Black muslim women and marriage...?

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Since: Nov 07

Small town, Ohio

#21 Mar 25, 2008
When I was an undergrad I attended a lecture given by an African-American muslim woman and was very surprised to hear that the divorce rate amongst AA muslim men and women was very high. I don't recall her giving an explanation for this, but I was astounded. Women still outnumber men so the epidemic for muslim women is the same as for all single women. Wanting to be married does not mean that you have to settle for less than you deserve.

Since: Sep 07

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#22 Mar 25, 2008
jayrag wrote:
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in places like Atlanta their is a large AA muslim community. but in other places the immigrant muslims are the majority. So if a AA wants to find an AA mate it is difficult in the immigrant muslim community.
But many muslim men do marry christian women.
Most muslims prefer to marry from witin their ethnic group. But if this isn't possible then its O.K. to marry a person of different race.
There is also a large AA Muslim population in Philly. My ex is muslim and we were considering marriage(it didn't work out for other reasons). But I have a question. Is it ok for a Muslim woman to marry a Christian man?
lionsden1hotmail couk

Warrington, UK

#23 Apr 15, 2008
Michelle wrote:
..it's hard for us all(black women)
As salamu alayk sister, i pray that you are well and in the best of health.
i'm a brother from Birmingham UK and masha Allah
i'm looking for a sister who will help me become closer to Allah.
I AM PARTICULARLY INTERESTED IN A BLACK SISTER WHO IS PRACTISING.
i'm 23, but very mature and at the same time playful and easy to get along with. Masha Allah i would sincerly like to get to know you better (in a halal way ofcourse!)
i am soft, kind, loving easy to get along with and i wish to teach and learn islam together with my wife
I'm a brother who follows the Quran and the Sunnah and understanding of the sahabah (companions) the best i
can in life. And i understand my roles as a husband, Alhamdullilah.
I am open minded and i dont mind if my wife wants to work, i dont want to keep her locked up in the house all day, i want her to be active and seek knowledge.
Its important to me that a woman keeps her self looking good for her husband and responds to him when he call her to bed and is passionate.
I can be a dominant charactor, and thats because a man is the one resopnsible in the house and he has been given this authority by Allah (swt) not so he can abuse it but to use it properly to maintain his wife with love and care.
Please feel free to contact me own the below email or send me a message.
my contact deatils are lions_den1 @ hotmail.co.uk
Thank you very much sister i really appreciate this.
ps. please reply back with your question and i wil answer them insha Allah
musmen

Poznan, Poland

#24 May 6, 2008
I find it very hard to find a afro-american muslima. I go to the mosque and the sisters i know want to play around just like any other woman outside of Islam. Its very difficult to find a good sister. If any of you know wheres the best site/city etc to find a good AFRO-AMERICAN muslima please post it.
salam
[email protected]
musmen

Poznan, Poland

#25 May 6, 2008
ps, im american studying abroad so my radius is broad but again i prefer afro-american.
musmen

Poznan, Poland

#26 May 6, 2008
njfashionista wrote:
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There is also a large AA Muslim population in Philly. My ex is muslim and we were considering marriage(it didn't work out for other reasons). But I have a question. Is it ok for a Muslim woman to marry a Christian man?
Marriage of unbelievers, Quran says (2:221).
abderrahman

Agadir, Morocco

#27 May 7, 2008
well i write here in hope to find a muslim woman for marriage .
i am a moroccan muslim man ; 44 years old but i look younger .
i speak arabic ,french ; english and a bit of russian language .
[email protected]
LONDONER

London, UK

#28 May 14, 2008
It diffiult for anybody to get married nowadays. All Muslims, from all ethnic backgrounds have problems finding spouses. The group I feel the mst sorry for are the converts because in here, in London, some feel like they're always ignored by their fellow Muslims. The Arabs hang with Arabs, the Pakistanis with Pakistanis, the Somalis with Somalis and Bengalis with Bengalis. Where ae they supposed to fit in? I'm not a covert myself but I really feel for them.
sumaya

Tanzania, United Republic of

#29 May 30, 2008
hi im abdillah amanzi living in tanzania im black men 31 old men looking the penpal friend for long term relatioship im happy with my life im single men
im not too tall or too short but im slim and average in length.

looking the lady for long term relashionship the lady can be from any country but can be slim ,average,petite not too big heavy age can be 17--28 with long hair or short but honest and chaming not racist because im black
my hobies is swimming,tarvel in parks,read novel and watching tv and sports
so please if your seriously keep in touch with me

my contacts

email [email protected]

abdillah amanzi
po box36277
tanzania
east africa

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amanzi

Tanzania, United Republic of

#30 May 30, 2008
hi im abdillah amanzi living in tanzania im black men 31 old men looking the penpal friend for long term relatioship im happy with my life im single men
im not too tall or too short but im slim and average in length.

looking the lady for long term relashionship the lady can be from any country but can be slim ,average,petite not too big heavy age can be 17--28 with long hair or short but honest and chaming not racist because im black
my hobies is swimming,tarvel in parks,read novel and watching tv and sports
so please if your seriously keep in touch with me

im living tanzania so please any interesting lady come to me but lady must be muslim in practice prayer five times per day

my contacts

email [email protected]

abdillah amanzi
po box36277
tanzania
east africa

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“somali coast”

Since: Apr 08

Arnhem, Gelderland

#31 May 30, 2008
This is not a online dating service.lol

but go ahead guys.
Mariam

Sturminster Newton, UK

#32 May 30, 2008
I see you have all made this thread an online marriage network lol! to the OP, dear sister, I think what you have spoken about may be specifically to the country and state you live. Here in the UK there is alot of interacial marriages and I do not personally know of any black sisters (specifically) finding it hard to get married. But as someone mentioned it may be more difficult for reverts (as a whole not just black reverts) due to the fact that they don't have a mahram (muslim father or brother who's upmost concern would be to find the best spouse for their daughter or sister) but rather a wali who is already married, probably has quite a fews sisters to help find spouses for and quite franknly lacks the time. So I think the issue is finding a good wali, who has a personal concern for you and the time to dedicate to helping you find the best spouse and not just the next brother who comes his way.
amanzi

Tanzania, United Republic of

#33 May 30, 2008
michelle responhi im abdillah amanzi living in tanzania im black men 31 old men looking the penpal friend for long term relatioship im happy with my life im single men
im not too tall or too short but im slim and average in length.

looking the lady for long term relashionship the lady can be from any country but can be slim ,average,petite not too big heavy age can be 17--28 with long hair or short but honest and chaming not racist because im black
my hobies is swimming,tarvel in parks,read novel and watching tv and sports
so please if your seriously keep in touch with me

my contacts

email [email protected]

abdillah amanzi
po box36277
tanzania
east africa

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d to me
TRUTH

Sand, Sweden

#34 May 30, 2008
here in europe alot african muslim women marry other muslim men from other nationalities. If two people are genuinly muslim- then nationality and ethnicity is not an obstacle, for they will be united in Islam

peace!
majid

Albany, NY

#35 Jun 9, 2008
There are no mates for an older muslim women but to look to the ex-con as a husband some of them a
are only muslim because they are lock up I would not let my daughter married them some jail house muslim are ok but a lot of them are not right and make Islam look bad mashallah.
majid

Albany, NY

#36 Jun 9, 2008
there are no men for any of us to have as a husband in Islam. be he in the world or in jail.
TRUTH

Sand, Sweden

#37 Jun 9, 2008
majid wrote:
There are no mates for an older muslim women but to look to the ex-con as a husband some of them a
are only muslim because they are lock up I would not let my daughter married them some jail house muslim are ok but a lot of them are not right and make Islam look bad mashallah.
Malcolm X was an ex-con.
Abderrahman

Agadir, Morocco

#38 Jun 15, 2008
no i am not agree with you , you know that in islam there is no diference between black and white so i can tell you that i could marry a black muslim sister if Allah wills ,i am a moroccan muslim man , aged of 44 years , well i tell you more when you contact me insha Allah so you can reach me at :[email protected]
Abderrahman
Abderrahman

Agadir, Morocco

#39 Jun 21, 2008
Assalamu alaikum .
i thank Allah who granted me this occasion to write this letter in hope to meet a muslim sister for marriage God willing .
i am a morocan muslim man , aged of 44 years but i look younger , my level : university 1st year level as law student but i did not complet my studies ; i speak arabic , french , english .
i am seperated and iam on the process to get the divorce paper indha Allah , i have no children but i would like to have them God willing .
my email address : [email protected]
may Allah bless you .
Abderrahman
naomi

Senegal

#40 Jul 1, 2008
[email protected]
Good Afternoon To You My Dear,
How Are You? Hoping And Believing you are fine?
My name is Naomi diop jonah,
I saw your profile today at .( http://www.topix.com/ ).. and fund you worthy to be mine as some one whom i can lay on his arms as long as love is concern, Again i will like you to inform me a litel about you,
If you are interested in knowing me. please contact me through,
( [email protected] )

I will be expecting your mail anytime from now, Have a very good day and take care,
Bye Bye For Now,
Naomi Jonah,

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