out on the ones that actually do. Sista you put your shoulder back keep you head lifted, with a big old grin on your face because god has got someone wonderful for you.

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#15 Jul 5, 2013
Vega wrote:
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I support interracial relationships for black women as much as I do black relationships for black women. It's all about choice. Just do you above any racial obligations or loyalty. Black men put themselves first all of the time so why should black women sacrifice themselves trying to hold the black community together when most black men could care less?
It's COULDN'T care less.
Could not care less, means it's not even possible to care less than I do.
I couldn't care less.
It's not could care less. If they could care less, it means they CARE. And you are saying they don't care and it's not possible for them to care less than they do... so they couldn't care any less than they care.
Couldn't care less! Somehow that phrase got ruined when it crossed the Atlantic.
The phrase is "I couldn't care less!

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#16 Jul 5, 2013
If you could care less about something, it means you CARE about that thing. Why can't Americans understand? It's not rocket science!
Black Patriot

UK

#17 Jul 5, 2013
DimplesPlusSmile wrote:
We need to give Black Men what they truly want and be done with them. Let them have White Women, maybe they can teach them to be responsible adults. Black Women have tried and failed to make Black Men act like grown-ups. It’s time Black Women step aside and give other women a chance. To be honest, I don’t think we really had a chance. Black Men have always wanted White Women and like a kid throwing a temper tantrum until they get what they want we should give it to them.
Black Women have other options, we need to explorer those options. This mainly goes to the Older Black Female Generation because I think the younger ones see it. Most of them can’t see a future with a Black Man so they have moved on. We need to teach the old Black Female Generation that lesson. I just have one question for them.
Aren't you tired of waiting?
If black women had an ounce of feminity in them like white women, perhaps you would actually mean something.
But you need to ask yourselves this; why are you the elast desired, rented or leased women in the entire Universe. Even the Klingons make better wives.

The black women of today is only about twerking their huge arse in public. The black women of today, view their arses as an asset.
Hence why they will show anyone their arses on a dime.

“The untouchable black man”

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#18 Jul 5, 2013
MumRa wrote:
You guys over estimate the desire for White women.
Sorry bro. But White women>Black women. Thats scientific fact brother.
Cap Black

Huntsville, AL

#20 Jul 5, 2013

“I love being a Black Man”

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#21 Jul 5, 2013
I AM MACEO wrote:
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Sorry bro. But White women>Black women. Thats scientific fact brother.
My Brother lives in Fl. I disagree. But everyone has a right to their own opinion.
Chakotay

AOL

#22 Jul 5, 2013
I say we give all the knigguhs all the weed they azzz wanna smoke...let all the mutha fkkuhs goes to jail..

Kniggush likes being in jail anyways...cause dats where all the free food and water be..

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#23 Jul 5, 2013
Vega wrote:
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We may over-estimate white women desirability to black men because many black men go crazy over white women and worship at their feet as though you think white women are yalls saviors. White men don't even do this and it's their same race women. Regular white men won't accept any trash white women like black men will and put on a high pedestal so what are black women to think when black men act like fools over white women?
Exactly black men are good at going completely overboard where white women are concerned and then when black women notice this, black men try to pretend that's just black women being envious of and wanting to be white women.
Spit-Fire

Decatur, GA

#24 Jul 5, 2013
I think that the OP's message is for a particular segment of BW. She made it clear she is not speaking about younger BW and obviously this excludes the growing number of BW in interracial relationships/marriages.
Her aim is at older BW and those who are still holding out for BM only.
If we are being honest and looking ahead, a thread like this for BW in the next 3-5 years won't even be necessary.

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