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#279 Nov 18, 2013
ladondaruler1 wrote:
<quoted text> And there isn't a black community without black men. You seem to omit this in that tiny little brain of yours. Like I told you long time ago, if you were concerned about the black community, then you would address every threaten issue that the AA community faces. Prostitution, teen pregnancy, abusive mothers, drug addicted mothers, HIV women, etc. No community can solely be successful or unsuccessful by focusing one's attention on one gender. If black women were collectively together mentally as women like you try to insist, then we would see a much different community than what we see. The fact of the matter is BOTH bm and bw need to get their ish together.
True there is no decent black community without black men and that is why I am trying to persuade black men to straighten up as a whole. the illegitimate pregnancy, prostitution, drug addiction and infection of HIV of black women all led back to the actions of black men.

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#280 Nov 18, 2013
ladondaruler1 wrote:
<quoted text> When people poke fun at blacks, they are not just laughing at bm. They are also laughing at those bw who are loud, rude, obnoxious, and bitter. We're not talking about the good bm and bw, I'm talking bout the ghetto ones. But your narrow mind really believe it's just ghetto black men who are embarrassing the community, and I'm here to tell you that you are part of the problem with that idiotic frame of mind.
What other races acknowledge but most black men fail to realize is that the state of the community reflects the men's (the leaders) behavior. I realize that both ghetto males and females act a fool but what can I do but separate myself from them?
Sadbuttrue

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#282 Nov 18, 2013
Capree wrote:
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It all goes back to self-hatred and having a color complex which is why many black men are pursuing white women. Black women can't change black men because black men must change from within. Black women can not move past this, just away from black men with this mentality until or if they decide to change.
Capree

Very true! Black men are also getting a taste of their own medicine and they hate it! lmao

Everybody is calling them Losers and Facts are that Black men donn't know what to do about their plight collectively their too weak!

Weak Men do what MaCEO does which is whine and Blame the women when they haven't done their jobs as men! lmao

Now their women don't want them!

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#284 Nov 18, 2013
Capree wrote:
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What other races acknowledge but most black men fail to realize is that the state of the community reflects the men's (the leaders) behavior. I realize that both ghetto males and females act a fool but what can I do but separate myself from them?
capree I have a question, you converse with other posters and you also converse with Sadbuttrue, but sadbuttrue believes all other posters are somehow her long lost and oft lamented lover Maceo, soooo why doesn't sadbuttrue call you out for conversing with "maceo" whenever you respond to another poster? I'm just curious as to your opinion on that.

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#285 Nov 19, 2013
jdmdusa wrote:
ban selornapaden
looks like they did.
The Enemy Within

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#286 Nov 19, 2013
emperorjohn wrote:
Man, I love Scandal. Just watched it yesterday.
stfu you weak ass mutt.

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#287 Nov 19, 2013
mrman0351 wrote:
<quoted text> capree I have a question, you converse with other posters and you also converse with Sadbuttrue, but sadbuttrue believes all other posters are somehow her long lost and oft lamented lover Maceo, soooo why doesn't sadbuttrue call you out for conversing with "maceo" whenever you respond to another poster? I'm just curious as to your opinion on that.
Sadbuttrue's business is her owns you need to ask her about why does and don't do certain things.

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#288 Nov 19, 2013
Sadbuttrue wrote:
<quoted text>Capree
Very true! Black men are also getting a taste of their own medicine and they hate it! lmao
Everybody is calling them Losers and Facts are that Black men donn't know what to do about their plight collectively their too weak!
Weak Men do what MaCEO does which is whine and Blame the women when they haven't done their jobs as men! lmao
Now their women don't want them!
Co-sign!

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#289 Nov 19, 2013
Capree wrote:
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True there is no decent black community without black men and that is why I am trying to persuade black men to straighten up as a whole. the illegitimate pregnancy, prostitution, drug addiction and infection of HIV of black women all led back to the actions of black men.
As long as black women like you continue to lean on that victimization mentality, the current state of the black community shall remain the way it is. At some point and time, black women have to held accountable for their own actions and misjudgment. Nobody forces black women to sell their bodies, nobody forces these women to let a man have unprotected sex with them, nobody forces pills, alcohol, and cocaine into black women' bodies. So all this crap about it being led back to black men is straight up hogwash. If black women are all this weak as you seem to insinuate, then why should bm want to be with them??? But you know that's not true, because whenever you feel like patting yourselves on the back, you have no problem labeling black women as the backbone of the community. Sure, when bw do good, its solely of their own doing and a testament of their strength. But when black women do bad and fall short, then it's all black men' fault. SMH Part of being an adult is being responsible for your own actions. Not trying to place sole blame on another, not trying to get someone to share your blame, but accepting what you as an individual and a member of a particular group is responsible for.

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#290 Nov 20, 2013
Capree wrote:
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Sadbuttrue's business is her owns you need to ask her about why does and don't do certain things.
you can't explain it either can you?

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#291 Nov 20, 2013
ladondaruler1 wrote:
<quoted text> As long as black women like you continue to lean on that victimization mentality, the current state of the black community shall remain the way it is. At some point and time, black women have to held accountable for their own actions and misjudgment. Nobody forces black women to sell their bodies, nobody forces these women to let a man have unprotected sex with them, nobody forces pills, alcohol, and cocaine into black women' bodies. So all this crap about it being led back to black men is straight up hogwash. If black women are all this weak as you seem to insinuate, then why should bm want to be with them??? But you know that's not true, because whenever you feel like patting yourselves on the back, you have no problem labeling black women as the backbone of the community. Sure, when bw do good, its solely of their own doing and a testament of their strength. But when black women do bad and fall short, then it's all black men' fault. SMH Part of being an adult is being responsible for your own actions. Not trying to place sole blame on another, not trying to get someone to share your blame, but accepting what you as an individual and a member of a particular group is responsible for.
that was well said and i agree with you 100%...but i just want you to know that you are not the first one to have said that to any of the multitude of self-hating irbw on this forum...it usually goes in one ear and out the other.

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#292 Nov 20, 2013
The Enemy Within wrote:
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stfu you weak ass mutt.
he's a phagget. that's why he's like that.

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#293 Nov 20, 2013
ladondaruler1 wrote:
<quoted text> As long as black women like you continue to lean on that victimization mentality, the current state of the black community shall remain the way it is. At some point and time, black women have to held accountable for their own actions and misjudgment. Nobody forces black women to sell their bodies, nobody forces these women to let a man have unprotected sex with them, nobody forces pills, alcohol, and cocaine into black women' bodies. So all this crap about it being led back to black men is straight up hogwash. If black women are all this weak as you seem to insinuate, then why should bm want to be with them??? But you know that's not true, because whenever you feel like patting yourselves on the back, you have no problem labeling black women as the backbone of the community. Sure, when bw do good, its solely of their own doing and a testament of their strength. But when black women do bad and fall short, then it's all black men' fault. SMH Part of being an adult is being responsible for your own actions. Not trying to place sole blame on another, not trying to get someone to share your blame, but accepting what you as an individual and a member of a particular group is responsible for.
It is not a matter of victimization. Black men need to step up to the black plate as race and take their places as leaders of their community just like other races of men do. Black men need to stop laying all of the responsibility one their women then blaming us when things go wrong but trying to cash in when things go right.

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#294 Nov 20, 2013
mrman0351 wrote:
<quoted text> you can't explain it either can you?
That sentence doesn't make a drop of sense. If you want to know something about another poster then go to that poster and not me.

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#295 Nov 20, 2013
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>That sentence doesn't make a drop of sense. If you want to know something about another poster then go to that poster and not me.
dude, he's telling you that sadbuttrue is batsh8t crazy, but you and her seem to have some deep conversations, so clearly you must understand her crazy a88, because you're emotionally disturbed yourself...and he's curious. nobody in their right mind is gonna engage an insane individual.

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#296 Nov 20, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>that was well said and i agree with you 100%...but i just want you to know that you are not the first one to have said that to any of the multitude of self-hating irbw on this forum...it usually goes in one ear and out the other.
I agree 100%

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#297 Nov 20, 2013
Capree wrote:
<quoted text>That sentence doesn't make a drop of sense. If you want to know something about another poster then go to that poster and not me.
Desmond said it perfectly Capree, you know as well as I do that you don't ask SBT questions because he, she, it, will never answer intelligently, I just wondered if you were willing to give insight. Because I've noticed that there are other IRBW on here who dislike black men as much if not more than you that she will go after as Maceo so I was just wondering why you get a past from that foolishness

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#298 Nov 20, 2013
Desmond Sandiford wrote:
<quoted text>dude, he's telling you that sadbuttrue is batsh8t crazy, but you and her seem to have some deep conversations, so clearly you must understand her crazy a88, because you're emotionally disturbed yourself...and he's curious. nobody in their right mind is gonna engage an insane individual.
Well I don't understand everything about anybody but myself! Only ask me about me! Who would like if I asked you questions about why Harrisson post pictures of his chunky and brags on her but is up in here 24/7 talking to black women. You would think I was crazy and tell me to ask him.

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#299 Nov 20, 2013
Correction:

That's chunky white wife.

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#300 Nov 20, 2013
mrman0351 wrote:
<quoted text> Desmond said it perfectly Capree, you know as well as I do that you don't ask SBT questions because he, she, it, will never answer intelligently, I just wondered if you were willing to give insight. Because I've noticed that there are other IRBW on here who dislike black men as much if not more than you that she will go after as Maceo so I was just wondering why you get a past from that foolishness
I have no idea? SBT never calls Moor aka Moorspeaks, maceo either so go ask him.

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