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#427 Feb 17, 2013

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#428 Feb 17, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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This is just a forum to do a little venting.
I agree IRBM should stay with WW, and hopefully stop promoting negativity about BW.
The reality is, that if I was for some reason living in The Carolinas or Alabama for a work placement or long holiday, I would not have sex with any black men.
I would not indulge in sex with black men in Alabama or South/North Carolina with or without a condom.
I would be IR, African-American men from those communities would be invisible to me, not an option as a sex partner under any circumstances at all.
And I would be reluctant to sleep with any black American man if a white or asian alternative was available.
Why would an African American Male want to have sex with you?

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Pacific Northwest

#429 Feb 17, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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That's all fine, but you're not actually obligated to follow my threads or post on them.
There are over a 100,000 threads on topix.
No requirement for you to be on this one.
If the UK is the mother country of the USA, then African-Americans and Black Britons are cousins. We are extended family amongst the diaspora... but yet you feel the irresistible urge to launch transatlantic cyberattacks on anonymous black men - mainly because of your immense personal frustrations over failed relationships with black men.

With that in mind, he's VERY much entitled to feel obligated to follow your bizarre, dysfunctional rants and correct you as much as he can stand to, Shalimarr. You are in SERIOUS need of correction.

You are SOOOOO out of order. LOL
You have no idea how inappropriate your conduct is, your Sadbuttrue-apprentice.

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#430 Feb 17, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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Why would an African American Male want to have sex with you?
LMAO!!!
Bigsmoke

Wakefield, UK

#431 Feb 17, 2013
PROUD AFRICAN AMERICAN wrote:
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Race and Intelligence : Science's Last Taboo
Please start watching at 6:45.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =Ao8W2tPujeEXX
South Korea's exam suicides:
http://www.youtube.com/watch...
Student misery in old Japan 1960
http://www.youtube.com/watch...
Your point?

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#432 Feb 17, 2013
Bigsmoke wrote:
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I am 22.
I'll get back to you in my 40s to tell you if these same Pakistani descent women did settle down with black guys.
You keep forgetting that we're from two different generations. What your generation did will not apply to what mine does.
Tell me were there any Pakistani descent females in your generation claiming to be half Nigerian then telling black guys how much they dislike south Asians?
Times change.
Ok smokey, i notice you assume that South Asian women can settle down with black men if they choose.
So even though BW are finding it difficult to keep the black birth rate up and get black husbands, you assume black men will eagerly settle down with promiscuous Pakistani girls IF the Pakistani girls want them.
It doesn't ever occur to BM, to be the ones who are not just eager to get with everybody else.
Do you think every black girl who wants to settle down and have a baby with a Pakistani guy would be able to persuade South asian men to overlook Asian women and choose a whole bunch of black ones instead?
You don't think that would happen, yet you assume Pakistanis could do that to us.

I'm sure an Pakistani girl can have any black guy she wants, but I just don't think many of them want to marry outside their race.
Bigsmoke

Wakefield, UK

#433 Feb 17, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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I'll explain how I know you're wrong.
And how I know most dark skinned British black males know you're wrong.
The man who is most physically sexually desired by all women, will want to pass that on to his sons.
East Asian, South Asian and Arabs all make their children in their own race and own image at much higher rates in than UK black men do.
The most desired men have low interest in replacing themselves with a diluted or altered (biracial) version of themselves.
Yet even more nonsense.

So according to your logic men who are physically the most sexually desired by all women must practice incest in order keep such looks in the next generation and even exaggerate them. Otherwise who ever they hook up with outside the family is likely to just gain half of their looks.
Bigsmoke

Wakefield, UK

#434 Feb 17, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Our ancestors were the victims of it, our families with in third world conditions in Jamaica because of it's legacy.
So we are free to discuss it and feel any way about it that we choose, without needing permission or approval from you.
Who said you need my approval to talk nonsense? You're free to do so; I am simply calling it all nonsense.
holycrap

Powell, OH

#435 Feb 17, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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Isn't that kind of like a female saying her "booty" is the biggest?
smh..
I don't think it's the same. Males shouldn't market themselves to women in that blunt fashion imo. Desire is for women. Alpha males already get this, that's why every woman wants one.
PROUD AFRICAN AMERICAN

Brooklyn, NY

#436 Feb 17, 2013
It's embarrassing. We should be more concerned with helping ourselves than tearing each other down. There are real problems going on out here. Most of these adults are a lost cause. You cannot make an adult do what YOU want them to do.

Posting negative statistics about Black men just makes us all look bad!!! Complaining about how they desire other women make Black women look less desirable!!!

The truth is, a lot of black men who date out are not attracted to black women. Some have racial self hatred but some may be comfortable with being black but they are just more attracted to the physical features of other races of women. I think that this is where a lot of these hurt feelings are coming from. I do think that racial baggage from the past has a lot to do with so many black men desiring other races of women.

You cannot force black men to marry and have children with women they don't find physically attractive. You can scream from the hill tops that they hate themselves, but this means nothing, it does nothing.

Black men, if you are not attracted to black women and choose to date out, just leave us alone. In forums and in life. Don't degrade the black women on the net or the ones you see walking down the street. You don't have to come up with excuses as to why you are with another race of woman. You are a free autonomous human being. Do what you want.

However if you are rich, just because you marry and procreate with a non black woman doesn't mean that you have to forget about the black community. You can still build a school or start some kind of cause with some of those monies that can benefit black children.

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#437 Feb 17, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
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Agreed 100%, KIP. My layman's take on things is that Shalimarr is struggling with a severe mental disorder or personality disorder of some kind. An online cry for help, perhaps?
Try...a woman that thinks she is more than she is when you meet her, and the more she talks the faster you want to get away from her because when the effects of what she says sets in, you start smelling "sh*t" and you know this one is full of it!
Bigsmoke

Wakefield, UK

#438 Feb 17, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Do you think pakistani and Indian men want their daughters to get with black men?
Do you think that's cullturally what Pakistani and Indian parents want?
I'm not asking what their daughters may sexually want to experiment with, but what their parents want for their daughters?
Do you honesly believe a Pakistani girl sleeping with black men, is not rebelling against what her father wants for her?
also whe trying to make good marriages within their community, do you think Pakistani fathers think their daugthers having been in bed with various black men, good for her mariage chances and the calibre of potential pakistani or Indian husband?
Yeah and do you think these guys are thinking marriage either? To date I only know of one couple around my age who has gotten married. But I know quite a few south Asian women with babies from black men.

You act as though women using young men for sex is a bad thing in the mans eyes. LOL it's a win win situation.

Give it a rest.

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#439 Feb 17, 2013
holycrap wrote:
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I don't think it's the same.
:) It's the same.

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#440 Feb 17, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
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Honestly, those are all questions for you to take up with your therapist, Shalimarr. Obviously the implications therein disturb you a great deal.
Meanwhile, many of us "submissive" Black Males are quite busy sinking our "submissive" manhood into the delightful pale creatures whom you so vainly disparage:
http://www.pbase.com/harrisonphoto/image/1453...
http://www.pbase.com/harrisonphoto/image/1454...
Look at those radiant smiles! I like to think that those ladies are truly happy, don't you? Certainly we don't hear complaints en masse from them and the overall *demand* from them really never seems to stop.
What would be nice is to see similar photos of YOURSELF wearing an equally glowing smile while attached to the arm of your white gender-opposite - instead of posting figures and statistics purporting to show how miserable others are. lol
Methinks Shalimarr is truly not a happy soul at all.
There is no demand from them.
94% of them are married to white men and they throw you in jail for things they would simply withdraw sex for a night from their white man for!
Nobody cares how many WW you sink you "manhood" into.
We wouldn't care if you all saved up and bought an island and started a new colony of IRBM/WW... though we know the women would come rushing back.
Enjoy your thing, revel in your thing.
But as long as you guys insist on demeaning and abusing black women.. telling lies about us, claiming we are masculine, ugly, fake, gold diggers, crap in bed, can't handle money, promiscuous, unfeminine etc etc instead of just fcking off and staying GONE! we will say and post whatever we want about you.

We are not fools, we know that no man willingly wants to be submissive to another group of men.
So clearly you can't change what you are, but stop hating on BW and blaming us because you feel some inner sense of inadequacy about being an IR black guy!
holycrap

Powell, OH

#441 Feb 17, 2013
MrAnderson9 wrote:
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I'm glad she exists too, because I have been saying for the longest time that women like her are what women like you are all about. It's good that you officially endorse her as the average black woman, because I endorse that as well.
The obsession with BM/WW, the self hate, the over sexed mentality, the lack of intelligence, sex and relationships over her own family, addiction to abuse,.. etc etc...
It's all there..
Everything I've ever stated about the modern day black woman. So when you look at your IR numbers, and low desirability amongst ALL men, then reflect back to what you guys are proping up as your image and how you would like the world to view you.
Most bw aren't on topix and I can assure you this isn't the topic with bw anymore. The ir topic is a dead issue and most bw have moved on from it. I even think shalimarr is talking about it in a different way then how it's been done in the past. I find it a little interesting.

But otherwise, I agree that bw should stop talking about ir. I'm included in this although this topic caught my attention because of the way she's talking about it.

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#442 Feb 17, 2013
Harrisson wrote:
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If having multiple online identities is a valid criterion for being a troll, then the answer is "Yes."
She is QUITE unstable.
Harrison, every now and again you will see a person like her and think she appears to have straight eyes between her nose. Then the more you listen to her she sounds like she has researched and diagnosed every possible answer she could to dislike African American men and has decided everyone she runs into, she wants to dislike them too. deep under all that B.S. she lays out is a person who dislikes any man that is African American that has more swagger than her, because she is indeed possibly a man herself. Make no mistake about it, the stench of bit*h travels with it/he/she on the regular.
holycrap

Powell, OH

#443 Feb 17, 2013
PROUD AFRICAN AMERICAN wrote:
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However if you are rich, just because you marry and procreate with a non black woman doesn't mean that you have to forget about the black community. You can still build a school or start some kind of cause with some of those monies that can benefit black children.
lol. I don't agree with this. Your community is what you wake up to. These men or women don't owe the "black" community a darn thing.

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#444 Feb 17, 2013
AgentSmith9 wrote:
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Because black men make them, duh.
:)
Lol ok I get it.
Bigsmoke

Wakefield, UK

#445 Feb 17, 2013
Shalimarr wrote:
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Only a tiny minority behave like that.
The majority don't even live in London, they live in Ghettos that they willingly create and choose to live in.
Why are you pretending South asian men don't prefer South asian men, when it's clear they do?
Who said South Asian women don't prefer South Asian men? I've said over and over again each group generally prefers their own.

My point is many south Asian women hook up with black men in east London. In my college the top four couplings were:
1. South Asian man + South Asian woman
2. Black Man + Black Woman
3. Black Man + South Asian woman
4. Black Man + White Woman or Mixed Race Woman

South Asian = mainly Pakistani descent
Black = mainly African descent
White = mainly Eastern European immigrants
Mixed Race = mainly Black/White

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#446 Feb 17, 2013
holycrap wrote:
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Most bw aren't on topix and I can assure you this isn't the topic with bw anymore. The ir topic is a dead issue and most bw have moved on from it. I even think shalimarr is talking about it in a different way then how it's been done in the past. I find it a little interesting.
But otherwise, I agree that bw should stop talking about ir. I'm included in this although this topic caught my attention because of the way she's talking about it.
No, this is the exact same way that every other obsessed black female has talked about it.

Go back 4 years ago and look at any of the threads. Same attacks, nothing different.. Nothing.

But I'm glad you embrace her as the average black American woman.

May all the men reading see that this is what black women have to offer you as a wife.

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