Why Do Black Women Hate Nice Guys
Dude

Lawrenceburg, KY

#290 Sep 5, 2009
FlashingLights wrote:
Black women hate nice guys for the same reason that Black men hate nice girls and ignore them to complain about the bad girls that don't want them. i.e. this thread lol.
LOL
Dude

Lawrenceburg, KY

#291 Sep 5, 2009
Latino Italiano wrote:
Only women who have no mental foundation of their own are turned on by 'bad boys'. They're mentally unstable and should be avoided. Be thankful these kinds of females turn you down! Trust me! lol! They're not women, actually. They're most likely ho's and tramps. Stay far away from them.
One shouldn't complain when they proclaim to be a 'good guy' yet they go looking for a tramp that only likes 'bad guys' in turn. If you're a good guy, then look for a good girl. Let trash be with trash! Usually to find something good, it takes patience. Diamonds are always hard to find; if they were easy to find, they'd not be worth much money.
One must be patient and wait to find a good diamond; not give it up to any old dirty rock in the mud.
Patience, young Skywalker... patience. ;)
You must not be "needy" either. Be content with living by yourself as much as possible, or else you'll give in to any interaction and soon settle for trash simply to not be alone. This happens all the time and how many relationships go to the dumps.
People need to first build a foundation within themselves before they go seeking other places to dwell... so to speak.
Be happy all by yourself, or else you'll never find happiness. No other person can make you happy if you're never happy with yourself.
Sustained! Nothing else need to be said...
pinky 42

Monterey, CA

#292 Sep 5, 2009
black women dont respect themselves, therefore they dont want respect from others. they want a thug azz hole who will treat them like hoe shit b*tch, because thats how they think they deserve to be treated. FACT

Since: Jan 08

Myrtle Beach, SC

#296 Sep 6, 2009
FlashingLights wrote:
Black women hate nice guys for the same reason that Black men hate nice girls and ignore them to complain about the bad girls that don't want them. i.e. this thread lol.
Nobody is gonna admit to this. It's the kink in their idiocy.

hawt

Since: Aug 09

Jackson, MI

#297 Sep 6, 2009
I'm a nice guy and black women like me. I'm black/biracial and I never had a problem with a black chick or them wanting a thug. Usually the hoodrats did but I never dealt with them. It's enjoyable meeting and dating nice black women and it's only natural for them to feel the same about a nice guy. Whether black, white etc..

“Israel uses Jim Crow Terrorism”

Level 7

Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

#299 Sep 6, 2009
HenryLee wrote:
I'm a nice guy and black women like me. I'm black/biracial and I never had a problem with a black chick or them wanting a thug. Usually the hoodrats did but I never dealt with them. It's enjoyable meeting and dating nice black women and it's only natural for them to feel the same about a nice guy. Whether black, white etc..
Ok, so you are probably not short either...

Since: Aug 09

Jackson, MI

#300 Sep 6, 2009
fair_guy wrote:
<quoted text>
Ok, so you are probably not short either...
No.

“Israel uses Jim Crow Terrorism”

Level 7

Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

#301 Sep 7, 2009
HenryLee wrote:
<quoted text>
No.
See, I knew it was something...

Since: Aug 09

Jackson, MI

#302 Sep 7, 2009
fair_guy wrote:
<quoted text>
See, I knew it was something...
what do you mean by that?
jenny

Llandovery, UK

#303 Sep 13, 2009
I think you will find its not just black girls all us gals if we are honest with ourselves would rather go with a reckless bad boy type!! Part of the fun of it is rejecting the nice guys while choosing the bad ass.
Soz but its just the way it iz!! xox
mike

Frederick, MD

#304 Oct 2, 2009
Its not about nice its about carrying yourself ike a gentleman. For some reason black women don't like that, they would rather have lazy convicts or slick talking wanna be pimps with gold in their mouths.

you have to be very careful with womwn period, black women especially they are like pit vipers and they will bite you very quickly.
Jack

Frankfort, IL

#305 Apr 25, 2010
BlackAmericanPrincess wrote:
Topix is starting to get annoying. When will this nice guy argument stop? I suggest to all the BM complaining about BM hating them for being good, nice, unattractive, short, fat, blue collar, educated--GO GET A NON BW and leave us alone. If we hate you all so much then why do you continue to approach us?
I no longer pity BM anymore. Either grow some balls and be done with BW if they're so "bad" or learn that rejection is a part of life and move on!
The problem is that alot of us ARE moving on. If black women don't want guys like us they why do they bitch and moan when they see good black men with white women? I see black women bitching about tiger woods and other famous black men who don't date black women. you women tell us you don't want us and to just date out but then you women bitch and moan when you see black men with white women walking down the street. or when you see basketball players with white women.
CowboyJohn-Brad

Chatham, Canada

#306 May 11, 2010
Azenday from Seattle,are you typing this because your 5'3'',250-300 lb.+ wife and/or girlfriend is threatening to beat you up????The women you see with handicapped men are likely with dudes with money,TRUST ME!(Oh,yeah,your broad likes Common because THAT P-whipped a**-clown is making a movie in which he falls for Queensize Fatifah!!!!YYEEECCCCHHHHHHHHH! !!!!!!!!By the way,both Queen-
size Fatifah and I are 5'9'',212 lb.-in Fatifah hasn't put on 40 more pounds to make herself look "Sexier!!!!" for her
role-but I'm a boyishly handsome,56-year-old black dude with
171/2" biceps,so I can carry 212 lb. though I'm so short!!!!)
Jack The Ripper

Hammond, IN

#307 May 12, 2010
Are you talking to me cowboyjohn?
a better question would be WHAT are you talking about?

Level 6

Since: Jun 08

DC

#308 May 12, 2010
Do you know how corny you sound. If you have friends...that will be a mystery to me
CowboyJohn-Brad wrote:
Azenday from Seattle,are you typing this because your 5'3'',250-300 lb.+ wife and/or girlfriend is threatening to beat you up????The women you see with handicapped men are likely with dudes with money,TRUST ME!(Oh,yeah,your broad likes Common because THAT P-whipped a**-clown is making a movie in which he falls for Queensize Fatifah!!!!YYEEECCCCHHHHHHHHH! !!!!!!!!By the way,both Queen-
size Fatifah and I are 5'9'',212 lb.-in Fatifah hasn't put on 40 more pounds to make herself look "Sexier!!!!" for her
role-but I'm a boyishly handsome,56-year-old black dude with
171/2" biceps,so I can carry 212 lb. though I'm so short!!!!)
Black AmericanPrincess

Chicago, IL

#309 May 12, 2010
Swade wrote:
Do you know how corny you sound. If you have friends...that will be a mystery to me<quoted text>
LOL
Tanya Monique

United States

#310 Jun 3, 2010
I am in no way, shape or form, shallow.. I DO NOT run after men for their money, type of job, house or car that they possess. I agree that most of you so called nice blk men are looking in the wrong places for nice blk women like myself. Just cause you have bad luck with one blk female in the market, that does not mean condemn the whole race of blk women. I love nice blk men and most things that you guys might think are boring,, I like to do, so look a little harder and a little further, and maybe you'll bump into a nice girl like myself.. Have a good day gentlemen***

“Dynamite Diva!”

Level 1

Since: Mar 10

Location hidden

#311 Jun 4, 2010
Ok I'll add my own 2 cents to this mix...

I'm fed up of reading about "woe is me" men that single out black women as being shallow and only going after bad boys and thugs, correction: ALL races of women do this. So its not fair to slam black women for doing something that women ALL do to an extent.

When I was younger, I never went for bad boys. I only ever was and still is attracted to the so called "nice guys", but guess what? They were not interested in me, they were only looking at the b*tches, sl*ts and girls that were willing to sleep with them on the first date. So I became more cynical about men too.
From my experience, the "nice guys" were just as shallow and superficial as the bad boys. They say they want girls with personality, outgoing, friendly but really if you give them a choice between that and a girl in a bikini with DD chest, its not even a contest.

Maybe you might be the exception and I feel for you if thats the case, but so far in my experience guys have always behaved the same.
black woman

Oslo, Norway

#312 Jun 4, 2010
Azenday from Seattle wrote:
<quoted text>Men are more shallow than women. I see women with men with handicaps all of the time. Our shallowness as men are the reason why women dress up, make up etc. We make it hard on them.
wow, you sound like a very smart man. the first man to ever admit this!
thuggish rapper

Monterey, CA

#313 Jun 4, 2010
All BW want 50 cent to plow them from behind..........

Thugs rule! we get all dem hoes!!!

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