Why are so many black men turning Gay?

Why are so many black men turning Gay?

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AKJ

“akj”

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Since: May 08

I love my lil son..:)

#2 Sep 10, 2008
damn shame wrote:
These homo thugs are everywhere. In colleges, in the stores and even in church. Brothers you have to be careful, you might be changing in the locker room and one could be secretly lusting for you. Sistahs your man could be on the down low and end of bringing you home an std that can't be cured.
Brothers if you see signs like your homeboys eyes keep waundering to your nut sack keep away. Sistahs if you come home from work oneday and the room smell like funk but its just your man and his homeboy sitting there then do not hesitate to leave him. He could be a fagwag on the low. YOU'VE BEEN WARNED
I have no problem with homosexual men. To each it's own. However, I'm afraid of the "DL's" of all race's. It's very scary. Also, ladies if you hear rumer's about the guy........It happended to me once. I was floored!!! Thanks God I was safe!! Is honesty to much to ask for?
BrownSuga

Port Saint Lucie, FL

#3 Sep 10, 2008
lmao @ fagwag on the low

jajajajaja

Since: Jan 08

Rochester, UK

#4 Sep 10, 2008
omg, seriously?!

homosexuality is not excepted in the black community, therefore people dont come out

threads, opinions and sterotypes like this are the reason soo many people are on the fucking downlow

STOP JUDGING THEM and maybe they would be more open and admit to the fact that they like for other men to blow there backs out

waatch the movie covered

http://uk.youtube.com/watch... part one ooooo.

DL DL DL.

& its not just men on the DL its women too
of EVERY ethnicity

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Since: Mar 08

Place where few are sober

#5 Sep 10, 2008
I had this fine itallian guy after me, and I was starting to be so into him, and he turned out to be bi.
He goes to the gay bar every week
he walks and talks like a woman
why does he have that rainbow on his facebook profile?
Why does he have to constantly be with his male friend, and threatend to quit work,if he wasn't allowed to work on the same floor as his male friend.He also said he was going to adopt kids with this same male friend, but acted like he was kidding and said he wasnt gay, when I confronted him.
but he was crazy after me, so I think he likes girls just as much or not more than guys, but I am not trying to kiss the lips of those that have sucked gay cock. I dont want a pecker near me that has been inserted into a man.
And he denied being gay but there are too many red flags, and it's a wrap.

Since: Aug 08

Herndon, VA

#6 Sep 10, 2008
Nubian_x wrote:
omg, seriously?!
homosexuality is not excepted in the black community, therefore people dont come out
threads, opinions and sterotypes like this are the reason soo many people are on the fucking downlow
STOP JUDGING THEM and maybe they would be more open and admit to the fact that they like for other men to blow there backs out
waatch the movie covered
http://uk.youtube.com/watch... part one ooooo.
DL DL DL.
& its not just men on the DL its women too
of EVERY ethnicity
"STOP JUDGING THEM and maybe they would be more open and admit to the fact that they like for other men to blow there backs out"

Lmao. The way I see it is more women for me.

Since: Mar 08

Location hidden

#7 Sep 10, 2008
I don't think many are all of a sudden turning gay, it's just a lot more acceptable nowadays and ppl are more open about it.

“By Phashionette”

Since: Sep 08

Flashing Lights, Chicago IL

#8 Sep 10, 2008
damn shame wrote:
These homo thugs are everywhere. In colleges, in the stores and even in church. Brothers you have to be careful, you might be changing in the locker room and one could be secretly lusting for you. Sistahs your man could be on the down low and end of bringing you home an std that can't be cured.
Brothers if you see signs like your homeboys eyes keep waundering to your nut sack keep away. Sistahs if you come home from work oneday and the room smell like funk but its just your man and his homeboy sitting there then do not hesitate to leave him. He could be a fagwag on the low. YOU'VE BEEN WARNED
LMAO... arousing post! I don't know how many black men are actually fitting the suit of what you describe, but somthing is most definitely taking place. I can assure you, there are those who are homophobic, the group that doesn't care about the next man's sexual preference as long as a homosexual doesn't try to push up on them and those who are keeping their sexual orientation on a don't need to know basis. I love black men, but take precaution when getting involved with someone. I'd would like to call it looking out for myself overall (this subject is just a particular aspect). Anyway, around here we tagged these so called "thugs" who were exposed as "tops" or "bottoms" when it comes to guy to guy relations; do-rag fags (no offense to the men who aren't cawardly hiding their sexuality).

Phashionette

“SEXY BOY”

Level 1

Since: Mar 08

Philadelphia,PA

#10 Sep 10, 2008
damn shame wrote:
These homo thugs are everywhere. In colleges, in the stores and even in church. Brothers you have to be careful, you might be changing in the locker room and one could be secretly lusting for you. Sistahs your man could be on the down low and end of bringing you home an std that can't be cured.
Brothers if you see signs like your homeboys eyes keep waundering to your nut sack keep away. Sistahs if you come home from work oneday and the room smell like funk but its just your man and his homeboy sitting there then do not hesitate to leave him. He could be a fagwag on the low. YOU'VE BEEN WARNED
If yall ignorant judgemental ass black women and blacks in general wasn't so dam hateful,homophobic,and judgemental,they will be out and yall would know when we are gay or straight.This is why the DL is so prevelant amongest African Americans and why most gay men of other races are out and open.We are the most homophobic race there is and this is why our brothers are afriad to come out and they just keep it on the DL.

So,you can blame yourselves for that.Stop being so hatefiul and judgemental and maybe they won't be so afraid to be themselves,then you'll know whos gay and who isn't.Why the hell you worried about it anyway? You just mad that they don't want you and that the most attractive men are gay or bisexual.Yall women get us men who are good and treat us like shit,then when yall can't find one yall blame gay men bitch and complain.

Shut up and stop yapping off at the mouth .Maybe then,you'll find a good man.Don't worry about gay men and what they do in the privacy of their homes.This is America and they have a right to lie just like you've done.

“reppin' dat 2up 2 down”

Since: Sep 07

Va

#11 Sep 10, 2008
butterflye25 wrote:
I had this fine itallian guy after me, and I was starting to be so into him, and he turned out to be bi.
He goes to the gay bar every week
he walks and talks like a woman
why does he have that rainbow on his facebook profile?
Why does he have to constantly be with his male friend, and threatend to quit work,if he wasn't allowed to work on the same floor as his male friend.He also said he was going to adopt kids with this same male friend, but acted like he was kidding and said he wasnt gay, when I confronted him.
but he was crazy after me, so I think he likes girls just as much or not more than guys, but I am not trying to kiss the lips of those that have sucked gay cock. I dont want a pecker near me that has been inserted into a man.
And he denied being gay but there are too many red flags, and it's a wrap.
Yeah he gay. How many dudes you know get mad when they can' work on the same floor with they mail friend. Most of the time when your instincts act like that they are right

“By Phashionette”

Since: Sep 08

Flashing Lights, Chicago IL

#12 Sep 10, 2008
Nubian_x wrote:
omg, seriously?!
homosexuality is not excepted in the black community, therefore people dont come out
threads, opinions and sterotypes like this are the reason soo many people are on the fucking downlow
STOP JUDGING THEM and maybe they would be more open and admit to the fact that they like for other men to blow there backs out
waatch the movie covered
http://uk.youtube.com/watch... part one ooooo.
DL DL DL.
& its not just men on the DL its women too
of EVERY ethnicity
You're right about homsexuality not being accepted in the black community, however, some of these guys who are maintaining their confidential sexual identification would continue to do just that... and have no intentions on revealing it. Some people are not as brave as others and unpleasant emotion would prevent them from coming out to the whole entire world. That's really their business, nonetheless, I find it very distateful if a man is engaging in physical and emotional affection with a male and fail to educate women about his activities. It's also unjustifiable if he's pressing himself on heterosexual men... So yeah, I have no problems with gay men, unless they make confrontation and that's when I began to judge accordingly (=D).

Phashionette

“reppin' dat 2up 2 down”

Since: Sep 07

Va

#14 Sep 10, 2008
CHOCOLATE FLAVOR wrote:
<quoted text>If yall ignorant judgemental ass black women and blacks in general wasn't so dam hateful,homophobic,and judgemental,they will be out and yall would know when we are gay or straight.This is why the DL is so prevelant amongest African Americans and why most gay men of other races are out and open.We are the most homophobic race there is and this is why our brothers are afriad to come out and they just keep it on the DL.
So,you can blame yourselves for that.Stop being so hatefiul and judgemental and maybe they won't be so afraid to be themselves,then you'll know whos gay and who isn't.Why the hell you worried about it anyway? You just mad that they don't want you and that the most attractive men are gay or bisexual.Yall women get us men who are good and treat us like shit,then when yall can't find one yall blame gay men bitch and complain.
Shut up and stop yapping off at the mouth .Maybe then,you'll find a good man.Don't worry about gay men and what they do in the privacy of their homes.This is America and they have a right to lie just like you've done.
You may have a small point but being DL can hurt someone. If they didn't care what others thought then then would not have a problem coming out. I would be hurt if I found out the love of my life was dl. Why do you think Afro Americans suffer high aids rates? Our men go in prison, fool around and then come home to their wife or girlfriend not knowing what type of disease they could have. I believe that's called being selfish and not giving a damn about someone elses life

Level 8

Since: Jan 08

Arkansas City, KS

#15 Sep 10, 2008
cus they like penus cuz it be in azz
Good Black Man

Alexandria, VA

#16 Sep 10, 2008
If black men are just now turning gay white men must be 500 years in advance. Whiteys always claim they're advanced and shit!
ray ray

Glendale, AZ

#17 Sep 10, 2008
Joao Pequeno wrote:
<quoted text>
"STOP JUDGING THEM and maybe they would be more open and admit to the fact that they like for other men to blow there backs out"
Lmao. The way I see it is more women for me.
LOL!!!
ray ray

Glendale, AZ

#18 Sep 10, 2008
Because raping grown men is more of a challenge and also the rectum is tighter than a Vagina ! It doesnt make any sense too me but hey , I'm a White guy . LOL

“reppin' dat 2up 2 down”

Since: Sep 07

Va

#19 Sep 10, 2008
QueenofTheNile wrote:
<quoted text>
Yeah he gay. How many dudes you know get mad when they can' work on the same floor with they mail friend. Most of the time when your instincts act like that they are right
Typo male not mail and can't

“SEXY BOY”

Level 1

Since: Mar 08

Philadelphia,PA

#20 Sep 10, 2008
QueenofTheNile wrote:
<quoted text>
You may have a small point but being DL can hurt someone. If they didn't care what others thought then then would not have a problem coming out. I would be hurt if I found out the love of my life was dl. Why do you think Afro Americans suffer high aids rates? Our men go in prison, fool around and then come home to their wife or girlfriend not knowing what type of disease they could have. I believe that's called being selfish and not giving a damn about someone elses life
And im not arguing that,but yall have to realize why they do these things.Yall have to realize why they are willing to go to any extreme even if that includes hurting their wives not to be exposed.If we as blacks accept our people for what they are and what they do,all this secretly nonsense wouldn't be.

No,im not agreeing with what they do,nor am i saying it's right to hurt someone mentally,emotionally,and physically,im just trying to help you see why the DL is such an issue in the black communities and why it isn't prevelant in the white,asian,and latino communities.

You would think we would be the first to accept them ,because we have been discriminated against the most ,and we know how it feels to be mistreated because of our skin color.And, i find it hard to believe that after all the fighting blacks done to be treated equally we are the most homophobic and prejudice race to gays.

If we were more accepting of them,they wouldn't be on the DL,and all this wouldn't be.That's all im saying my sistah and that's the bottom line.Another thing,it's not only Dl men infecting yall,it's women infecting women and they pass it onto men who come home and give it to their wives and girlfriends.

Yall have to stop thinking that if a man is gay or DL that makes him automatically infected because all studies have shown that 60 percent of HIV/AIDS patients have in fact contracted the disease through hetrosexual activity.You see,it's this uneducated mentality that has damage and will ultimately destroy our race.We need to educate ourselves more.

“reppin' dat 2up 2 down”

Since: Sep 07

Va

#21 Sep 10, 2008
Please forgive my typos ya'll.im at work typing on my phone.

Since: Mar 08

New York, NY

#23 Sep 10, 2008
I noticed this to...my theory is the whole fatherless thing. All these dudes raised by women, thats all they are around growing up. As far as the DL goes, thats any race of man. Butterfly can tell you that.lol

“reppin' dat 2up 2 down”

Since: Sep 07

Va

#24 Sep 10, 2008
Blindian wrote:
I noticed this to...my theory is the whole fatherless thing. All these dudes raised by women, thats all they are around growing up. As far as the DL goes, thats any race of man. Butterfly can tell you that.lol
I think its the father thing too. I also think prison plays a factor too. I've heard of men going into prison hard as hell but then come out a sweet pea after a couple of years.

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