Black Women dating Indian Men: Experi...

Black Women dating Indian Men: Experiences

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Accokeek, MD

#1 Dec 24, 2009
I was recently approached (online) by a south asian man and I'm not sure what to make of it.I I have never dated a man of indian descent before and I've heard some good things and bad things about Indian men dating Black women. I would like to hear experiences from those in such a relationship...

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Indian Techie

Medford, NJ

#2 Jan 1, 2010
Lady,
Indian families marry within their caste
There is strong prejudice against foreigners
black, white, yellow

The strongest Indian prejudice is against blacks and muslims, marrying either will get one outcasted

Most Indian guys will get a rich dowry with an arranged marriage within their caste
In the meantime, they are looking for free sex

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Since: Aug 09

United States

#3 Jan 1, 2010
Leave it alone unless you want a booty call, they are true asians they marry their own or white only!
INDIAN

Little Neck, NY

#4 Jan 2, 2010
Indian Techie wrote:
Lady,
Indian families marry within their caste
There is strong prejudice against foreigners
black, white, yellow
The strongest Indian prejudice is against blacks and muslims, marrying either will get one outcasted
Most Indian guys will get a rich dowry with an arranged marriage within their caste
In the meantime, they are looking for free sex
The reason Indian/Black relations are discouraged by these Agents/moderators is because Indian-Black children comes out funny looking..

But at the same time, Indian-Spanish, Indian-White, Indian-Asian relationships are encouraged by them.
CutiePie

Mississauga, Canada

#5 Jan 20, 2010
Honestly, if you want to be in a relationship that will go NO WHERE, then go ahead and date this indian guy. If you're expecting a future, and a husband out of this relationship, is most likely NOT gonna happen. But if you just want a fling with this guy, then go rite ahead. Indians will DATE black girls...not marry them.

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#6 Jan 20, 2010
Noir in Seattle wrote:
Leave it alone unless you want a booty call, they are true asians they marry their own or white only!
So you're still hating against Asians.
iNDi

Cambridge, MA

#7 Jan 20, 2010
CutiePie wrote:
Honestly, if you want to be in a relationship that will go NO WHERE, then go ahead and date this indian guy. If you're expecting a future, and a husband out of this relationship, is most likely NOT gonna happen. But if you just want a fling with this guy, then go rite ahead. Indians will DATE black girls...not marry them.
We will and and always Love Black girls.

The guy is probably an @sswhole, Black girls are like diamonds.

May be u r not with the right guy or maybe the time & place u are living in not right...

I suggest u check out Mauritius Is in East Africa.

Oneday we will overcome this all!

Have a blessed one :-)

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tropics

Philadelphia, PA

#8 Feb 14, 2010
CutiePie wrote:
Honestly, if you want to be in a relationship that will go NO WHERE, then go ahead and date this indian guy. If you're expecting a future, and a husband out of this relationship, is most likely NOT gonna happen. But if you just want a fling with this guy, then go rite ahead. Indians will DATE black girls...not marry them.
Well you don't know that this guy might marry her if he truly loves her didn't you ever watch an Indian movie? Indian men will die for the women they love.
VET99

London, UK

#9 Feb 16, 2010
I am a black girl married to a south asian guy and we have a beautiful son together so those who think it does not happen are living in la la land!! I have always been approached by asian, white and black guys - cos to any man a cute girl is a cute girl - Need I say more!!

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Cherokee, IA

#10 Feb 17, 2010
I love Indian men. I find myself attracted to Indian and middle eastern men. I have dated black guys in the past but i have come to find out that indian men treat their women better than black men do. They don't play games and try to make excuses for things they are very kind and loving and will play the role of a man and be there without you having to ask them to be. I know all of this from experience and therefore i prefer indian and middle eastern men. Sorry bothers this is one black girl than went black and never wants to go back!
very disappointed

Olivehurst, CA

#11 Feb 22, 2010
I just ended a 10 year relationship with my indian husband cuz he cheated on me with another black woman who was darker than me for 5 years and had kids with her and none with me and when I asked him why he married me he said he didn't know why and then he said cuz I was light-skinned and that his family approved of that and he loved me
Toni

Houston, TX

#12 Feb 25, 2010
Honey,

Get 2 know him and judge 4 urself. There r bad apples in every race. I know of several successful Black/Indian couples.
blackgurllost

United States

#13 Mar 2, 2010
talk about make me think twice! i just recently met a man from india! he is already call n me his queen..n wants to take care of me n make me happy! he has been completly respectful, and honest! i let em know we will not be "get n it n" but yet he still wants to buy me things and take me out! i am a very independent woman, n i dont want to seem like a gold digger, nor do i wanna be rude! I have never dated outside my race! i am not sure how to go about things! are they even good in bed? somebody please help!
-black gurl lost

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“Blindian and proud”

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Paris, France

#14 Mar 2, 2010
INDIAN wrote:
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The reason Indian/Black relations are discouraged by these Agents/moderators is because Indian-Black children comes out funny looking..
But at the same time, Indian-Spanish, Indian-White, Indian-Asian relationships are encouraged by them.
Indian-Black children comes out funny looking..

lol, what do you mean funny looking? We look great!

“Blindian and proud”

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Since: Oct 09

Paris, France

#15 Mar 2, 2010
CutiePie wrote:
Honestly, if you want to be in a relationship that will go NO WHERE, then go ahead and date this indian guy. If you're expecting a future, and a husband out of this relationship, is most likely NOT gonna happen. But if you just want a fling with this guy, then go rite ahead. Indians will DATE black girls...not marry them.
yes some do check out this site:http://blindianlove.com/

“Blindian and proud”

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Since: Oct 09

Paris, France

#16 Mar 2, 2010
VET99 wrote:
I am a black girl married to a south asian guy and we have a beautiful son together so those who think it does not happen are living in la la land!! I have always been approached by asian, white and black guys - cos to any man a cute girl is a cute girl - Need I say more!!
exactly, thanks!
baadindyan

Hollywood, FL

#17 Mar 2, 2010
Indian Techie wrote:
Lady,
Indian families marry within their caste
There is strong prejudice against foreigners
black, white, yellow
The strongest Indian prejudice is against blacks and muslims, marrying either will get one outcasted
Most Indian guys will get a rich dowry with an arranged marriage within their caste
In the meantime, they are looking for free sex
Most Indians are very different now. Arranged marriages are in huge decline throughout India and has been from the 70s/80s. Most people in urban India (as large a population as USA) are doing love marriages, they are largely inter-caste because 9 out of 10 chance is that person you are dealing with is not your own caste as there are thousands of castes and subcastes.
Also in large cosmopolitan metros like Delhi, Cal, Mumbai, Bangalore, Chennai, Hyderabad, etc, people of different language groups are also marrying.
Even vegetarian and non-veggies are marrying.

Stop giving an idea of Indians as backward tribalistic minded people. We gave the world and we do idealize the philosophies of great men like Buddha, Gandhi, Vivekananda, Shankaracharya, Aurobindo, Ambedkar, Bulleh Shah, Kabir, Lalon Fakir, etc. All our scriptures and religious music is about transcending fake boundaries between man and boundaries in material world and reach for higher morality and perfection.

Of course, many have difficulty applying to personal lives (like people might watch a movie exposing casteism and untouchability and go home thinking that was so wrong but when it comes to own son/daughter's marriage they do a 180), but do not make it seem like the culture itself is backward. The culture is very progressive in its core. We espouse male-female equality and equality of man right from the Vedas, it is only in practice that people have become corrupted.
Confused Black Guy

London, UK

#19 Mar 2, 2010
ShortNSweet1 wrote:
I was recently approached (online) by a south asian man and I'm not sure what to make of it.I I have never dated a man of indian descent before and I've heard some good things and bad things about Indian men dating Black women. I would like to hear experiences from those in such a relationship...
Avoid!

South Asians (Indians etc) are notorious racists!

Think of the ' fake smile ' by whites... & multiply it by 50 billion!

I only speak to them when i need a chicken korma, samosas or naan bread - which thankfully, isn't very often!

* shrugs *

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#20 Mar 2, 2010
rofl @ another im a black women who wants me thread...smfh
iNDi

Cambridge, MA

#21 Mar 2, 2010
Confused Black Guy wrote:
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Avoid!
South Asians (Indians etc) are notorious racists!
Think of the ' fake smile ' by whites... & multiply it by 50 billion!
I only speak to them when i need a chicken korma, samosas or naan bread - which thankfully, isn't very often!
* shrugs *
You Blacks go eat in Indian restaurant all time, then have the nerve to come out online talk sheet about us!

WHO's the Real Racist??
U go eat and take all kinds of advantages... then come online talk BS against us?

That statement u just made, apply that to yourself!

BTW, I've had it with the Western world... it is Racist to the core! Bigotry and blasphemy are everyday part of life.

Blacks are racist against whites, whites against minorities. Live amongst yourself with that heart full of Hate and tear yourselves apart. I'm outta here!

But before I go, I'd say this... u Westerners have a lot to learn from other eastern/native culture and have a Looong way to go to become civilized lol.

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