BM & BW, Let's Agree We Hate Each Others.....But What About The Race?

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I AM

Houston, TX

#1 Mar 20, 2014
Something gotta give. It doesn't bother me if a Black Women is not in my life. I've been taken care of as a Mate by Latinas all my life, now. I wouldn't know anything what it like being with a Black Woman and what that really means.

From what I hear, they're strict, too serious, drama-hungry and you know the rest. To be fair, Black Women say not all of them that way and I think that's fair and worthy of the benefit of the doubt. Also, the issues of Black Men is fair game and give Black Women all the reasons to move on.
The "hate and resentment" is in place, now. Good.

So, what about the Race? Let's put aside our indifference while ceding nothing to either side and just think about the state of the Black Race. Do we let it die out after nearly 400 years? Actually, 2019 will mark 400 years from the time the first Black Slave was documented in Virginia, 1619.

How do we combat racism going forward into the future? When do we stand as a Black Race against any adversity against us? Or, is either side getting so big headed to think now, that we're with our White Mates, racism is dead? Do we think it doesn't matter anymore if we see racism committed against each others?
Are we ready to really breed out into other nationality and let Africa be the sole Black Nation left on this planet?

The Melanin experience has made us as a Dominant Specie among the ethnicity. None of them ever match us, athletically nor have the agility and fluidity to move and perform as we do. That all goes "poof!" when we trade our Dominant Self for a Lesser Self as in Caucasoid genes.

It makes my stomach turns when thinking about that..haha. It like being Superman and demoted to a mere mortal. Haha. This is the best Body, Melanin and Genes a Human Being could ever wish for. The absolute best, my People. We are giving that up! Smh......I don't know.

........what do you guys think???

“Perfection is impossible”

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Since: May 13

But excellence is close enough

#3 Mar 20, 2014
I can't agree with that. Yes, we have our share of sour apples within our race but I don't dislike all black men. My boyfriend is a perfect example and we love each other a lot.

“Perfection is impossible”

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Since: May 13

But excellence is close enough

#5 Mar 20, 2014
-I'm glad you're enjoying your life with Latinas, you shouldn't limit your interest in people based on racial barriers. As for me, I'm an advocate of black unity and hopefully we can mend together as a race at some point in time and exceed the white man's expectations that we will be extinct within a few years.

-I don't know about you, but I want black people to love each other, develop relationships with each other, build societies with each other, families with each other, be financially stable, alter our stereotypes positively, and overall construct a viable black community for us as well as our future generations.
I AM

Houston, TX

#6 Mar 20, 2014
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
I can't agree with that. Yes, we have our share of sour apples within our race but I don't dislike all black men. My boyfriend is a perfect example and we love each other a lot.
That's good to hear, Peace, but the trending is strong right now for interracial relationship and only will strengthen in the coming years. Black Couples will be a minority within the Black Race in America....how ever we can ourselves a Black Race, though.

I'm just trying to get us to see what we're really setting ourselves up for. Too many of us just hating and not looking at the deadly consequence of dating out enmass. Whites knows very well the predicament that means for us and act like "we're all Americans" and push that bankrupt nonsense but I'm a Realist, a This ker. And this has a drastic effect how we're look 50 to 100 years from now if this trend gets even stronger.

You and I are Black today and loving it but 100 years from now, we will be plain 'ole White folks and nothing exciting about that when being Black is DOMINANT.
I AM

Houston, TX

#8 Mar 20, 2014
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
-I'm glad you're enjoying your life with Latinas, you shouldn't limit your interest in people based on racial barriers. As for me, I'm an advocate of black unity and hopefully we can mend together as a race at some point in time and exceed the white man's expectations that we will be extinct within a few years.
-I don't know about you, but I want black people to love each other, develop relationships with each other, build societies with each other, families with each other, be financially stable, alter our stereotypes positively, and overall construct a viable black community for us as well as our future generations.
Yeah, I know you're right. I should have tried harder to make it work with a Black American woman and contribute to my Race. Hey, I tried though. It just that, a Latinas wanted me more than my own sistas. I stayed a virgin well into my first year in college. And there weren't many Blacks there.

The first Latina there I met, just swept me off my feet. Broke my virgin hahaha. She actually knew I was a virgin and "show me the way".....hahaha. From there, it was a wrap. Since I been back home and just being around my Race, my curiosity for the sisters grew, exponentially. Then I get to checking them out and see no way I can approach them. They just don't give that "signal" like Latinas and White gals.
Underdog

Mountain View, CA

#9 Mar 20, 2014
Axe-Me-Anything wrote:
<quoted text>
Yeah? Why don't you hold your breath. Ready, set, go!
We call you small we belittle you because we're all too small to chain down the great big monster ego. Be kind be calm be cool because when you learn to enjoy yourself others can enjoy you.
Sadbuttrue

Ashburn, VA

#11 Mar 20, 2014
Axe-Me-Anything wrote:
<quoted text>
Death-bed regrets are dramatic, of course. Yet...
...as a nighur, your words hold nothing new, surprising or encouraging. We've heard it too many times before, but nothing ever changes with you "people".
Maceo

You have that "Slave Minded Mentality" coming from the South and your Ugly!

Unattractive Black men feel that all he need to do is keep a piece of a job, no aspirations to improve their lives, while you run around and chase WW P*ssy like you did and end up with nothing!

You had your entire life and saw what your Father did and most Loser Black men, yet you followed in their footsteps and ended up with nothing! LMAO

Black men are Dumb!
Sadbuttrue

Ashburn, VA

#13 Mar 20, 2014
I AM wrote:
Something gotta give. It doesn't bother me if a Black Women is not in my life. I've been taken creally breed out into other nationality and let Africa be the sole Black Nation left on this planet?
The Melanin experience has made us as a Dominant Specie among the ethnicity. None of them ever match us, athletically nor have the agility and fluidity to move and perform as we do. That all goes "poof!" when we trade our Dominant Self for a Lesser Self as in Caucasoid genes.
It makes my stomach turns when thinking about that..haha. It like being Superman and demoted to a mere mortal. Haha. This is the best Body, Melanin and Genes a Human Being could ever wish for. The absolute best, my People. We are giving that up! Smh......I don't know.
........what do you guys think???
MACEO

You have Poor health, No kids, No White wife, No woman and all you do stays online which is WEIRD and your a damn RECLUSE!

The reason why your a RECLUSE is your IMPOTENT!

Nobody gives a damn about you! You hated or 30 years or more so GO DIE! Black men are moving on and so are Black women!

BYE BYE GO DIE!
Lisa

Tulsa, OK

#14 Mar 20, 2014
If Black people agree to hating each other (and "loving" other races)..then there will NEVER be any empowerment for the race....One can only agree to having some small level of dignity while they voluntarily breed themselves out in support of maintaining the White race superior position in the world.

It takes unity and a healthy cohesiveness race (which involves love not hate) to establish and secure group power (individual power is often time than not too weak to accomplish & maintain collective benefits) which is needed for real empowerment....
Individualism weakens group (hence why nobody really embrace it or limit how much they engage in it, but blacks..thinking you can love Latinos, Whites, Asians; and hate/dislike your own is a losing strategy..even if you genuinely fall in love with someone of another race...it will be in exchange for your race success and security in the world...such a person or body of people should gracefully bow out of a racially competitive world...as this thing is about economics.....race is a camouflage....it's the mainvehicle in which "teams" unite to secure the most resources

Social power has been manipulating Blacks to make individual and collective "wrong" personal decisions.. Those choices have been very damaging....causing many blacks to seek ways to attach themselves to the status of another race....while helping other races maintain Blacks inferior social position by parroting harmful stereotypes about themselves and positive myths about other races..

It is more than obvious..that Blacks...be it Africans with the Chinese or Americans with Whites...Blacks are not choosing independent empowerment (which is the real shot caller position), but are begging for a share from the non-Black power holder (which always leaves you at the mercy of others)..
Troll Detector

New Port Richey, FL

#15 Mar 20, 2014
NoMo wearing his Becky Whyte Costume wrote:


Social power has been manipulating Blacks
Stop CRYING you pathetic REJECT.
Lisa

Tulsa, OK

#16 Mar 20, 2014
I AM wrote:
<quoted text>
Yeah, I know you're right. I should have tried harder to make it work with a Black American woman and contribute to my Race. Hey, I tried though. It just that, a Latinas wanted me more than my own sistas. I stayed a virgin well into my first year in college. And there weren't many Blacks there.
The first Latina there I met, just swept me off my feet. Broke my virgin hahaha. She actually knew I was a virgin and "show me the way".....hahaha. From there, it was a wrap. Since I been back home and just being around my Race, my curiosity for the sisters grew, exponentially. Then I get to checking them out and see no way I can approach them. They just don't give that "signal" like Latinos and White gals.
This post is all kinds of disappointing..that as a man..emotion/love seems to be more of a motivator for you than earning respect, power, wealth, and dominance....
Partnership is much bigger than attraction and personal satisfaction (including sexual gratification..which is a basic need that can easily be met)....

Sadly..as a man..you should not be approaching this from a social point of view (IMHO), but from a capitalistic perspective..as you're in capitalistic competition with other men..not a social one (over sex and women)...

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#18 Mar 20, 2014
I AM wrote:
Something gotta give. It doesn't bother me if a Black Women is not in my life. I've been taken care of as a Mate by Latinas all my life, now. I wouldn't know anything what it like being with a Black Woman and what that really means.
From what I hear, they're strict, too serious, drama-hungry and you know the rest. To be fair, Black Women say not all of them that way and I think that's fair and worthy of the benefit of the doubt. Also, the issues of Black Men is fair game and give Black Women all the reasons to move on.
The "hate and resentment" is in place, now. Good.
So, what about the Race? Let's put aside our indifference while ceding nothing to either side and just think about the state of the Black Race. Do we let it die out after nearly 400 years? Actually, 2019 will mark 400 years from the time the first Black Slave was documented in Virginia, 1619.
How do we combat racism going forward into the future? When do we stand as a Black Race against any adversity against us? Or, is either side getting so big headed to think now, that we're with our White Mates, racism is dead? Do we think it doesn't matter anymore if we see racism committed against each others?
Are we ready to really breed out into other nationality and let Africa be the sole Black Nation left on this planet?
The Melanin experience has made us as a Dominant Specie among the ethnicity. None of them ever match us, athletically nor have the agility and fluidity to move and perform as we do. That all goes "poof!" when we trade our Dominant Self for a Lesser Self as in Caucasoid genes.
It makes my stomach turns when thinking about that..haha. It like being Superman and demoted to a mere mortal. Haha. This is the best Body, Melanin and Genes a Human Being could ever wish for. The absolute best, my People. We are giving that up! Smh......I don't know.
........what do you guys think???
What I think:

One: No all bw are not as you have heard or described...just as all bm aren't the same old stereotyped image seen in the white media!

Two: You are clearly dealing with some personal internal issues that are yours and yours alone!

Three: If you actually believed what you just typed about Melanin...then there is no way that you'd wake next to,go home to and lay down next to a nonbw....hmmm how illogical?

And No we don't all hate or resent each other (just as all others don't love each other to madly!)...speak for yourself!

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#19 Mar 20, 2014
Lisa wrote:
If Black people agree to hating each other (and "loving" other races)..then there will NEVER be any empowerment for the race....One can only agree to having some small level of dignity while they voluntarily breed themselves out in support of maintaining the White race superior position in the world.
It takes unity and a healthy cohesiveness race (which involves love not hate) to establish and secure group power (individual power is often time than not too weak to accomplish & maintain collective benefits) which is needed for real empowerment....
Individualism weakens group (hence why nobody really embrace it or limit how much they engage in it, but blacks..thinking you can love Latinos, Whites, Asians; and hate/dislike your own is a losing strategy..even if you genuinely fall in love with someone of another race...it will be in exchange for your race success and security in the world...such a person or body of people should gracefully bow out of a racially competitive world...as this thing is about economics.....race is a camouflage....it's the mainvehicle in which "teams" unite to secure the most resources
Social power has been manipulating Blacks to make individual and collective "wrong" personal decisions.. Those choices have been very damaging....causing many blacks to seek ways to attach themselves to the status of another race....while helping other races maintain Blacks inferior social position by parroting harmful stereotypes about themselves and positive myths about other races..
It is more than obvious..that Blacks...be it Africans with the Chinese or Americans with Whites...Blacks are not choosing independent empowerment (which is the real shot caller position), but are begging for a share from the non-Black power holder (which always leaves you at the mercy of others)..
Okay...someone here gets it!

Absolutely brilliant...thanks for posting of real value here...on this wretched forum!

Excellent comment!
Lisa

Tulsa, OK

#20 Mar 20, 2014
Moorspeaks wrote:
<quoted text>

Three: If you actually believed what you just typed about Melanin...then there is no way that you'd wake next to,go home to and lay down next to a nonbw....hmmm how illogical?
!
cosign
What one DOES speaks LOUDER than what one claims usually.
WM_Rule_BM

Ashburn, VA

#21 Mar 20, 2014
Lisa wrote:
If Black people agree to hating each other (and "loving" other races)..then there will NEVER be any empowerment for the race....One can only agree to having some small level of dignity while they vs
Social power has been manipulating Blacks to make individual and collective "wrong" personal decisions.. Those choices have been very damaging....causing many blacks to seek ways to attach themselves to the status of another race....while helping other races maintain Blacks inferior social position by parroting harmful stereotypes about themselves and positive myths about other races..
It is more than obvious..that Blacks...be it Africans with the Chinese or Americans with Whites...Blacks are not choosing independent empowerment (which is the real shot caller position), but are begging for a share from the non-Black power holder (which always leaves you at the mercy of others)..
Maceo

Do you have a Certification in Chasing WW P*ssy and hating on Black women?

After investing 35 years, I hope your Degrees pay off! LMAO

You have a CAR, Few Trinkets and no assets so hopefully you got the Unltimate WW ! LMAO

You spend too much time online harassing IR BW on different site....remain move calim on Toix because too many people read the remarks! LMAO

HOpe the 35 years you invested pays off on the backend of your life!

YOU DON'T SEEM VERY TO BE VERY SMART YOU WASTED A LOT OF TIME ON NOTHING! LMAO

bLACK MEN ARE DUMB!

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#22 Mar 20, 2014
Lisa wrote:
<quoted text>cosign
What one DOES speaks LOUDER than what one claims usually.
*Thanks...and this is what bm need to understand in regards to courting,taking care of and building with bw...what one does speaks the loudest!

A man must say what he means,and mean what he says...and live by his word!

All of this running around...like little boys...playing games...being irresponsible and creating pain,hatred and confusion in the lives of women and children is the poison that will eventually kill bm!
WM_Rule_BM

Ashburn, VA

#23 Mar 20, 2014
Axe-Me-Anything wrote:
<quoted text>
Kind
Calm
Cool
The buzz-words of a subsidized college idealist that's never had to stand on his own two feet and never will. Life, subsistence and most importantly PLANS FOR THE FUTURE make a person proud and strong. I'll be just fine. And those who enjoy me don't enjoy whiny liberals.
Do you care?is forum. Think hard.
Maceo

You have that "Slave Minded Mentality" coming from the South and your Ugly!

Unattractive Black men feel that all he need to do is keep a piece of a job, no aspirations to improve their lives, while you run around and chase WW P*ssy like you did and end up with nothing!

You had your entire life and saw what your Father did and most Loser Black men, yet you followed in their footsteps and ended up with nothing! LMAO

Black men are Dumb!
WM_Rule_BM

Ashburn, VA

#24 Mar 20, 2014
Moorspeaks--maceo wrote:
<quoted text>
*Thanks...and this is what bm need to understand in regards to courting,taking care of and building with bw...what one does speaks the loudest!
A man must say what he means,and mean what he says...and live by his word!
All of this running around...like little boys...playing games...being irresponsible and creating pain,hatred and confusion in the lives of women and children is the poison that will eventually kill bm!
Maceo

Do you have a Certification in Chasing WW P*ssy and hating on Black women?

After investing 35 years, I hope your Degrees pay off! LMAO

You have a CAR, Few Trinkets and no assets so hopefully you got the Unltimate WW ! LMAO

You spend too much time online harassing IR BW on different site....remain move calim on Toix because too many people read the remarks! LMAO

HOpe the 35 years you invested pays off on the backend of your life!

YOU DON'T SEEM VERY TO BE VERY SMART YOU WASTED A LOT OF TIME ON NOTHING! LMAO

bLACK MEN ARE DUMB!
Lisa

Tulsa, OK

#25 Mar 20, 2014
Moorspeaks wrote:
<quoted text>
*Thanks...and this is what bm need to understand in regards to courting,taking care of and building with bw...what one does speaks the loudest!
A man must say what he means,and mean what he says...and live by his word!
All of this running around...like little boys...playing games...being irresponsible and creating pain,hatred and confusion in the lives of women and children is the poison that will eventually kill bm!
They just don't breed them like you in bulks anymore :/
Particularly..when you can so openly and often give praise to YOUR BW (and other other deserving sistas and black men).. as well as offer constructive criticism "when needed" without gender bias.....it's the type of leadership needed for the larger black community..

“Black Luv or Bust!”

Level 7

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#26 Mar 20, 2014
Jesuspeaceandlove wrote:
-I'm glad you're enjoying your life with Latinas, you shouldn't limit your interest in people based on racial barriers. As for me, I'm an advocate of black unity and hopefully we can mend together as a race at some point in time and exceed the white man's expectations that we will be extinct within a few years.
-I don't know about you, but I want black people to love each other, develop relationships with each other, build societies with each other, families with each other, be financially stable, alter our stereotypes positively, and overall construct a viable black community for us as well as our future generations.
This is also a very good comment!

*As a man...for the reasons that you have listed here in this post....as well as many others...the whole ir thing simply does not appeal to me...not at all....yes it will continue to happen,...but for me as a bm...it's illogical...of no good use and just plain counter productive....I know far too many bw of value...with far too much to offer for that..now I can appreciate some of the things that some nonbw have to offer...just like other men...I think that women are amazing in general...but I don't value these women overall nor see them as options to build with!

I seek to reproduce my own....not that of others!

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