BW want an intelligent man. That is ...

BW want an intelligent man. That is a lie.

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Yep I Said It

El Monte, CA

#1 Oct 9, 2013
The bw have this Cinderella wish list of what she wants in a man. Then she will set out to control him.

The bw minimizes, discounts or ignores your opinions and experiences. Your insights are met with condescension, denials and accusations ("I think you read too much!") and she will brush off your information even on subjects on which you are an acknowledged expert. Whatever you say is met with smirks and amused sounding or exaggerated exclamations ("Uh hunh!" "You don't say!" "Really!"). She'll then make it clear that she didn't listen to a word you said.
Yep I Said It

United States

#2 Oct 9, 2013
Look at some of these brothers that tag along behind a bw. They look like they have been terrorized or look dumb as lint.

Today's bw is competing against other bw and can't be seen as weak. That is the reason behind, "I'm strong".

“Shed so many tears”

Level 7

Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

#3 Oct 9, 2013
Yep I Said It wrote:
The bw have this Cinderella wish list of what she wants in a man. Then she will set out to control him.
The bw minimizes, discounts or ignores your opinions and experiences. Your insights are met with condescension, denials and accusations ("I think you read too much!") and she will brush off your information even on subjects on which you are an acknowledged expert. Whatever you say is met with smirks and amused sounding or exaggerated exclamations ("Uh hunh!" "You don't say!" "Really!"). She'll then make it clear that she didn't listen to a word you said.
Not true. A BW wants to love, BM just won't let her!

You're too busy blaming instead of holding us.
You're too busy lying instead of being true to us.
you're too busy running away from us instead of to us.
You BM are just too busy doing all the wrong things.
Yep I Said It

United States

#4 Oct 9, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
<quoted text>Not true. A BW wants to love, BM just won't let her!
You're too busy blaming instead of holding us.
You're too busy lying instead of being true to us.
you're too busy running away from us instead of to us.
You BM are just too busy doing all the wrong things.
Black woman want a divorce because her black husband is too good.

http://m.youtube.com/watch...

70% of domestic violence is initiated by women.
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A domestic violence victim -Washington Times www.washingtontimes.com/.../a-domestic ... Jul 14, 2009 - Yet more than 200 studies have found that women initiate at least as much violence ... women and men said women were the perpetrators about 70 percent of the time.



ERIN PIZZEY set up the world's first refuge for battered women in 1971 - and went on to establish an international movement for victims of domestic violence. Indeed, my mother's explosive temper and abusive behaviour shaped the person I later became like no other event in my life. Thirty years later, when feminism exploded onto the scene, I was often mistaken for a supporter of the movement. But I have never been a feminist, because, having experienced my mother's violence, I always knew that women can be as vicious and irresponsible as men. Feminism, I realised, was a lie. Women and men are both capable of extraordinary cruelty. Indeed, the only thing a child really needs - two biological parents under one roof - was being undermined by the very ideology which claimed to speak up for women's rights. This country is now on the brink of serious moral collapse. We must stop demonising men and start healing the rift that feminism has created between men and women. Harriet Harman's insidious and manipulative philosophy that women are always victims and men always oppressors can only continue this unspeakable cycle of violence. And it's our children who will suffer.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-121...
Yep I Said It

United States

#5 Oct 9, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
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You BM are just too busy doing all the wrong things.
How to Identify a Female Narcissist by Susan Walsh

Personality/Character

1. She insists on being the center of attention, and is often the most charming person in the room. Narcissists are very outgoing and excel at marketing themselves.
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2. She often seeks favorable treatment, and automatic compliance. She believes that she is special, and that she deserves fame, fortune, success and happiness.
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3. She is highly materialistic.
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4. She is prone to envy, though she presents as supremely confident. She seeks opportunities to undermine others, and enjoys sharing confidences about how the two of you are better than others.

5. She is convinced that others are envious and jealous of her, and often uses this excuse for her lack of real, intimate friendships. When her friends enjoy successes of their own, she finds ways to punish them by downplaying their achievements.

6. She lacks empathy, and even common courtesy at times. She puts others down, including you. She does not hesitate to exploit others.

7. She is very competitive.
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8. She believes that she is intellectually superior to her peers.
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9. She blames others for problems. Narcissists don’t believe that they make mistakes, and lack the ability to process shame.
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10. She displays a haughty attitude when she lets her guard down or is confronted. She will act impatient, arrogant and condescending. She will often excuse her own shortcomings by claiming that others are pressuring her or expecting too much of her.

11. She is dishonest and often lies to get what she wants. She will never admit this.

12. She is “psycho:” She engages in risky behaviors, has an addictive personality, and is prone to aggressive behavior when rejected.(Note: This is most common with Histrionic Personality Disorder.)

13. She is unpredictable in her moods and actions. You have trouble figuring out what she wants and where you stand.

14. She is capable of short-term regret, and will apologize profusely if backed into a corner. However, she will quickly rationalize her behavior and return to narcissistic patterns.

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“Shed so many tears”

Level 7

Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

#6 Oct 9, 2013
It'd be nice to have a conversation with you but you ALWAYS result to BS!

NOt every BW is like your imaginary GF!
Malic

Pasadena, TX

#8 Oct 9, 2013
I ain't playing., a b**ch would get slapped!

Now, I'm just not the Man to be "walked over" just because a Black Woman "subject" me like the men she knew. That's the worst kind of insults a BW can give a Black Man.

So, listen up Black Woman......I haven't slapped a Black Woman in 20 years. However, these days are 'a changin'! Watch what you say! You will be SLAPPED.

“Out of the US back in France”

Level 5

Since: May 13

Location hidden

#9 Oct 9, 2013
Intelligence is very attractive. A sure sign of intelligence is taking responsibility for your actions and not blaming anyone else... Most people can't do that.
Yep I Said It

United States

#10 Oct 9, 2013
JustdroppedIN wrote:
It'd be nice to have a conversation with you but you ALWAYS result to BS!
NOt every BW is like your imaginary GF!
You're a hypocrite and a bigot. Take a good look at "You black men...." in your post.

JustdroppedIN | 6 hrs ago

Not true. A BW wants to love, BM just won't let her!

You're too busy blaming instead of holding us. You're too busy lying instead of being true to us. you're too busy running away from us instead of to us.

You BM are just too busy doing all the wrong things.
Yep I Said It

El Monte, CA

#12 Oct 9, 2013
Malic wrote:
I ain't playing., a b**ch would get slapped!
Now, I'm just not the Man to be "walked over" just because a Black Woman "subject" me like the men she knew. That's the worst kind of insults a BW can give a Black Man.
So, listen up Black Woman......I haven't slapped a Black Woman in 20 years. However, these days are 'a changin'! Watch what you say! You will be SLAPPED.
Farrakhan said today's bw have a mouth of a snake and a real man would have them hit the door.

"HIT THE DOOR".....there it is.

Almost 3/4 of bw are single....hit the door
Almost 3/4 of blk mothers are single...hit the door

I'm not the one for bw. She'll go to jail or hell in a NY minute.

Ask Marissa Alexander.
Ask the two hoochies at Micky D's.
Ask the bw at Cracker Barrel

“Shed so many tears”

Level 7

Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

#13 Oct 11, 2013
Yep I Said It wrote:
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You're a hypocrite and a bigot. Take a good look at "You black men...." in your post.
JustdroppedIN | 6 hrs ago
Not true. A BW wants to love, BM just won't let her!
You're too busy blaming instead of holding us. You're too busy lying instead of being true to us. you're too busy running away from us instead of to us.
You BM are just too busy doing all the wrong things.
How is that hypocritical?
Miguel

United States

#14 Oct 11, 2013
Yep I Said It wrote:
<quoted text>
Black woman want a divorce because her black husband is too good.
http://m.youtube.com/watch...
70% of domestic violence is initiated by women.
.
.
.
A domestic violence victim -Washington Times www.washingtontimes.com/.../a-domestic ... Jul 14, 2009 - Yet more than 200 studies have found that women initiate at least as much violence ... women and men said women were the perpetrators about 70 percent of the time.
ERIN PIZZEY set up the world's first refuge for battered women in 1971 - and went on to establish an international movement for victims of domestic violence. Indeed, my mother's explosive temper and abusive behaviour shaped the person I later became like no other event in my life. Thirty years later, when feminism exploded onto the scene, I was often mistaken for a supporter of the movement. But I have never been a feminist, because, having experienced my mother's violence, I always knew that women can be as vicious and irresponsible as men. Feminism, I realised, was a lie. Women and men are both capable of extraordinary cruelty. Indeed, the only thing a child really needs - two biological parents under one roof - was being undermined by the very ideology which claimed to speak up for women's rights. This country is now on the brink of serious moral collapse. We must stop demonising men and start healing the rift that feminism has created between men and women. Harriet Harman's insidious and manipulative philosophy that women are always victims and men always oppressors can only continue this unspeakable cycle of violence. And it's our children who will suffer.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-121...
really that means Tina Turner ex husband was good right ?
Miguel

United States

#15 Oct 11, 2013
Yep I Said It wrote:
<quoted text> Farrakhan said today's bw have a mouth of a snake and a real man would have them hit the door.
"HIT THE DOOR".....there it is.
Almost 3/4 of bw are single....hit the door
Almost 3/4 of blk mothers are single...hit the door
I'm not the one for bw. She'll go to jail or hell in a NY minute.
Ask Marissa Alexander.
Ask the two hoochies at Micky D's.
Ask the bw at Cracker Barrel
far as I know there's single because I love black men are you in jail hello black mother says single because I love black men don't want to be responsible for their children. am i right ?

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