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#818 Jun 21, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
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One: why are you acting like a child...acting all men...random men on a public forum...I'm sorry did I do something to ruin your life,career,hopes,dreams or personal desires?
I don't think so...because I've been with the very same women...with a big ass smile on my face for the last two decades!
Now as for our marriage not lasting long...well sweetie it's always a possibility that a relationship may end...be it btw a man or a woman...black,or white...that's the risk that we all take...and we all have horror stories....stories of disappointments...as several song have said...that's the way love goes!
THIS IS WHY COMMUNICATION,HONESTY AND REAL UNSELFISH COMMITMENT IS A MUST IN A RELATIONSHIP...THESE THINGS ARE A MUST FOR SUCCESS!
Now as far as me cheating...or the idea that all men cheat...sorry...but I've never cheated on anyone in my entire life...I'm simply not that guy...and nor are all other men...
YES SOME MEN...HELL I MIGHT EVEN SAY MOST MEN...THOUGH I CAN'T HONESTLY MAKE THIS ASSERTION FAIRLY...THOUGH I DO KNOW A LOT OF GUYS WHO CHEAT OR WHO HAVE CHEATED...BLACK,WHITE,ARAB,HIS PANIC AND A FEW OTHERS...YES INDEEDLY AND YES THEY TALK...OPENLY ABOUT IT...HELL IT'S SO BAD THAT WHEN YOU SAY..."NAWWW I'M NOT OFF INTO ALL OF THAT"...THEY'RE SO CAUGHT UP...THAT THEY DON'T BELIEVE THAT ANY MAN IS FAITHFUL!
BUT AS MUCH AS I LOVE SEX...I'VE NEVER BEEN MOTIVATED BY IT...AM I TURNED ON BY SOME OTHER WOMEN...YES OF COURSE...HELL I'M HUMAN...I KNOW WITHIN THE FIRST TEN MINUTES OF MEETING A WOMAN IF I'M ATTRACTED TO HER PHYSICALLY...BUT THAT'S NOT THE SAME AS CHEATING ON MY WIFE...NO WE DON'T ALL CHEAT!
I'm just plain honest...if It's not working...if I'm not feelin you..or If I'm having issues...then I'll let you know!
And as far as the divorce rate is concerned...IF I walked around worrying about stats and figures...then I'd be a nervous wreck...hell I'd never drive my car,have sex with my wife...take cruises or about a million other things!
We can't sit around worrying about stats impacting our lives on a daily basis...we have to live,love,learn,trust and move forward!
It's worked for me...so far so good!
I love your novel

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#819 Jun 21, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
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What do you want to know...are you being nosy...are you inquiring?
Don't go around bragging...but I'm packing nine and a half inches of thick ebony sausage (she calls her chocolate bat!)that if anything won't stay down...first thing in the morning and lately last thing at night...it's sticking it's head up to say heeeeeello...can a brotha get more of that sweet stuff!
She always smiles and states that every day....since we got together...if I didn't raise the flag she'd think that something had gone wrong!
Hell I'm living with a beautiful,very affectionate and horny young woman...who blows "daddy's" mind!
Happy now?
*Clearly...you know nothing about an actual marriage or long term relationship!
eww!!!!! Aand u will cheat on her sooner or later..or u prolli too ugly to get another woman
Shakalaka

Conyers, GA

#820 Jun 21, 2013
Sadbutrue wrote:
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1 min ago
JustSaying wrote:
Who cares who bm hate. They're garbage anyway, so let them die off in the hole they live in with their countless diseases. It's better they don't like bw.
MACEO
You made too many bad decisions! Huhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Dumb Black men are a pain!
Black women are dating/marrying out now! YOu need to work on your own life; you'll have a lot of challenges at 60 years old which is not good!
Your a selfish, self centered man which is why you didn't have any kids but you'll pay for that too in the near future!
YOU ACT SELFISH, SELF CENTERD LIKE A LOT OF BLACK MEN!
I don't know why you was chasing ASS in your late 50's when your facing retirement! LMAO
I give White men credit; they're really careful if they can help it! That's why they run off and try to find a wife really quick! You don't see White men running around bragging about using and abusing their women like Black men do!
Black men will arrogant brag about how they use their wives/GF and how they abandon their children and don't pay support! On the back end of their lives; everything comes back in their faces and they face being OLD and alone with no support!
Most Black men almost 1/2 die alone because they don't take care of their kids who want nothing to do with them when their old and in poor health!
NOBODY CARES ABOUT BLACK MEN; YOU REAP WHAT YOU'VE SOWN!
I care about black men. When the reaping starts, white folk had better brace themselves. Now I know there are more good black men out there than there are bad ones. But that's not just a "black" phenomenon. I wish black women would stop promoting the lie. If anyone thinks that white men are better than any other, they need their heads examined. Keeping it real. It is this kind of stereotyping that enables racists with their "see, I'm superior B.S. and that is exactly what it is Bull Shyte. I love the black men in my life and would do anything for them. They have proven to be my friends, there when I need them, through the thick and thin of it. Let's not engage in this White Wash crap. White men are no better than any other man. In my opinion.
IT IS I

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#821 Jun 21, 2013
grimlock wrote:
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Typical racist kewn black woman. smh
Nobody is trying to be equal to white men. You love them so much. Stop worrying about black men then. Seems simple dummy.
You are on a thread about black feminism and you have the audacity to tell me to stop "worrying" about BM ???

STFU !!!! And you are correct, BM were never trying to be equal to WM......... THEY WERE (and still are !!) TRYING TO BE WM !!! That is why BM chase WW like they have lost their minds.

Now you want to talk about a 'kewn'!!

SMDH.....

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#822 Jun 22, 2013
Mint cookies wrote:
<quoted text>I love your novel
Thanks...and you're welcome!

*I've been told several times...by several people that I should write a book...maybe I can scratch that item off of my bucket list now...huh?

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#823 Jun 22, 2013
Mint cookies wrote:
<quoted text>eww!!!!! Aand u will cheat on her sooner or later..or u prolli too ugly to get another woman
Sorry....but I've never been referred to as "ugly" in my entire life...I have been called handsome countless times by all kinds of women...yes even beautiful bw...Mmmmmmmm...lord have mercy!

Again...we can never say never...because we can't see into the future...but I can tell you this...I have absolutely no desire to do so...none...no I'm good...believe it or not...some of us know what we have when we have it....we appreciate it and we take good care not to lose it!

I believe in until death do us part...its' about quality to me...not quantity!

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#824 Jun 22, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
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Sorry....but I've never been referred to as "ugly" in my entire life...I have been called handsome countless times by all kinds of women...yes even beautiful bw...Mmmmmmmm...lord have mercy!
Again...we can never say never...because we can't see into the future...but I can tell you this...I have absolutely no desire to do so...none...no I'm good...believe it or not...some of us know what we have when we have it....we appreciate it and we take good care not to lose it!
I believe in until death do us part...its' about quality to me...not quantity!
yea right and im the pope

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#825 Jun 22, 2013
Mint cookies wrote:
<quoted text>yea right and im the pope
Now you think that you're the Pope...

my whole point exactly!

http://www.schmidtandclark.com/wp-content/upl...

Seek help!

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#826 Jun 22, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
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Now you think that you're the Pope...
my whole point exactly!
http://www.schmidtandclark.com/wp-content/upl...
Seek help!
nope im not the pope which proves my point...but i guess u too dumbfounded to understand sarcasm

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#827 Jun 22, 2013
Mint cookies wrote:
<quoted text>nope im not the pope which proves my point...but i guess u too dumbfounded to understand sarcasm
In case it isn't obvious, the word "dumbfounded" does not have the same meaning as "dumb".

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#828 Jun 22, 2013
dev143 wrote:
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In case it isn't obvious, the word "dumbfounded" does not have the same meaning as "dumb".
shutup nutjob

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#829 Jun 22, 2013
Mint cookies wrote:
<quoted text>shutup nutjob
Ok, LaClamitia

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#830 Jun 22, 2013
dev143 wrote:
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Ok, LaClamitia
ok tyrone gangsta saggin pants ..ghetto grill in the mouth hiv/ down low "brotha"

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#831 Jun 22, 2013
Mint cookies wrote:
<quoted text>ok tyrone gangsta saggin pants ..ghetto grill in the mouth hiv/ down low "brotha"
Typical response right out of the hair-hatted, butter sweating, black woman's playbook. smh..

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#833 Jun 24, 2013
Shakalaka wrote:
@ Proud Sister...great thread. Topix is changing I see. Nice. I love the topic and the intelligent sisters who took part in expressing their views without the typical racist remarks that generally follow any attempt at good conversation. Wow... never thought it would happen, but it's quite enjoyable.
Maybe I'll pop in again sometime soon. Been pretty busy. It's all good!
Thanks..the conversations were good in this thread....I enjoyed the sharing of ideas, info, and opinions....and for such a "touchy" topic..I'm glad it didn't go too off-track :)

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#834 Jun 24, 2013
dev143 wrote:
Hey Proud Sis :) Hope your day is well. You are a rational black lady on this forum. What are your thoughts on some of what I posted earlier, in regards to Black Feminism's nefarious origins?
To recap, black feminism was heavily propped up and supported by whites for their own purposes. Gloria Steinem (CIA operative) and avowed racist and eugenicist Margaret Sanger.
Alex Jones discussing it:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =yomF9F-GBJQXX
I think most BW reject "Black feminism" because of it's interwine agendas of Whites....Most BW want to simply have a seat at the negotiating table with BM during some type of "Black empowerment movement"..and not let the terms of Black womanhood be dictated to "us"....I personally don't see BM & BW coming together without both fully understand..there is going to be a need for a give/take and compromises...some things you want..will not be given and somethings you don't want to give..will be a must for the union..it's a matter of starting to establish some real dialogue..that includes more listening than demanding..

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#835 Jun 24, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>I think most BW reject "Black feminism" because of it's interwine agendas of Whites....Most BW want to simply have a seat at the negotiating table with BM during some type of "Black empowerment movement"..and not let the terms of Black womanhood be dictated to "us"....I personally don't see BM & BW coming together without both fully understand..there is going to be a need for a give/take and compromises...some things you want..will not be given and somethings you don't want to give..will be a must for the union..it's a matter of starting to establish some real dialogue..that includes more listening than demanding..
Doesn't this run counter to the notion that so many BW today talk about of black man needing to lead, and "man-up"? Do you see the resolvable contradiction there?

To me, this is a big part of why we have landed in the mess we are presently in.

Not only do BW now have a seat at the bargaining table, they are now full-blown IN CHARGE. It's become a matriarchy where most families are lead by women (this wasn't true before black feminism, and it is a complete disgrace in my opinion, no matter how it gets sliced).

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#836 Jun 24, 2013
Correction, unresolvable contradiction*

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#837 Jun 24, 2013
dev143 wrote:
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Doesn't this run counter to the notion that so many BW today talk about of black man needing to lead, and "man-up"? Do you see the resolvable contradiction there?
To me, this is a big part of why we have landed in the mess we are presently in.
Not only do BW now have a seat at the bargaining table, they are now full-blown IN CHARGE. It's become a matriarchy where most families are lead by women (this wasn't true before black feminism, and it is a complete disgrace in my opinion, no matter how it gets sliced).
I think we need to separate what we have now (the present) to where we may want to go in the future (not the past)..and to find out if "we" are even on the same page....we will not know that.. if we keep talking at each other..and not with each other..and more importantly..listening....beca use "man up" and "lead" could mean different things for BM than it does for BW....not including from person to person..some may take "man up"/lead as being aggressive and giving women little to no control..others may see it as taking physical/emotional/financial care of himself/women/children/communi ty.... I personal think gender roles has it's place within society, but they shouldn't be so rigidly define from couple to couple..because we're unique individuals with different likes/desires..and most of what we demand isn't even important in the scheme of things..

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#838 Jun 24, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>I think we need to separate what we have now (the present) to where we may want to go in the future (not the past)..and to find out if "we" are even on the same page....we will not know that.. if we keep talking at each other..and not with each other..and more importantly..listening....beca use "man up" and "lead" could mean different things for BM than it does for BW....not including from person to person..some may take "man up"/lead as being aggressive and giving women little to no control..others may see it as taking physical/emotional/financial care of himself/women/children/communi ty.... I personal think gender roles has it's place within society, but they shouldn't be so rigidly define from couple to couple..because we're unique individuals with different likes/desires..and most of what we demand isn't even important in the scheme of things..
Exactly!

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