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Phoenix

Houston, TX

#153 Feb 16, 2013
Matthew_1 wrote:
<quoted text>Agreed, White women in western society dont realize how good they have it compared to other women.
I hope all is well with you and your loved ones.

I think Americans have it better here than other people do.
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#154 Feb 16, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
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Ok but homely WW need love too, so chill out with that.
Why do some people act like non-beautiful people shouldn't get laid?? That doesn't make sense to me.
WOW defensive huh? That was never implied and Its just that BM play the garbage man role to every other group in the world. The pick up everyone's trash and act is if they've won some trophy of sorts LMAO! They wouldn't look at a BW that was as equally unattractive as the WW they choose. Even wealthy BM like White hags. That is inferiority at its best....
uk black

UK

#156 Feb 16, 2013
Lets take a chronological look at Halle Berry one of the best looking black women in the game....

Publicly says she finished with black men, finds a 'broke' white man Gabriel Aubry say she's finally found her soul mate....

Has a child with him, he gets bored with her and they split......

They say they will remain good friends and share custody.........

She finds another 'broke' white man Olivier Martinez the same man who dumps Kylie Minogue (when he finds out she's got cancer).........

Drama ensues when she wants to take her child to France to live with Olivier.........

The two men fight publicly, Gabriel takes her to court for custody and gets paid $20,000 a month child support.........

Even more and more drama and mud slinging played out publicly..........Sounds so familiar to every black man who marries/dates black women..........

Halle Berry has done black men the biggest favour by showing that regardless of the race she dates/marries she herself a 'black woman' creates all this unnecessary and childlike drama..........Thank you Halle for proving black women are the masters of their own down fall....
Bigsmoke

Wakefield, UK

#157 Feb 16, 2013
uk black wrote:
Lets take a chronological look at Halle Berry one of the best looking black women in the game....
Publicly says she finished with black men, finds a 'broke' white man Gabriel Aubry say she's finally found her soul mate....
Has a child with him, he gets bored with her and they split......
They say they will remain good friends and share custody.........
She finds another 'broke' white man Olivier Martinez the same man who dumps Kylie Minogue (when he finds out she's got cancer).........
Drama ensues when she wants to take her child to France to live with Olivier.........
The two men fight publicly, Gabriel takes her to court for custody and gets paid $20,000 a month child support.........
Even more and more drama and mud slinging played out publicly..........Sounds so familiar to every black man who marries/dates black women..........
Halle Berry has done black men the biggest favour by showing that regardless of the race she dates/marries she herself a 'black woman' creates all this unnecessary and childlike drama..........Thank you Halle for proving black women are the masters of their own down fall....
Halle Berry is mixed race and I never really understood the hype about her looks.

You see everyone is different in their opinions and taste.
Bigsmoke

Wakefield, UK

#158 Feb 16, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
I would say that UK black men's high IR started in the mid 1980s... lots biracials came along at that time.
BW's high IR didn't start until around 2002.
I would say UK black women who are currently around 30 years old were the ones who really got into IR in a big way.
They are the generation who stopped watching and waiting and actively got with White and Asian men.
And this is why I grew up around so many mixed race people...

If you represent your generation then I guess your generation is weird as in mine we do not care about these trivial subjects such as ''IR dating'' such a term doesn't even exist; when a black guy is with a white girl it's just a black guy with a white girl none of this IR label nonsense.

In school everyone dated everyone in regards to race. It seems like it was a big deal in your day or something.

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#159 Feb 16, 2013
Englewood wrote:
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WOW defensive huh? That was never implied and Its just that BM play the garbage man role to every other group in the world. The pick up everyone's trash and act as if they've won some trophy of sorts LMAO!....


Okay, now I have a serious problem with calling other human beings "trash" just because they lack money and a fancy degree and are not beautiful.

Take aisling for example:

http://www.pbase.com/harrisonphoto/image/9890...

See, I'm not ashamed to admit that I would tap that. Would we call that lovely or "beautiful?" No, maybe not in the conventional sense of the word, but there is still a lot to like:

- All-American, midwestern, corn-fed thickness...something to hold on to under the covers

- Blunt and forthright... calls it just like she sees it

- Openly attracted to African-Americans... hangs out in their forum for chitchat and conversation pretty much on a daily basis. Obviously cares about the well-being of the black community.

And so on. Calling ladies like that "White hags" makes you sound petty and insecure. Why not live and let live, Englewood? Just accept that they make some brothas happy and move on.

:o/
Bigsmoke

Wakefield, UK

#160 Feb 16, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
I think BM have led the IR boom in the UK.
With 50% of Caribbean descent men in relationships with WW at any one time, black women were literally forced to date outside the race.
Also for decades UK BW had a high rate of being single, while black men's IR rates were high and climbing higher.
In other words... black women in the Uk were resisting IR and waiting around for black men.
This is similar to what's happening int eh USA.
Eventually a female generation comes along who are completely disenchanted by what they've seen of the (IR) dating habits of their uncles and black men in their communities and these girls don't even assume they will be with a black man when they grow up.
And at that point IR among BW rises.
You have the waiting and watching period... where BM's iR is high and growing, while BW's stays comparatively very low.
And then you have the generation of black girls who are bombarded with seeing black male relatives and neighbours with WW and these black girls become practical and the waiting and watching stops and BW's high IR begins.
So which is it? Which gender can reverse this trend.

One minute you say it is black women the next you blame black men for the trend in the first place implying they are also the ones who can reverse it.

Also those statistics are BS at most they're about marriage and most black males in the UK are not married.

I've essentially told you why many black men in my society tend to go for white women as generally they're sexually active earlier and are generally more approachable in ones late teens. So from these early experiences they end up going for white women later in life.

Also many white females in London especially late teens of working class background want mixed race (black/white) babies as they're the in fad right now in the UK regardless if the dad will be around.

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#161 Feb 16, 2013
uk black wrote:
Lets take a chronological look at Halle Berry one of the best looking black women in the game....
Publicly says she finished with black men, finds a 'broke' white man Gabriel Aubry say she's finally found her soul mate....
Has a child with him, he gets bored with her and they split......
They say they will remain good friends and share custody.........
She finds another 'broke' white man Olivier Martinez the same man who dumps Kylie Minogue (when he finds out she's got cancer).........
Drama ensues when she wants to take her child to France to live with Olivier.........
The two men fight publicly, Gabriel takes her to court for custody and gets paid $20,000 a month child support.........
Even more and more drama and mud slinging played out publicly..........Sounds so familiar to every black man who marries/dates black women..........
Halle Berry has done black men the biggest favour by showing that regardless of the race she dates/marries she herself a 'black woman' creates all this unnecessary and childlike drama..........Thank you Halle for proving black women are the masters of their own down fall....
Halle chose the blonde fellow for his looks and we all know that her fame alone opened her doors to wealthier WM but that is not what she wanted.

Since: Oct 09

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#162 Feb 16, 2013
Bigsmoke wrote:
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Halle Berry is mixed race and I never really understood the hype about her looks.
You see everyone is different in their opinions and taste.
Me either she is pretty but not in a unique way like Jasmine Guy was and Adriana Lima is now.

Level 8

Since: May 08

Pacific Northwest

#163 Feb 16, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>Me either she is pretty but not in a unique way like Jasmine Guy was...
A foul, racist troll like you has NO BUSINESS judging how "pretty" African-American women are or aren't.

smh!
dimethyltryptami ne

Athens, GA

#164 Feb 16, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
I found an interesting statistic.
White Women with parentsÂ’ with less than a high school education had 100% and
96% lower odds of ever being in romantic relationships with Asian and Hispanic partners,
respectively, and 185% greater odds of ever being in romantic relationships with black partners
than women with parentsÂ’ with a high school degree only.
What do you think?
Hispanic and Asian men reject WW from dumb families.. while BM embrace these women.
Why?
why do you give a damn? get off our dicks and go hop back on those white boys dick you love so much. i've seen you post on this site before and you said you have a white man,so why you so worried about who we black men are with? must not be happy with that white boy if you're still concerned about what we're doing

Since: May 12

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#165 Feb 16, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>I say most none BW have it good so I would never leave my race if I were any none BW.
Neither would I.
The Aids epidemic among African-Americans is being caused by Bisexual black men.
Black women are getting infected by heterosexual sex with BM, and black men are getting infected by having gay sex with other BM.
So clearly, AAM are fcking men and women, not just women.

Yet these young uneducated WW are going to BM for their "masculinity" and their "swagger"!
LMFAO!
uk black

UK

#166 Feb 16, 2013
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>Halle chose the blonde fellow for his looks and we all know that her fame alone opened her doors to wealthier WM but that is not what she wanted.
To me personally Halle's a beautiful black women..........

But the point I was trying to make was certain black women have an intrinsic self destruct button in which every relationship they have end in drama.........They seem oblivious to the fact that maybe they're to blame......Played out on white men rather than black men the evidence seems to suggest that these type of black women are the ones at fault.......

In addition I can almost guarantee that men like Gabriel Aubry as well as Zoe's ex Bradley Cooper and the Russian Naomi Campbell's dating (when she gets dumped, not if) will never date black women again because these types of black women bring drama to the table..........

Since: May 12

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#167 Feb 16, 2013
Bigsmoke wrote:
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And this is why I grew up around so many mixed race people...
If you represent your generation then I guess your generation is weird as in mine we do not care about these trivial subjects such as ''IR dating'' such a term doesn't even exist; when a black guy is with a white girl it's just a black guy with a white girl none of this IR label nonsense.
In school everyone dated everyone in regards to race. It seems like it was a big deal in your day or something.
These mixed race people who surround you, what percentage of them were fathered by men who are not black.
What percentage on white, asian and Arab men are making mixed kids and not creating more men and women from their group?

If the vast majority of mixed people in the UK are fathered by one demographic of males seeking to make children out side their race disproportionately, maybe there's more to it than you admit as a black man.

Women like status and money.
white males Eat Asian males and South Asian males hold the status and money in the UK.
Therefore they have the most access to pussy... are those men the ones fathering all these mixed race children? or are they happy to keep on boringly making sons who look like them?

Since: May 12

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#168 Feb 16, 2013
*Eat =East

Since: May 12

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#169 Feb 16, 2013
Bigsmoke wrote:
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Halle Berry is mixed race and I never really understood the hype about her looks.
You see everyone is different in their opinions and taste.
The reason why you don't understand Halle Berry's appeal is because Black men like you didn't make her a star.
You are 22, she is 45!
She came runner up in the Miss USA beauty pageant in 1986! You were a baby when she made Boomerang in 1991.
she became a star when all a woman had to do was be biracial and black men would worship her.
ALL Black men worshipped her when she made Boomerang, including BM I know who have never dated a light skinned girl.
You would have bowed down to her like every other black male.
Bigsmoke

Wakefield, UK

#170 Feb 16, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
These mixed race people who surround you, what percentage of them were fathered by men who are not black.
What percentage on white, asian and Arab men are making mixed kids and not creating more men and women from their group?
If the vast majority of mixed people in the UK are fathered by one demographic of males seeking to make children out side their race disproportionately, maybe there's more to it than you admit as a black man.
Women like status and money.
white males Eat Asian males and South Asian males hold the status and money in the UK.
Therefore they have the most access to pussy... are those men the ones fathering all these mixed race children? or are they happy to keep on boringly making sons who look like them?
Black men have more status in white womens eyes especially than both South Asian and East Asian men especially in London. Then Pakistanis & Bangladeshis are poorer than blacks especially of Caribbean descent and those two groups make up most South Asians. There is hardly any east Asian men here to begin with so I don't know why you bring them up. Also most black men like most white women are of Christian backgrounds as opposed to Muslims which most South Asian Brits are.

Since: May 12

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#171 Feb 16, 2013
Bigsmoke wrote:
<quoted text>
So which is it? Which gender can reverse this trend.
One minute you say it is black women the next you blame black men for the trend in the first place implying they are also the ones who can reverse it.
Also those statistics are BS at most they're about marriage and most black males in the UK are not married.
I've essentially told you why many black men in my society tend to go for white women as generally they're sexually active earlier and are generally more approachable in ones late teens. So from these early experiences they end up going for white women later in life.
Also many white females in London especially late teens of working class background want mixed race (black/white) babies as they're the in fad right now in the UK regardless if the dad will be around.
Your experience is not the same as men born from the transatlantic slave experience and raised generationally carrying those scars.

You didn't even know having soft hair made you more "valuable" as a man in the Caribbean and African-American community.
If you had been slave descent you would have known your hair was "coolie" and "special" before you could walk properly.

Since: May 12

Location hidden

#172 Feb 16, 2013
Bigsmoke wrote:
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Black men have more status in white womens eyes especially than both South Asian and East Asian men especially in London. Then Pakistanis & Bangladeshis are poorer than blacks especially of Caribbean descent and those two groups make up most South Asians. There is hardly any east Asian men here to begin with so I don't know why you bring them up. Also most black men like most white women are of Christian backgrounds as opposed to Muslims which most South Asian Brits are.
There are many East asian men in middle class areas of the UK.
And South asian includes INDIAN... what nationality is your doctor!

White women have no special affiliation to black men, not all ww are working class and left school at 16.
In th euSA a WW whose parents left school before completing high school, is 3 times more likely to date BM, than ww who have parents who completed high school.
Not all ww are the same. Most of them want to be married to the Indian doctor or Chinese Dentist, rather than the black guy who works for hackney council in the housing benefits department.
But they can't get those guys.
The white girls at my daughters grammar school studying their A levels have no special interest in black men. They want a nice house and for their kids to go to a good school with lots of holidays and designer handbags.
also white women convert to Islam often for Turkish men.
It's part of their submissive ways, I've often seen white women claiming to be Rastas and talking about repatriation, simply because a Rasta is screwing them.
South asian and East asian men do sleep with WW at university but they don't marry them.
Why are they doing thsi if they don't want those guys... and it's not working class poor girls doing it.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-132...
Bigsmoke

Wakefield, UK

#173 Feb 16, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
The reason why you don't understand Halle Berry's appeal is because Black men like you didn't make her a star.
You are 22, she is 45!
She came runner up in the Miss USA beauty pageant in 1986! You were a baby when she made Boomerang in 1991.
she became a star when all a woman had to do was be biracial and black men would worship her.
ALL Black men worshipped her when she made Boomerang, including BM I know who have never dated a light skinned girl.
You would have bowed down to her like every other black male.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =YXzHiBNgsGYXX
That's clearly not the reason.

I really wouldn't of. I don't find women attractive because others tell me they are including those ridiculous lists (most sexiest) and beauty pageants. Don't even get me started on supermodels.

You see I have a mind of my own.

Halle Berry, Beyonce, Kim Kardashian etc; alright, but I don't understand the hype about their looks.

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