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TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1386 Feb 23, 2013
Foxy wrote:
<quoted text> Who cares about them, let it all out, you'll come to the opinion as many of us have is that you really have to focus on yourself and be nice only to the ones that show you respect back and ignore the rest, they're a drain on your resources and not worth your time. I think the fact bw live in some of the most dire situations should have been a clear indication of how bm view bw in the first place, I think I learnt this at the age of 10, I am continuously surprised about the hope some bw see in most bm. I'm me, I treat everyone as an individual, the behaviour some of these bm display as individuals is not something I am willing to stand by, tolerate or support. Don't feel bad if you don't have the desire to support various individuals who are bad for you, who insult you, that is just common sense. They'll hopefully learn but in the meantime take care of yourself, surround yourself with like minded people, help your future, help those who'll appreciate it.:)
You are 1,000,000,000% right sis

Thank you

I needed to hear that

I dont know why the shit with bm bugs me so much, but you are right, I cant give it anymore energy. It is indeed extremely draining to try and love them especially since they dont love us back

They arent worth the time. Focusing on our little sisters is worth the time. We need to teach them exactly what you just said

Thank you again
Foxy

Bristol, UK

#1387 Feb 23, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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So you promote the creation of black daughters or mixed/white daughters?
If you promote other women, then why do you expect anyone to think highly of you? You guys literally come here and beg each other for gendercide everyday.
I don't promote other women.

I am all for black children, but at the end of the day a child is a child and it's of paramount importance to me that when I make that family that I am with a man that I love, can share what I love with him, chemistry, all those things which make a marriage last, so who cares what colour the kids are as long as they are healthy.

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#1388 Feb 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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Like any of you would complain about there being more mixed girls than full black girls around, give me a f*cking break lmaoooooooooo
Black men love them some redbones and mixed girls
again this is a win/win so stop complaining
I'm not complaining. I have my black woman already. I just think it's better if some of you women kill off your black woman genes.

I do think that we currently have an over abundance of self hating, self destructive black women in our race. It would be beneficial to the black women as a whole to lose the ones like the women in this thread.

Let that self hating DNA creating differently color women other than BW. I'm tired of worthless females complaining to me about their lives and they haven't even tried.

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#1389 Feb 23, 2013
Foxy wrote:
<quoted text> I don't promote other women.
I am all for black children, but at the end of the day a child is a child and it's of paramount importance to me that when I make that family that I am with a man that I love, can share what I love with him, chemistry, all those things which make a marriage last, so who cares what colour the kids are as long as they are healthy.
That's what I'm saying. Nobody cares. We actually think its better that some of your breed yourselves out of the black race.

You're not strong enough to raise black daughters, just like your mother wasn't.

See if you make the same mistake your mother made by having a black daughter, then our sons and daughters that are proud of being black will have to deal with them bringing down the race.
Foxy

Bristol, UK

#1390 Feb 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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You are 1,000,000,000% right sis
Thank you
I needed to hear that
I dont know why the shit with bm bugs me so much, but you are right, I cant give it anymore energy. It is indeed extremely draining to try and love them especially since they dont love us back
They arent worth the time. Focusing on our little sisters is worth the time. We need to teach them exactly what you just said
Thank you again
Give time to those who want your help, but giving back to the community in particular to bw is in return helping yourself, to advance, to see yourself in a better place.

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#1391 Feb 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
Between what I see and hear and have experienced in real life, what I read on online from multiple multiple sites, to even you agreeing with that obvious hateful fool....
.... its just more than obvious the way the majority of black men view us. We arent valued at all by you guys
We just have to accept the fact that black men think white is right. Ya'll have a million reasons why you think that and although every last one of those million reasons is bullshit its still the way you feel. We just have to accept that ... it cant be respected but it can at least be accepted
I'ma focus on my little sisters. Let them know there is better out there
Okay, Imma let this go because you are clearly entrenched in your beliefs and don't want to hear anything other than what you conceive or perceive. You demand consensus from all bm on every issue about bw with no deviations are digressions,otherwise, they are against you and are declared enemy.

You have yet to concede anything or give us anything to work with, only called us out on our alleged pathologies, never commenting on the other side of the coin. Conflict management is a major part of any relationship, individually or collectively and without it, you don't have a chance.

BW, like all women, can be extremely judgmental, not always supportive, hypercritical and even selfish at times, but I'm not talking about walking away and only caring about the brothers. I have always had to give more than I received in my relationships and yet, I don't feel under appreciated or undervalued because no one can do anything to me without my permission. Sorry, I couldn't help, but nonetheless, best wishes to you with whomever you end up with!
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1392 Feb 23, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
I'm tired of worthless females complaining to me about their lives
You dont have to listen to my/their complaints

whether its on here or in real life

Just let them/me do our thing and you do yours

us preferring to date out shouldnt affect you

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#1394 Feb 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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You dont have to listen to my/their complaints
whether its on here or in real life
Just let them/me do our thing and you do yours
us preferring to date out shouldnt affect you
You talk like there's an option for you to date black men. There isn't. Black men don't want you.

Is this not clear to women like yourself by now?
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1395 Feb 23, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
I just think it's better if some of you women kill off your black woman genes.
I do think that we currently have an over abundance of self hating, self destructive black women in our race. It would be beneficial to the black women as a whole to lose the ones like the women in this thread.
Let that self hating DNA creating differently color women other than BW.
Wait... LOL @ lose us

sounds like you want us killed or sent to our own islands or something rotfl

I bet you wont show this same hate towards disasterlooms or his dad, both who chose non black women though

Lol its good
Foxy

Bristol, UK

#1396 Feb 23, 2013
The thing about IR is that bm see it as a joke but bw take it seriously. So bm will go from one woman to the next making an array of babies, some will insult bw thinking that bw will get over it and take more of their sh't, but bw take ir seriously and this is what bm didn't prepare for, bw start making life changes, life decisions, priorities get moved around, they scream a little but then the screaming stops, they move on, cut ties, they lose a little care, the intensity towards bm shifts and get refocused, directed to new things.

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#1397 Feb 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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Wait... LOL @ lose us
sounds like you want us killed or sent to our own islands or something rotfl
I bet you wont show this same hate towards disasterlooms or his dad, both who chose non black women though
Lol its good
I don't hate you. I just don't want to be in the same race together. Once you breed yourself into a non black woman you can be as stupid and full of self hatred as you like and we can be friends :)
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1398 Feb 23, 2013
Foxy wrote:
<quoted text>Most people know if they do something themselves then their a damn hypocrite to tell others not to do something, most bm slandering bw is out of guilt knowing damn well they are guilty of whatever they are telling bw not to do. This is why it's always bitter, angry bs they have to say about bw etc. If bw are complaining most of the times it have to do with the fact bm seem to always have to insult bw when they date out.
I am starting to think they complain about us dating out cuz they want us as a backup plan. They want to be able to soar their oats then when they run out of options with other races they want to be able to come back to us

Also them dating out more gives them an upperhand in their eyes. They love telling us we arent as desirable as they are to other races. This whole new IR movement with black women is proving them wrong, its proving we are indeed desirable and they are mad as f*ck. They spent all these years listening to the media and society that we are the worst race of women. They are being shown now that they are wrong and brainwashed and they cant handle it

F*ck that and f*ck them
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1399 Feb 23, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
<quoted text>
You talk like there's an option for you to date black men. There isn't. Black men don't want you.
Is this not clear to women like yourself by now?
Oh yes it is extremely clear to me

so why are we having this discussion again?

why would you be mad that someone who is unwanted by black men dates out?

You are an idiot

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#1401 Feb 23, 2013
Foxy wrote:
The thing about IR is that bm see it as a joke but bw take it seriously. So bm will go from one woman to the next making an array of babies, some will insult bw thinking that bw will get over it and take more of their sh't, but bw take ir seriously and this is what bm didn't prepare for, bw start making life changes, life decisions, priorities get moved around, they scream a little but then the screaming stops, they move on, cut ties, they lose a little care, the intensity towards bm shifts and get refocused, directed to new things.
Why does it take creating non black women to make you all decide to get your acts together and get serious?

It is good that women like you who don't feel like a black daughter is worth making the changes and putting effort into being somebody for breeds yourself out the black woman category.

Women like you don't give a shcit about being black, but as you stated will spin the world around to breed black women out.
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1402 Feb 23, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
Okay, Imma let this go because you are clearly entrenched in your beliefs and don't want to hear anything other than what you conceive or perceive.
Good idea

I believe what I experience, see, hear and read ... ALL of which is different than what you are trying to convince me of

I'm not falling for the koolaid anymore. I wont hold my breath for some mythical good black man to come and save me. He doesnt exist
Cogito2 wrote:
You demand consensus from all bm on every issue about bw with no deviations are digressions,otherwise, they are against you and are declared enemy.
You can agree with whatever you want. You can c/s all day long about how no other race wants us and how lucky black men are for being able to bag non black women. Go ahead, I dont think you owe me or us shit. You are entitled to your opinions. I accept how you and the rest feel about us
Cogito2 wrote:
Conflict management is a major part of any relationship, individually or collectively and without it, you don't have a chance.
The time for all of that has passed.

And we never stood a chance to begin with
Cogito2 wrote:
best wishes to you with whomever you end up with!
Thanks, same to you

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#1403 Feb 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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Oh yes it is extremely clear to me
so why are we having this discussion again?
why would you be mad that someone who is unwanted by black men dates out?
You are an idiot
Why do you think I'm mad?

And stop with the name calling, I've been nothing but respectful to you.

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#1405 Feb 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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I am starting to think they complain about us dating out cuz they want us as a backup plan. They want to be able to soar their oats then when they run out of options with other races they want to be able to come back to us
Also them dating out more gives them an upperhand in their eyes. They love telling us we arent as desirable as they are to other races. This whole new IR movement with black women is proving them wrong, its proving we are indeed desirable and they are mad as f*ck. They spent all these years listening to the media and society that we are the worst race of women. They are being shown now that they are wrong and brainwashed and they cant handle it
F*ck that and f*ck them
So what color is your daughter going to be?

So your genes aren't our problem anymore. Technically you're not black at this point. Your black woman will die with you, and it won't be our problem anymore.

Do you agree with that?

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#1406 Feb 23, 2013
JustSaying wrote:
I think Topix caters to the worst of the worst bm in the world.They all probably have small peanuts.
Besides, who cares what a bunch of nasty gay bm think about bw. lol
Do good successful and intelligent black men try to date you?

If not, then how much do you really think we care about your opinion?
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1408 Feb 23, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
I don't hate you. I just don't want to be in the same race together. Once you breed yourself into a non black woman you can be as stupid and full of self hatred as you like and we can be friends :)
Its ok that you hate me. I'm used to black men hating me

I just dont get why one second you say no black man wants me but then you turn around and clown me for wanting to try my luck with a non black man lol

I've been waiting for years to be loved by a black man. The shit isnt going to happen as you already stated. They have tons of options out here. They dont want me, Thats fine. You already said that no black man would ever want me. So why put me down for looking for love elsewhere?

I dont get it but its cool, like I said I'm used to the hate
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1409 Feb 23, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
<quoted text>
Why do you think I'm mad?
And stop with the name calling, I've been nothing but respectful to you.
yeah telling me how I am unwanted by all black men and asking me to leave the black race is very respectful

Its all good, you are entitled to your opinions

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