Any other black guys here dislike lig...
Cigar Face

United States

#24 Sep 29, 2013
APV wrote:
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Young? How old do you think I am??
Your a very attractive young looking woman! I would say about 19 or 20, black women never look their original age. That is you in that moniker??

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#25 Sep 29, 2013
I don't dislike them, my preference with BW has always been dark skinned. It was tough though a lot of BW have low self esteem issues. I will say light skinned BW have more confidence than dark skinned BW.

APV

“You were saying about bp aging”

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#26 Sep 29, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
<quoted text>Your a very attractive young looking woman! I would say about 19 or 20, black women never look their original age. That is you in that moniker??
Yes, I am aging gracefully...Mahalo.

Yes, I'm not the type that puts another person's picture up...don't see the point.

Doesn't moniker mean name???
Cigar Face

United States

#27 Sep 29, 2013
APV wrote:
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Yes, I am aging gracefully...Mahalo.
Yes, I'm not the type that puts another person's picture up...don't see the point.
Doesn't moniker mean name???
Actually..it does mean name or something that proves who you are. Have you ever been to Tampa Florida? Would you visit it?

APV

“You were saying about bp aging”

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#28 Sep 29, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
<quoted text>Actually..it does mean name or something that proves who you are. Have you ever been to Tampa Florida? Would you visit it?
Yeah, I've been to FL a bunch of times to Orlando and Bush Gardens in Tampa. My folks use to take me and my sisters there for summer vacations when we were younger. My job also flew me out there for training so 2012 was the last time I was there.
Cigar Face

United States

#29 Sep 29, 2013
APV wrote:
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Yeah, I've been to FL a bunch of times to Orlando and Bush Gardens in Tampa. My folks use to take me and my sisters there for summer vacations when we were younger. My job also flew me out there for training so 2012 was the last time I was there.
I live here inTampa. What kind of training, or work you do?

APV

“You were saying about bp aging”

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#30 Sep 29, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
<quoted text>I live here inTampa. What kind of training, or work you do?
HR

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#32 Sep 30, 2013
GrouchoMarxist wrote:
<quoted text>You're so dumb I almost didn't even respond, but,
http://models.teenyb.com/galleries/irena/micr...
....I want everyone to see how wrong and racist your dumBlackass actually is.
There's no such thing, though, as "light white" and "dark white". You pathetic coloreds are the only ones that obsessed with skin color.
And I know you don't click links....because you can't face reality, so save the wimpering, it's not for you. Like I said, it's for everyone else,....to laugh at your stupidity over.
Lol did I upset you.

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#33 Sep 30, 2013
Take your neanderthal links to those who actually care...your forums are as empty as your brain lmao.. need a tissue?
bohogamy

Ashburn, VA

#34 Sep 30, 2013
no blk women in general have problems light or blk. They got the same macho characteristics in attitude.
Cigar Face

United States

#35 Sep 30, 2013
APV wrote:
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HR
You must be a" VIP" for them to fly you way out here for training?
Albert B

Walsall, UK

#37 Sep 30, 2013
APV wrote:
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I don't use colorism to attack another black cause I know how deep those words cut. But that's just me...
From what I've heard with my ears and seen with my eyes, the only people who use colorism to attack other blacks are black girls who identify as light skinned. I say identify, because you get black girls who would fall under light skin but hey don't use those labels. Some half black girls do as well... When they're using their "I'm black" card.

APV

“You were saying about bp aging”

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#38 Sep 30, 2013
Albert B wrote:
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From what I've heard with my ears and seen with my eyes, the only people who use colorism to attack other blacks are black girls who identify as light skinned. I say identify, because you get black girls who would fall under light skin but hey don't use those labels. Some half black girls do as well... When they're using their "I'm black" card.
From my experiences it comes from both sides.
Albert B

Walsall, UK

#40 Oct 1, 2013
APV wrote:
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From my experiences it comes from both sides.
I'm only saying what I've experienced. I've read online from girls who identify as being light skinned that they were attacked by darker women, but I've never seen or heard anything close to this personally. In fact, what I've seen is that darker black girls idolise these light skinned girls and constantly compliment them.
But then the light skinned girls will take advantage of this and use colorism to attack them.

My current girlfriend identifies as light skinned. I don't even really know what light skinned is (how light do you have to be to be light skinned? And how can you be light skinned if you're darker than real light aka white people?) because to me all of that is just slave culture, but she has made me aware that I'm dark and she's light, because her skin tone and dark people bleaching their skin is one her favourite subjects

From my experience light skinned girls are the wrong doers, but it's not entirely their fault... It's because they have huge egos because self hating black people put them on pedestals.
Albert B

Walsall, UK

#41 Oct 1, 2013
My girlfriend seems to think I prefer light skinned girls over darker ones, but this isn't true. I had the longest crush ever on this darker black girl I wasn't ready to date.
When I was finally ready to date she had gained a little weight and wasn't sexy anymore.
Albert B

Walsall, UK

#42 Oct 1, 2013
I once had to work with a few black guys (I mostly work with non blacks) and they constantly used to put black women down praise light skinned and mixed women.
I'm guessing this behavior is common in black communities ( I don't live with one and most of my friends aren't black) and it's behavior like this that goes to girls who identify as light skinned heads and makes them arrogant.

Like I said, I don't blame light skinned girls but black people in general. Black people are a mess I think.

APV

“You were saying about bp aging”

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#43 Oct 1, 2013
GrouchoMarxist wrote:
<quoted text>...until you got FIRED for slacking on Topix all day and stealing your pay like a typical affirmative-action quota hire....
If that's what you wanna believe to help you sleep at night, knock yourself out (literally)...but then again how can I afford to live here while you stay in a trailor park. Hmmm

BTW-HI doesn't have AA as we are the most diverse State in the country...imbecile! Good job at smacking and ignoring = FAILURE

LMBAO
Albert B wrote:
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I'm only saying what I've experienced. I've read online from girls who identify as being light skinned that they were attacked by darker women, but I've never seen or heard anything close to this personally. In fact, what I've seen is that darker black girls idolise these light skinned girls and constantly compliment them.
But then the light skinned girls will take advantage of this and use colorism to attack them.
My current girlfriend identifies as light skinned. I don't even really know what light skinned is (how light do you have to be to be light skinned? And how can you be light skinned if you're darker than real light aka white people?) because to me all of that is just slave culture, but she has made me aware that I'm dark and she's light, because her skin tone and dark people bleaching their skin is one her favourite subjects
From my experience light skinned girls are the wrong doers, but it's not entirely their fault... It's because they have huge egos because self hating black people put them on pedestals.
IMO, your girlfriend sounds like she's the one with the complex.

Lightskinned has been traditionally defined as a complexion being lighter than a brown paper bag. I also fall under that category but tend to love my complexion better when it's tanned (one of the many benefits living out here). I, personally, think brown and dark skin tones are gorgeous but attraction really matters on features. There are some butt ugly light skinned males and females and some drop dead gorgeous dark skinned males and females. Just because one is light skinned doesn't mean they are attractive. She'll learn that the hard way when she gets older and her attitude is no longer seen as cute.

But in regards to the wrong doers (as you put it) both sides are equally to blame and that's what the slave masters wanted...fighting amongst ourselves. Those who are dumb enough to continue the colorism in 2013 still have slave mentalities. Poor lost souls...

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Oakland

#44 Mar 13, 2014
Another post bout light skin people lmao

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#45 Mar 13, 2014
I have no issue with light skinned Black women. I prefer my Black women brown skinned versus light skinned but to each their own.

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#46 Mar 13, 2014
A light skinned female said she was glad to be mixed I was like wtf?

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