Black Feminist Movement
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#690 Jun 18, 2013
dev143 wrote:
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No. I don't think BW should settle for any old man. What I believe is that BW should practice a higher level of chastity. And if they DO have sex, to choose GOOD, intelligent, disciplined men (not just men that got your panties wet), and even then, if unmarried, they should use CONTRACEPTION.
If 75% of BW just did these things, EVERY BAD STAT concerning AAs would be completely reversed in 2 generations.
And I believer that BM should be more selective when considering who they will stick their dyck in !!!!

Choose, good, intelligent, chaste women (and PLEASE BELIEVE......BM have more decent BW women to choose from than BW have good BM to choose from !!!) when they are spreading their seed around. They should plant their seed in fertile soil.

You have a lot of nerve trying to burden BW with the problems of oow births. You know good and well that BM are notorious for promising desperate, love-starved, and mentally challenged women the "moon and stars" only to leave them barefoot, pregnant and not even a pot to piss in !!!

I agree, these women shouldn't be so stupid..........but hey, what can you say to these sista's who keep wanting to believe in BM ????
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#691 Jun 18, 2013
Correction: And I believer = And I believe......

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#692 Jun 18, 2013
Spit-Fire wrote:
WOW Moor 20 years?! There are some couples I know that did not make it past two. I think thats great. Love when BP defy odds. Congrats to you and yours:)
Thanks...lol...we got married kind of young and we've stuck it out so far...but we are both the product of long lasting marriages and and like our parents we both value the union and our family more than anything else...so we always ask the question...."Is this good for the union...or How will this impact our marriage or family"!

*What's actually strange and funny...is that whenever we see people from around the time that we were either dating or even when we got hitched...some of them respond by saying things like..."Wow...you two are still together really"...or "Wow...that means you've been together for"...then they start to do the math and count back...it's as if they thought that we only planned to be together for a moment and then call it quits!

As if we're doing something strange!

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#693 Jun 18, 2013
IT IS I wrote:
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And I believer that BM should be more selective when considering who they will stick their dyck in !!!!
Choose, good, intelligent, chaste women (and PLEASE BELIEVE......BM have more decent BW women to choose from than BW have good BM to choose from !!!) when they are spreading their seed around. They should plant their seed in fertile soil.
You have a lot of nerve trying to burden BW with the problems of oow births. You know good and well that BM are notorious for promising desperate, love-starved, and mentally challenged women the "moon and stars" only to leave them barefoot, pregnant and not even a pot to piss in !!!
I agree, these women shouldn't be so stupid..........but hey, what can you say to these sista's who keep wanting to believe in BM ????
Excellent point...I'd have to agree with this!

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#694 Jun 18, 2013
As a lliberal, I support the feminist movement
IT IS I

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#695 Jun 18, 2013
A big shot out to Berriesgalore and Proud Sis.......

You two are kickin' azz !!!!

I could not have said it better myself !!!!!

@ Proud Sis:

You are so right about BW not putting the black community first when BM have an IR dating rate of 24% and climbing. Like you said, what group of people will continue to put themselves and their needs on the backburner to support another group who not only betrayed them, but continually denounces them ???

And I just loved it when you typed this:

"The pattern is clear..everything keeps centering around what BW need to be doing and not need to be doing because others want to rob her of her humanity..she is seen as an object..a means to an end..one who needs to uplift everyone else (men, children, community)..there is no talk about what others will do for her..because there is no value outside of her being a built-in support system (mammy).."

KUDOS !!! Truer words have never been spoken !!! BM are scared to death of losing this support net.

EXCELLENT POST !!!

@ Berriesgalore:

I agree with you. Attraction is a choice. I have heard people say many times "I'm just no longer attracted to him/her".

And attraction can be controlled like you said, hence the brainwashing of the American BM and this is why they think that a piece of white trash is a prize......especially since the media(T.V., Hollywood, magazines etc.....) became a part of American culture.

And when you said that BM were the only fools in the world who go out of their way to severe the natural bonds between them and the women of their own race, then have the audacity to try to get women of other races to break the bonds with their same race men..........THAT SHYT HIT HOME !!!

Because I have actually witnessed BM go to women of other races and demand that they "worship" while trying to convince these non-BW that they (BM)are better than their race of men (Loyalty).

And you just killed it with this:

"The adaptation may or may not be long lasting after the need to adapt goes away.... Such as slavery, many blacks adapted to a sub human standard in order to survive. However, in this day and age, we must let go of those adaptations in order to survive because our condition isn't the same. The reason why the dominant group survived the feminist movement was because they got "it"..they got that there was a period where women had to be more shielded and kept in the background because they were striving for world dominance as well as establishing a new country. However, as time progressed and conditions changed for the better, women didn't need such blunt protections."

This is so true..........BM don't know how to adapt to change and I believe this is a big reason for their "arrested development".

Good post.

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#697 Jun 18, 2013
IT IS I wrote:
A big shot out to Berriesgalore and Proud Sis.......
You two are kickin' azz !!!!
I could not have said it better myself !!!!!
@ Proud Sis:
You are so right about BW not putting the black community first when BM have an IR dating rate of 24% and climbing. Like you said, what group of people will continue to put themselves and their needs on the backburner to support another group who not only betrayed them, but continually denounces them ???
And I just loved it when you typed this:

This is so true..........BM don't know how to adapt to change and I believe this is a big reason for their "arrested development".
Good post.
Nonsense!

First of all...24% of bm are not dating or married out...that's a complete lie...stop it already...do yo honestly believe everything that non-bm tell you...personally or even the media...which they control....hell you can't even see black couples on the tube these days...why?...because they want bw young and old to believe that we bm have all jumped the fence chasing after Becky,Kanomi or Carmen!

Also stop buying into the bw as victim mentality...it's bullshyt!
Bw aren't any more of victims than bm in America are...again...all that you're doing is accepting the idea that "everyone is so against bw"....yet what's always funny is you probably believe that anything non-black and male...is bw greatest ally...nonsense!
Bm aren't the ones who oppressed bw...nor exploited them in a major way...we've never even had the type of control over bw historically...now yes some bm have used bw...on a personal level and in their own way to benefit them!

Again...this is not a bm thing...men in general do this sort of thing to the women of their group...why?...because "some men" in general are just selfish assholes!

Do you actually know any white women...on a personal level...do they ever share their experiences with you...do you know the things that they have been trough in their personal lives!
It's not about a man's race!

*There are also plenty of bm who have carried,supported and made a way for bw to become successful!

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#698 Jun 18, 2013
IT IS I wrote:
A big shot out to Berriesgalore and Proud Sis.......
You two are kickin' azz !!!!
I could not have said it better myself !!!!!
@ Proud Sis:
You are so right about BW not putting the black community first when BM have an IR dating rate of 24% and climbing. Like you said, what group of people will continue to put themselves and their needs on the backburner to support another group who not only betrayed them, but continually denounces them ???
And I just loved it when you typed this:
"The pattern is clear..everything keeps centering around what BW need to be doing and not need to be doing because others want to rob her of her humanity..she is seen as an object..a means to an end..one who needs to uplift everyone else (men, children, community)..there is no talk about what others will do for her..because there is no value outside of her being a built-in support system (mammy).."
KUDOS !!! Truer words have never been spoken !!! BM are scared to death of losing this support net.
EXCELLENT POST !!!
@ Berriesgalore:
I agree with you. Attraction is a choice. I have heard people say many times "I'm just no longer attracted to him/her".
And attraction can be controlled like you said, hence the brainwashing of the American BM and this is why they think that a piece of white trash is a prize......especially since the media(T.V., Hollywood, magazines etc.....) became a part of American culture.
And when you said that BM were the only fools in the world who go out of their way to severe the natural bonds between them and the women of their own race, then have the audacity to try to get women of other races to break the bonds with their same race men..........THAT SHYT HIT HOME !!!
Because I have actually witnessed BM go to women of other races and demand that they "worship" while trying to convince these non-BW that they (BM)are better than their race of men (Loyalty).
And you just killed it with this:
"The adaptation may or may not be long lasting after the need to adapt goes away.... Such as slavery, many blacks adapted to a sub human standard in order to survive. However, in this day and age, we must let go of those adaptations in order to survive because our condition isn't the same. The reason why the dominant group survived the feminist movement was because they got "it"..they got that there was a period where women had to be more shielded and kept in the background because they were striving for world dominance as well as establishing a new country. However, as time progressed and conditions changed for the better, women didn't need such blunt protections."
This is so true..........BM don't know how to adapt to change and I believe this is a big reason for their "arrested development".
Good post.
This is what you want to believe....which actually has more to do with your own personal issues....than it does with the realities of bm!

Now here you are claiming that bm are somehow stuck in a state of arrested development...this is completely idiotic to a large degree!

Again...bm and bw both come from the very same environments,backgrounds and experiences!

So why would bw be any different than bm?

This is the very message that the white American media wants young bw to embrace and believe in...it is completely short sighted,biased and anti-bm to the core!

It does nothing more than attempt to overlook the realities of bm who do not fit the stereotyped generalization of bm and stigmatize bm in a general way!

If Proud sis is supporting this...then she's merely another confused bw,with personal issues and an agenda...that was created from outsiders!

Who hate to see us together!

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#699 Jun 18, 2013
IT IS I wrote:
A big shot out to Berriesgalore and Proud Sis.......
You two are kickin' azz !!!!
I could not have said it better myself !!!!!
@ Proud Sis:
You are so right about BW not putting the black community first when BM have an IR dating rate of 24% and climbing. Like you said, what group of people will continue to put themselves and their needs on the backburner to support another group who not only betrayed them, but continually denounces them ???
And I just loved it when you typed this:
Wake up!

*Black Men Ain’t Shit?
http://blackgirlsareeasy.com/2012/06/black-me...

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#700 Jun 19, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
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If Proud sis is supporting this...then she's merely another confused bw,with personal issues and an agenda...that was created from outsiders!
Who hate to see us together!
Supporting what? I'm not confused about anything..have no more or less and personal issues than the next person, and certainly no agenda..because it wouldn't benefit me either way.. my comment was clear..if BM have high IR..as they love to claim 24%(I always said that was said to be for one year of marriage)..there is no way they will convince BW to take a backseat and support the group..a collective "sacrifice" has to be made by "everyone" for the community..or it's not work..this is a fact we're not going to get past..no matter who wants their cake and eat it too..those days are simply over..

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#701 Jun 19, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>Supporting what? I'm not confused about anything..have no more or less and personal issues than the next person, and certainly no agenda..because it wouldn't benefit me either way.. my comment was clear..if BM have high IR..as they love to claim 24%(I always said that was said to be for one year of marriage)..there is no way they will convince BW to take a backseat and support the group..a collective "sacrifice" has to be made by "everyone" for the community..or it's not work..this is a fact we're not going to get past..no matter who wants their cake and eat it too..those days are simply over..
Agreed...but once again...most bm that are in relationships are in fact with bw...by choice not non-bw...this is a fact!

And tell me...when did bm ever state that 24% of us were dating or married out...when,where..in what media outlet...wasn't that the white male controlled media here in America...lets be precise shall we?

Again...communication is key to any successful relationship...of any sort...this means that both bm and bw have to actually listen to each other...more than we do outside sources!

How do white males and non-bm know what we bm want,value or consider to be of significance!

As a bm...I'm here to tell you that...nooo they don't speak for me...hell other individual bm don't speak for me...nor I for them...I speak for myself!

“Black Luv or Bust!”

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#702 Jun 19, 2013
Proud Sis wrote:
<quoted text>Supporting what? I'm not confused about anything..have no more or less and personal issues than the next person, and certainly no agenda..because it wouldn't benefit me either way.. my comment was clear..if BM have high IR..as they love to claim 24%(I always said that was said to be for one year of marriage)..there is no way they will convince BW to take a backseat and support the group..a collective "sacrifice" has to be made by "everyone" for the community..or it's not work..this is a fact we're not going to get past..no matter who wants their cake and eat it too..those days are simply over..
Nice thread so far...and I must say that it's nice to actually have a conversation with you!

But it's late here...I fell a sleep earlier until the Basketball game came on and I've been up ever since...I'll be watching this thread to see how it progresses!

Good night(at least for me)sweet dreams or enjoy the remainder of your day!

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#703 Jun 19, 2013
IT IS I wrote:
I agree with you. Attraction is a choice. I have heard people say many times "I'm just no longer attracted to him/her".
And attraction can be controlled like you said, hence the brainwashing of the American BM and this is why they think that a piece of white trash is a prize......especially since the media(T.V., Hollywood, magazines etc.....) became a part of American culture.
And when you said that BM were the only fools in the world who go out of their way to severe the natural bonds between them and the women of their own race, then have the audacity to try to get women of other races to break the bonds with their same race men..........THAT SHYT HIT HOME !!!
Because I have actually witnessed BM go to women of other races and demand that they "worship" while trying to convince these non-BW that they (BM)are better than their race of men (Loyalty).
My take on the subject is.."love" is always negotiable..and with seven billion people on this planet..there are always going to be options on the table...and with such easy access to human resources ..it creates a climate of unstableness in relationships (marriages/families/communitie s)....thus a lot of disloyalty...it boils down to having a moral code and standard..People wonder why my last few posts spoke of boundaries..is because people in general should respect them..especially BP towards each other (BM to BM, BW to BW, BM and BW towards each other)..then maybe just maybe ..we wouldn't be "wowing" @ someone like Moor's marriage..and it would be common..but we cannot have long lasting "black love" (including male to male, female to female friendship)if we're in constant "competition" with each other.."we" cannot even brag on a partner (like Moor can/does with his wife) without feeling utterly embarrassed when some random can "take" them or hold audience with them on a whim..I'm not perfect..especially if I'm in "revenge mode"..but when I'm out and about..I am have a sense of happiness when I see another BW being loved and she's happy with her man(and especially if there are children with them)..and he's spoiling her...I don't feel the need to measure myself up against her and scheme on how to "take" her man (really it's her happiness)..if anything..I would walk away wanting my own man (really happiness)..of course this isn't unique to BW or BP...but the point was about "Black loyalty" from genuine relationship to friendship..extending to a health community..

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#704 Jun 19, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
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Nice thread so far...and I must say that it's nice to actually have a conversation with you!
But it's late here...I fell a sleep earlier until the Basketball game came on and I've been up ever since...I'll be watching this thread to see how it progresses!
Good night(at least for me)sweet dreams or enjoy the remainder of your day!
It was a nice change for us :)
Hopefully we can continue to enjoy more conversations in the near future..
sleep well :)

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#705 Jun 19, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
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Agreed...but once again...most bm that are in relationships are in fact with bw...by choice not non-bw...this is a fact!
And tell me...when did bm ever state that 24% of us were dating or married out...when,where..in what media outlet...wasn't that the white male controlled media here in America...lets be precise shall we?
Again...communication is key to any successful relationship...of any sort...this means that both bm and bw have to actually listen to each other...more than we do outside sources!
How do white males and non-bm know what we bm want,value or consider to be of significance!
As a bm...I'm here to tell you that...nooo they don't speak for me...hell other individual bm don't speak for me...nor I for them...I speak for myself!
Good Post Mr. Moor...
I can agree that most BM/BW are together and by natural desires for each other and that a wedge is promoted to divide this....it's common to see a lot of anger @ happy black couples coming from all angles....this is from my personal observation..

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#706 Jun 19, 2013
Spit-Fire wrote:
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GIRLLLL...too many to name. My sis and group of girlfriends and I are foodies.
Paschals is a soul food joint-chicken fried hard like I like it, collards,mac n cheese, cornbread..banana pudding..HEAVEN
I go to my favorite food truck every Thursday. Im on a first name basis with the Mexican guys who own it...lol..they see me coming..dont even ask my order! Fish tacos (3) with seasame fries and a coke. BUMP!!!
My SPOT is Cafe Intermezzo. Its in Midtown right across from two really popular clubs(mainly black) doesnt close til 3 am. This place is packed always.
Great good, breakfast served anytime. When you walk in two huge dessert counters..one side cakes...the other cheesecake...you just dont know!
See this is where my MAC money is going....lololol
BTW, none of my homegirls and I are fat. I swear we all workout:)!!! Youll see when I do my vids.
There is still soul food joints? I'm happy to hear that..it seem to me that AA were getting away from that..of course I been disconnected for a hot minute, but that was what I've been lead to believe? If I'm ever in ATL..I will be checking it out..I googled it..so I know the location LOL
Enki

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#707 Jun 19, 2013
Spit-Fire wrote:
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"Chill out two or three generations and push education for the BM"......???? Well that is never going to happen, nor should it. BW are going to continue to press ahead and BM like are going to have to do the hard work of helping BM catch up.
Why should BW have to put themselves on hold? Why can't BM of today take the lead among these young men RIGHT NOW? If you want to lead...LEAD. Who is stopping you? There is no plausible reason for either gender to be put on hold for the other.
Progression and educational achievement can be pushed among BW and BM, as their respective genders also focus on the unique problems that are hampering each group.
I think you are dead on about one aspect. I do not know how many BW actually trust BM anymore. The abandonment of BW and children is too high to be ignored. I'm not sure that on a mass level BM can/will hold the line for BW.
This generation of men it seems have taken delight in doing the opposite. Too easily swayed.
When I say sisters need to chill is not to say sisters presently doing the damm thing to just sit down..

That's ludicrous and non-productive.I'm speaking of rearing our children going forth.Put a heavier emphasis on your males since they are the PRIMARY target of white supremacy.They have to have the knowledge and skills to adequately provide and protect not only you but themselves.Don't allow yet another generation of your daughters to have a poor quality of men to choose from.

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#709 Jun 19, 2013
Moorspeaks wrote:
*All that the so called black feminist movement will ever achieve is just what it has achieved with whites...division...btw wm and ww...this is the very cause of division btw them....and now bw blindly following ww,trying to be what they think is the thing to be....are so geared up to follow ww over the cliff!
Now mind you...I would be the first bm to admit that we need a balance of power btw bm and bw...it's a must...we need more communication,understanding of many things both internal and external around us...we're in a hostile environment and we must know this...but we have to learn to love,respect and value each other if we don't already!
Again...not all AA have to learn these things...because some of us are already there!
But the whole "Black Feminist Movement" is nothing more than a white influx of ideas and what will inevitably be poison for us as a race!
It's already torn white males and white females apart!
stfu sum of us dont want to be a slave to men...we did that already with wm...ww went through servitude with wm...and we sure in hell dont want to do tht wity your black azzez

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#710 Jun 19, 2013
emperorjohn wrote:
As a lliberal, I support the feminist movement
thanx babe
Enki

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#711 Jun 19, 2013
Mint cookies wrote:
<quoted text>stfu sum of us dont want to be a slave to men...we did that already with wm...ww went through servitude with wm...and we sure in hell dont want to do tht wity your black azzez
In this idiotic statement lies the seeds of black extermination.

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