Why do Nigerian men target American women to cheat and to harm?

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Why do Nigerian men target American women to cheat and to harm? Why don't they stay with their own women?
There seems to be an ongoing trend of Nigerian men in the DC, MD, & VA that are doing a lot of harm to American women. They are leaving a trail of pain. I had my own experience with a bad one. I recently heard that it is a very common issue. My neighbor who was recently in court with one stated that the judge mentioned that this is a major problem. I tried to warn her when she met him one year ago. He begged her to date him. He told her that he thought that Nigerian women were ugly and they he could not trust them. One year later, he not only stole her heart, he stole all of her money that she had obtained from a settlement. Although she was more clever than him to recover her money and more, she is left to deal with the pain. I wonder why do these men feel that it is OK to do such evil to other humans. Do they not know that they will reap what they sow? What type of morals do they learn while they are children in Nigeria? They often brag being more smarter than most people. Why don't they use their intellect to do the right things? I am also asking this after one of my white female co-workers while having an affair with one who she later found out was married.

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The minute a man insults his own women to impress another woman she should leave because he is obviously no good at all! And these Nigerian guys are big time scammers so if you can't even leave him alone with your wallet then there is no point of dating him.

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Funny thing is I googled Nigieran women to get a good idea of what people look like in west africa. Do you know what kinda B.S came up? Basically everythng AAM complain about when it comes to AAW. Too Funny!

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most nigerian men are ugly
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Dec 29, 2012
 
I disagree actually. I think Nigerian men are very attractive. The first one I dated was very nice to me but I could tell he was either married or in a relationship. I could never prove it. However, he got upset at me about something that was not my fault and I blocked his number. He had always been nice to me then flipped about a darn basketball ticket! lol So, I started thinking maybe all Nigerian men were like what people warned me about. However, the guy I am seeing now restored my faith in Nigerian men and he spoils me and is such a great man. There may be basic characteristics but you have to judge each person individually.

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Dec 29, 2012
 
They say american women are easy. I saw on a tv show, one was married to a white american woman, but he was deported, because he falsified some documents, and he was here illegally. Their are women who are pregnant, or were, by these men, and the men have left them. I know a lady who has one son by one, and her sister does too, and their fathers went back home. Their culture is different. They may not believe in monogomy like we try to live it here. I was watching Akon on VH1's behind the music. He has several kids by different women, but is married to one, and she knows thats his culture. Im sure he has plenty of women in africa, and thats apart of their culture.
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They say american women are easy. I saw on a tv show, one was married to a white american woman, but he was deported, because he falsified some documents, and he was here illegally. Their are women who are pregnant, or were, by these men, and the men have left them. I know a lady who has one son by one, and her sister does too, and their fathers went back home. Their culture is different. They may not believe in monogomy like we try to live it here. I was watching Akon on VH1's behind the music. He has several kids by different women, but is married to one, and she knows thats his culture. Im sure he has plenty of women in africa, and thats apart of their culture.
You a Nigerian?. How many kids you have by different women?. 7 By 7 different women I heard you say one time

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<quoted text>You a Nigerian?. How many kids you have by different women?. 7 By 7 different women I heard you say one time
No kids. I have just met 2 more people, who have a nigerian father, and the father has abondoned them as well.
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I believe Joe aka BM aka sexyblackman82 aka symbol boy aka big smoke is a Nigerian.....

He's extremely abusive to blk women.
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sassyntrashy wrote:
The minute a man insults his own women to impress another woman she should leave because he is obviously no good at all! And these Nigerian guys are big time scammers so if you can't even leave him alone with your wallet then there is no point of dating him.
You are right, any man that puts down his women to be with you do NOT what you but wants something from you. As for the Nigerian men that talk trash, Nigerian women are really pretty (I'm sure of that)...but some men can go to extremes trying to gain where they did not sow. Fact is that after scamming, those men go back to their country Nigeria with YOUR own money and marry someone he loves.(Not all of them are like this but whoever insults his women, thread carefully with him). I doubt it has to do with how they were brought up at home too, because those at home are not as desperate as those over here to make money or green cards, so I will say some do it out of desperation.
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They say american women are easy. I saw on a tv show, one was married to a white american woman, but he was deported, because he falsified some documents, and he was here illegally. Their are women who are pregnant, or were, by these men, and the men have left them. I know a lady who has one son by one, and her sister does too, and their fathers went back home. Their culture is different. They may not believe in monogomy like we try to live it here. I was watching Akon on VH1's behind the music. He has several kids by different women, but is married to one, and she knows thats his culture. Im sure he has plenty of women in africa, and thats apart of their culture.
Africa is not a country, it is a continent made up of more than 50 countries and diversified cultures. Nigeria alone has about 250 different ethnic groups so don't categorize them as one. The Christians believe in Monogamy, I don't know much about the muslims but they could be polygamous . All of Africa is not having babies like you do in America
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Apr 2, 2013
 
I have seen several American women bamboozled by Nigerians. They were totally mesmerized by these guys and thought the guys love them. I must have a sixth sense because I could see right through them when the women couldn't see the forest from the trees. I have had two Nigerian men as friends and they were honest in telling me that Nigerian men typically do not marry AA because they think they are loose. I feel sorry for AA women who sleep with them. You can't even donate blood after sleeping with most of these African men. There's a reason for that.

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mytots wrote:
<quoted text>Africa is not a country, it is a continent made up of more than 50 countries and diversified cultures. Nigeria alone has about 250 different ethnic groups so don't categorize them as one. The Christians believe in Monogamy, I don't know much about the muslims but they could be polygamous . All of Africa is not having babies like you do in America
Did I say that africa was a country? No.
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Jun 25, 2013
 
A Nigerian man has been pursuing a relationship with me for some time. He claims that he just wants love and likes bigger ladies, as I fit in that category. Over time, he began calling and Skyping me a lot. He tells me he loves me, talks about God, and marriage to me. He insures me that he doesn't want to live in the USA, he would prefer Canada. He invited me to come visit him, but I said he had to come here to see me first. He is planning on coming... I looked up on google, Nigerian men/ American Woman and found these blogs... Should I be of concern? I don't want to get hurt and I am falling for this man! I was married once before and was hurt deeply in past by my divorce, the last thing I need is another user.

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A Nigerian man has been pursuing a relationship with me for some time. He claims that he just wants love and likes bigger ladies, as I fit in that category. Over time, he began calling and Skyping me a lot. He tells me he loves me, talks about God, and marriage to me. He insures me that he doesn't want to live in the USA, he would prefer Canada. He invited me to come visit him, but I said he had to come here to see me first. He is planning on coming... I looked up on google, Nigerian men/ American Woman and found these blogs... Should I be of concern? I don't want to get hurt and I am falling for this man! I was married once before and was hurt deeply in past by my divorce, the last thing I need is another user.
Be careful. Many of them are known as liars and scammers. Culturally their may be differences that cant be overcome.... i.e. feeling that they're superior to the woman...her needs coming last.

Be very careful and when he comes to visit.... let him stay in a hotel ( his dime). Do not let him in your home. There needs to be boundaries. Never discuss your finances with him.

Did he say why he doesn't want to live in the US? Does he expect you to move?
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Jun 27, 2013
 
He says he likes the US, but never has had desire to live here for long. He says he travels a lot. He has asked if I would be willing to travel with him. He did jump into the I love you's immediately.

I am nervous. I hope he is honest, but my guard is up. I am not a weak woman, so if he wants this relationship, he will have to work for it. definitely..

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He says he likes the US, but never has had desire to live here for long. He says he travels a lot. He has asked if I would be willing to travel with him. He did jump into the I love you's immediately.
I am nervous. I hope he is honest, but my guard is up. I am not a weak woman, so if he wants this relationship, he will have to work for it. definitely..
Be very very careful. They come up with new ideas to rob, scam and use people. So just be careful.
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Be very very careful. They come up with new ideas to rob, scam and use people. So just be careful.
Dont be such a fool, i am a half nigerian and my girlfriend is a nigerian too. All nigerians are different, they may be bad ones and good ones just like anyplace anywhere in the world.

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Dont be such a fool, i am a half nigerian and my girlfriend is a nigerian too. All nigerians are different, they may be bad ones and good ones just like anyplace anywhere in the world.
That is why I said be very careful. Jesus. Why are you so violent I swear if you new who I am you would be knocking on my door with a gun or a button stick!
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Jun 27, 2013
 
aaman wrote:
Why do Nigerian men target American women to cheat and to harm? Why don't they stay with their own women?
There seems to be an ongoing trend of Nigerian men in the DC, MD, & VA that are doing a lot of harm to American women. They are leaving a trail of pain. I had my own experience with a bad one. I recently heard that it is a very common issue. My neighbor who was recently in court with one stated that the judge mentioned that this is a major problem. I tried to warn her when she met him one year ago. He begged her to date him. He told her that he thought that Nigerian women were ugly and they he could not trust them. One year later, he not only stole her heart, he stole all of her money that she had obtained from a settlement. Although she was more clever than him to recover her money and more, she is left to deal with the pain. I wonder why do these men feel that it is OK to do such evil to other humans. Do they not know that they will reap what they sow? What type of morals do they learn while they are children in Nigeria? They often brag being more smarter than most people. Why don't they use their intellect to do the right things? I am also asking this after one of my white female co-workers while having an affair with one who she later found out was married.
Listen fool! all are not the same, and thats not how we were raised in Nigeria. My mum is a Dominican who married my dad with no regrets, so i dont get what ya bashing about?!

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