BM date WW, that other minority men w...
holycrap

Powell, OH

#1324 Feb 23, 2013
Do they breed whiny bw in Canada or something? I think not...WW in Canada are obviously doing some recruiting with Conegro helping them out.
holycrap

Powell, OH

#1325 Feb 23, 2013
BBrainy wrote:
<quoted text>
May I throw my 2 cents in for what it's worth? Now some black women are naturally attracted to other races of men and do not want black men at all because they are not attracted to you all's attitudes or looks and could care less who black men are with but this is still a small percent of black women. For the higher percentage of black women who want to be with black men just like 90% of other races of women want only their own race of men and are with them. You think that these black women can't help but feel betrayed and unloved by their own race of black men? When the only thing these black women have done was to be born in black men's image just like other races of women were born into their race of men's image. Black men walking around thinking it's cool to flaunt non-black women in black women's faces and up-lift these women in the faces of black women, are doing nothing but losing their other half and gathering nothing but hate the majority of black women.
Oh please. This post is total nonsense. Stop frontin like you are a bw. Only in your dreams.
holycrap

Powell, OH

#1326 Feb 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
You stay tryin shade me
What the f*ck is your problem?
Only a white b*tch would have an issue with uplifting young black girls and women
Speak your piece or shut the f*ck up
Sorry, I don't speak ebonics.
holycrap

Powell, OH

#1327 Feb 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
B*tch please
you in here admittedly recycling lame ass jokes and you think you're gonna run me?
No
Go ahead and TRY me heffer
I'm ready whenever you are
Ready for what you whiny beast?
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#1328 Feb 23, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
<quoted text>Deal with what's in front of you, not behind. Or in other words, focus and deal with the issues of your sexual demographic; with those who are desirous of heterosexual relationships and marriages
Sir, my focus is what is in the Word of God says to be: to be obedient, faithful, and to be holy.
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#1329 Feb 23, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
<quoted text>I'm sure they appreciate the sentiment. Me...I simply respect their right to exist as I do the birds and the trees. Neither requires my blessings or approval; they only require that I not obstruct their right to existence or path to happiness.
Thank you for your response
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1330 Feb 23, 2013
holycrap wrote:
Sorry, I don't speak ebonics.
And I dont speak crackhead so.....

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Since: May 10

Location hidden

#1331 Feb 23, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
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be propositioned as is the custom for women.
Sadly, I don't see this situation getting any better because of the saturation of bad and misleading information in circulation for way too many non critical thinking followers of the herd. Nowadays, everyone can propagandize their views without regard or respect for the collateral damage that it may cause; and like lemmings, lead an entire generation or two over the edge of the cliff to their spiritual and romantic deaths.
one of the big problems as i see it, is the tendency of rejected bw to go all out poisoning the finds of other desirable bw.

i liken this relationship to the lilith/eve story. if you don't know lilith according to legend was adams 1st wife. but because she wouldn't submit to adam, and had an 'attitude' adam rejected her.

so lilith leaves and ends up partnering with satan (who would be the wm in our case). having been given power from satan, she dedicates herself to destroying adams world by poisoning the mind of eve.

in this story, lilith is the snake who tricks eve into disobeying god by eating the fruit.

*lilith is also associated with the death of pre-born and newly born children. disease, and whorishness.
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1332 Feb 23, 2013
holycrap wrote:
You ww on this thread pretending to represent bw are truly comical.
Irony ... its in there somewhere

You think you are smart but I peeped your earlier posts from a few days ago where you kept referring to blacks in the third person like you arent one of us. When people started to call you out you switched it up
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1333 Feb 23, 2013
holycrap wrote:
Do they breed whiny bw in Canada or something? I think not...WW in Canada are obviously doing some recruiting with Conegro helping them out.
I wont stoop to your level and negatively stereotype the women where you live

I believe in God so there couldnt possibly be more b*tches like you out there. HE wouldnt be that cruel to make more than one of whatever the hell it is that you are
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1334 Feb 23, 2013
I mean everybody makes mistakes, maybe even God does, I dont know. I will just chalk you up to being a freak of nature. A one off like the loch ness monster or yeti lol
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1335 Feb 23, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
My Canadian sister, don't let these chicks get to you! The distinction between you and them is that while you are frustrated, even angry with the brothers, you are clearly advocating leaving bm to their devices, not because your are some IR nut job who believe that a white man is the panacea for all your emotional and romantic problems....like they do, but rather because you don't believe we blk men either see nor appreciate your value as a blk women, which is distinct in reasoning from theirs.
You hit the nail right on the head, thank you
Cogito2 wrote:
It was clear to me from reading your first post, though fiery as it was, that you were venting, yet looking for some constructive dialogue; only to be challenged by those that SHOULD empathize most with what you are saying and feeling (other bw). Once again, I truly hope that you don't allow yourself to drown in your angst and that you maintain those qualities that are natural and beautiful to your femininity. Your feelings are not completely invalid because many of us are indeed twisted, but please try and stay in character so that you are dressed and ready when fate comes a knocking!
You are very perceptive

I dont care what some of these other women think, you are definitely aight with me

Thank you again. I completely feel what you are saying and appreciate your posts and will keep them in mind
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1336 Feb 23, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
Oh be quiet you emotional retard! And how does one assault two self hating, ignorant azz doorknobs with language? Like a doorknob, you're an inanimate object. What your azz should be worried about is those two billion dead skin cells that just fell off your mug and onto the floor because lord only knows, you have nothing else of value to offer a man other than what remains of your rapidly fading average looks and perhaps, your servitude! And girl please, I've forgotten more shyt than you will ever know, so you never were nor will ever be MY audience...you old fossil! Tick Tock...skin cells drop!
Wait, how the hell did I miss this earlier?

Rotflmmfbaooooooo damn looooool

Level 7

Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#1337 Feb 23, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
<quoted text>
Sir, my focus is what is in the Word of God says to be: to be obedient, faithful, and to be holy.
Well, I am far from a theologian and don't presume to know the will of the creator, but logic dictates to me that everything on this earth is his creation and thus, I must peacefully and tolerantly coexist with it.
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1338 Feb 23, 2013
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
i think if we were to be honest, if non-bm had a desire to marry bw (the way wm seem to have for marrying asian women for example), the way non-bw have for bm, you'd see similar if not higher ir marriage rates for aaw.
cuz imo, it's not the lack of desire of bw to marry out, its the lack of desire of young non-bm to want to start a family with a bw. that's keeping ir marriage rates for bw, down.
bw who have a preference for irr aren't in the minority as you suggest, they very much in the majority. you can tell simply by how bw love to validate themselves though media images of bw/wm irr.
and i can also tell you that i knew this very average wm, who liked to date bw (but eventually married a ww), told me that he had never been rejected by a bw.
so it was obvious why he liked dating bw, with a 100% batting rate. while it would've been closer to 15% with ww.
No as usual you have it all wrong

Its quite insulting as well to be totally honest

Alot of black women for a long time PREFFERED black men. THAT is the reason why our IR numbers were low

Most of the black women that I know still till this day say they would rather die alone than to be with a non black man

There was a strong connect we felt to ya'll. It was never cuz we werent desirable, it was because we wanted YOU

It is so insulting and such a huge put down that you dismiss our love that way. Its quite disgusting and hurtful too actually

Lets just be totally honest here. Men like you make those statements cuz YOU dont see value in black women over other races so you assume its the same way for men of other races and it is NOT

Its no coincidence the numbers have been going up recently because recently is when black women decided to drop this blind loyalty since not only is not reciprocated but it is not appreciated and it is dismissed by men like you

I've always been hit on by non black men especially white men but I was never into that. I am open a bit more now to the idea of IR dating but just not with white men. Most of the black women I know dont find white men attractive that much and neither do I. Your boy was lying. Played you on the white supremacy tip and your simple brainwashed ass fell for it
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1340 Feb 23, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
I agree my brother, the spiritual pulse of our ancestral bond is weak and is growing weaker with the proliferation of mass media, social media, etc., which gives an equal voice to the grievances of both sides instead only hearing bw as it was in the 80s and 90s.
I hear that last sentence from black men alot and it confuses me. I wanted some clarification on that. Like examples of what venues were used or something if you can please?

Because the only venues I used to hear black women air out grievances with black men was talk shows such as Ricki Lake and Jenny Jones and all that stuff and ALL races of women were on their saying "men aint shit"

I dont get why black men internalized that so much.

What we experience now with the Taye Diggs and Brian Whites and Slim Thuggs etc ... nobody did that to you all as far as I know. Correct me if I'm wrong though please
Cogito2 wrote:
And I also agree that many us neither love nor like ourselves and seek refuge and validation through sharing a romantic proximity to non blacks. In this regard, black men are luckier because by nature because we are proactive in defining our romantic fate by virtue of our being the aggressive pursuer, rather than waiting passively to be propositioned as is the custom for women.
I agree except with the part about black men being luckier lol There is nothing lucky about the divide that is happening now. Its quite sad. What some black men view as good for themselves isnt good for us as a people. Give it a few more generations. I really do feel black beauty is on the verge of extinction
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1341 Feb 23, 2013
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
one of the big problems as i see it, is the tendency of rejected bw to go all out poisoning the finds of other desirable bw.
i liken this relationship to the lilith/eve story. if you don't know lilith according to legend was adams 1st wife. but because she wouldn't submit to adam, and had an 'attitude' adam rejected her.
so lilith leaves and ends up partnering with satan (who would be the wm in our case). having been given power from satan, she dedicates herself to destroying adams world by poisoning the mind of eve.
in this story, lilith is the snake who tricks eve into disobeying god by eating the fruit.
*lilith is also associated with the death of pre-born and newly born children. disease, and whorishness.
Wrong again

That was a good attempt though at being deep with that example ... sadly you fell short

There isnt a black woman alive who is going to believe someones words over her own experiences. If she herself attracts alot of black men or if she is surrounded by black couples she isnt going to believe some random person on the internet who is telling her differently from what she sees

Do not insult our intelligence

We see what we are speaking on. Stop trying to dismiss that

Level 8

Since: May 10

Location hidden

#1342 Feb 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
No as usual you have it all wrong
Its quite insulting as well to be totally honest
Alot of black women for a long time PREFFERED black men. THAT is the reason why our IR numbers were low
Most of the black women that I know still till this day say they would rather die alone than to be with a non black man
There was a strong connect we felt to ya'll. It was never cuz we werent desirable, it was because we wanted YOU
It is so insulting and such a huge put down that you dismiss our love that way. Its quite disgusting and hurtful too actually
Lets just be totally honest here. Men like you make those statements cuz YOU dont see value in black women over other races so you assume its the same way for men of other races and it is NOT
Its no coincidence the numbers have been going up recently because recently is when black women decided to drop this blind loyalty since not only is not reciprocated but it is not appreciated and it is dismissed by men like you
I've always been hit on by non black men especially white men but I was never into that. I am open a bit more now to the idea of IR dating but just not with white men. Most of the black women I know dont find white men attractive that much and neither do I. Your boy was lying. Played you on the white supremacy tip and your simple brainwashed ass fell for it
aaw are the biggest promoters of irr and have been for atleast 12 years. and i've never met a bw in my life who felt any type of exclusive loyalty towards bm.

aaw have even created an ir fantasy culture and industry for themselves. which includes movies, tv series, plays, romance novels, self-help and how-to books, blogs, ir web communities, seminars, support groups, it just goes on and on.

no other woman in america puts more into publically fantasizing about and expressing a fascinations with irr than bw. aaw are heads and shoulders over all other women.

the truth is that men in general have a strong desire to reproduce themselves by marrying their own women. it's this instinct and the geneal stigma of the black race, and that lack of attraction that non-bm have for bw, that keeps ir marriage rates down for aaw.

*i'm pretty sure if aaw had their way, the entire aa community would've been bred into extinction a long time ago.

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Since: May 10

Location hidden

#1343 Feb 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
Wrong again
That was a good attempt though at being deep with that example ... sadly you fell short
There isnt a black woman alive who is going to believe someones words over her own experiences. If she herself attracts alot of black men or if she is surrounded by black couples she isnt going to believe some random person on the internet who is telling her differently from what she sees
Do not insult our intelligence
We see what we are speaking on. Stop trying to dismiss that
the analogy couldn't be more fitting. how did the serpent get eve to eat the apple? by lying to her and appealing to her ego "no you will not surely die, but BE LIKE GOD knowing good and evil".

this is exactly how satan and feminist bw manipulate aaw, by appealing to your ego. "strong and independent" "i can do bad by myself". all the rhetoric promoting single black female headed households and making aaw feel good bout breaking up their families.

and what do we have to show for it today - massive abortion rates, stds all over the place, the highest infant mortality rate in the country, a culture of promiscuity, and a dying community.

how does this not fit the lilith narrative?

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Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#1344 Feb 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
I hear that last sentence from black men alot and it confuses me. I wanted some clarification on that. Like examples of what venues were used or something if you can please?
Because the only venues I used to hear black women air out grievances with black men was talk shows such as Ricki Lake and Jenny Jones and all that stuff and ALL races of women were on their saying "men aint shit"
I dont get why black men internalized that so much.
What we experience now with the Taye Diggs and Brian Whites and Slim Thuggs etc ... nobody did that to you all as far as I know. Correct me if I'm wrong though please
<quoted text>
I agree except with the part about black men being luckier lol There is nothing lucky about the divide that is happening now. Its quite sad. What some black men view as good for themselves isnt good for us as a people. Give it a few more generations. I really do feel black beauty is on the verge of extinction
Well, from a black male perspective, during the 80's and 90's we stood on the sidelines when no one would pass us a microphone. We had no means to express grievances nor defend ourselves against those levied against us by bw.

You are correct with your reference to the talk shows, though the ones you mentioned were more of the raunchier ones, but even the others like early Oprah told a narrative almost exclusively from a black female's perspective. And remember that social segregation was still pretty rigid during those times, so, we were not concerned with what other women thought of us, only what bw thought and felt.

This proliferated into a cottage industry with Movies (Color Purple, Waiting to Exhale etc.), Books, Magazines and chitlin circuit plays all centered around "the failures of the BM," with the black male always cast as the villain.

A lot of sisters then, as they do now, simply dismiss this as trivial or insignificant, but most black men who lived through this area will testify to feeling the sting of all of this negative propaganda. I remember living in Italy at the time and would see talk shows broadcast all the way over there with sister telling the world that we were not shyt and were not living up to their standards.

And remember during these years, with the exception of maybe NWA, Tupac and Biggie Smalls, the rap industry was not nearly as misogynistic as it is today. You had guys like Will Smith, Tribe called Quest, Wu Tang, Public enemy, KRS1, Naughty by Nature etc., that rapped more about partying, life in the hood and other situations, instead of women as they do today; however, things took a noticeably turn for the worse around the 2000s with the evolution of the internet and guys started returning fire.

This from my perspective, undergirthed much of the reciprocal enmity between bw & bm we see today. And when I stated that bm have it easier, I meant that as men, we proposition women for their time and affection, while women decide whom she will confer her affections upon, which puts her at a disadvantage because it is not socially smiled upon for women to be aggressive in pursuit of masculine traffic, leaving her to wait passively approach her, while men are free to proposition as many women as he likes until one chooses him.

I hope that clarifies some of my points.

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