What if you find your soulmate/twin f...

What if you find your soulmate/twin flame

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#1 Feb 7, 2013
And they're not physically attractive. would that matter? Not to me.

AgentSmith9

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#2 Feb 7, 2013
Is it even possible to find your soul mate unattractive???

I think there's a connection between the soul and the mind that wouldn't allow this to take place.

I guess it all depends on how you operate and how much of yourself is governed by the different aspects of you. I'm governed by the soul first, so a persons inner being usually is what I base their attractiveness / ugliness on.

I am however still fully aware of the physical and mental, just not dictated by it more than the soul/ spiritual.

I do however appreciate a woman that is good all around like 1inamil, and a few others her... Blackreign, ISW etc..

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#3 Feb 7, 2013
AgentSmith9 wrote:
Is it even possible to find your soul mate unattractive???
I think there's a connection between the soul and the mind that wouldn't allow this to take place.
I agree.

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#4 Feb 7, 2013
It's possible to be connected but not physically attracted. Be realistic. Your soulmate doesn't mean youll be physically attracted to that person. And If by some rare chance you find your twin flame which is an even deeper connection you might not even get along because you mirror one another or might be on different paths.

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#5 Feb 7, 2013
sONE wrote:
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I agree.
Thanks, soul mates are definitely some deep stuff to discuss.

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#6 Feb 7, 2013
Aziya Shines wrote:
And they're not physically attractive. would that matter? Not to me.
kind of.. Lol

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#7 Feb 7, 2013
AgentSmith9 wrote:
Is it even possible to find your soul mate unattractive???
I think there's a connection between the soul and the mind that wouldn't allow this to take place.
I guess it all depends on how you operate and how much of yourself is governed by the different aspects of you. I'm governed by the soul first, so a persons inner being usually is what I base their attractiveness / ugliness on.
I am however still fully aware of the physical and mental, just not dictated by it more than the soul/ spiritual.
I do however appreciate a woman that is good all around like 1inamil, and a few others her... Blackreign, ISW etc..
im sure lots of girls look past ur ugly look.. Cause u treat them good.. Smiles..
Cap Black

Huntsville, AL

#8 Feb 7, 2013
Aziya Shines wrote:
It's possible to be connected but not physically attracted. Be realistic. Your soulmate doesn't mean youll be physically attracted to that person. And If by some rare chance you find your twin flame which is an even deeper connection you might not even get along because you mirror one another or might be on different paths.
Interesting. You being a Libra,relationships ae very important to you.
Libra rules the 7th house(marriage/partners),the house that shows what you seek in a marriage partner. It reprisents the unconscious part of you that you aren't aware of,but project it on your mate.Your partner/spouse etc is really helping you reveal things about yourself. Yours is in pisces,the sign that can love someone for thier heart and on not looks. This is why they say pisces can sometimes be dreamy,or look at things with rose-colored glasses,or through the eyes of love ; )
None ya

Atlanta, GA

#9 Feb 7, 2013
i dnt know wtf a soul mate is lol . can someone explain?
Cap Black

Huntsville, AL

#10 Feb 7, 2013
Im a man,i have to be at least be visually attracted to you some kind of way. But its the personality that keeps me. Pretty faces and nice @sses come a dime a dozen. I like a women that Stimuates my Intellect : )

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#11 Feb 7, 2013
None ya wrote:
i dnt know wtf a soul mate is lol . can someone explain?
being a hoodrat hoe.. Ur soul mate b a getthoe pimp..

AgentSmith9

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#12 Feb 7, 2013
Aziya Shines wrote:
It's possible to be connected but not physically attracted. Be realistic. Your soulmate doesn't mean youll be physically attracted to that person. And If by some rare chance you find your twin flame which is an even deeper connection you might not even get along because you mirror one another or might be on different paths.
To be realistic, we would have to examine the entire soul mate concept. It's possible that it really doesn't even exist, or that someone could feel and believe that a particular person is their soul mate and the other person feel the exact opposite.

Over the years I've had at least 10 different beautiful women believe that I was their soul mate, and maybe 1 or 2 I felt the same way about as well.

If anything, I believe there's possibly a soul plain... A certain level that like individuals exist on... And the women I considered potential soulmates any other males they felt this way about would consider any of the other females I've considered soul mates..soul mates as well...and vice versa.

I also believe that "we" are in a constant state of change and your soul mate today.... Might not be your soul mate tomorrow.

Lots of things to think about.

I also believe that regardless of the woman, if me and her spent a week together, she would eventually fall in love with me and consider me as her soulmate. I tend to have that effect on women.

I am not the only person who has the effect either, I've met others before that were this way. 1 thing we all had in common is that we didn't seem to care to much for people in general socially, but people were/are desperately attracted to us.
None ya

Atlanta, GA

#13 Feb 7, 2013
soman shut ya dumb azz up, dont even reply.

can someone else give me their definition of soul mate? has anyone found their soul mate and how you know its your soul mate?

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#14 Feb 7, 2013
AgentSmith9 wrote:
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To be realistic, we would have to examine the entire soul mate concept. It's possible that it really doesn't even exist, or that someone could feel and believe that a particular person is their soul mate and the other person feel the exact opposite.
Over the years I've had at least 10 different beautiful women believe that I was their soul mate, and maybe 1 or 2 I felt the same way about as well.
If anything, I believe there's possibly a soul plain... A certain level that like individuals exist on... And the women I considered potential soulmates any other males they felt this way about would consider any of the other females I've considered soul mates..soul mates as well...and vice versa.
I also believe that "we" are in a constant state of change and your soul mate today.... Might not be your soul mate tomorrow.
Lots of things to think about.
I also believe that regardless of the woman, if me and her spent a week together, she would eventually fall in love with me and consider me as her soulmate. I tend to have that effect on women.
I am not the only person who has the effect either, I've met others before that were this way. 1 thing we all had in common is that we didn't seem to care to much for people in general socially, but people were/are desperately attracted to us.
ha ha ha ha u could have said 20 supermodels.. Dont limit ur fantasies ha ha ha ha ha

AgentSmith9

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#15 Feb 7, 2013
None ya wrote:
i dnt know wtf a soul mate is lol . can someone explain?
Lol, it's what ever you want it to be. Your soul, your rules, your mate :)

That's the beautiful thing about life, so many things are relative. You are your reality.

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#16 Feb 7, 2013
Samoan Irish wrote:
<quoted text>kind of.. Lol
at least you're honest.

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#17 Feb 7, 2013
Cap Black wrote:
<quoted text>Interesting. You being a Libra,relationships ae very important to you.
Libra rules the 7th house(marriage/partners),the house that shows what you seek in a marriage partner. It reprisents the unconscious part of you that you aren't aware of,but project it on your mate.Your partner/spouse etc is really helping you reveal things about yourself. Yours is in pisces,the sign that can love someone for thier heart and on not looks. This is why they say pisces can sometimes be dreamy,or look at things with rose-colored glasses,or through the eyes of love ; )
yes that's true. I like a man with a good heart ;)
him being handsome helps too tho lol

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#18 Feb 7, 2013
AgentSmith9 wrote:
<quoted text>Lol, it's what ever you want it to be. Your soul, your rules, your mate :)

That's the beautiful thing about life, so many things are relative. You are your reality.
no it's not. Smh

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#19 Feb 7, 2013
Samoan Irish wrote:
<quoted text>being a hoodrat hoe.. Ur soul mate b a getthoe pimp..
be nice.

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#20 Feb 7, 2013
Cap Black wrote:
Im a man,i have to be at least be visually attracted to you some kind of way. But its the personality that keeps me. Pretty faces and nice @sses come a dime a dozen. I like a women that Stimuates my Intellect :)
stimulate an intellect like yours...that's a big task. ;)

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