The Men's thread: For black men only!
Jinn

Garden City, MI

#166 Mar 28, 2013
Ali wrote:
Well let me tell you something guys. As a Black man I just got married not too long ago........ There would be no way in hell I would marry a woman who didn't do her job, naturally. What I mean is one that cooks, cleans, and takes care of the home.
I'm a traditional man from Africa originally and have had access to many women. I eventually ended up marrying a woman from Africa!! Women who grew up here are very different from other Black women from Africa........ They are not feminine enough and expect to have their cake and eat it too.
East African woman here and I completely agree! I was raised in the west, but I stick to tradition. American women are so masculine and American men so feminine! The women don't like to cook, clean & pamper their men; THEY want to be the man of the house and the men want the women to provide for THEM! I am attracted to men of all colors, but I see myself marrying west or north African man.
cookies

United States

#167 Mar 28, 2013
Jinn wrote:
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East African woman here and I completely agree! I was raised in the west, but I stick to tradition. American women are so masculine and American men so feminine! The women don't like to cook, clean & pamper their men; THEY want to be the man of the house and the men want the women to provide for THEM! I am attracted to men of all colors, but I see myself marrying west or north African man.
hey big forehead
Malcontent X

Lowell, MA

#168 Mar 28, 2013
Jinn wrote:
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East African woman here and I completely agree! I was raised in the west, but I stick to tradition. American women are so masculine and American men so feminine! The women don't like to cook, clean & pamper their men; THEY want to be the man of the house and the men want the women to provide for THEM! I am attracted to men of all colors, but I see myself marrying west or north African man.
hhmmmmm....interesting that you chose the name jinn. I suppose that there are plenty of posers here. You should have chosen something else if you wanted to be less obvious. So how's Allah doing these days?
Jinn

Garden City, MI

#169 Mar 28, 2013
It wasn't meant to be offensive and it certainly isn't racist. That's just my basic perception of western gender relations. Like I said, I love all people. I'm just more physically and culturally attracted to men of north/west African descent.
Jinn

Garden City, MI

#170 Mar 28, 2013
Malcontent X wrote:
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hhmmmmm....interesting that you chose the name jinn. I suppose that there are plenty of posers here. You should have chosen something else if you wanted to be less obvious. So how's Allah doing these days?


Jinn: demon; genie.

HAHAH pose for what... I'm Muslim and what's your point???
Toaster

Saint Augustine, FL

#172 Mar 28, 2013
meaningless drivel wrote:
I heard that blacks are not very welcome in Vegas, and get treated "badly" when they step out of line.
So what's the problem ???
Malcontent X

Lowell, MA

#173 Mar 28, 2013
Jinn wrote:
It wasn't meant to be offensive and it certainly isn't racist.
Yeah, I knew that because there was nothing racist about it, you just simply chose to have a name that represents fairy tale demons that Muslims falsely believe in, on a black forum.
Malcontent X

Lowell, MA

#174 Mar 28, 2013
Jinn wrote:
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Jinn: demon; genie.
HAHAH pose for what... I'm Muslim and what's your point???
Cool, did you see my posts about how Muhammad had black slaves and extorted money from Christians and Jews?
Jinn

Garden City, MI

#175 Mar 28, 2013
Malcontent X wrote:
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Cool, did you see my posts about how Muhammad had black slaves and extorted money from Christians and Jews?
LOLOL You want me to be mad so bad!

I did not, and honestly I probably won't, but as if Christians & Jews haven't done the same... I'm not a practicing Muslim, but if I were, believe me, some random guy on a forum wouldn't make me question my faith.
Jinn

Garden City, MI

#176 Mar 28, 2013
Malcontent X wrote:
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You just simply chose to have a name that represents fairy tale demons that Muslims falsely believe in, on a black forum.
Also, how is this relevant to the topic at hand? Please, enlighten me.
calinder

Saltville, VA

#177 Mar 28, 2013
no all blak people should leave stupid america so you can stop getting randomly killedby stupid mexican gang members and random white people.

try japan or something..
Lucifer ST BlackAngel

Jacksonville, FL

#179 Mar 28, 2013
cookies wrote:
<quoted text>would u lick sum hot sulcalant p***?
Just so you know, the only woman I'd "lick out" is the woman I marry...
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#182 Mar 29, 2013
Desmond Sandiford----MACEO wrote:
Gentlemen, this is the MEN's thread. It's for us black men to post any and all topics that concern US.
Feel free to discuss work, hobbies, cars, business, sports, movies, women, sex, divorce, child custody laws or whatever we think about on daily basis.
This is our exclusive men's club. This means no women allowed. Let's use it for good as a place to come to for advice, guidance and shared experiences.
So let's not fk it up by responding to women who post here or getting baited intoh silly, time-wasting bw/bm debates or encouraging IRBW to post here.
MACEO

Your effeminate Man so does that count fool? LMAO
Sadbuttrue

Woodbridge, VA

#183 Mar 29, 2013
Rick Ross 'U.O.E.N.O.' Date Rape Lyrics: Rapper Responds To Controversy

While the Maybach Music frontman is known for rapping about his luxurious lifestyle, he stirred up a bit of a firestorm with a line in the single that seemed to glorify date rape.

But the rapper said that couldn't be further from the truth. During an interview on New Orleans radio station Q93.3, the Miami lyricist calls the criticism a misunderstanding, saying he doesn't promote or condone rape in any way.

"Woman is the most precious gift known to man," he said. "And there was a misunderstanding with a lyric...a misinterpretation where the term rape was used. I would never use the term rape, you know, in my lyrics. And as far as my camp, hip hop don't condone that, the streets don't condone that, nobody condones that."

Ross went on to say that he thinks rappers have a responsibility to clarify their lyrics since hip hop songs are often misinterpreted.

"I feel like us being artists that's our job," he said. "To clarify the sensitive things and the things that we know that really need to be clarified such as a situation as this."

Ross collaborated with Atlanta rapper Rocko for the single, titled "U.O.E.N.O.," off Rocko's mixtape "Gift of Gab 2." Although the mix dropped in February, the track featuring Ross is just now gaining traction because of a lyric presumably about date rape.

The lyrics in question talk about drugging a woman and taking her home. "Put molly all in her champagne/ She ain't even know it/ I took her home and I enjoyed that/ She ain't even know it rape it and took what I wanted " raps Ross.

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Since: Jan 11

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#184 Mar 29, 2013
Megacide wrote:
Salmon Burgers are the truth , BM. Get rid of the beef
I love soul food too much...just THINKING about fried catfish and barbecue ribs and macaroni and cheese and corn bread and greens give me a hard-on. I know it's bad for me, but it's the most delicious food in the world. Us black folks need to start taking better care of ourselves. red meat is definitely bad for us. we should stick to steamed fish and chicken and veggies and cut out the carbs.

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#185 Mar 29, 2013
Anybody on this thread ever tried going on a vegetarian diet? How does it work? I hear vegans feel better, think clearer, lose weight and just get healthier than people who eat meat. but it's expensive to maintain.. can somebody confirm is this true?

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#186 Mar 29, 2013
Ali wrote:
Well let me tell you something guys. As a Black man I just got married not too long ago.
I work a full-time job in healthcare and make above average money. Enough to raise a family by myself.
My wife doesn't work.
I'm 30 she is 24.
There would be no way in hell I would marry a woman who didn't do her job, naturally. What I mean is one that cooks, cleans, and takes care of the home.
I'm a traditional man from Africa originally and have had access to many women. I eventually ended up marrying a woman from Africa!! Women who grew up here are very different from other Black women from Africa.
My beautiful wife not only cooks and cleans, but she won't even let me get off the couch after a long day at work! If she is staying at home, I expect her to taking care of the home.
I start work at 7:30 am, so she is up early to make me breakfast and lunch! So I let her sleep in on the weekend. I cook her breakfast those days to show my appreciation.
I love her and she loves me.
There would be no way I would marry a Black Western woman.
Black Western men, as long as you are decent, have a career, never waste your time with Western women.
They are not feminine enough and expect to have their cake and eat it too.
What you are talking about is every black man's fantasy. to have a good, decent and beautiful young black woman who knows how to take care of a man and a home. you are a very lucky brother and I wish you all the best. And you're right....aaw a buncha dizzy chickenheads who run their mouth for no reason and don't value anybody or anything including themselves. This is why I'm encouraging brothers who want a good bw to look to africa or latin america and the caribbean. not saying all foreign bw are good women...i know some of them are not. but for the most part, they have a different mentality and value system from african american women. if 300,000 bm in america married bw from africa, latin america and the caribbean, it would make a huge difference in american culture. It would change american culture in some positive ways. Because the kids would not be getting raised by the worthless hoodrats who teach them self-hate and triflin, fked up behavior.

Level 8

Since: Jan 11

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#187 Mar 29, 2013
BlackMale Misotheist wrote:
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I'm sorry you had such dismal experiences from African men.
lol!...y'all really believe all that sh8t london is saying? dude, that character you're talking to is a known troll who has some serious emotional issues. in the past she has said somethings about bm and bw that make people question her sanity. for example she said:

- dr king, malcolm x, frederick douglass, marcus garvey and every other black leader in history was a failure and that they were all ugly too boot.

- she also said that bw miss the days of slavery when wm would take bw as concubines and that bw like her wanted to rekindle the love that black slave women and the slave-masters had.

- she said that her own young son is black and she lets her arab husband emotionally abuse her son... and that the arab husband abuses her too.

it's just funny as hell to see posters taking anything this retard says seriously

Level 8

Since: Jan 11

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#189 Mar 29, 2013
London wrote:
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Older males no longer have the same luster they had with younger women. Older males lost that advantage by wasting too much of their youth so the wisdom which is extremely sexy with older males is practically now. Now they are on average just some old farts. No one wants that, not even old women.
I know plenty of you old guys have noticed this. Nowadays the average woman is well within her age range..sometime she's even a little older nowadays.
lol...when did all this happen? when you sat down in front of the computer and started typing?
Nate F

Peoria, IL

#197 Mar 29, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text> What you are talking about is every black man's fantasy. to have a good, decent and beautiful young black woman who knows how to take care of a man and a home. you are a very lucky brother and I wish you all the best. And you're right....aaw a buncha dizzy chickenheads who run their mouth for no reason and don't value anybody or anything including themselves. This is why I'm encouraging brothers who want a good bw to look to africa or latin america and the caribbean. not saying all foreign bw are good women...i know some of them are not. but for the most part, they have a different mentality and value system from african american women. if 300,000 bm in america married bw from africa, latin america and the caribbean, it would make a huge difference in american culture. It would change american culture in some positive ways. Because the kids would not be getting raised by the worthless hoodrats who teach them self-hate and triflin, fked up behavior.
I hear your gripe about african americn women but the entire batch is not bad. Many african american men marry american women, specifically light skin african american women and white women. No one is perfect, but there is a successful trend of african american men having good homes with the two types mentioned (light skin AA women and white).

Also, it not that much of a culture jump when with quality American women. American culture is okay... it's just that black men having being dating african american women who refuse to follow any type of organized culture. Find an american woman who is not bothered by cultural norms (stay away from the renegade and deceptive AA woman).

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