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Feb 20, 2013
 
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Never said such a thing, but now that you are content does this mean you will stop clucking and pecking at us?
Wasn't aware I was a corrupt fed...committing vicious crimes against you.

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African American Men....if you do not answer the African American Men haters....all they can do is post to each other. When you answer them, they really feel like someone is listening to them and will constantly come around to bash African American Men. Since you would not date them, and they will not date you....

Why is there any need for communication with them?

STOP FEEDING THE ANIMALS!!!!!!!

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Feb 20, 2013
 
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Don't believe this at all...
Young blk boys are watching the same media as young white boys...
they're watching blk women portrayed as worthless, ghetto, fat, loud unfeminine and the off brand....
they're watching non blk women being portrayed as feminine, soft spoken, chaste, slender and the name brand....
when blk women get it in their head that image/perception is extremely important then we'll get respect.
Carol, white women have always been portrayed by the media as more positive in every area that black women or in fact more than any other race of women and will be as long as their white men control most of the media here and in Europe. The media has it's influence but it can only go so far.

Studies have shown the majority (not all) black youths who a stable home with both parents or a good male figure tends to do better in life then some black youth brought up by mothers alone. Both parents are needed.

Don't forget that in most instances black male are portrayed as worthless, lazy, hustlers trying to live of women/society, cruel, criminal, abusive, using, raping and prisoners. Much worse than black women are portrayed. Black daughters are influenced by the media also, would disrespect and hate their fathers then.
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Cogito2 wrote:
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Actually, a lot of bm resent contemporary bw because they are NOT like their mothers!
Nor do we want to be DUMBAZZ!
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Feb 20, 2013
 
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Carol, white women have always been portrayed by the media as more positive in every area that black women or in fact more than any other race of women and will be as long as their white men control most of the media here and in Europe. The media has it's influence but it can only go so far.
Studies have shown the majority (not all) black youths who a stable home with both parents or a good male figure tends to do better in life then some black youth brought up by mothers alone. Both parents are needed.
Don't forget that in most instances black male are portrayed as worthless, lazy, hustlers trying to live of women/society, cruel, criminal, abusive, using, raping and prisoners. Much worse than black women are portrayed. Black daughters are influenced by the media also, would disrespect and hate their fathers then.
I do not believe both parents are needed in order to raise a well adjusted child. Is it ideal? Of course. However, women have raised children "alone" since the beginning of time. The most important element to raising a healthy human being is warmth, love, environment which is productive and most importantly RESOURCES.

Two parent homes are not needed to raise a healthy child.

Also the child must be innately "good" also because there is a such a thing as a bad seed. Sometime, lots of time, no matter what environment, resources or amounts of love given to a child, they still don't turn out as expected.

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Feb 20, 2013
 
Carol wrote:
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Don't believe this at all...
Young blk boys are watching the same media as young white boys...
they're watching blk women portrayed as worthless, ghetto, fat, loud unfeminine and the off brand....
they're watching non blk women being portrayed as feminine, soft spoken, chaste, slender and the name brand....
when blk women get it in their head that image/perception is extremely important then we'll get respect.


I think the ghetto acting black women need to quit! But since that is impossible for many of these black ghetto women to do, intelligent, decent black women need to continually make the distinction between them and vulgar acting ghetto women. We most keep in mind that whether or not you act ghetto has nothing to do with money.
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Feb 20, 2013
 
Carol wrote:
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the weaker ones will view blk women as the off brand..
Do you really care about the weak ones? I don't want a weak male. I'd rather scratch my eyeballs out instead.
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..and non blk women as the name brand....
If the weak ones are the only ones falling for this, who cares I say.
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Image/perception is everything.
I agree.
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Feb 20, 2013
 
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1. He arrogantly states that he empathizes with black women's plight (what plight?) then writes that white women are very aggressive in Toronto (meaning when it comes to black men) so he can see why black women feel under appreciated and unloved. Why would black women feel this when over black men hooking up with white women in Canada or any where else when there are world of gorgeous nonblack men out here then can get with? he was trying to be sarcastic and keep the old myth alive that black men are black women's only option which is not true.
Conegro is silly and arrogant. I'm glad you exposed him.
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Feb 20, 2013
 
Capree wrote:
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I think the ghetto acting black women need to quit! But since that is impossible for many of these black ghetto women to do, intelligent, decent black women need to continually make the distinction between them and vulgar acting ghetto women. We most keep in mind that whether or not you act ghetto has nothing to do with money.
Money can't buy class. However, I don't believe in branding anyone because they do things differently than myself. I don't believe in classism nor racism. They are both bad news and cause unfair division. There are plenty of "ghetto" black women who are not stupid at all. Just like there are plenty of so called "classy" women who are dumb.

I watched this episode of the TI show where his wife and his wifes good friend were sitting in a lawyers office going back and forth about % in a business deal. Well they are both "ghetto" but the wifes friend was not a fool. She knew exactly how to handle her business and look after herself. She just didn't believe in using tact while doing it. That's just a preference thing, not a stupidity thing.

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Feb 20, 2013
 
Sadbuttrue wrote:
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The image of Black males today are seen as "obsessed with WW/Non BW", irresponsible, criminal, uneducated, don't marry, obsessed with Sex, living off women and are basic losers in today's society!
Black men need to change their image!
I just finished reading a link that MACEO posted that said more Black men are in prison than in college. That the rates quad-tripled in the last 30 years!
Very sad ..........Black women RUN!
Co-sign!
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<quoted text> Hell I even know several old school black women who now get wait for their black boyfriends or husbands to leave for work or go off clubing so they can get with their white or hispanic lovers!
Black women in general are very slutty and want just want multiple partners. http://www.youtube.com/watch...
The black women cheating stereotype is a stereotype for a reason as well as why they so many different baby fathers.

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Feb 20, 2013
 
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They are beautiful to the point of you wanting to cry lol..I'm actually subscribed to one of them.
I'm actually getting married next year: the difference is that a white man puts a ring on it lol.
Thanks and congratulations! That's another thing I like about white men, most of them are far more marriage and family oriented.
Carol

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Carol, white women have always been portrayed by the media as more positive in every area that black women or in fact more than any other race of women and will be as long as their white men control most of the media here and in Europe. The media has it's influence but it can only go so far.
Studies have shown the majority (not all) black youths who a stable home with both parents or a good male figure tends to do better in life then some black youth brought up by mothers alone. Both parents are needed.
Don't forget that in most instances black male are portrayed as worthless, lazy, hustlers trying to live of women/society, cruel, criminal, abusive, using, raping and prisoners. Much worse than black women are portrayed. Black daughters are influenced by the media also, would disrespect and hate their fathers then.
Again you must be extremely young....

When positive images of blk women were being shown in the media...

White women were number one in image only...in real life blk women were being chased by every culture of men.

Which is why must shows have these precious looking blk women next to attractive slender white women...

Please the media is a powerful tool for swaying opinions for and against....

Too many blk boys are forming opinions of blk women including their mothers based on the negative images...

of blk women that they're being fed from birth to death in the media....

Even single blk mothers were highly respected by their sons when blk women had a positive image in the media.
Carol

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Feb 20, 2013
 
Capree wrote:
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Carol, white women have always been portrayed by the media as more positive in every area that black women or in fact more than any other race of women and will be as long as their white men control most of the media here and in Europe. The media has it's influence but it can only go so far.
Studies have shown the majority (not all) black youths who a stable home with both parents or a good male figure tends to do better in life then some black youth brought up by mothers alone. Both parents are needed.
Don't forget that in most instances black male are portrayed as worthless, lazy, hustlers trying to live of women/society, cruel, criminal, abusive, using, raping and prisoners. Much worse than black women are portrayed. Black daughters are influenced by the media also, would disrespect and hate their fathers then.
Black men are portrayed as a token part of white culture now and have been for the last 30 years....

They are given token acceptance in return for selling out blk women....

I don't know what shows you're watching.
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Feb 20, 2013
 
Carol wrote:
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Black men are portrayed as a token part of white culture now and have been for the last 30 years....
They are given token acceptance in return for selling out blk women....
I don't know what shows you're watching.
But they did "sell out" black women.
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Feb 20, 2013
 
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But they did "sell out" black women.
I agree too many of them seem to have a treasonous nature.

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I do not believe both parents are needed in order to raise a well adjusted child. Is it ideal? Of course. However, women have raised children "alone" since the beginning of time. The most important element to raising a healthy human being is warmth, love, environment which is productive and most importantly RESOURCES.
Two parent homes are not needed to raise a healthy child.
Also the child must be innately "good" also because there is a such a thing as a bad seed. Sometime, lots of time, no matter what environment, resources or amounts of love given to a child, they still don't turn out as expected.
Though some single parents successfully raise well adjusted children with a lot of hard work but for most part, women and some men are brainwashed into believing that single parenthood is an equal option to a 2 parent home due to single moms and men who want to sherk their responsibilies off as fathers.

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Conegro is silly and arrogant. I'm glad you exposed him.
Thanks!

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Money can't buy class. However, I don't believe in branding anyone because they do things differently than myself. I don't believe in classism nor racism. They are both bad news and cause unfair division. There are plenty of "ghetto" black women who are not stupid at all. Just like there are plenty of so called "classy" women who are dumb.
I watched this episode of the TI show where his wife and his wifes good friend were sitting in a lawyers office going back and forth about % in a business deal. Well they are both "ghetto" but the wifes friend was not a fool. She knew exactly how to handle her business and look after herself. She just didn't believe in using tact while doing it. That's just a preference thing, not a stupidity thing.
I said before that money has nothing to with it because there are ghetto people with money and classy acting people who are poor. However every society in the world has it's codes of conduct and rules of behavior and the U.S. is no different. But in the U.S. as long as you don't break any laws a person a right to be loud, lewd, speak ebonic instead of the proper English etc. but this person also have to accept not being respected or taken seriously by others.
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I said before that money has nothing to with it because there are ghetto people with money and classy acting people who are poor. However every society in the world has it's codes of conduct and rules of behavior and the U.S. is no different. But in the U.S. as long as you don't break any laws a person a right to be loud, lewd, speak ebonic instead of the proper English etc. but this person also have to accept not being respected or taken seriously by others.
Creole isn't proper English and I respect those who speak it. I simply say loudness, lewdness, ebonics etc are all determined by context and circumstance.

Most people know the difference.

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