I'm 3mos Pregnant With White Baby

I'm 3mos Pregnant With White Baby

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#1 Oct 5, 2013
I haven't been on topix in a while. I'm pregnant now. I'm not sure what to do. I know it's white. I had sex with two men that month, one was black and one was white but whenever I had sex with black guys I made sure they used protection. He is saying he is going to marry me but he keeps making excuses for why he hasn't yet. As of now we are engaged.

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#2 Oct 5, 2013
Kind of sounds like my story only my ex-boyfriend is spanish. Although he wanted to marry me before I was pregnant. Oh, and he was the only one I had sex with so I know who the father is.
Tekken

Acworth, GA

#3 Oct 5, 2013
Is the he you're marrying the black or white man and how old are you.

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#4 Oct 5, 2013
I'm about 5 months now.

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#5 Oct 5, 2013
Why would you expect him to marry you right away when you were having sex with multiple men? If you want him to be committed you need to be too.

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#6 Oct 5, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
I'm about 5 months now.
Well congratulations. The guy I'm pregnant by is supposedly going through a divorce. That is his excuse but he's no closer to that than when I met him.

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#7 Oct 5, 2013
Tekken wrote:
Is the he you're marrying the black or white man and how old are you.
I'm supposed to be marrying the white guy I'm pregnant by.

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#8 Oct 5, 2013
Matthew_1 wrote:
Why would you expect him to marry you right away when you were having sex with multiple men? If you want him to be committed you need to be too.
Ok, we weren't in a relationship at the time. We were just FWB's and the black guy was an ex. I'm pregnant now though. I don't believe in abortion and I don't want to be a single mother. He doesn't want me to get an abortion either. If I was a mean person I would since he is dragging his feet about the divorce but I won't hurt the baby just because of him.
Albert B

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#9 Oct 5, 2013
NattyTurner wrote:
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I'm supposed to be marrying the white guy I'm pregnant by.
poor guy... Marrying a ho/cheater.

I feel sorry for him.
Tekken

Acworth, GA

#10 Oct 5, 2013
How old are you.

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#13 Oct 5, 2013
NattyTurner wrote:
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Well congratulations. The guy I'm pregnant by is supposedly going through a divorce. That is his excuse but he's no closer to that than when I met him.
Thanks. Congrats to you to. I don't agree with divorce nor do I agree with sleeping with a man who is still married even if it is just by law, perhaps you should have waited until the divorce was final. Don't want to judge, but somethings just can't go under my radar.

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#14 Oct 5, 2013
Biracial Joyce wrote:
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If you felt that the black man needed to use protection (Which was wise on your part) but then you probably already felt that he may have been infected with an STD so why even take the chance of having him touch you at all? I mean why risk your health & possibly your very life? And maybe the White guy is hesitant because he just may know that you cheated on him with the black man, sometimes secrets are not so secret.
It wasn't about that. I've never had unprotected sex with black men. Not because of diseases but other reasons. The only way I would is if I was married first. I know people will start saying why not with white men, but it's my body. That's the only reason I need.

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#15 Oct 5, 2013
Albert B wrote:
<quoted text>poor guy... Marrying a ho/cheater.
I feel sorry for him.
I didn't cheat on anyone. And a ho wouldn't know who her baby belonged to, and would sleep with multiple men unprotected during the same cycle. I don't cheat. If we were in a relationship, or if he had even been around that night I wouldn't have even had sex that time with someone else. I'm in my 20's. I don't want to say my exact age.

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#16 Oct 5, 2013
Biracial Joyce wrote:
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Stop hijacking threads, this story is not about your rank carcass.
Same troll different name.

You don't know how to relate to people so of course this would be your response. The only thing rank is your breath.

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#17 Oct 5, 2013
Carmiana wrote:
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Thanks. Congrats to you to. I don't agree with divorce nor do I agree with sleeping with a man who is still married even if it is just by law, perhaps you should have waited until the divorce was final. Don't want to judge, but somethings just can't go under my radar.
I didn't see a problem with it. But now it seems like he doesn't want one. He told me it was her who didn't want a divorce but now I think it's him. He doesn't want to be with her, but I'm starting to think he doesn't want a divorce for financial reasons maybe. If not he will be paying child support. I know she is jealous because they don't have kids. My stomach is starting to get bigger I think.

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#18 Oct 5, 2013
NattyTurner wrote:
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I didn't see a problem with it. But now it seems like he doesn't want one. He told me it was her who didn't want a divorce but now I think it's him. He doesn't want to be with her, but I'm starting to think he doesn't want a divorce for financial reasons maybe. If not he will be paying child support. I know she is jealous because they don't have kids. My stomach is starting to get bigger I think.
Wow, that is very unfortunate.
Tekken

Acworth, GA

#19 Oct 5, 2013
How often are you with the father, does the wife know you're pregnant, have you ever met her.

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#20 Oct 5, 2013
Tekken wrote:
How often are you with the father, does the wife know you're pregnant, have you ever met her.
I have a key to "their" house but she doesn't live there and I don't either but I spend the night. I've seen her but we didn't speak. She knows.

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#21 Oct 5, 2013
NattyTurner wrote:
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It wasn't about that. I've never had unprotected sex with black men. Not because of diseases but other reasons. The only way I would is if I was married first. I know people will start saying why not with white men, but it's my body. That's the only reason I need.
it amazes me when I hear people talk like you. So the married white guy is good enough for you to go raw with and ill say it again the MARRIED white guy., are you one of those that buy into the whole "bi-racial kids are the cutest" philosophy? So just out of curiosity if by some miracle he does divorce his wife and get with you what stops him from doing likewise to you? Or is it ok since he's white and "entitled?"

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#22 Oct 5, 2013
mrman0351 wrote:
<quoted text> it amazes me when I hear people talk like you. So the married white guy is good enough for you to go raw with and ill say it again the MARRIED white guy., are you one of those that buy into the whole "bi-racial kids are the cutest" philosophy? So just out of curiosity if by some miracle he does divorce his wife and get with you what stops him from doing likewise to you? Or is it ok since he's white and "entitled?"
It's MY body. I didn't have any problem with having a baby by a black man if we were married first. Why does that bother black men so much when I say it? Having a biracial child and being single doesn't bother me as much as being single with a black child. With white men, usually I left it up to them to wear protection or pull out if they wanted to. He is dragging his feet but he will get a divorce. He already paid some $200 fee to get it going but it will be more complicated than that.

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