Soul mates don't exist

AgentSmith9

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#43 Feb 16, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
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You don't understand what I am saying. I'm not saying that I don't love the other guy, I am just saying that the circumstances surrounding the situation with him isn't as deep as the one with the other guy. Don't make me out to be an a**hole.
I'm not making you out to be anything. This is all you.

AgentSmith9

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#44 Feb 16, 2013
All1234 wrote:
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This sounds a little similar to the argument that atheists make wanting someone else to prove that God exists.
When you haven't experienced something, you cannot comprehend it. But once you have, it changes everything.
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But if your 'soulmate' was chosen by God, how can there be anything greater for you? Maybe the reason that most people haven't experienced falling in love with their 'soulmate' is because they are looking for them without God.
I see what you are saying, but that just isn't possible. I know women and men that feel like every relationship that they have was built by God. Even ones following ones they had that failed.

The soulmate/ Twinflame thing is all a bunch of nothing.

AgentSmith9

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#45 Feb 16, 2013
Urag Gortwog wrote:
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I dont believe I have a soul mate.
However I think some people do.
Im 24 and destined to spend most of my time alone.
However I think some people are made for eachother and this is true because my parents and grandparents have been happy, married and faithful most of their lives.
That's an interesting take on things. Sadly, none of you probably have soul mates.

And you're 24, you're not even who you are going to be the rest of your life yet. I think your dominant personality will kick in around the age 28.. more than likely it will be like night and day from who you are now.

AgentSmith9

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#46 Feb 16, 2013
Redefined wrote:
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I believe in soulmates BUT IMO soulmates isn't limited to romantic relationships like some may believe. The relationships we experience can range from very mild to intense. Relationships that are very intense or deep are seen as a soulmate. Now why are relationships deeper or more intense with certain individuals is the same as why we are attracted to certain individuals. This is a mystery that even scientists can't map because it's so complex.
It's always a pleasure to read your posts Redefined because even though I may not agree, you always manage to make me think..

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#47 Feb 17, 2013
AgentSmith9 wrote:
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So basically we build this person that meets all of our needs, when in reality the actual person is nothing like it.
Yep.
The person is probably an ex con, on disability with HIV living in the Carolinas... Black Americas HIV/AIDS Capitol.

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#48 Feb 17, 2013
AgentSmith9 wrote:
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Hi DragonPat.
I think a lot of that is in the mind. It's the same with online relationships. When we see/interact briefly with these people that leaves about 99% of our perception of them to be created in our minds.
So basically we build this person that meets all of our needs, when in reality the actual person is nothing like it.
the attraction was INTENSE, PASSIONATE AND INSTANT! i never felt that way about a man almost off sight! it wasn't that he was so fine....there was something about him; let i met him before in another time.

i was making nothing up in my mind about what he could have been to me. it was much deeper than that.

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#49 Feb 17, 2013
Queen_Nefertari wrote:
Soul mates are very real its just that people don't undersA Soul Mate may be either male or female. He/she will enter your life for varied reasons; to teach, assist, support, or help you achieve a mission; influence your hopes and dreams; or gain knowledge from you.
The Soul Mate encounter can be either positive or negative; joyful or painful; but one thing is certain – the experience will be one of growth mentally, emotionally, or spiritually
tand who and what they are.
And here is something that too many people may not no about Th twin flame and the twin soul.
The Twin Flame can only be of the opposite sex. He/she enters your life for the sole purpose of expressing, giving, and sharing the ultimate joy – LOVE!
The Twin Flame encounter is not without its trials and tribulations, however, it does overcome any obstacle! It is a compatible union on all four levels mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually.
Soul mates and Twin flames are two words that are often confused when it comes to their meanings. One of the primary differences between soul mates and twin flames is that one can have many soul mates, but one can have only one twin flame.
You cannot have a soul mate that is determined by cosmic force. It can only be said that the energies between the two persons is instrumental in bringing them close together. There is a wrong conception that soul mates have everything to do about love. It is not true. Soul mates are not about love always.
It is important to know that a soul mate is not always a human being of the opposite sex. It can be your father, brother, the pet in your home, the book that has guided you and the like. You call somebody or something your soul mate since you feel you cannot live without him or her or it.
To be blessed with a soul mate is like developing a bond that cannot be easily cut. Twin flames (or known as twin souls or twin rays), is the other half of a person’s soul.
I hope this has hepled you some :)
http://harusami.com/soul2soul/twinsoul.html
Interesting thread..

AgentSmith9

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#51 Feb 23, 2013
dragonpat wrote:
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the attraction was INTENSE, PASSIONATE AND INSTANT! i never felt that way about a man almost off sight! it wasn't that he was so fine....there was something about him; let i met him before in another time.
i was making nothing up in my mind about what he could have been to me. it was much deeper than that.
It was all lust baby :)

AgentSmith9

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#52 Feb 23, 2013
Dinie wrote:
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Interesting thread..
Hi Dinie :) You don't believe in this crazy stuff do you?

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#53 Feb 28, 2013
AgentSmith9 wrote:
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It was all lust baby :)
Co sign ;)

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#54 Mar 12, 2013
anymore intelligent thoughts?

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#55 Mar 12, 2013
my soul mate is cowvan even though I'm having a baby by another man

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#57 Mar 23, 2013
AgentSmith9 wrote:
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Hi Dinie :) You don't believe in this crazy stuff do you?
There might be some truth in it.. There are people who have been together for years,think alike,etc and even drop dead soon after their partner has died.. I don't think its coincidence..I think some people really do have deep and spiritual connections in life.. Might be with more than one person though.. Lover,friend,etc,any connection..

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#58 Mar 23, 2013
I dont believe in soul mates sorry.

I used to when i was a teenager.

but now...i believe in work.

relationships that work and relationships that require work.

thats it.

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#59 Mar 23, 2013
I loved this post, it was very beautiful. I believe that two people (spiritual beings) can have a close connection. Such as a best friend, or special mate.:)

But, as far as love. I believe love is a choice. Just like Jesus chose to love us.

You can have a deep connection with someone, but not love them. I hope that makes sense. I could be very wrong.

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#60 Mar 23, 2013
Jeri is Not Dead wrote:
I dont believe in soul mates sorry.
but now...i believe in work.
relationships that work and relationships that require work.
thats it.
I agree. When you have two people that are willing to work to be together. That can be beautiful.

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#61 Mar 23, 2013
i still think soul mates are real and that we run into people we loved in past lives...that why we may have a strong instant attraction or aversion to a particular person...particularily of the opposite sex.

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#62 Mar 23, 2013
Jeri is Not Dead wrote:
I dont believe in soul mates sorry.
I used to when i was a teenager.
but now...i believe in work.
relationships that work and relationships that require work.
thats it.
Simple answer that says so much, Agree.

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#63 Mar 23, 2013
EboneJay wrote:
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I agree. When you have two people that are willing to work to be together. That can be beautiful.
Yes and uplift each other.
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#64 Mar 23, 2013
EboneJay wrote:
I loved this post, it was very beautiful. I believe that two people (spiritual beings) can have a close connection. Such as a best friend, or special mate.:)
But, as far as love. I believe love is a choice. Just like Jesus chose to love us.
You can have a deep connection with someone, but not love them. I hope that makes sense. I could be very wrong.
Love is a choice. We choose who we want to love, absolutely agree.

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