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#1 Mar 18, 2013
Why be in a relationship if you cheating? It's way easier for a woman to find a man then for a man to find a woman so i know you can't be pressed. Sooo why do yall women cheat so much?

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#3 Mar 18, 2013
One reason is revenge.

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#4 Mar 18, 2013
They feel we deserve payback.
Others do it for fun.
I agree. They should just leave.

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#5 Mar 18, 2013
I would never cheat.
THX Slave Trader

Fort Lauderdale, FL

#7 Mar 18, 2013
It's a form of suicide. Blacks get HIV from hogs they Muh-Dihked and then pass it on to humans.
isnt she lovely

Tokyo, Japan

#8 Mar 18, 2013
sONE wrote:
I would never cheat.
We know, and that is a shame!!
Jesuslove

San Antonio, TX

#9 Mar 18, 2013
I don't cheat.

But just to ask

Generally, why do people cheat?
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Tampa, FL

#10 Mar 18, 2013
lol wrote:
Why be in a relationship if you cheating? It's way easier for a woman to find a man then for a man to find a woman so i know you can't be pressed. Sooo why do yall women cheat so much?
I wouldn't say all women, and anyway, if she is looking elsewhere, then something isn't right with the relationship.

Something that I always think crazy is when guys date a girl while she is already in a relationship. That alone says she is capable of cheating on the guy she is with, so what makes the new BF think she won't chest on him? It's like getting a dog that is known to bite and then be surprised when it bites you.

I've never had a woman cheat on me (that I'm aware of) and I have never cheated on them. I think sometimes a relationship hits a rough time and rather than work through it, they don't talk and so the look elsewhere for attention, and for sure girls seem to take longer before they decide to get comfort outside the relationship.

I've known guys that have been broken hearted when their woman left, one killed himself, yet most of them were quite happy to f uck someone outside the relationship.

From my experience it seems that a guy can easily ignore his commitment and thinks nothing wrong with boning a work colleague or some one at a bar, quite casually. Where as woman has more emotional commitment and so by the time she is getting it elsewhere, the relationship may as well be over.
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Tampa, FL

#12 Mar 18, 2013
Jesuslove wrote:
I don't cheat.
But just to ask
Generally, why do people cheat?
I think each cheating event is mostly unique, a combination of factors leads to cheating but from my life I'd say that guys live for that excitement that there is early in a relationship, all the hormones racing and the wonders of exploring a new body. I don't cheat but when a relationship ends and I get back into things again, I am fully aware of the excitement of 'unconquered territory'.

Whereas a woman , although she obviously still can be horny as fuq, tends to have more emotional attachment in a relationship, after all, biologically deep down she is seeking a mate, someone to father her kids and look after her and them.

Also convenience, for a guy to cheat and can just carry a few rubbers and really no one would ever know, especially when young, he could be f ucking a mistress and his lady twice a day anyway. A woman though, many guys don't use condoms so she has a mess to clear up, and that mess could be dripping into her panties for a few hours. I guess also that many women and men like the woman to be quite exposed, at least her breasts and c&nt, more inconvenience, but a guy could really just drop his zipper.

Guys don't need much arousal either, they can be ready for action in seconds, whereas many woman can take 20 minutes to an hour before they are ready, so for a woman to have an affair she needs to have more uninterrupted and private time away from her guy and home environment.
Jesuslove

San Antonio, TX

#13 Mar 18, 2013
no publicity please wrote:
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I think each cheating event is mostly unique, a combination of factors leads to cheating but from my life I'd say that guys live for that excitement that there is early in a relationship, all the hormones racing and the wonders of exploring a new body. I don't cheat but when a relationship ends and I get back into things again, I am fully aware of the excitement of 'unconquered territory'.
Whereas a woman , although she obviously still can be horny as fuq, tends to have more emotional attachment in a relationship, after all, biologically deep down she is seeking a mate, someone to father her kids and look after her and them.
Also convenience, for a guy to cheat and can just carry a few rubbers and really no one would ever know, especially when young, he could be f ucking a mistress and his lady twice a day anyway. A woman though, many guys don't use condoms so she has a mess to clear up, and that mess could be dripping into her panties for a few hours. I guess also that many women and men like the woman to be quite exposed, at least her breasts and c&nt, more inconvenience, but a guy could really just drop his zipper.
Guys don't need much arousal either, they can be ready for action in seconds, whereas many woman can take 20 minutes to an hour before they are ready, so for a woman to have an affair she needs to have more uninterrupted and private time away from her guy and home environment.
Hmmm, that makes sense. Thank you for that insightful answer.
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#15 Mar 19, 2013
^^ lol lol
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#16 Mar 19, 2013
Yea I think revenge is one of the main reasons. Some women crave the attention and some just want more than one. Thing is you a never know if she was. I think you can be faithful for months and years but at some point, one or the other will cheat. Is what it is.
ant deed

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#17 Mar 19, 2013
Hotlanta wrote:
You used the word ALL.
That's including everyone including your own mother.
Perhaps, you should drop the word "all".
And insert the term,"a large percentage of".
There's never a group where "ALL" does the same thing.
Humans are not made that way.
alot of AA women say all black men is no good and dont wanna work, i work at walmart and going today at 11:05, i drive around to different places and see alot of black men working, so all the black men who wants to raise a nice family and put his child first before anybody even before his mother or father, they get bashed by black women who use the sentence "all black men is no good" they and call them all broke and uneducated, thats called bashing your own race and putting a bad reputation out about your race thats just not healthy at all.
the crazy thing is i only see blacks in other states other then alabama doing that so idk whats going on.
ant deed

United States

#18 Mar 19, 2013
THX Slave Trader wrote:
It's a form of suicide. Blacks get HIV from hogs they Muh-Dihked and then pass it on to humans.
whites goes around having sex with farm animals and dogs, just the other day a white dude got rumors spreaded about him throughout the whole of montgomery cause people was talking bad about him, they had it all over facebook.
White guys also be prostituting AA women on porn sites, giving them money for it and stuff and they does it cause out of state AA women are that interested in some money, many AA guys makes they money by drug dealing and mexicans sell it to them.
If you ask me i think every needs to stop the black on black crime so black businesses in the black community can grow and grow america overally.
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#19 Mar 19, 2013
how about this....wait for it.......

maybe women are called bit*ches for a reason....maybe by nature they just want to get humped on. lol lol
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#20 Mar 19, 2013
And i guess some women may be faithful but I doubt it. At some point in one of yall relationships, all of you women have cheated. To me heating is anything you wouldn't do while your partner is there.
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#21 Mar 19, 2013
cheating*
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#22 Mar 19, 2013
It's funny because women don't like to admit that they cheat. Talk about of dudes like dogs when yall do the same thing.

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#23 Mar 19, 2013
lol wrote:
It's funny because women don't like to admit that they cheat. Talk about of dudes like dogs when yall do the same thing.
Are you a man or woman.
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#24 Mar 19, 2013
imma dude. dont get me wrong im not hating. just throwing it out there. ;)

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