Black women Moving On! Part 1

Black women Moving On! Part 1

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SadButTrue

Woodbridge, VA

#1 Feb 13, 2013
On this forum, I will post pictures, video, articles on those women who have moved on from Black males who refuse to do anything for Black women, children or their communities!

The forum is to encourage other Black women to stop accepting "less than" and abusive tactics from Black males!

I'm not saying all Black men are abusive but if your a Black woman and you have your act together; stop accepting low rate Black men or let them waste your time!

Black men don't do damn thing for the race they even prey on their Mothers, Black women and other races!

Time to stop supporting men who don't do a damn thing for you!
PLEASE GO

United States

#2 Feb 13, 2013
he Fear of Loss

The fear of loss is an especially powerful mechanism. It could be the fear of losing the relationship, fear of losing your children, your reputation or your money and other assets. Inducing fear, guilt, shame and a sense of obligation are how abusive women control you. If you’re afraid of loss and your wife/girlfriend/ex knows it, you’re basically at her mercy.

Abusive women will:

Threaten you with abandonment.“If you don’t ‘shape up,’ I’m leaving.” Threaten to alienate your children from you or deny you access to them.“If you don’t do as I say, I’m going to tell your son what a bastard you are” or “If you leave you’ll never see your kids again.” Threaten to destroy your career.“I’m going to tell everyone at your office what a sick pervert you are.” Threaten to take all your money.“You owe me. I’m entitled.”

Many of these women will implicitly or explicitly communicate that you’ll never meet anyone else like them. Let’s hope not. The resulting fear is that no other women will want you or find you attractive, which is nonsense. The reality is that emotionally abusive women are a dime a dozen. There’s nothing special about them—except for their highly dysfunctional and toxic characterological traits. You need to change your mindset. Perhaps by “losing” the relationship, you will, ultimately,“win.”

There are far better woman in the world who will treat you with kindness, respect, generosity and mutual consideration. You’re not lucky this woman “puts up with you;” she’s lucky that you put up with her. Being alone is better than being in an abusive relationship. If being on your own is too difficult at first; get a dog or a goldfish.

As for losing your assets, your children and your reputation, these are very real losses. However, if you’re persistent, you can regain and rebuild anything you lose. It won’t be exactly the same, but the longer you stay with this woman, the more you’ll lose—financially and emotionally.

“Mods keep erasing my Avi..”

Since: Dec 06

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#3 Feb 13, 2013
SadButTrue wrote:
On this forum, I will post pictures, video, articles on those women who have moved on from Black males who refuse to do anything for Black women, children or their communities!

The forum is to encourage other Black women to stop accepting "less than" and abusive tactics from Black males!

I'm not saying all Black men are abusive but if your a Black woman and you have your act together; stop accepting low rate Black men or let them waste your time!

Black men don't do damn thing for the race they even prey on their Mothers, Black women and other races!

Time to stop supporting men who don't do a damn thing for you!
And for ever video, picture, article you post, I will post one supporting the opposite of what you promote. Your propaganda will be met with positivity.
PLEASE GO

United States

#4 Feb 13, 2013
Angry Man wrote:
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And for ever video, picture, article you post, I will post one supporting the opposite of what you promote. Your propaganda will be met with positivity.
Thank you. It's time AA's stop ignoring this "propagandist" from flooding the internet with negative stereotypes to shape the worlds perception of AA's.

Too many of us think ignoring SBT is the answer. That is exactly what SBT want.

Here it is in SBT's own words
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Sadbutrue | 2 hrs ago | Reply

If any person is constantly bombarded with a lie that is is never or rarely ever refuted, any person will believe it's the truth

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/TCB029337T42L1O
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Goebbels' famous dictate was: "Propaganda works best when those who are being manipulated are confident they are acting on their own free will." Applying that axiom, it would be best understood as saying something over and over and over again, even if it is totally fabricated and an outright lie, then people will start to believe it.
SadButTrue

Woodbridge, VA

#5 Feb 13, 2013
Angry Man--please Go--MACEO wrote:
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And for ever video, picture, article you post, I will post one supporting the opposite of what you promote. Your propaganda will be met with positivity.
MACEO

We need your support! We know you hate us which is why were running to White males! lmao

MACEO

Stop being jealous! White men do get stunning Black women. All of the Black women in Hollywood who are stunning are ALL WITH WHITE MEN EXCEPT Beyonce!

You keep saying this:

Mica Paris raves about her toyboy boyfriend... who is 346th in line to the British throne!

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-...

I see Black women moving on without Black males!
SadButTrue

Woodbridge, VA

#6 Feb 13, 2013
Mica Paris raves about her toyboy boyfriend... who is 346th in line to the British throne!

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-...

I see Black women moving on without Black males!

“Mods keep erasing my Avi..”

Since: Dec 06

Location hidden

#7 Feb 13, 2013
PLEASE GO wrote:
<quoted text>Thank you. It's time AA's stop ignoring this "propagandist" from flooding the internet with negative stereotypes to shape the worlds perception of AA's.

Too many of us think ignoring SBT is the answer. That is exactly what SBT want.

Here it is in SBT's own words
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Sadbutrue | 2 hrs ago | Reply

If any person is constantly bombarded with a lie that is is never or rarely ever refuted, any person will believe it's the truth

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/TCB029337T42L1O
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Goebbels' famous dictate was: "Propaganda works best when those who are being manipulated are confident they are acting on their own free will." Applying that axiom, it would be best understood as saying something over and over and over again, even if it is totally fabricated and an outright lie, then people will start to believe it.
Who said I was AA? Because I rebuke that ignorance?
Please Go

United States

#8 Feb 13, 2013
Angry Man wrote:
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Who said I was AA? Because I rebuke that ignorance?
Oh stupid, WTF are you kidding?
SadButTrue

Woodbridge, VA

#9 Feb 13, 2013
Angry Man wrote:
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Who said I was AA? Because I rebuke that ignorance?
MACEO

You don't have to lie on me! Those are your remarks, I don't have any problems being accountable!

Your a Fool and a Scoffer! lmao

'He's flipping amazing!': Mica Paris raves about her toyboy boyfriend... who is 346th in line to the British throne!
By HANNA FLINT

PUBLISHED: 10:03 EST, 11 February 2013 | UPDATED: 10:05 EST, 11 February 2013

If a 15-year age gap wasn't enough to test the relationship between Mica Paris and her blue-blooded boyfriend Prince Frederick Alexander Von Preussen, then the tiny issue of his noble heritage wasn't going to be.

The 43-year old soul singer has been dating 28-year-old Alex - who is 346th in line to the British throne - for four-years and is confident enough to say that 'there's no one else I’d rather [marry] than Alex because he’s flipping amazing.

Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-...
CANNED WHIP AZZ

United States

#10 Feb 13, 2013
Angry Man wrote:
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Who said I was AA? Because I rebuke that ignorance?
Oh Stupid aka SBT, Angry Bm, Angry man.

Look on that mirror. That's not smoke, that is whip azz

Pssssss

“Mods keep erasing my Avi..”

Since: Dec 06

Location hidden

#11 Feb 13, 2013
After a Seven-Year Struggle to Have Children, Angela Bassett and HUSBAND (Not Boyfriend) Courtney B. Vance Welcome Twins with the Help of a Surrogate Mother.

http://www.people.com/people/archive/article/...

Try to keep up!
alfie

Stevenage, UK

#13 Feb 13, 2013
moving on to where.
before u can move on u must first have a destination to move to and bw aint gat that.

studies show that no man wants to date or marry her.

bottom of every table.

destination -nowhere
U-Haul

United States

#14 Feb 13, 2013
alfie wrote:
moving on to where.
before u can move on u must first have a destination to move to and bw aint gat that.
studies show that no man wants to date or marry her.
bottom of every table.
destination -nowhere
U-Haul have been waiting for 50 years and bw have not moved yet.
TBMR

Toronto, Canada

#15 Feb 13, 2013
SadButTrue wrote:
On this forum, I will post pictures, video, articles on those women who have moved on from Black males who refuse to do anything for Black women, children or their communities!
The forum is to encourage other Black women to stop accepting "less than" and abusive tactics from Black males!
I'm not saying all Black men are abusive but if your a Black woman and you have your act together; stop accepting low rate Black men or let them waste your time!
Black men don't do damn thing for the race they even prey on their Mothers, Black women and other races!
Time to stop supporting men who don't do a damn thing for you!
Great idea

Black women need to cut out this blind loyalty to black men because the shit is not reciprocated
TBMR

Toronto, Canada

#16 Feb 13, 2013
Angry Man wrote:
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And for ever video, picture, article you post, I will post one supporting the opposite of what you promote. Your propaganda will be met with positivity.
Why?

What is your reasoning behind this?
alfie

Stevenage, UK

#19 Feb 13, 2013
TBMR wrote:
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Great idea
Black women need to cut out this blind loyalty to black men because the shit is not reciprocated
the issue is moving on to where -which destination

all flights which take off must have a landing-right
SadButTrue

Woodbridge, VA

#20 Feb 13, 2013
TBMR--Affie-Loser---MACEO wrote:
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Great idea
Black women need to cut out this blind loyalty to black men because the shit is not reciprocated
To maceo and all of your Profiles

MACEO

Nice story, good for them they support each other; something that Black men rarely do!

Your wife was White and you never supported her; you supported yourself trying to get White Puzzy and wasn't very successful after all your divorced and alone! lmao
SadButTrue

Woodbridge, VA

#21 Feb 13, 2013
U-Haul wrote:
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U-Haul have been waiting for 50 years and bw have not moved yet.
MACEO

Good name, you have to "U HAUL it to an Apartment in Reston, VA and leave her the home! LMAO

U HAUL it or did she U HAUL you? LMAO

Not very smart Maceo! LMAO Not when your an older man! lmao
TBMR

Toronto, Canada

#22 Feb 13, 2013
alfie wrote:
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the issue is moving on to where -which destination
all flights which take off must have a landing-right
According to your other posts on this board every other race of woman is worth more than black women to you

So it should be of no concern to you where we will be landing

Let us worry about that and you can continue to worship white women
SadButTrue

Woodbridge, VA

#23 Feb 13, 2013
TBMR-affie--MACEO wrote:
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According to your other posts on this board every other race of woman is worth more than black women to you
So it should be of no concern to you where we will be landing
Let us worry about that and you can continue to worship white women
MACEO

A fool and Scoffer! lmao

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