You sound like a fck boy cry baby.I dont think it has so much to do with any other persons so-called "swag",but more to do with you being a self-hating johny apple seed corn ball fruit cake.<quoted text>
Nah, you got it all wrong. If a woman wants to be treated with respect she can "signal" this desire to the world in how she carries herself.
There are plenty of respectable black men out there. They just are considered lames, pussies, squares etc by a lot of black women. These men feel undervalued by black women (and often times, rightfully so) and it is generally these men that decide to marry white women.
Isn't that sad? That a black man who demolishes stereotypes, builds his own little American Dream, career, good life, etc, leaps over obstacle after obstacle often times has to go to a white woman just to get the respect and admiration he feel he has EARNED (notice I said earned, I didn't say entitled to, or demanded, etc)?
Meanwhile, Ray-Ray has swagger. He beat up some dude last week who owed him $20. He always smells like weed. He wears wife-beaters as his OUTER shirt and his pants are sagging. But you start giggling and getting submissive like a 10 year old girl whenever he is around.
I know plenty of black men who would be considered a "square" in the streets who have no problem getting women.