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Black American Women Can't Win For Losing

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“Happy & Content”

Level 2

Since: May 13

Savannah, GA

#1 May 9, 2013
First and foremost let me say that I love black men, my father is one. So with this post, my intentions are NOT to bash black american men but to get a general understanding of why some things sometimes happen.

Black american men, why do SOME of you:

Complain about black women wearing extensions and weaves yet chase after women with hair that is completely DIFFERENT from our natural hair texture.

-I believe when this happens (NOT all) but a lot of black women ... especially young girls begin to believe that this is what you find attractive and the only way to achieve this is to chemically alter our hair or add extensions and weaves.

-For instance if a black girl that has been sweet on you for a time only sees you dating blonde haired women then naturally she will most likely assume that blonde hair is something you are fond of...hence this is where the blonde weaves come in. Just an example.

Complain that black women are to needy and lazy yet when we attempt to get educated, receive a degree and earn a decent career you begin to complain about that.

-Now I know some “women” get the big head when they make a rise on the salary chart but I’m talking about black women who does NOT throw what she has accomplished in your face 24/7, heck even I would get tired of that.

Complain that we do NOT know how to carry ourselves like respectable ladies but yet you constantly overlook the black women who do.

Create numerous amounts of children then refuse to attempt to help raise them.

Sleep around with trash just for the heck of it when you have a decent women at home.

Maybe it is just me BUT it seems that us black American women cannot win for always loosing. Even when respectable black women try to live life honestly and positively all we get is NEGATIVITY and for being who we are.

So fellas, tell me what is up with all of this.. I have more but this is all I can think of at this hour. I’m interested in seeing what replies I get. Please keep it clean, no men or women bashing...goodnight.

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Level 6

Since: Apr 11

EVERYWHERE

#2 May 9, 2013
1.the texture may be different BUT,its HERS.thats why.oh and we can TOUCH IT,and NOT get into a fight and cussed at and told,btch where is my money to get it redone(especially if we payed for THAT ONE smh)
2.why do bw celebrate when wm ask them to not wear it,and dont wear it?
3.bm dont complain or give two shts with two dead flies on it about bw getting a degree or whatever,the propblem starts when bw get them then start acting brandnew and claiming to be better than someone and being bossy and btchy and dont forget,feeling entitled to a husband because of that ALONE.lolsmh
4.the young girls believe what the ignorant,bitter,hateful mothers and aunts taught them amongst many other things,negative things at that.
5.men and women arent having kids,KIDS are having kids.and the females are JUST as responsible as anybody for this.there are million women out there having unprotected sex and multiple baby daddies and stds and poppin out kids like,oh well.i dont need a man,the gov'ment got me hehe.not to mention the 10 abortions she had in between ect. and move on to the next to make another in a few days.stop kids from havin kids and the rest will fall into place as they mature and understand love and family and RESPONSIBILTIES and can afford to have them.
the rest of post is just bs and i wont entertain it.

“Happy & Content”

Level 2

Since: May 13

Savannah, GA

#3 May 9, 2013
ShyDevil334 wrote:
1.the texture may be different BUT,its HERS.thats why.oh and we can TOUCH IT,and NOT get into a fight and cussed at and told,btch where is my money to get it redone(especially if we payed for THAT ONE smh)
2.why do bw celebrate when wm ask them to not wear it,and dont wear it?
3.bm dont complain or give two shts with two dead flies on it about bw getting a degree or whatever,the propblem starts when bw get them then start acting brandnew and claiming to be better than someone and being bossy and btchy and dont forget,feeling entitled to a husband because of that ALONE.lolsmh
4.the young girls believe what the ignorant,bitter,hateful mothers and aunts taught them amongst many other things,negative things at that.
5.men and women arent having kids,KIDS are having kids.and the females are JUST as responsible as anybody for this.there are million women out there having unprotected sex and multiple baby daddies and stds and poppin out kids like,oh well.i dont need a man,the gov'ment got me hehe.not to mention the 10 abortions she had in between ect. and move on to the next to make another in a few days.stop kids from havin kids and the rest will fall into place as they mature and understand love and family and RESPONSIBILTIES and can afford to have them.
the rest of post is just bs and i wont entertain it.
You have some good points, maybe you should make your own post.

1. I've never cussed anyone out for touching my hair, so that can't be the OVERALL problem.

2. My hair style is determined by what I like, not anyone else. Regardless of if a wm tells me it looks good or not.

3. I know professional women who never throw their accomplishments in their guys face YET they receive constant dislike for them.

4. I am young and my mother or aunts have never said negative things about their husbands to me. So that can't be the OVERALL issue.

5. Men are supposed to be natural providers but you are right it takes 2 to tango.

I think BOTH genders have much to work on not just bw, but it seems bm get double blame for joint mistakes.

“Happy & Content”

Level 2

Since: May 13

Savannah, GA

#4 May 9, 2013
excuse me, BW get double blame*

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Level 6

Since: Apr 11

EVERYWHERE

#5 May 9, 2013
Decent92 wrote:
excuse me, BW get double blame*
you had it right the first time mama,it wasnt a typo.and this isnt about YOU,an individual.so lose the "i's" and "me's" and get back to us:^)

“Happy & Content”

Level 2

Since: May 13

Savannah, GA

#6 May 9, 2013
ShyDevil334 wrote:
<quoted text>you had it right the first time mama,it wasnt a typo.and this isnt about YOU,an individual.so lose the "i's" and "me's" and get back to us:^)
Nope I got it right the second time papa, it was a typo.

That's my opinion just like you statements were yours.. that's what the (I's) and (Me's) were for.

Appreciate ya.
KingsloveQueens

San Mateo, CA

#7 May 9, 2013
BM don't owe bW anything if we don't know them..find a bm love him and complain to that bm ..not bm who don't know u ..otherwise go complain to the scarlet women demon that resides in your body babylon harlot beyotch..

ShyDevil334

“BAD AZ I WANNA BE”

Level 6

Since: Apr 11

EVERYWHERE

#8 May 9, 2013
Decent92 wrote:
<quoted text>
Nope I got it right the second time papa, it was a typo.
That's my opinion just like you statements were yours.. that's what the (I's) and (Me's) were for.
Appreciate ya.
uh uhhhh mama,it wasnt.and be careful i like that papa sht.

well,just because YOU never cussed at anybody doesnt mean no other bw have.
just because YOU never changed your hair doesnt mean no other bw have.
just because YOU were never taught bad things from your mom and aunt doesnt mean no other bw have ect. see where im goin wit dis?lol

its like me saying this..........
I have never flown a plane before so NO bm ever has.
I have never shot anybody so NO bm have.
I have no children so NO bm does
I never had a pet so NO bm have ect.

we wont get for doing this.lol
-- - - _ _ _SELORNAPADEN

Austin, TX

#9 May 10, 2013
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AA FORUMS
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who
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T M T

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D A V I S
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who
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trouble
with
people
on
these
AA FORUMS
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a
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on
who
u r
dealin
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“Happy & Content”

Level 2

Since: May 13

Savannah, GA

#10 May 10, 2013
KingsloveQueens wrote:
BM don't owe bW anything if we don't know them..find a bm love him and complain to that bm ..not bm who don't know u ..otherwise go complain to the scarlet women demon that resides in your body babylon harlot beyotch..
I did not say bm owed bw anything, if you believe that then you misread my post. I am not complaining just asking a question, if it annoys you then maybe you shouldn't have replied. Simple fixture.

The name calling is VERY childish, you do not know me from adam off ox so how can you sit behind a computer screen and feel good about calling someone you don't even know a beyotch.

Two words of advice.. GROW UP.

“Happy & Content”

Level 2

Since: May 13

Savannah, GA

#11 May 10, 2013
ShyDevil334 wrote:
<quoted text>uh uhhhh mama,it wasnt.and be careful i like that papa sht.
well,just because YOU never cussed at anybody doesnt mean no other bw have.
just because YOU never changed your hair doesnt mean no other bw have.
just because YOU were never taught bad things from your mom and aunt doesnt mean no other bw have ect. see where im goin wit dis?lol
its like me saying this..........
I have never flown a plane before so NO bm ever has.
I have never shot anybody so NO bm have.
I have no children so NO bm does
I never had a pet so NO bm have ect.
we wont get for doing this.lol
You started it papa.

.....and vice versa.. we could go on and on but I ain't into blabbing nonsense all day/night. The main purpose of my post was just general curiosity and to receive male opinions. I have yours now so i'm good.

How was your day?

“Happy & Content”

Level 2

Since: May 13

Savannah, GA

#13 May 10, 2013
----___SELORNAPADEN wrote:
DIRTY WHITECUNT
LOW INCOME
WHITE
RACIST
REDNEX
blah blah blah..
This is so desperate.

Baby, do you receive enough attention?

If not, this is soooo NOT the way to get it.
Blah

Atlanta, GA

#14 May 10, 2013
Decent92 wrote:
<quoted text>
You started it papa.
.....and vice versa.. we could go on and on but I ain't into blabbing nonsense all day/night. The main purpose of my post was just general curiosity and to receive male opinions. I have yours now so i'm good.
How was your day?
Quick question. Have you ever been with a white guy.

“Happy & Content”

Level 2

Since: May 13

Savannah, GA

#15 May 10, 2013
Blah wrote:
<quoted text>
Quick question. Have you ever been with a white guy.
No I have not. Why?
Blah

Atlanta, GA

#16 May 10, 2013
Decent92 wrote:
<quoted text>
No I have not. Why?
and how old are you

“Happy & Content”

Level 2

Since: May 13

Savannah, GA

#18 May 10, 2013
Blah wrote:
<quoted text>
and how old are you
Pushing 21. Once again, why?

“Happy & Content”

Level 2

Since: May 13

Savannah, GA

#22 May 10, 2013
ugly monkeys wrote:
<quoted text>He's one of those hypocrites. He was going to disqualify you as worthy if you been with a white guy, but he's been with several white girls himself.
Oh, I'm not into white guys like that.
Sadbuttrue

Waldorf, MD

#24 May 11, 2013
Decent92 wrote:
First and foremost let me say that I love black men, my father is one. So with this post, my intentions are NOT to bash black american men but to get a general understanding of why some things sometimes happen.
Black american men, why do SOME of you:
Complain about black women wearing extensions and weaves yet chase after women with hair that is completely DIFFERENT from our natural hair texture.
-I believe when this happens (NOT all) but a lot of black women ... especially young girls begin to believe that this is what you find attractive and the only way to achieve this is to chemically alter our hair or add extensions and weaves.
-For instance if a black girl that has been sweet on you for a time only sees you dating blonde haired women then naturally she will most likely assume that blonde hair is something you are fond of...hence this is where the blonde weaves come in. Just an example.
Complain that black women are to needy and lazy yet when we attempt to get educated, receive a degree and earn a decent career you begin to complain about that.
-Now I know some “women” get the big head when they make a rise on the salary chart but I’m talking about black women who does NOT throw what she has accomplished in your face 24/7, heck even I would get tired of that.
Complain that we do NOT know how to carry ourselves like respectable ladies but yet you constantly overlook the black women who do.
Create numerous amounts of children then refuse to attempt to help raise them.
Sleep around with trash just for the heck of it when you have a decent women at home.
Maybe it is just me BUT it seems that us black American women cannot win for always loosing. Even when respectable black women try to live life honestly and positively all we get is NEGATIVITY and for being who we are.
So fellas, tell me what is up with all of this.. I have more but this is all I can think of at this hour. I’m interested in seeing what replies I get. Please keep it clean, no men or women bashing...goodnight.
MACEO

Personally, I wish you "Grow up" an act your age! You can't speak for Black women because you don't even know yourself as a Black man!

“Happy & Content”

Level 2

Since: May 13

Savannah, GA

#25 May 11, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
Personally, I wish you "Grow up" an act your age! You can't speak for Black women because you don't even know yourself as a Black man!
Who is Maceo?

I am a real black woman.
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#26 May 11, 2013
NotDecent92---MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
Who is Maceo?
I am a real black woman.
MACEO

MACEO is YOU the FOOL, Scoffer, Recluse, and the man that wasted his life and has nothing to show for his time! LMAO

Thou Fool!

All you do is whine online and harass young IR Black women when your almost 60 years old!

Other people say they know its your profiles I tell the truth maybe too much truth!

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