Interracial dating/marriage: a bad idea

Interracial dating/marriage: a bad idea

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“Liberals hate America ”

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#1 Mar 28, 2013
Interracial dating and marriage is (overall) a bad idea. Here is why:

-Interracial couples have higher rates of domestic violence
-Interracial couples have higher divorce rates; overall 41% chance of separation compared to 31% for same race couples
-Interracial couples face challenges in the way family/friends react, as well as society in general

In conclusion, it is better for whites to marry other whites and blacks to marry other blacks. Marriages will be healthier and less likely to end in divorce.

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#2 Mar 28, 2013
i agree
real brotha

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#3 Mar 28, 2013
Gaelach Pride wrote:
Interracial dating and marriage is (overall) a bad idea. Here is why:
-Interracial couples have higher rates of domestic violence
-Interracial couples have higher divorce rates; overall 41% chance of separation compared to 31% for same race couples
-Interracial couples face challenges in the way family/friends react, as well as society in general
In conclusion, it is better for whites to marry other whites and blacks to marry other blacks. Marriages will be healthier and less likely to end in divorce.
The biggest reason many communities don't want IR is because of the biracial offspring that is produced ffrom those unions, to some monoracial cultural communities it is a threat to their culture and existance. That's why in third world countries at least most don't accep or welcome those couples only in the western world.

To me it doesn't help AAs

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#4 Mar 28, 2013
real brotha wrote:
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The biggest reason many communities don't want IR is because of the biracial offspring that is produced ffrom those unions, to some monoracial cultural communities it is a threat to their culture and existance. That's why in third world countries at least most don't accep or welcome those couples only in the western world.
To me it doesn't help AAs
Mixed race children suffer more problems with identity and health, and are more likely to suffer from depression, substance abuse, and sleep problems. This is an interesting article:

http://sociobiologicalmusings.blogspot.com/20...

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#5 Mar 28, 2013
non-sense

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#6 Mar 28, 2013
Gaelach Pride wrote:
Interracial dating and marriage is (overall) a bad idea. Here is why:
-Interracial couples have higher rates of domestic violence
-Interracial couples have higher divorce rates; overall 41% chance of separation compared to 31% for same race couples
-Interracial couples face challenges in the way family/friends react, as well as society in general
In conclusion, it is better for whites to marry other whites and blacks to marry other blacks. Marriages will be healthier and less likely to end in divorce.
Where's your evidence ? And don't you know 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce , most of them intraracial.

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#7 Mar 28, 2013
Lady Rin Kayamata wrote:
<quoted text>Where's your evidence ? And don't you know 1 in 2 marriages end in divorce , most of them intraracial.
Here you go:

http://www.fincham.info/papers/fr-martin.pdf

http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j....

Notice the abstract which states: Comparisons across marriage cohorts reveal that, overall, interracial couples have higher rates
of divorce

Same race marriages do have high rates of divorce but overall they are still lower than for interracial marriages.

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#8 Mar 28, 2013
Gaelach Pride wrote:
<quoted text>Here you go:
http://www.fincham.info/papers/fr-martin.pdf
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j....
Notice the abstract which states: Comparisons across marriage cohorts reveal that, overall, interracial couples have higher rates
of divorce
Same race marriages do have high rates of divorce but overall they are still lower than for interracial marriages.
the divorce rate in this country is almost 50 percent considering the number IR marriages ending in divorce it's like a drop in a bucket.

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#9 Mar 28, 2013
Gaelach Pride wrote:
<quoted text>Here you go:
http://www.fincham.info/papers/fr-martin.pdf
http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j....
Notice the abstract which states: Comparisons across marriage cohorts reveal that, overall, interracial couples have higher rates
of divorce
Same race marriages do have high rates of divorce but overall they are still lower than for interracial marriages.
I know they have higher divorce rates , however , domestic violence ? where did anyone find that ?

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#10 Mar 29, 2013
I thought mixed raced people genetics were better health wise?

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#11 Mar 29, 2013
BROWNMAN20 wrote:
I thought mixed raced people genetics were better health wise?
oh , I heard of something like that. But after 10 years of marriage guess who has the lowest divorce rate ?
Phoenix

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#12 Mar 29, 2013
BROWNMAN20 wrote:
I thought mixed raced people genetics were better health wise?
It is what it is.
Timothy

Norfolk, VA

#13 Mar 29, 2013
It is what is, but I am not fascist. If a person wants to have an IR marriage or an IR relationship, then that is their business. I can't be for real freedom and deny others the right to love who they love. Although, I respect black love and as a black man, I will already love and respect black women.
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#14 Mar 29, 2013
Timothy wrote:
It is what is, but I am not fascist. If a person wants to have an IR marriage or an IR relationship, then that is their business. I can't be for real freedom and deny others the right to love who they love. Although, I respect black love and as a black man, I will already love and respect black women.
May God always bless you, sir!!!!!!
real brotha

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#15 Mar 29, 2013
Gaelach Pride wrote:
<quoted text>Mixed race children suffer more problems with identity and health, and are more likely to suffer from depression, substance abuse, and sleep problems. This is an interesting article:
http://sociobiologicalmusings.blogspot.com/20...
Interesting article
Mr_Wrong Turn

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#16 Jul 29, 2013
Before I got married, my children and I were in a very comfortable place. We were ourselves. Now that I have married a white woman (who in many ways is very deceptive, calculating and manipulative...from where she was born to even having 2 birth certificates.) She hides much behind the fact that she has a PhD., but did it all under the fake birth certificate. Much of this I found out AFTER we got married. All of the taboo and jargon that I dismissed as matter of opinion, has come into fruition. Even my daughter feels uncomfortable at times, like she would do something to hurt her or us.

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#17 Jul 29, 2013
Its even worse when they are here illegally, because you realized that you weren't really attracted to them. Although, my dad was an illegal immigrant when he married my mother and then they both got divorced, and they are both black.

By the way, I don't know if I will ever date another Hispanic again.
Genevieve11

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#19 Jul 29, 2013
Gaelach Pride wrote:
<quoted text>Mixed race children suffer more problems with identity and health, and are more likely to suffer from depression, substance abuse, and sleep problems. This is an interesting article:
http://sociobiologicalmusings.blogspot.com/20...
i was suffering from all that at one point and i'm not mixed I'm creole...but i may be living as mixed in america but don't know it?
Genevieve11

Van Nuys, CA

#20 Jul 29, 2013
btw i was going through crazy times over a point of like 2-3 months so that's how i came to that conclusion.

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#21 Jul 29, 2013
Gaelach Pride wrote:
Interracial dating and marriage is (overall) a bad idea. Here is why:
-Interracial couples have higher rates of domestic violence
-Interracial couples have higher divorce rates; overall 41% chance of separation compared to 31% for same race couples
-Interracial couples face challenges in the way family/friends react, as well as society in general
In conclusion, it is better for whites to marry other whites and blacks to marry other blacks. Marriages will be healthier and less likely to end in divorce.
That only applies to Black male/ white female. For white males/ black female there isn't a big difference.

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