Indian guy

Richmond Hill, NY

#91 Jun 20, 2013
Alright on behalf of all the stupid, ignorant, f_kd up, dumb old Indian store owners... I ask here for an apology.

Don't take this "Indian"American on the same level... I grew up and educated here. So my cultures, thinking and accents are different.

I believe I shouldn't be judged on the same level... as I haven't done anything to anybody or have anything common with them.

Indians grew up here and Fobs who failed to integrate has thier big differences. This is the reason why I was thinking about starting a club to guide the young ones integrate more into the society.
TheAnswer

Rowlett, TX

#93 Jun 20, 2013
Indian Guy sounds like a Good Indian to Me.
Sadbuttrue

Chantilly, VA

#94 Jun 21, 2013
TheAnswer wrote:
<quoted text>
"Lets Be Real Here, Muh Brutha."
AAMech I respect because he is intelligent and black and honest.
Are you seriously black Harrison?
And you are absolutely correct. My experiment was intentionally flawed; yet you caught it.
If I used the upper 10% of the bell curve of blacks; it would be a safe city like any other if they regulated their male children.
I highly doubt you are a BM; My gut instincts tell me that you are an IRWW; but definitely not black.
"Please define the expression 'T Jones" for Me."
MACEO

I had a person call me and they said your Lonely Recluse because something happened to you in your childhood!

Your the "Special Edu Kid that nobody wanted!

I think thats true in your case!
Sadbuttrue

Chantilly, VA

#96 Jun 21, 2013
TheAnswer wrote:
Indian Guy sounds like a Good Indian to Me.
MACEO

Funny the other races talk to me about what they see becuase they don't see me as Black American so they talk about Black men.

They call you LOSERS too and they have "No respect" for you because you don't take care of your women and children; they don't understand it. They see black women working hard but Black men are always chasing ASS while others are trying to get ahead!

I told them that's true Black men don't get married, chase WW, Sex and end up with nothing!

There Baffled like all of the other races they said why are the women sticking with no good men?
Sadbuttrue

Chantilly, VA

#97 Jun 21, 2013
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Black men Hating Black women

I recently came across a book written by a self-described “touring stand-up comedian, day trader, filmmaker and lecturer” named Rajen Persaud. The book is entitled “Why Black Men Love White Women.” I found the book’s title startling, primarily because it explicitly acknowledged a fact of which many in the black community are acutely aware, but that is rarely openly discussed: that black men love white women

While many black men actively express love, admiration, and desire for white women, that loving white women is an inherent part of black manhood in the West is not something that black men like to openly admit. Their adoration of white women is an uncomfortable fact for many black men to face, since this love seems to play neatly into stereotypes about uncontrollable “animal” lust for white flesh that black people, especially black women, have actively campaigned against Additionally, and perhaps more significantly, black men are deeply uncomfortable with the conundrum presented by loving the daughter, the sister, the very womb that produces their declared enemy. Even Persaud seems incapable of facing the centrality of this latter issue, since, despite his refreshing candor in his book, its gravamen has as much to do with hatred for black women as it does love for white women.; “Black Women are Gold Diggers”; “Sisters Have an Attitude”), facing the significance and practical implications of their love of whiteness is difficult for many black men. Instead, these emotions are channeled into loathing of black women, which is justified by cataloging black women’s myriad “shortcomings.” This allows black men to claim to be proud and self-loving, while simultaneously adoring and esteeming all things white.

Mr. Persaud begins his book with the contention that any exploration of black male love for white women must begin “with the white man.” This is a common-place tactic; it is difficult for black men in the West to begin any discussion or critical analysis of any issue without circling back to white men, especially if the resulting discourse will be less than flattering to black men.

Whether denominated as racio-misogyny or not, the root of black male hatred of black women is the conceptualization of women as objects. Objects have relative value, and in the hierarchy

When black men look at black women and children, they see the shame of emasculation, of inadequacy, of the inability to protect and provide. And rather than being enraged and inspired by this experience of being unmanned to fight for their dependents, black men seek to escape them, and the pain of feeling like less than men. rather than confronting white men they hate; black males take their abuses and rage out on their women and children allowing them to go without.

White women, on the other hand, have the highest value as objects. They feel like they accomplish so much marrying a white woman while they put black women down. To men who feel like nothing, a white or white-skinned woman is a tangible accomplishment. It immediately frees them from the burden of blackness. In the words; “By loving me she [his white woman] proves that I am worthy of white love. I am loved like a white man. I am a white man. I marry the culture, white beauty, white whiteness. When my restless hands caress those white breasts, they grasp white civilization and dignity and make them mine.” White women are the prize, and black men are eagerly claiming that prize after the exhausting struggles for manumission and Civil Rights. They may not have gained real access to equal work, equal pay, equal wealth or equal opportunity; but black men have gained access to the bodies of white women. In the face of so many losses, possessing a white or non-black woman feels like a sufficient win for many black men

Well black boys and young black men pay the greatest price for the neglect and escapism of their fathers.
LION

Charlotte, NC

#98 Jun 21, 2013
Sindhi Native wrote:
<quoted text>What's wrong lion are you afraid I'm going to expose you like this http://www.snowbunnyblog.com/wp-content/inter...
can I get a what what what what what hahahaha
lol
LION

Charlotte, NC

#99 Jun 21, 2013
AAMech wrote:
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Been to India several times. One time i spent more than a day in one of those world class hospitals there with a broken toe and sprained ankle. Have friends there mostly airline employees.
Dated one.Her name was Zara. Met her at the Fat Camel hostel in Auckland and still keep in touch. Been to family home there which was interesting.Her dad works at British Air.
"Some not all will have a fit" applies to anyone no matter where you are. Try dating one if you are a christian or any other religion that is not the family religion,drink too much alcohol,or ill-mannered.
To know and understand people from other countries it is better to just go there and experience it first hand.
I understand but you must admit that many families like that would not approve.
LION

Charlotte, NC

#100 Jun 21, 2013
Abdurratln wrote:
<quoted text>
Of course, you are right about "hook up". That is sexual immorality". It has not to do with race. It has to do with people "hooking up" and not getting married. In Islam, we marry early at a very young age so that we not have any need to "hook up". I do not see why that is so hard to understand.
You are very in denial.
Answer this.
Do you feel that there are many arab muslim families who would not like it if their daughters marry even a black muslim man? Yes or No?
LION

Charlotte, NC

#101 Jun 21, 2013
Abdurratln wrote:
<quoted text>
Whites are the source of racism. End of story. Stop blaming Arabs and Asians and Latinos.
RAcism comes from ignorance and fear and even envy. The white race is not the only race that have such vices. We all have them. So stop blaming whites for everything.
LION

Charlotte, NC

#102 Jun 21, 2013
Kikos wrote:
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I would kill my daughter if she came home with an Indian. What's up with that. knegroes are the only ones who complain and see racism in every. And you wonder why other races do not respect ya.I prefer my daughter to a black man and not any black man ....see.
You just showed how ignorant and racist you are.
Sadbuttrue

Chantilly, VA

#103 Jun 21, 2013
LION wrote:
<quoted text>
lol
MACEO

The Indians feel that Black men are "Dumb" and have No common sense. They don't understand why you waste time and chase ASS. They said why not get a wife?

i said Black men want to be players, sling their Dycks around!

They said that's not good; you only make babies and get into trouble!

I said Black men don't want to get married!

They said your foolish, your family is an exension of You! We take care of our women, children and families!

I said black men don't they take White men's women and will do for them but not their own!

Two Indian men looked in amazement! They said this is not smart the women will turn on you, leave and you will go towards extinction ! lmao

I told them Black men don't care!
TheAnswer

Rowlett, TX

#104 Jun 21, 2013
SBT....
Oh Lord Woman, you get a free Pass for being Crazy.

You down with an OPP discount now girl.
I have told you for years:

I AM not black, mulatoo, quadroon or colored let alone have a drop of black blood in my veins.
I AM not MACEO Parker.

You need to rise above the hurt that Gorilla did to you or he will always have you.

Level 6

Since: Oct 12

Location hidden

#105 Jun 21, 2013
Masud_S_Hoghughi__ wrote:
<quoted text>u wish.......
.....0% kneegroid dna here..........
even so - many white amerikans have a small percentage of kneegroid dna......0-10%.....but that doesn't make them niccuz.........
why yu care about indians ugly pakistani
dumb racist

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#106 Jun 21, 2013
Indian guy wrote:
Alright on behalf of all the stupid, ignorant, f_kd up, dumb old Indian store owners... I ask here for an apology.
Don't take this "Indian"American on the same level... I grew up and educated here. So my cultures, thinking and accents are different.
I believe I shouldn't be judged on the same level... as I haven't done anything to anybody or have anything common with them.
Indians grew up here and Fobs who failed to integrate has thier big differences. This is the reason why I was thinking about starting a club to guide the young ones integrate more into the society.
The Asians are basically part of the African community through Islam. But, I know some individuals prefer the whites. But as a group, they are in our community. And there are deep cultural ties between the two, especially Islam.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#107 Jun 21, 2013
madblackwoman1985 wrote:
I can't stand them,they are racist and prejudice as hell. They are like crackers with dark or black skin.Look when i go into a gas station to buy something this indian ba**st8rd acts like he has a problem with me,i dont like the way he looks at me. I really hate going to that store.
I was probably too hard on you yesterday. But, let me say this one thing. if you put pour positive vibes you will receive back positive vibes in return. Do not go to the store thinking and acting like the owners are your enemy and intruders. Understand that they are there because nobody else wants those types of businesses. Whites sold to the Asians and usually at very high prices. Blacks prefer easier work such as in the professions where their high educations are valued. That leaves the immigrant community to do the work and provide a service to this community that we would not have if they did not do it.

When I go to the store, I always say Al-Salam Alaikum, assuming they are Muslims. Some times, they are not Muslims. A lot of times they are not Muslims. There are Sikhs, and Christians even Jews. But I offer positive vibes. The only time I ever had any real problems was in a Chinese restaurant where they put pork in my fried rice. I have never been there again. But in the Muslim owned stores, everybody call me brother and I call them brother. There has NEVER been any problems whatsoever. A couple of stores are owned by Christian Arabs. It is always the Christians who offer problems as when the Chinese served me pork after I asked for no pork. But even when they are Christian Arabs, I establish a positive and friendly relationship because I will still say Al=-Salam Alaikum. Sometimes they will respond with Salams and say they are not Muslims. Somehow, I learn they are not Muslims. But it is my positive attitude to them based on race they establishes friendship. The Asians and Arabs are not our enemies. And tey are serving our community because nobody else will do so, not even other Africans. And owning small stores is hard work and it does not pay much.

Since: Oct 09

Location hidden

#108 Jun 21, 2013
Funny enough two days ago I watched a PBS show on I dians and the dark skin Indian woman actually identified herself as black. I was shocked to see this but I am not sure if she was saying black like sub saharan Africans.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#109 Jun 21, 2013
LION wrote:
<quoted text>
You are very in denial.
Answer this.
Do you feel that there are many arab muslim families who would not like it if their daughters marry even a black muslim man? Yes or No?
I have never had that problem. I have had Asians who did not want to be involved with the African low life that we all know we have. Usually it is because we are perceived as sexually immoral as I said. On the other hand, I relate very well with Arab and Asian sisters as I have already said. I have never known one who knows me personally to have any racial problems. What else can I say? As I said, we interact daily as Muslims. Men relate to men and women relate to women. We do not have any racial segregation such as you have in Christianity. We never had any history of it. It is about that simple. So, I do not look for race problems where I know there are none. Your race problem is all in your imagination based on your Christian background. It is not a reality in Islam. And it is not a concern. Africans from Africa Muslims marry Asians and Arabs all the time. Nobody ever notices the racial twist to the situation. It is just not there.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#110 Jun 21, 2013
LION wrote:
<quoted text>
RAcism comes from ignorance and fear and even envy. The white race is not the only race that have such vices. We all have them. So stop blaming whites for everything.
Whites invented racism. Prior to that there was none. And blacks like you are dumb enough to copy the white man's racism. Even so, both the black racists and the white racists combined constitute a very small, tiny percentage of humanity. The rest of us do not bother even thinking about it. Life is too short.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#111 Jun 21, 2013
TheAnswer wrote:
SBT....
Oh Lord Woman, you get a free Pass for being Crazy.
You down with an OPP discount now girl.
I have told you for years:
I AM not black, mulatoo, quadroon or colored let alone have a drop of black blood in my veins.
I AM not MACEO Parker.
You need to rise above the hurt that Gorilla did to you or he will always have you.
I ignore her. She never has anything intelligent to say. I do not even read her posts.

Level 8

Since: Aug 09

Saint Louis, MO

#112 Jun 21, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
Funny enough two days ago I watched a PBS show on I dians and the dark skin Indian woman actually identified herself as black. I was shocked to see this but I am not sure if she was saying black like sub saharan Africans.
I have a friend in Tamil Nadu. India has a very close and special relationship to Africa, especially South Africa. My Tamil friend was the first to let me know that Indians (i.e. Tamils) are very keen to find ties to Africa. She seems to think, based on her Hindu Scriptures, that Tamils came from Africa. Plus, many Africans do live in India.

Gandhi started his political career in South Africa. This is because the British took many Indians to South Africa as indentured servants (near slaves). I have several Indian friends who live there. I tend to get along with the Asians better than I do with the blacks because they are usually Muslims. For example, Ahmed Deedat is a South African ( http://www.youtube.com/watch... ) As a Muslim, I often encounter members of the Preaching Party who are traveling from South Africa to the USA to preach. This happens less often since 9-11. Also, as a Pan-Africanist I keep close contact with members of the Pan-Africanist Congress in South Africa who are Asians. Basically my relationship with Indians is a very positive one all around. But I know there are quite a few jerks among them as well. But being a jerk is not racism.

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