Why do BM find it so disparaging to n...

Why do BM find it so disparaging to not have a Mate.

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#1 Oct 2, 2013
Time and time again both online and in real life, the go to insult or negative assumption is to assume a person does not have a man or woman. Sure, being mateless might be lonely, or you may not get sexual gratification from another, but why is that considered akin to ignominy to so many? In fact, perhaps if BM first attempted friendships with their target/ object of their desire, there would be less harassment, assault, rape, OOW kids and better relationships. Shouldn't the ignominy be not being able to take care of all of the children, often with a mate they no longer get along with?

Caveat: my bringing light to this topic doesn't imply anything about my personal life so no need to assume or insult.
Spit-Fiyah

Montgomery, AL

#2 Oct 2, 2013
why do bw pucci,azz and breathe always stink?

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#3 Oct 2, 2013
Spit-Fiyah wrote:
why do bw pucci,azz and breathe always stink?
Come on, quit with the immaturity and provide productive responses and questions.
Paki guy bangin bw

Hicksville, NY

#4 Oct 2, 2013
It's because blacks are hyper and loud as hell naturally and need someone to keep them company and since ww are easy as hell they just grab it with ease and dip their faces in her cvnt.
Spit-Fiyah

Montgomery, AL

#5 Oct 2, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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Come on, quit with the immaturity and provide productive responses and questions.
thats an honest question and something i cant understand.why are bw this way?were your mothers too bust selling themselves(and you)for drugs ect to teach bw proper hygeine?
correct me if i am wrong but i think many many other topix member touched on this subject also.

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#6 Oct 2, 2013
Paki guy bangin bw wrote:
It's because blacks are hyper and loud as hell naturally and need someone to keep them company and since ww are easy as hell they just grab it with ease and dip their faces in her cvnt.
That doesn't get to the actual implication why a standard insult is to say the person doesn't have a man/ woman.

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#7 Oct 2, 2013
Spit-Fiyah wrote:
<quoted text>thats an honest question and something i cant understand.why are bw this way?were your mothers too bust selling themselves(and you)for drugs ect to teach bw proper hygeine?
correct me if i am wrong but i think many many other topix member touched on this subject also.
I see. Please create a separate thread addressing that and answer my question.
Paki guy bangin bw

Hicksville, NY

#8 Oct 2, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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That doesn't get to the actual implication why a standard insult is to say the person doesn't have a man/ woman.
Basically bm are really outgoing so they get astr to keep themselves occupied.
Paki guy bangin bw

Hicksville, NY

#9 Oct 2, 2013
Paki guy bangin bw wrote:
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Basically bm are really outgoing so they get astr to keep themselves occupied.
So they get *a mate*

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#10 Oct 2, 2013
Paki guy bangin bw wrote:
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Basically bm are really outgoing so they get astr to keep themselves occupied.
That still doesn't explain why attacking someone by assuming their mateless is an insult. Using your logic, is the implication, if you don't have a mate you are not outgoing?

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#11 Oct 2, 2013
Paki guy bangin bw wrote:
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So they get *a mate*
Outgoing and occupied have no correlation. Please explain.
Cigar Face

United States

#12 Oct 2, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
Time and time again both online and in real life, the go to insult or negative assumption is to assume a person does not have a man or woman. Sure, being mateless might be lonely, or you may not get sexual gratification from another, but why is that considered akin to ignominy to so many? In fact, perhaps if BM first attempted friendships with their target/ object of their desire, there would be less harassment, assault, rape, OOW kids and better relationships. Shouldn't the ignominy be not being able to take care of all of the children, often with a mate they no longer get along with?
Caveat: my bringing light to this topic doesn't imply anything about my personal life so no need to assume or insult.
The world world is too wicked true love.
Spit-Fiyah

Montgomery, AL

#13 Oct 2, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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I see. Please create a separate thread addressing that and answer my question.
omg thats another thing.why are bw so mean and bossy towards bm?

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#14 Oct 2, 2013
Spit-Fiyah wrote:
<quoted text>omg thats another thing.why are bw so mean and bossy towards bm?
Create your own thread and stick to topic here.

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#15 Oct 2, 2013
Because they think that it means you are no desirable. Black men aren't the only one's who think this way. Anyone with this mindset are akin to believe that if you are not dating and such then it means you are not wanted by anybody. What they fail to realize is that just because you are not in any type of relationship doesn't mean that the opposite sex does not find you attractive or that people are not approaching you or wanting a relationship with you. These people are not very smart and don't think outside the box. In their eyes you need to prove yourself to them to get their approval. They feel powerless therefore they seek out someone who they feel that should prove themselves otherwise they will pressure you about something that they really don't know anything about.

“What do the stars say......”

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#16 Oct 2, 2013
Correction: Anyone with this mindset believe that if you are not dating and such then it means you are not wanted by anybody.
Cigar Face

United States

#17 Oct 2, 2013
Cigar Face wrote:
<quoted text>The world world is too wicked true love.
Correctio....The world is too wicked for true love. Kindness is seen as weaknes By the blackwoman you want to marry. Sooooo the disrespecting and hate begin. She will use anything as an excuse to look down on you. In the end.. she says it' all your fault.
Spit-Fiyah

Montgomery, AL

#18 Oct 2, 2013
TimeforHonesty wrote:
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Create your own thread and stick to topic here.
omg again.you are a nasty,mean,bad attitude sherilla.
Spit-Fiyah

Montgomery, AL

#19 Oct 2, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
Because they think that it means you are no desirable. Black men aren't the only one's who think this way. Anyone with this mindset are akin to believe that if you are not dating and such then it means you are not wanted by anybody. What they fail to realize is that just because you are not in any type of relationship doesn't mean that the opposite sex does not find you attractive or that people are not approaching you or wanting a relationship with you. These people are not very smart and don't think outside the box. In their eyes you need to prove yourself to them to get their approval. They feel powerless therefore they seek out someone who they feel that should prove themselves otherwise they will pressure you about something that they really don't know anything about.
thats a lie you dumb water headed ho.bm arent the only ones and also we see this day to day especially with trash like you who cant get and keep a man and try to sabotage our relationships and trying to plants seeds in the heads of other women(and even men).yes,you are very very undesired!!!!!!!!!!
what is the only race of animals who go on national tv ect and complain about not having men of ANY RACE?you filthy nighur btchs thats who.

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#20 Oct 2, 2013
All men want a sex slave

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