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Carol

Orem, UT

#1299 Feb 22, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
Your posts definitely seem like you are
Its no biggie though cuz sadly black men like you nowadays are the majority
Sistas just gotta get used to this shit. It isnt like how it was back in the day. We supported each other because we HAD to. Now with all the other "options" out there its every man for himself. It is what it is and we just have to come to grips with that fact
I'm hoping within the next little while people start to accept that things are just going to be the way they are and they start to focus their attention on more important matters
Instead of sweating what these dudes think or like we really need to be helping our little sisters. Teaching them to love and accept themselves regardless of what ANYONE else thinks. Teaching them to accept our own beauty in every way possible. Letting them know at the end of the day no matter who doesnt care for them that WE ALWAYS WILL and that THEY ALWAYS SHOULD FOR THEMSELVES. Teaching them how to be good women and how to meet a good man without focusing at all on race. If a black man loves you great, if he doesnt its all good, she has the tools she needs
Black men dont owe us shit, its high time we stop acting like they do, straight up
Let them do their thing, we need to focus on ourselves
WW trolling hard
Carol

Orem, UT

#1300 Feb 22, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
You stay tryin shade me
What the f*ck is your problem?
Only a white b*tch would have an issue with uplifting young black girls and women
Speak your piece or shut the f*ck up
Is this aziya, probably.
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1301 Feb 22, 2013
Carol wrote:
<quoted text>
WW trolling hard
Why would a white woman post about uplifting young black women?

I swear this site has some of the most basic retarded one trick pony ass b*tches I have ever come across on the internet
holycrap

Powell, OH

#1302 Feb 22, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
Why would a white woman post about uplifting young black women?
I swear this site has some of the most basic retarded one trick pony ass b*tches I have ever come across on the internet
Why don't you just get your $2 azz off this thread before somebody makes change!

(I said this to Vamp earlier but I should have saved it for you instead).
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#1303 Feb 22, 2013
bdcsr wrote:
Debra,
Thank for the support. I'm not anti-black women, I'm tired of sistas blaming all black men because their daddies wouldn't around. I just want to tell my educated sistas that are raising a boy without his father to make his ass earn those $200 pair of sneakers before you just give them to him.
MACEO

Better yet; tell these sorry ass Black men instead of doing drugs, living off women, not getting educations, chasing WW/Non BW; to stay out of jail, stop living off women, stop making OOW babies to live off women, get an education and stay out of jail!

STOP LIVING OFF WOMEN AND ACT RESPONSIBLE!

Its just like you and your friends, Wasted decades chasing White women and don't have a damn thing to show for your lives!

FOOLS!

I'm not against IR, I'm not against WW or other races! I'm against you fools who refuse to do for any Black person including family members!

YOUR A FOOL MACEO!
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#1304 Feb 22, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
Why would a white woman post about uplifting young black women?
I swear this site has some of the most basic retarded one trick pony ass b*tches I have ever come across on the internet
MACEO

Talking to your profiles again?

Aren't you almost 60 years old? LMAO
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1305 Feb 22, 2013
holycrap wrote:
<quoted text>
Why don't you just get your $2 azz off this thread before somebody makes change!
(I said this to Vamp earlier but I should have saved it for you instead).
B*tch please

you in here admittedly recycling lame ass jokes and you think you're gonna run me?

No

Go ahead and TRY me heffer

I'm ready whenever you are
TBMR

Sudbury, Canada

#1306 Feb 22, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>MACEO
Talking to your profiles again?
Aren't you almost 60 years old? LMAO
All you do is repeat the same shit over and over again, you're like a dog chasing its tail hence why I call you a b*tch

I need you to read a book or something maybe a dictionary so you can learn some new words
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#1307 Feb 22, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
B*tch please
you in here admittedly recycling lame ass jokes and you think you're gonna run me?
No
Go ahead and TRY me heffer
I'm ready whenever you are
MACEO

Still talking to your profiles MACEO? LMAO

Your almost 60 years old! lMAO

LOSER, FOOL And SCOFFER!
BBrainy

Cuyahoga Falls, OH

#1309 Feb 23, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
<quoted text>

If I walk into a nightclub in Toronto and see that over 70% of the bm in there are with non black women and I confirm that reality with a sister from Toronto who bears witness to it as well, how in the fck is that making a statement about the Universal appeal of BW? It's specific reference of my observation of a night club in Toronto. You are a certifiable, board approved, fully credentialed idiot!
May I throw my 2 cents in for what it's worth? Now some black women are naturally attracted to other races of men and do not want black men at all because they are not attracted to you all's attitudes or looks and could care less who black men are with but this is still a small percent of black women. For the higher percentage of black women who want to be with black men just like 90% of other races of women want only their own race of men and are with them. You think that these black women can't help but feel betrayed and unloved by their own race of black men? When the only thing these black women have done was to be born in black men's image just like other races of women were born into their race of men's image. Black men walking around thinking it's cool to flaunt non-black women in black women's faces and up-lift these women in the faces of black women, are doing nothing but losing their other half and gathering nothing but hate the majority of black women.

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#1310 Feb 23, 2013
BBrainy wrote:
<quoted text>
May I throw my 2 cents in for what it's worth? Now some black women are naturally attracted to other races of men and do not want black men at all because they are not attracted to you all's attitudes or looks and could care less who black men are with but this is still a small percent of black women. For the higher percentage of black women who want to be with black men just like 90% of other races of women want only their own race of men and are with them. You think that these black women can't help but feel betrayed and unloved by their own race of black men? When the only thing these black women have done was to be born in black men's image just like other races of women were born into their race of men's image. Black men walking around thinking it's cool to flaunt non-black women in black women's faces and up-lift these women in the faces of black women, are doing nothing but losing their other half and gathering nothing but hate the majority of black women.
there needs to be a natural spiritual bond between aam and aaw, and i believe that bond is very weak, if not totally gone.

that bond received a critical wound during slavery and the jim crow years. and the 24/7 irr campaign from both mass media and irbw are driving the nails in the coffin of bm/bw relations.

this along with the escalating popularity of bm among non-bw is what's really driving irr and marriage rates for bm.

i think if we were to be honest, if non-bm had a desire to marry bw (the way wm seem to have for marrying asian women for example), the way non-bw have for bm, you'd see similar if not higher ir marriage rates for aaw.

cuz imo, it's not the lack of desire of bw to marry out, its the lack of desire of young non-bm to want to start a family with a bw. that's keeping ir marriage rates for bw, down.

bw who have a preference for irr aren't in the minority as you suggest, they very much in the majority. you can tell simply by how bw love to validate themselves though media images of bw/wm irr.
and i can also tell you that i knew this very average wm, who liked to date bw (but eventually married a ww), told me that he had never been rejected by a bw.

so it was obvious why he liked dating bw, with a 100% batting rate. while it would've been closer to 15% with ww.

the truth is many bp and especially dark skinned bp, don't really like themselves or the black race. and want to whiten themselves up. you can even see this mentality in young black children if you've ever seen the white doll/black doll experiments.

**and you can see it in the types of mates irbp accept - who often tend to represent the bottom of white society.

bp are just amazing with their self-hate. even aa who use to represent black pride, beauty and excellence around the world have become the biggest promoters of white supremacy across all forms of media. for any self-respecting bp, watching all this unfold before our eyes just turns your stomach.

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Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#1311 Feb 23, 2013
BBrainy wrote:
<quoted text>
May I throw my 2 cents in for what it's worth? Now some black women are naturally attracted to other races of men and do not want black men at all because they are not attracted to you all's attitudes or looks and could care less who black men are with but this is still a small percent of black women. For the higher percentage of black women who want to be with black men just like 90% of other races of women want only their own race of men and are with them. You think that these black women can't help but feel betrayed and unloved by their own race of black men? When the only thing these black women have done was to be born in black men's image just like other races of women were born into their race of men's image. Black men walking around thinking it's cool to flaunt non-black women in black women's faces and up-lift these women in the faces of black women, are doing nothing but losing their other half and gathering nothing but hate the majority of black women.
A couple of things: Why is it perfectly natural and conceivable to bw that some sisters JUST don't find bm attractive, but are intolerant of the possibility in reverse? Why are bw simply following their natural sense of aesthetics, when not finding bm attractive, but when bm do similarly, they are committing crimes against our ancestors, letting the race down, and are demonstrating symptoms of self hatred and that of our mothers?

And as I have mentioned previously, I have personally been blessed in my romantic and platonic interactions with bw, but I disagree that Bw are ONLY guilty of "being born in blk men image." I don't necessary agree with every blk man's reasoning for why he has declared blk women romantically "persona non grata," but I recognize and respect the fact that some brother's experiences with sisters have been antithetical in substance and form to mine.

Lastly, I am always amused when sisters see blk men in romantic situations with non bw, and they are suddenly able to divine the thoughts of these brothers! How do you know that he "thinks it's cool to flaunt non blk women around? "Why is he not regarded simply as "doing him," and is merely excluding racial politics from his mating rituals?

I am neither oblivious nor indifferent to bw's feelings about this issue but many of you guys are imbalanced and one-sided in your analysis. I have never assumed any proprietary rights to blk women's love (not to be confused with territorial feelings); so, when she opts out of loving bm, I merely assume "she's doing her," without feeling emotionally impacted or any compulsion to dissect her motives.

Level 7

Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#1312 Feb 23, 2013
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
<quoted text>
there needs to be a natural spiritual bond between aam and aaw, and i believe that bond is very weak, if not totally gone.
that bond received a critical wound during slavery and the jim crow years. and the 24/7 irr campaign from both mass media and irbw are driving the nails in the coffin of bm/bw relations.
this along with the escalating popularity of bm among non-bw is what's really driving irr and marriage rates for bm.
i think if we were to be honest, if non-bm had a desire to marry bw (the way wm seem to have for marrying asian women for example), the way non-bw have for bm, you'd see similar if not higher ir marriage rates for aaw.
cuz imo, it's not the lack of desire of bw to marry out, its the lack of desire of young non-bm to want to start a family with a bw. that's keeping ir marriage rates for bw, down.
bw who have a preference for irr aren't in the minority as you suggest, they very much in the majority. you can tell simply by how bw love to validate themselves though media images of bw/wm irr.
and i can also tell you that i knew this very average wm, who liked to date bw (but eventually married a ww), told me that he had never been rejected by a bw.
so it was obvious why he liked dating bw, with a 100% batting rate. while it would've been closer to 15% with ww.
the truth is many bp and especially dark skinned bp, don't really like themselves or the black race. and want to whiten themselves up. you can even see this mentality in young black children if you've ever seen the white doll/black doll experiments.
**and you can see it in the types of mates irbp accept - who often tend to represent the bottom of white society.
bp are just amazing with their self-hate. even aa who use to represent black pride, beauty and excellence around the world have become the biggest promoters of white supremacy across all forms of media. for any self-respecting bp, watching all this unfold before our eyes just turns your stomach.
I agree my brother, the spiritual pulse of our ancestral bond is weak and is growing weaker with the proliferation of mass media, social media, etc., which gives an equal voice to the grievances of both sides instead only hearing bw as it was in the 80s and 90s.

I also agree that were bw to become romantically en vogue for white men, as are Asian women currently, we would see a precipitous increase in sisters opening themselves up to this liaison that they currently declare is undesirable to them. For me one indication for this belief is how these sisters are so worked up over this show "SCANDALOUS," which for many of them, is a cinematographic manifestation of their romantic desires and aspirations.

And I also agree that many us neither love nor like ourselves and seek refuge and validation through sharing a romantic proximity to non blacks. In this regard, black men are luckier because by nature because we are proactive in defining our romantic fate by virtue of our being the aggressive pursuer, rather than waiting passively to be propositioned as is the custom for women.

Sadly, I don't see this situation getting any better because of the saturation of bad and misleading information in circulation for way too many non critical thinking followers of the herd. Nowadays, everyone can propagandize their views without regard or respect for the collateral damage that it may cause; and like lemmings, lead an entire generation or two over the edge of the cliff to their spiritual and romantic deaths.

Level 7

Since: Jan 12

Location hidden

#1313 Feb 23, 2013
TBMR wrote:
<quoted text>
B*tch please
you in here admittedly recycling lame ass jokes and you think you're gonna run me?
No
Go ahead and TRY me heffer
I'm ready whenever you are
My Canadian sister, don't let these chicks get to you! The distinction between you and them is that while you are frustrated, even angry with the brothers, you are clearly advocating leaving bm to their devices, not because your are some IR nut job who believe that a white man is the panacea for all your emotional and romantic problems....like they do, but rather because you don't believe we blk men either see nor appreciate your value as a blk women, which is distinct in reasoning from theirs.

It was clear to me from reading your first post, though fiery as it was, that you were venting, yet looking for some constructive dialogue; only to be challenged by those that SHOULD empathize most with what you are saying and feeling (other bw). Once again, I truly hope that you don't allow yourself to drown in your angst and that you maintain those qualities that are natural and beautiful to your femininity. Your feelings are not completely invalid because many of us are indeed twisted, but please try and stay in character so that you are dressed and ready when fate comes a knocking!
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#1315 Feb 23, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
<quoted text>I agree my brother, the spiritual pulse of our ancestral bond is weak and is growing weaker with the proliferation of mass media, social media, etc., which gives an equal voice to the grievances of both sides instead only hearing bw as it was in the 80s and 90s.

I also agree that were bw to become romantically en vogue for white men, as are Asian women currently, we would see a precipitous increase in sisters opening themselves up to this liaison that they currently declare is undesirable to them. For me one indication for this belief is how these sisters are so worked up over this show "SCANDALOUS," which for many of them, is a cinematographic manifestation of their romantic desires and aspirations.

And I also agree that many us neither love nor like ourselves and seek refuge and validation through sharing a romantic proximity to non blacks. In this regard, black men are luckier because by nature because we are proactive in defining our romantic fate by virtue of our being the aggressive pursuer, rather than waiting passively to be propositioned as is the custom for women.

Sadly, I don't see this situation getting any better because of the saturation of bad and misleading information in circulation for way too many non critical thinking followers of the herd. Nowadays, everyone can propagandize their views without regard or respect for the collateral damage that it may cause; and like lemmings, lead an entire generation or two over the edge of the cliff to their spiritual and romantic deaths.
I believe homosexuality is a major concern, sir.
Phoenix

Houston, TX

#1316 Feb 23, 2013
Cogito2 wrote:
<quoted text>A couple of things: Why is it perfectly natural and conceivable to bw that some sisters JUST don't find bm attractive, but are intolerant of the possibility in reverse? Why are bw simply following their natural sense of aesthetics, when not finding bm attractive, but when bm do similarly, they are committing crimes against our ancestors, letting the race down, and are demonstrating symptoms of self hatred and that of our mothers?

And as I have mentioned previously, I have personally been blessed in my romantic and platonic interactions with bw, but I disagree that Bw are ONLY guilty of "being born in blk men image." I don't necessary agree with every blk man's reasoning for why he has declared blk women romantically "persona non grata," but I recognize and respect the fact that some brother's experiences with sisters have been antithetical in substance and form to mine.

Lastly, I am always amused when sisters see blk men in romantic situations with non bw, and they are suddenly able to divine the thoughts of these brothers! How do you know that he "thinks it's cool to flaunt non blk women around? "Why is he not regarded simply as "doing him," and is merely excluding racial politics from his mating rituals?

I am neither oblivious nor indifferent to bw's feelings about this issue but many of you guys are imbalanced and one-sided in your analysis. I have never assumed any proprietary rights to blk women's love (not to be confused with territorial feelings); so, when she opts out of loving bm, I merely assume "she's doing her," without feeling emotionally impacted or any compulsion to dissect her motives.
Sir, I can only speak for myself.

I condone IR between people who harbor no ill will towards others based on race or ethnicity but sincerely find an attraction, admiration, etc.

I believe true love is color blind.

Anyone black man or black woman involved in IR or any other relationship has my blessing.
Sadbuttrue

Arlington, VA

#1317 Feb 23, 2013
DISASTER LOOMS-Unbrainy--MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>
there needs to be a natural spiritual bond between aam and aaw, and i believe that bond is very weak, if not totally gone.
the 24/7 irr campaign from both mass media and irbm are driving the nails in the coffin of bm/bw relations.
this along with the escalating popularity of bm among non-bw is what's really driving irr and marriage rates for bm.
i think if we were to be honest, if non-bm had a desire to marry bw (the way wm seem to have for marrying asian women for example), the way non-bw have for bm, you'd see similar if not higher ir marriage rates for aaw.
cuz imo, it's not the lack of desire of bw to marry out, its the lack of desire of young non-bm to want to start a family with a bw. that's keeping ir marriage rates for bw, down.
bw who have a preference for irr aren't in the minority as you suggest, they very much in the majority. you can tell simply by how bw love to validate themselves though media images of bw/wm irr.
and i can also tell you that i knew this very average wm, who liked to date bw (but eventually married a ww), told me that he had never been rejected by a bw.
.
MACEO

I don't blame BW for moving on as well as rejecting BM! They got tired of your cheating, lies, deceit, irreponsible behaviors while they worked two jobs and went to get some skills.

When your in your late 20's or 30's you realize your not going to get that attractive BW because she wants her equal and you didn't do anything with your life!

I also don't blame BW for reject blue collared BM. BM are angry because BW went on to achieve alot without your help and started rejecting BM in large numbers!

You basically had "No choice" but to run to poor White women; Black women even poor Ghetto women work harder than most BM and generally have something to show for their lives even when they have kids; while many BM generally live off women!

Kudos for Black women!

BM need to get their lives together! The OOW baby rates, living off women, unemployment, no eduation, HIV/AIDS & STDS rates, poor health, horrific murder rates, domestic abuse in the Black community are a direct results of BM behaviors.

If that mean you have to be with Poor Low income White women than so be it!

The IR thing doesn't bother me but the fact that you blame BW while you, your friends live off White women's backs now is funny as hell! What you did to BW prior who are no longer accepting BM your doing to poor naive WW who you leave Tainted with biracial OOW babies that have no concept of being Black!

Shame on you MACEO and your friends who claim WW are better women; when most BM leave them with OOW biracial babies, No marriage, No Father or husbands and don't teach your children Black or Biracial about being a person in this society becuase your "Absent"!

Shame on you Black man!

Black women were smarter; they got educations, careers and along with it; put many BM out! Many BM go for "house to house" like "Rolling stones" only to end up dying alone!

Where's your pride?

The other races have it, open businessess even the Mexicans while BM are too busy chasing ASS blaming BW for not wanting them because they refuse to help, act responsible, stay out of trouble and make lots of bad decisions where you can't respect them as men!

I wish you take care of your kids; you do the same things generation after generation now its almost 80% in the negative in almost every social area!

Love is an action word; you can still marry/date WW; why can't you do for your children and give them a chance in life?

Its Pathetic and its not just BW saying it BM talk about themselves . Many BM have tole me they were attractive BW they would marry a WM and be comfortable! LMAO

True statement!

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#1321 Feb 23, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
<quoted text>
I believe homosexuality is a major concern, sir.
Deal with what's in front of you, not behind. Or in other words, focus and deal with the issues of your sexual demographic; with those who are desirous of heterosexual relationships and marriages

Level 7

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#1322 Feb 23, 2013
Phoenix wrote:
<quoted text>
Sir, I can only speak for myself.
I condone IR between people who harbor no ill will towards others based on race or ethnicity but sincerely find an attraction, admiration, etc.
I believe true love is color blind.
Anyone black man or black woman involved in IR or any other relationship has my blessing.
I'm sure they appreciate the sentiment. Me...I simply respect their right to exist as I do the birds and the trees. Neither requires my blessings or approval; they only require that I not obstruct their right to existence or path to happiness.
holycrap

Powell, OH

#1323 Feb 23, 2013
JustSaying wrote:
<quoted text>
Wasn't that an old joke back in the 80's. Why don't you make change and disappear.
And why don't you just go eat sh!t? You ww on this thread pretending to represent bw are truly comical.

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