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Django

Chicago, IL

#44 Feb 14, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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You will be a father of the next generation of British black women... will you encourage your daughters to be more like white women?
Will you encourage them to be promiscuous and to allow local boys to have sex with them at an early age?
Or will you encourage your black daughters to be harder to get and to be a little prudish?
According to the stats black women are just as promiscous. 1500 abortions a day is pretty promiscous.

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#45 Feb 14, 2013
AgentSmith9 wrote:
Lmao, why would a black woman .. A single black woman at that be thinking about something so stupid as to who strange men date on valentines day?
These men don't need an approval slip from you in regards to who they date, and most of you single black women are far more trashy than these ww these bm choose to be with.
And to be honest, 99% of the non black women these fellas are with are fine, etc and match up too, or out class the brother they are with.
Now of course bitter single man less irbw will say otherwise, but honestly who cares?
Stop being so obsessed with who other people are dating. These kind of I hate bm and who they date conversations are usually the same lonely bw, and insecure feminine non bm.
Get over it. Get on with your life's, stop crying about bm. These men don't care about you all like that, stop waiting your time.
I am not being mean to you, but I will address you with full honesty.
I'm sure you can handle the truth.
I don't really consider your view points as valid or important in this conversation, certainly not as valid as an unequivocally black man as Big Smoke.
This thread is about BM and why BM do what they do and the pressures faced by black men in Western societies.
I consider you to technically be a Mullatto.
In fact I live around many biracial people and you look more caucasian than 75% of them.
I believe that even though you have 2 parents "classified" as black, if you were to take a DNA test, you would discover you are atleast 50% European and 20 to 25% East asian.
I don't believe males who look like you suffer the same prejudice in schools from white teachers as black men like Big Smoke did when they were children.
I also believe that with so much Caucasian and non-black DNA you have an inbuilt loyalty to white people/women.
You have often posted in passionate defence of white women, you posted the notorious BW are dirty comment and you also claim your best friend is a white man.
You have yellow skin, soft hair, oriental light coloured eyes, and a nose straighter than 90% of white people.
In fact i have never ever seen a biracial with a nose like yours.
I believe Dr Umar johnson is speaking about men like you in this video.
Django

Chicago, IL

#46 Feb 14, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Many educated BM feel that way about BW.
If you know so much about what men think, then why don't you have one?

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#47 Feb 14, 2013
AgentSmith9 wrote:
Lmao, why would a black woman .. A single black woman at that be thinking about something so stupid as to who strange men date on valentines day?
These men don't need an approval slip from you in regards to who they date, and most of you single black women are far more trashy than these ww these bm choose to be with.
And to be honest, 99% of the non black women these fellas are with are fine, etc and match up too, or out class the brother they are with.
Now of course bitter single man less irbw will say otherwise, but honestly who cares?
Stop being so obsessed with who other people are dating. These kind of I hate bm and who they date conversations are usually the same lonely bw, and insecure feminine non bm.
Get over it. Get on with your life's, stop crying about bm. These men don't care about you all like that, stop waiting your time.
Oops.. this is the correct link...
It explains men like you.

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#48 Feb 14, 2013
Bob Marley also fitted into this category.
he fought for black rights and black culture, yet he betrayed his wife with a white woman.
All his songs about repatriation and Africa, he still ended up dying in a white woman's arms.
Django

Chicago, IL

#49 Feb 14, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
I am not being mean to you, but I will address you with full honesty.
I'm sure you can handle the truth.
I don't really consider your view points as valid or important in this conversation, certainly not as valid as an unequivocally black man as Big Smoke.
This thread is about BM and why BM do what they do and the pressures faced by black men in Western societies.
I consider you to technically be a Mullatto.
In fact I live around many biracial people and you look more caucasian than 75% of them.
I believe that even though you have 2 parents "classified" as black, if you were to take a DNA test, you would discover you are atleast 50% European and 20 to 25% East asian.
I don't believe males who look like you suffer the same prejudice in schools from white teachers as black men like Big Smoke did when they were children.
I also believe that with so much Caucasian and non-black DNA you have an inbuilt loyalty to white people/women.
You have often posted in passionate defence of white women, you posted the notorious BW are dirty comment and you also claim your best friend is a white man.
You have yellow skin, soft hair, oriental light coloured eyes, and a nose straighter than 90% of white people.
In fact i have never ever seen a biracial with a nose like yours.
I believe Dr Umar johnson is speaking about men like you in this video.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =q9gon21ldfwXX
Spending Valentines day alone hasn't made you stop and reflect on your life?

Is making Bigsmoke look like a horny young guy really worth the effort?

All young men his age think like he does, not just the black ones.

Look at what you do all day. Do you wonder why you can't compete with the women currently on the market?

What other single woman in her 40's is here bashing men all day?

Just you SBT and Carol.

Does that mean anything to you?

Is that who you are? You're old. OLD. You're kid is in the same age group as bigsmoke.

You fail as a woman. You know that though.

Trust me, the bm that are out fcking these ww that is making you sad and hurt, they don't care how you feel. They would fck one in your face and wouldn't think twice.

How are you any better than these women? You're old, psychotic, baggage, not up to standards of woman your age.. so what makes you any better than the women they are chosing?

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#50 Feb 14, 2013
Django wrote:
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According to the stats black women are just as promiscous. 1500 abortions a day is pretty promiscous.
Are you a Mulatto?
Django

Chicago, IL

#51 Feb 14, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Oops.. this is the correct link...
It explains men like you.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =8VpxPu2gHBkXX
Aisling is on her 4th husband. she's not even bitter like you. She's better quality than you. You haven't even had a serioaus relationship with a black man, but that's all you think about.

What is it that you are looking for?

Get on your life. Trust me, it's not worth it. You live once, you're wasting it. Throwing it all down the drain.

Look this is how life works. You go out, find someone you can put up with, and settle down with them. End of story.

You have no control over any of these black men you obsess about. They're out fcking right now, trust me. I been fcking all day.

And you know what.. it's none of your got dam business who anybody is out fcking other than your partner. Your ex, the man that left you in your old age has probably been banging young chicks today.

You know what you can do about it? Nothing.

Look at the title of the thread. Look how excited you are. Trust me, black men ain't checking for you. For real, most black men would take a white woman over you. That's life. Don't cry about it, go out and find somebody that wants you. Don't waste time on men that don't want you.

Trust me.. negative press and obsession like this... doesn't do anything negative.. just makes other women more interested in what has got you so obsessed.

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#52 Feb 14, 2013
Django wrote:
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Spending Valentines day alone hasn't made you stop and reflect on your life?
Is making Bigsmoke look like a horny young guy really worth the effort?
All young men his age think like he does, not just the black ones.
Look at what you do all day. Do you wonder why you can't compete with the women currently on the market?
What other single woman in her 40's is here bashing men all day?
Just you SBT and Carol.
Does that mean anything to you?
Is that who you are? You're old. OLD. You're kid is in the same age group as bigsmoke.
You fail as a woman. You know that though.
Trust me, the bm that are out fcking these ww that is making you sad and hurt, they don't care how you feel. They would fck one in your face and wouldn't think twice.
How are you any better than these women? You're old, psychotic, baggage, not up to standards of woman your age.. so what makes you any better than the women they are chosing?
I'm sad and hurt that because of the actions of African-Caribbean men in the UK our group is on it's way to irrelevence and extinction.
All the sacrifices and efforts our parents and grandparents made so that we would have a presence in the UK will all be wasted.
Africans, Pakistanis, Ethiopians, somalians, Indians, Chinese will all have a presence and representation in the the UK.
But because of 50% of british Born Caribbean descent men chasing white women and bowing to the white man, we will be extinct or almost extinct.
It took 3 generations for black men to wipe themselves out, 3 generations for them to willingly kill themselves.
White men did nit have to go in with guns and shoot Caribbean men, or start some kind of deceptive contraceptive programme like the Israelis are doing against the Ethiopian Jewish women who have moved to Israel.
Caribbean descent Bm in the UK have willingly put the noose around their own neck and lynched themselves.... in high numbers.
They are at the bottom of schools and they fill the jails and drug rehab centres.
Their women of all races fill the Shelters for beaten women.
So yep, I'm interested why all those other non-white male groups can easily maintain their presence in the UK, yet the men of my group have been conquered and defeated yet again by the white man.
Django

Chicago, IL

#53 Feb 14, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Are you a Mulatto?
The man that walked out on you after all the time you spent on him owes you these kind of answers.

Don't you feel that way? BM haven't done a thing to you, and you haven't done a thing for us. Why the confusion here?

Do you understand how that works? You give a man your life, your youth, and your self. That's the man that owes you.

Not me. I don't even fcking know you.

Why are you hounding black men at such a late stage in life? You Carol and SBT need some type of serious mental help.

Look let me explain this to you again.

You live 1 time, then you die. You gave half of that time to a man already, the good part. That's done.

If you want answers or retribution for something that happened to you, go talk to him. He took your life and left you with nothing, not us. We're not even responsible for the shcit you complain about bm about. What the hel gets you out of bed every day? Turn your life around stupid. Your mind is mush. You can't compete with women your age, and definitely can't compete with women younger than you.

I think it's time you start asking yourself some questions.
Django

Chicago, IL

#54 Feb 15, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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I'm sad and hurt that because of the actions of African-Caribbean men in the UK our group is on it's way to irrelevence and extinction.
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How can we even proceed past this first sentence? You don't have a group. If you felt like you had one, then you wouldn't have a biracial child.

You don't even believe or live by what you are saying, how can you expect anybody else to?

If it's so ridiculous that you don't even up hold it, then why the fck should anybody else?

smh.

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#55 Feb 15, 2013
Django wrote:
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If you know so much about what men think, then why don't you have one?
It's true that many surveys show that people in committed relationships of all ages, suffer from less depression and dissatisfaction with life than single people do.
There is only ONE exception to this... white women cohabiting or married to black men, suffer from higher levels of depression and dissatisfaction with life than singles do.

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#56 Feb 15, 2013
Django wrote:
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The man that walked out on you after all the time you spent on him owes you these kind of answers.
Don't you feel that way? BM haven't done a thing to you, and you haven't done a thing for us. Why the confusion here?
Do you understand how that works? You give a man your life, your youth, and your self. That's the man that owes you.
Not me. I don't even fcking know you.
Why are you hounding black men at such a late stage in life? You Carol and SBT need some type of serious mental help.
Look let me explain this to you again.
You live 1 time, then you die. You gave half of that time to a man already, the good part. That's done.
If you want answers or retribution for something that happened to you, go talk to him. He took your life and left you with nothing, not us. We're not even responsible for the shcit you complain about bm about. What the hel gets you out of bed every day? Turn your life around stupid. Your mind is mush. You can't compete with women your age, and definitely can't compete with women younger than you.
I think it's time you start asking yourself some questions.
You just don't get it do you?
Black men are racist, they value light skin over darker skin.
A light skinned black woman over 35 with long hair is still more valued by black men than darker women with weaves.

It's not about age among slave descent men, it's how many boxes you can tick in relation to the type of woman white men are with.

I have always had lots of attention from black men.

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#57 Feb 15, 2013
Django wrote:
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How can we even proceed past this first sentence? You don't have a group. If you felt like you had one, then you wouldn't have a biracial child.
You don't even believe or live by what you are saying, how can you expect anybody else to?
If it's so ridiculous that you don't even up hold it, then why the fck should anybody else?
smh.
Black women follow black men into IR.
And black men do care what black women think about them having higher IR levels than every other guy on the planet.
We know they care what BW think, because if we ask a BM why he's with a WW, he will make a bunch of excuses.
he won't just say, WW are fantastic.
He will say BW are loud, BW are masculine, BW are prudish, BW don't say hi to you in the street, BW wants thugs, BW are gold diggas, BW wear weaves, BW don't let a man be a man, BW don't live in my neighbourhood.

All these excuses that BM have ready for BW and the outside world, shows that they do care what BW and others think of their choosing women born from white men and not black ones.
Django

Chicago, IL

#58 Feb 15, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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It's true that many surveys show that people in committed relationships of all ages, suffer from less depression and dissatisfaction with life than single people do.
There is only ONE exception to this... white women cohabiting or married to black men, suffer from higher levels of depression and dissatisfaction with life than singles do.
Look, if you didn't understand the dynamics of your own relationship, then how the fck can you possibly think you understand others?

Trust me, WW are happy with Black men. And Black men that date ww are happy with white women.

If either has a bad time with either, they will go out and find another BM or WW that meets their needs and they will be happy.

At some point, you have to start trying to get your life together, find out how to appeal to men, and have a relationship to diagnose.

Are you happy with your life? Be honest.
Django

Chicago, IL

#59 Feb 15, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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You just don't get it do you?
Black men are racist, they value light skin over darker skin.
A light skinned black woman over 35 with long hair is still more valued by black men than darker women with weaves.
It's not about age among slave descent men, it's how many boxes you can tick in relation to the type of woman white men are with.
I have always had lots of attention from black men.
I don't believe you. I'm just being honest. I know what us Black men look for in a woman. You don't have it, you don't have any of it to be blatantly honest with you.

And darkskin women would slap you. They get just as much attention from BM as Lightskin women.

There's about 60 million fcking Black Americans, that shoots your theory dead. The white population is declining, that kills your theory even more. Give it a break already, and stop trying to get bigsmoke to explain to you why particular men are in prison or why they made decisions a specific way.. he can only speak for himself, and his position and where he is at in life.

Stop trying to push other men and womens decisions onto him and other black men.

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#60 Feb 15, 2013
Django wrote:
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How can we even proceed past this first sentence? You don't have a group. If you felt like you had one, then you wouldn't have a biracial child.
You don't even believe or live by what you are saying, how can you expect anybody else to?
If it's so ridiculous that you don't even up hold it, then why the fck should anybody else?
smh.
I'll tell you something you probably don't know.
When Caribbeans came to the Uk in the 1950s and 60s, there was a definite and purposeful plan to have as many children as possible to increase our numbers as fast as possible.
Ask your mother if she remembers the pain of birthing you, ask her if she remembers the blinding agony of what she endured to birth a child.

The average Caribbean woman who arrived int eh 50s and 60s had between 5 and 13 children.
I would say 8 is the average amount.
I know immigrant Jamaican women with 12 , 13, 9 , 11, 7 , 6 kids.
And it was purposelfully done to increase our numbers and presence int eh UK FAST.
All that physical pain and financial sacrifice, remember black men don't stay around, so many many Caribbean women were raising EIGHT KIDS ALONE after the man ran away from the financial and emotional responsibilities.
Why do you think these people had bought such big houses with so many bedrooms?
When you realize what black women put themselves through, especially physically to increase our numbers, you realize how weak BM are and what those 50% british born Caribbean men have done to our group and to their grandmothers and black women in general.
Django

Chicago, IL

#61 Feb 15, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Black women follow black men into IR.
And black men do care what black women think about them having higher IR levels than every other guy on the planet.
We know they care what BW think, because if we ask a BM why he's with a WW, he will make a bunch of excuses.
he won't just say, WW are fantastic.
He will say BW are loud, BW are masculine, BW are prudish, BW don't say hi to you in the street, BW wants thugs, BW are gold diggas, BW wear weaves, BW don't let a man be a man, BW don't live in my neighbourhood.
All these excuses that BM have ready for BW and the outside world, shows that they do care what BW and others think of their choosing women born from white men and not black ones.
Bw follow bm into IR?

What the fck are you talking about? People date who they want to date. Simple as that. The white men and other non black men on OKcupid that didn't respond to black women didn't respond because they didn't want you all. You wrote them more than other women because that's what you wanted.

The only reason why you hear an excuse is because you ask dumb questions. Questions that don't need to be asked. These men and women don't need to have an explanation ready for you about why they are with who they are with. It's none of your fcking business.

So when you ask these dumb questions, they give you a bunch of dumb answers.

Stop worrying about it. They don't want you. And since BM don't want you, and you said that BM want whatever WM want, then that means that WM don't want you either.

So just go out, live your life, stop sweating who everybody else is fkcing, and become a relevant woman.

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#62 Feb 15, 2013
Django wrote:
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Look, if you didn't understand the dynamics of your own relationship, then how the fck can you possibly think you understand others?
Trust me, WW are happy with Black men. And Black men that date ww are happy with white women.
If either has a bad time with either, they will go out and find another BM or WW that meets their needs and they will be happy.
At some point, you have to start trying to get your life together, find out how to appeal to men, and have a relationship to diagnose.
Are you happy with your life? Be honest.
You're wrong.
In fact what surprises surveryors the most, is that WW who are currently with white men, but who had dated BM in the past are showing higher levels of depression and dissatisfaction with life, than white women who have never dated black men.
The white women with the lowest levels of depression and highest life satisfaction are ones who have never dated black men.
Even dating black men at one point in your life and then returning to white men, will still leave a white woman with residual depression, though she will be happier than WW currently dating BM.
Django

Chicago, IL

#63 Feb 15, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
<quoted text>
I'll tell you something you probably don't know.
When Caribbeans came to the Uk in the 1950s and 60s, there was a definite and purposeful plan to have as many children as possible to increase our numbers as fast as possible.
Ask your mother if she remembers the pain of birthing you, ask her if she remembers the blinding agony of what she endured to birth a child.
The average Caribbean woman who arrived int eh 50s and 60s had between 5 and 13 children.
I would say 8 is the average amount.
I know immigrant Jamaican women with 12 , 13, 9 , 11, 7 , 6 kids.
And it was purposelfully done to increase our numbers and presence int eh UK FAST.
All that physical pain and financial sacrifice, remember black men don't stay around, so many many Caribbean women were raising EIGHT KIDS ALONE after the man ran away from the financial and emotional responsibilities.
Why do you think these people had bought such big houses with so many bedrooms?
When you realize what black women put themselves through, especially physically to increase our numbers, you realize how weak BM are and what those 50% british born Caribbean men have done to our group and to their grandmothers and black women in general.
So where do you come into all this at?

You haven't done shcit for these men. What the fck are you complaining about? Let the women who did this complain if they feel like something is wrong that's worth complaining about.

Go complain to the non black man you gave a child.

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