I am concerned about myself in the real world. But online I have a right to teach and to vent. It needs to be irreversibly burned into EVERY BM to NEVER look at any WW nor approach her nor date her. When they do that, I will be able to mind my own business. But they speak to me with their incompatible culture and try to force themselves on me. They need to understand that most WW have their lives perfectly as they want them and don't need outside interference nor help.<quoted text>
Why don't you grow the brains to be concerned about yourself and leave other people's business alone?
If you are so into your own race then BE in your own race, and stay the off the African American Forum. You can't even do THAT can you?
When it comes sexual matters, EVERYONE is supposed to be interested in their own race. God made WW ONLY for WM and BW for BM, and intended us to live separate cultures. Sure, get along together, work together, don't discriminate, but have distinct cultures.
None of my feelings on this contradict my involvement online. I KNOW I am in the AA forum since that is where AA men are to be able to preach to them. What EVERY WW does IS my business, since EVERY WW who dates a BM is TRASH. WM have the UNIVERSAL moral right to have their pick of WM with NO outside competition. I have the right to live my life with NO BM trying to interact with me socially beyond what is necessary for work and survival. I found their entire culture and condescending, patronizing way of relating to others and treating them like they are stupid to be a turnoff. A BM should notice right off that I am a WW, that I am alone in my own world where I like it, that I don't need him, that I have my life precisely as I want it, and to simply look the other way. Maybe say hello, but not ask questions nor act like they own me.
I sometimes run into clashes with BW, but they don't try to date me. My problem is how some want to control their friends and "care" about them like they own them. What I eat, what I wear, my health, my safety, and every least thing I do is solely my business, and nobody has a right to notice, and most WP around here respect me enough to stay out of my life, let me run it, and never try to get close. Being my friend is easy. Just help me when I ask, and no more. In White culture, everyone minds their own business more and ONLY cares about the welfare of those they have a right to know - ie., parents, authority figures, chosen friends, and fellow members of your own culture. Everyone else is free to have their own culture, live their lives, mind their business, and have full personal and cultural autonomy as separate units.
So why am I here? An old adage says, "The best defense is a good offense." So if BM are abusing me and my sisters by approaching us, the best way to handle it is to meet them on their turf first, not keep retreating as our own territory gets smaller and smaller. When a BM is with a WW, it is ALWAYS a political statement (just like the N-word is nearly always a political statement). So I won't go away. I will explain myself until you all get it. All I want is the freedom to go outside in my town and do business without BM and HM desperately approaching me. They should just say hello, and then go on about their business as if they never saw me, and never expect me to remember having seen them. Just treat everyone as self-contained adults who already have their own family and friends, and who have their own culture. Nobody has a right to care for me, and I don't want anyone to do that. I just want left alone in the real world so I can call every shot in my life and have the privilege of being the only one who "cares" about me. But so many BP come up to me and pretend I can't take care of myself and want to boss me around or force help on me I don't want nor need. WP do it too, but much less. So I cannot expect BP to know how to treat me if I don't tell them.