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How to attract African-American guys? I'm Asian

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Since: Feb 10

Beijing

#1 Oct 6, 2010
I'm a Chinese girl who is currently an undergraduate in University of Illinois. I was born and and brought in Beijing, but I find black guys really attractive to me.. I like a lot of African-American celebrities, like Michael Jackson(I'm a huge fan of him^_^), Will Smith, etc. I think many black people have perfect stature and many of them are gifted artists. To be honest, I really wanna have a handsome African-American boyfriend no matter what others think.

However, the sad truth is that most African-American guys probably don't find Asian girls attractive. I've stayed in the US for 2 months and I've met several handsome black guys in my uni...However, I don't know why they never look at me in a romantic way. I'm shy, so I really don't know how to get to know them. Compared with most other Asian girls, I think I'm good-looking enough. Also, I have a height of 5'7''.

If u r African American, can u tell me how to make me attractive to BM? Should I make up every day? Would they love a girl who's shy and a little bit hard-working? How do they feel about Chinese people? I know that everyone's taste is different, but I believe they must be sharing some similarities!

PS I don't like gangsters, I'd only love someone who's well-educated and polite.
Black Copperhead

Missouri City, TX

#4 Oct 6, 2010
Just do what you do maybe some BM like AW my girlfriend is Blasian (hlaf Black half Asian if you don't know) they make the best babies lol.

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#5 Oct 6, 2010
SweetBlossom wrote:
I'm a Chinese girl who is currently an undergraduate in University of Illinois. I was born and and brought in Beijing, but I find black guys really attractive to me.. I like a lot of African-American celebrities, like Michael Jackson(I'm a huge fan of him^_^), Will Smith, etc. I think many black people have perfect stature and many of them are gifted artists. To be honest, I really wanna have a handsome African-American boyfriend no matter what others think.
However, the sad truth is that most African-American guys probably don't find Asian girls attractive. I've stayed in the US for 2 months and I've met several handsome black guys in my uni...However, I don't know why they never look at me in a romantic way. I'm shy, so I really don't know how to get to know them. Compared with most other Asian girls, I think I'm good-looking enough. Also, I have a height of 5'7''.
If u r African American, can u tell me how to make me attractive to BM? Should I make up every day? Would they love a girl who's shy and a little bit hard-working? How do they feel about Chinese people? I know that everyone's taste is different, but I believe they must be sharing some similarities!
PS I don't like gangsters, I'd only love someone who's well-educated and polite.
I can tell you about the first asian (chinese in this case) girl I dated. She was petite which I will stereotype and say that most chinese girls I know are small. I'll also stereotype and say that most AAM like their women voluptuous - not fat,.. just curvy. So how did we hit it off. She worked in a chinese restaurant that I frequented and was also a student as well. I had a feeling that she liked me but I didn't give it much thought until I had lunch in the restaurant with a couple of friends. And one of the guys said, "dude, did you see how that girl was looking at you?". It was at that moment that I started to really notice her, and she was beautiful. I just never saw myself dating an asian girl, before.
While having a conversation with her, she told me about a movie she went to see. And I asked her who she went with, and she said no one. At first I found it hard to believe that a girl this beautiful would be going to the movies alone, but I later learned that both chinese men and women can be very shy like that where there isn't a lot of open dating. Well I wasn't going to let her sit in a movie theatre, alone, so I ask her if she wanted to hangout. And of course she was thrilled.
We ended up dating for a little over a year. It was a very good relationship but I wasn't ready to settle down, and she wanted to get married.

Having been in that relationship, I understand what you're asking but I don't know how to give you a good answer. There's not a lot going on between AAM and Asian women, so it doesn't automatically occur to an AAM to holla at an Asian girl. I think you should just try to be around the guy you like, as much as possible and hope for the best.

Since: Sep 10

North Las Vegas, NV

#6 Oct 6, 2010
Only thing I can say is just be yourself, Every now and then talk to them sooner or later one gonna notice you, Let them know you interested in a AAM open up a little don't be so shy. I thought about hooking up with an Asia women my self.

“"Stop Being Hypocrites...... ."”

Since: Aug 10

Debunking fools, NY

#7 Oct 6, 2010
INB4 Hypocrites post :)

Also i love asian chicks and my current girlfriend is asian(japanese) although it might seem rare for other black dudes to like asian chicks, i suggest to just be yourself, sorry if it sounds to simple but that's how my girl was.

Also join some clubs or other activities your university has, thats also a great way to meet someone. I met my girlfriend through our college's anime club :D

Level 1

Since: Feb 10

Beijing

#8 Oct 6, 2010
gwalk300 wrote:
Only thing I can say is just be yourself, Every now and then talk to them sooner or later one gonna notice you, Let them know you interested in a AAM open up a little don't be so shy. I thought about hooking up with an Asia women my self.
Actually I don't dare to tell any others, especially guys that I'm interested in AAM.. I simply told several black guys that I like MJ so much..
What I'm concerned about is that if Chinese guys know that I'm interested in AAM, they might have some prejudice against me!
The Truth

Lake Oswego, OR

#9 Oct 6, 2010
Be careful. Sex with black "people" is the quickest way to get AIDS. If you must pursue such a perversion as bestiality with a black "person" then do yourself a favor and practice safe sex.
Two White Crows

AOL

#10 Oct 6, 2010
SweetBlossom wrote:
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Actually I don't dare to tell any others, especially guys that I'm interested in AAM.. I simply told several black guys that I like MJ so much..
What I'm concerned about is that if Chinese guys know that I'm interested in AAM, they might have some prejudice against me!
Damn bytch..?

Could you be more idiotic/stupid?

If you stay away from AA's you'll also be staying away from AIDS's and every other known vile thing on earth.

GET you head out of your azz and use some logic for once or else become another STD statistic..!

Damn ..!
Tam

UK

#11 Oct 6, 2010
SweetBlossom wrote:
I'm a Chinese girl who is currently an undergraduate in University of Illinois. I was born and and brought in Beijing, but I find black guys really attractive to me.. I like a lot of African-American celebrities, like Michael Jackson(I'm a huge fan of him^_^&#65289;, Will Smith, etc. I think many black people have perfect stature and many of them are gifted artists. To be honest, I really wanna have a handsome African-American boyfriend no matter what others think.
However, the sad truth is that most African-American guys probably don't find Asian girls attractive. I've stayed in the US for 2 months and I've met several handsome black guys in my uni...However, I don't know why they never look at me in a romantic way. I'm shy, so I really don't know how to get to know them. Compared with most other Asian girls, I think I'm good-looking enough. Also, I have a height of 5'7''.
If u r African American, can u tell me how to make me attractive to BM? Should I make up every day? Would they love a girl who's shy and a little bit hard-working? How do they feel about Chinese people? I know that everyone's taste is different, but I believe they must be sharing some similarities!
PS I don't like gangsters, I'd only love someone who's well-educated and polite.
Stick to you own. Only pathetic and desperate AA would be interested at you. By the look of it, you are doing very well. Clap! Clap!
Tam

UK

#12 Oct 6, 2010
AfricanPride_1 wrote:
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My advice to you is to stick with your Asian men. It will make everyone's life easier.
I couldn't agree more. Just look at these sad and pathetic AAs men. All is that's needed is for a woman of a different skin colour to show them a sligh interest and they come out of the woods telling how they dated asians and how the asian bytch should persevere and continue hunting blah blah blah. This is sickening. If this was an AA woman showing interest in asian men, the asian men would trash her to piece telling her they don't date black girls etc etc. My word! Many of these AAs [men and women] have no pride, shame or dignity whatsoever. I am not surprised why they get insulted and ridiculed here every time. Not surprised at all. Disgusting.

Level 1

Since: Feb 10

Beijing

#13 Oct 6, 2010
Tam wrote:
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I couldn't agree more. Just look at these sad and pathetic AAs men. All is that's needed is for a woman of a different skin colour to show them a sligh interest and they come out of the woods telling how they dated asians and how the asian bytch should persevere and continue hunting blah blah blah. This is sickening. If this was an AA woman showing interest in asian men, the asian men would trash her to piece telling her they don't date black girls etc etc. My word! Many of these AAs [men and women] have no pride, shame or dignity whatsoever. I am not surprised why they get insulted and ridiculed here every time. Not surprised at all. Disgusting.
U're such a pathetic and ignorant racist!! I wish that u r not Chinese! I really hate those who judge a person's quality by his/her race!! U r just one of those!!!
ugly mnkeys

United States

#14 Oct 6, 2010
hmm bm usually try to screw anything but anyways hang in there it will be hard as hell to find an intelligent and polite bm

“Just me”

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Since: Dec 08

london

#15 Oct 6, 2010
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
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I can tell you about the first asian (chinese in this case) girl I dated. She was petite which I will stereotype and say that most chinese girls I know are small. I'll also stereotype and say that most AAM like their women voluptuous - not fat,.. just curvy. So how did we hit it off. She worked in a chinese restaurant that I frequented and was also a student as well. I had a feeling that she liked me but I didn't give it much thought until I had lunch in the restaurant with a couple of friends. And one of the guys said, "dude, did you see how that girl was looking at you?". It was at that moment that I started to really notice her, and she was beautiful. I just never saw myself dating an asian girl, before.
Lol this sounds like a love sequel from Titanic
While having a conversation with her, she told me about a movie she went to see. And I asked her who she went with, and she said no one. At first I found it hard to believe that a girl this beautiful would be going to the movies alone, but I later learned that both chinese men and women can be very shy like that where there isn't a lot of open dating. Well I wasn't going to let her sit in a movie theatre, alone, so I ask her if she wanted to hangout. And of course she was thrilled.
We ended up dating for a little over a year. It was a very good relationship but I wasn't ready to settle down, and she wanted to get married.
Having been in that relationship, I understand what you're asking but I don't know how to give you a good answer. There's not a lot going on between AAM and Asian women, so it doesn't automatically occur to an AAM to holla at an Asian girl. I think you should just try to be around the guy you like, as much as possible and hope for the best.
LOL this sounds like a love story frm Titanic

Level 1

Since: Feb 10

Beijing

#17 Oct 7, 2010
DISASTER LOOMS wrote:
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I can tell you about the first asian (chinese in this case) girl I dated. She was petite which I will stereotype and say that most chinese girls I know are small. I'll also stereotype and say that most AAM like their women voluptuous - not fat,.. just curvy. So how did we hit it off. She worked in a chinese restaurant that I frequented and was also a student as well. I had a feeling that she liked me but I didn't give it much thought until I had lunch in the restaurant with a couple of friends. And one of the guys said, "dude, did you see how that girl was looking at you?". It was at that moment that I started to really notice her, and she was beautiful. I just never saw myself dating an asian girl, before.
While having a conversation with her, she told me about a movie she went to see. And I asked her who she went with, and she said no one. At first I found it hard to believe that a girl this beautiful would be going to the movies alone, but I later learned that both chinese men and women can be very shy like that where there isn't a lot of open dating. Well I wasn't going to let her sit in a movie theatre, alone, so I ask her if she wanted to hangout. And of course she was thrilled.
We ended up dating for a little over a year. It was a very good relationship but I wasn't ready to settle down, and she wanted to get married.
Having been in that relationship, I understand what you're asking but I don't know how to give you a good answer. There's not a lot going on between AAM and Asian women, so it doesn't automatically occur to an AAM to holla at an Asian girl. I think you should just try to be around the guy you like, as much as possible and hope for the best.
It's such a sweet story! I really wish u could be together forever... Anyway, I don't wanna give up the idea of finding a nice BM who really loves me.
Tam

UK

#18 Oct 7, 2010
SweetBlossom wrote:
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U're such a pathetic and ignorant racist!! I wish that u r not Chinese! I really hate those who judge a person's quality by his/her race!! U r just one of those!!!
Don't be so stupid. Me! A Chinese! Not in a million years. I am African if you must know. Stop you silly thread and go find a Chinese man. What is it about this interratial nonesense? Is it the new vogue or something? Pathetic! Go and get a life.
Il Jong Heel

Woodway, TX

#19 Oct 7, 2010
U want black guy. Here how u get he. Just walk up he and say, what you got brother? Then rub he package and stroke your coochee. He get message then tell he I want suck it big black baby making man. That make he your big black lover man.

Level 1

Since: Feb 10

Beijing

#20 Oct 7, 2010
Tam wrote:
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Don't be so stupid. Me! A Chinese! Not in a million years. I am African if you must know. Stop you silly thread and go find a Chinese man. What is it about this interratial nonesense? Is it the new vogue or something? Pathetic! Go and get a life.
U r African??! Only a idiot will believe u!! Your life is just a tragedy, cuz your head is full of trash and hatred!!

“Everybody Dies...”

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Since: Jan 10

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#21 Oct 7, 2010
Il Jong Heel wrote:
U want black guy. Here how u get he. Just walk up he and say, what you got brother? Then rub he package and stroke your coochee. He get message then tell he I want suck it big black baby making man. That make he your big black lover man.
The crazy part is that I really believe that YOU believe that's how it works. You probably replay the black guys part in Grand Torino over and over again as confirmation.

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Since: Jan 10

...But not Everybody Lives.

#22 Oct 7, 2010
SweetBlossom wrote:
I'm a Chinese girl who is currently an undergraduate in University of Illinois. I was born and and brought in Beijing, but I find black guys really attractive to me.. I like a lot of African-American celebrities, like Michael Jackson(I'm a huge fan of him^_^&#65289;, Will Smith, etc. I think many black people have perfect stature and many of them are gifted artists. To be honest, I really wanna have a handsome African-American boyfriend no matter what others think.
However, the sad truth is that most African-American guys probably don't find Asian girls attractive. I've stayed in the US for 2 months and I've met several handsome black guys in my uni...However, I don't know why they never look at me in a romantic way. I'm shy, so I really don't know how to get to know them. Compared with most other Asian girls, I think I'm good-looking enough. Also, I have a height of 5'7''.
If u r African American, can u tell me how to make me attractive to BM? Should I make up every day? Would they love a girl who's shy and a little bit hard-working? How do they feel about Chinese people? I know that everyone's taste is different, but I believe they must be sharing some similarities!
PS I don't like gangsters, I'd only love someone who's well-educated and polite.
Just be yourself. Don't try to act black or anything, that's not a good look. So you're back in Beijing? If here, I would just say to maybe find some social hang out spots where they go, of course nothing thugged out but somewhere chill that has a good vibe to converse. Do BM like Asian women? Men like pretty women period, so if you fit the bill then things will fall in place.
Rising Force

United States

#23 Oct 7, 2010
SweetBlossom wrote:
I'm a Chinese girl who is currently an undergraduate in University of Illinois. I was born and and brought in Beijing, but I find black guys really attractive to me.. I like a lot of African-American celebrities, like Michael Jackson(I'm a huge fan of him^_^&#65289;, Will Smith, etc. I think many black people have perfect stature and many of them are gifted artists. To be honest, I really wanna have a handsome African-American boyfriend no matter what others think.
However, the sad truth is that most African-American guys probably don't find Asian girls attractive. I've stayed in the US for 2 months and I've met several handsome black guys in my uni...However, I don't know why they never look at me in a romantic way. I'm shy, so I really don't know how to get to know them. Compared with most other Asian girls, I think I'm good-looking enough. Also, I have a height of 5'7''.
If u r African American, can u tell me how to make me attractive to BM? Should I make up every day? Would they love a girl who's shy and a little bit hard-working? How do they feel about Chinese people? I know that everyone's taste is different, but I believe they must be sharing some similarities!
PS I don't like gangsters, I'd only love someone who's well-educated and polite.
I was gonna say move to Atlanta, hit the clubs and enter as many booty shake contests as you can, but since you're Chinese you probably aint got no ass. Next......

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