Are Black Men Deserving?
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WayOnBase

Houston, TX

#1 Apr 22, 2013
I know this subject has been visited before but so has every other topic on here so here we go. Notice: This is speaking generally so if you're offended, you're probably guilty.

Are black men really deserving of black women's love or loyalty? They have not done enough for their women or children. They have either endangered the community or abandoned it altogether. They have not defended their families against white terrorism. They haven't defended their neighborhoods against Asian and Arab business invasions. They have also failed to defend their women against media attacks. In many cases they have joined in on the "fun".

On the other hand, they are right there to defend their turf agianst other men who look like them...and ready to kill in some instances. They complain about Oprah opening a school for other black girls, but have nothing to say about an Arab Muslim opening a liquor store down the street. Every movement they have started in the U.S. was intercepted and usually failed thanks to other black men. Even Harriet Tubman's husband tried to derail her gains. His disloyalty goes back aways.

Black men have more trouble getting jobs. Of course it's because black women are getting favors or kissing ass and corporate America is "threatened" by black men. Black males have a 49% HS graduation rate. Of fourse it's because the schools are against the black male child and don't understand him. Now if it was the other way around, well, it would just be that black women are not smart enough or are not working hard enough.

They talk about how much white women love them and then turn around and accuse white female teachers of discriminating against black boys or white women grabbing their purses. They seem not to care that well off white women never want them. They never think about the racist white men they deal with daily are raised by white women whom they think are so open-minded. When they actually decide to get married, you can't trust them to be faithful. They cheat on the women they are cheating with and then bring disease home to the wife. While every other man is trying to rule the world, the black man seems content with ruling the bedroom and not much else. An anaconda and swagger? Is that all you got?

So this undying loyalty that black women seem to have for black men is really a waste of time. Now does this mean run into the arms of a white or Hispanic or Asian man? Sure if you want...but I'm talking about something more effective. This means watch the black men that you support. Evaluate them before you buy their books or music or see their movies or give them your vote. These men get rich off of you then share their money with other women. Do you think white men would continue to support Scarlett Johansson if she went black? Stop writng blogs and getting your panties wet with black male celebrities who eventually marry non-black women (ex Michael Ealy). Stop hesitating to call the cops on them when they get out of line. They can be abusive and it's either him or you. If you're on a jury and they are on trial, and guilty, don't hesitate to convict them because the justice system is racist. And the only women that should be visiting them in jail is their moms.

Stop being such a fool black woman. Your man does not want or appreciate your love, loyalty, hard work, and dedication. Moreoever he doesn't deserve it. Be a little selfish...just like him.

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Since: Feb 11

Reality

#2 Apr 22, 2013
WayOnBase wrote:
I know this subject has been visited before but so has every other topic on here so here we go. Notice: This is speaking generally so if you're offended, you're probably guilty.

Are black men really deserving of black women's love or loyalty? They have not done enough for their women or children. They have either endangered the community or abandoned it altogether. They have not defended their families against white terrorism. They haven't defended their neighborhoods against Asian and Arab business invasions. They have also failed to defend their women against media attacks. In many cases they have joined in on the "fun".

On the other hand, they are right there to defend their turf agianst other men who look like them...and ready to kill in some instances. They complain about Oprah opening a school for other black girls, but have nothing to say about an Arab Muslim opening a liquor store down the street. Every movement they have started in the U.S. was intercepted and usually failed thanks to other black men. Even Harriet Tubman's husband tried to derail her gains. His disloyalty goes back aways.

Black men have more trouble getting jobs. Of course it's because black women are getting favors or kissing ass and corporate America is "threatened" by black men. Black males have a 49% HS graduation rate. Of fourse it's because the schools are against the black male child and don't understand him. Now if it was the other way around, well, it would just be that black women are not smart enough or are not working hard enough.

They talk about how much white women love them and then turn around and accuse white female teachers of discriminating against black boys or white women grabbing their purses. They seem not to care that well off white women never want them. They never think about the racist white men they deal with daily are raised by white women whom they think are so open-minded. When they actually decide to get married, you can't trust them to be faithful. They cheat on the women they are cheating with and then bring disease home to the wife. While every other man is trying to rule the world, the black man seems content with ruling the bedroom and not much else. An anaconda and swagger? Is that all you got?

So this undying loyalty that black women seem to have for black men is really a waste of time. Now does this mean run into the arms of a white or Hispanic or Asian man? Sure if you want...but I'm talking about something more effective. This means watch the black men that you support. Evaluate them before you buy their books or music or see their movies or give them your vote. These men get rich off of you then share their money with other women. Do you think white men would continue to support Scarlett Johansson if she went black? Stop writng blogs and getting your panties wet with black male celebrities who eventually marry non-black women (ex Michael Ealy). Stop hesitating to call the cops on them when they get out of line. They can be abusive and it's either him or you. If you're on a jury and they are on trial, and guilty, don't hesitate to convict them because the justice system is racist. And the only women that should be visiting them in jail is their moms.

Stop being such a fool black woman. Your man does not want or appreciate your love, loyalty, hard work, and dedication. Moreoever he doesn't deserve it. Be a little selfish...just like him.
While I love good brothas, there are some very interesting points worth considering in the post.

“I love being a Black Man”

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#3 Apr 22, 2013
Do Black women honestly give undying love? I'm still waiting to meet this Black woman loyalty that people speak so highly off.

I'm not bashing BW but honestly. My entire life. All I have seen from black women is bickering at Black men.

Black women of today are the most disloyal white men loving Black women I have ever seen in my life. Yes there was a small pocket in the 90s. Where I felt there was genuine love between BW and BM. But those days are long gone.

“I love being a Black Man”

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Since: Nov 09

Location hidden

#5 Apr 22, 2013
Cee Cipher wrote:
<quoted text>
Not to mention that BW are highly deluded! All these loyalty,l ove and support bullsht only exists in their heads.
They should let go of all the shaming tactics and guilt-tripping. They've worn out their cards. Brothas ain't falling for it.
The way some women talk. You would think they were 70 years old. What their Great Grand mothers and Grand mothers did. We are all thankful for. But what does that have to do with today's Black woman?

Black women equate loyalty solely with marriage stats. Which is ridiculous. All that means is non-bm aren't marrying Black women for whatever reason. It doesn't mean BW date out less than Black men or even that Black women desire non-bm less than Black men desire non-bw.

The bar has been set incredibly low for what is called loyalty nowadays. In fact the most loyal women I have ever seen are the ones visiting their love ones on visitation day in Prisons.
SadButtNia

United States

#6 Apr 22, 2013
The OP is none other than SadbuttNia

Sadbuttrue | 7 hrs ago

I hate Black men! lmao

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/T7H42IB3I756EQ1 ...

Sadbuttrue | Friday Oct 19

I know your losting Black women's support fast which will lead towards your extinction ! lmao

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/T9JK304U1VR3Q2L...

Sadbutrue | 2 hrs ago | Reply

If any person is constantly bombarded with a lie that is is never or rarely ever refuted, any person will believe it's the truth

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/TCB029337T42L1O ....

The master at PsyOps (Psychological Operations) was Goebbels. He did say over and over again: "If you tell a lie big enough and keep repeating it, people will eventually come to believe it." He would also say that "the lie can be maintained only for such time as the State can shield the people from the political, economic and/or military consequences of the lie. It thus becomes vitally important for the State to use all of its powers to repress dissent, for the truth is the mortal enemy of the lie, and thus by extension, the truth is the greatest enemy of the State."

“Education is a key to success.”

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Proud graduate! Woohoo!

#7 Apr 22, 2013
WayOnBase wrote:
I know this subject has been visited before but so has every other topic on here so here we go. Notice: This is speaking generally so if you're offended, you're probably guilty.
Are black men really deserving of black women's love or loyalty? They have not done enough for their women or children. They have either endangered the community or abandoned it altogether. They have not defended their families against white terrorism. They haven't defended their neighborhoods against Asian and Arab business invasions. They have also failed to defend their women against media attacks. In many cases they have joined in on the "fun".
On the other hand, they are right there to defend their turf agianst other men who look like them...and ready to kill in some instances. They complain about Oprah opening a school for other black girls, but have nothing to say about an Arab Muslim opening a liquor store down the street. Every movement they have started in the U.S. was intercepted and usually failed thanks to other black men. Even Harriet Tubman's husband tried to derail her gains. His disloyalty goes back aways.
Black men have more trouble getting jobs. Of course it's because black women are getting favors or kissing ass and corporate America is "threatened" by black men. Black males have a 49% HS graduation rate. Of fourse it's because the schools are against the black male child and don't understand him. Now if it was the other way around, well, it would just be that black women are not smart enough or are not working hard enough.
They talk about how much white women love them and then turn around and accuse white female teachers of discriminating against black boys or white women grabbing their purses. They seem not to care that well off white women never want them. They never think about the racist white men they deal with daily are raised by white women whom they think are so open-minded. When they actually decide to get married, you can't trust them to be faithful. They cheat on the women they are cheating with and then bring disease home to the wife. While every other man is trying to rule the world, the black man seems content with ruling the bedroom and not much else. An anaconda and swagger? Is that all you got?
So this undying loyalty that black women seem to have for black men is really a waste of time. Now does this mean run into the arms of a white or Hispanic or Asian man? Sure if you want...but I'm talking about something more effective. This means watch the black men that you support. Evaluate them before you buy their books or music or see their movies or give them your vote. These men get rich off of you then share their money with other women. Do you think white men would continue to support Scarlett Johansson if she went black? Stop writng blogs and getting your panties wet with black male celebrities who eventually marry non-black women (ex Michael Ealy). Stop hesitating to call the cops on them when they get out of line. They can be abusive and it's either him or you. If you're on a jury and they are on trial, and guilty, don't hesitate to convict them because the justice system is racist. And the only women that should be visiting them in jail is their moms.
Stop being such a fool black woman. Your man does not want or appreciate your love, loyalty, hard work, and dedication. Moreoever he doesn't deserve it. Be a little selfish...just like him.
Pardon my expletive, but what the f*ck?

This does not make sense. Personally I judge the men in my life by their actions. These men are all black men, and they all deserve my love and loyalty. I don't care whether any of them date IR or whatever. They love and respect me, and I do the same right back.
SadButtNia

United States

#8 Apr 22, 2013
Cee Cipher wrote:
<quoted text>
Not to mention that BW are highly deluded! All these loyalty,l ove and support bullsht only exists in their heads.
They should let go of all the shaming tactics and guilt-tripping. They've worn out their cards. Brothas ain't falling for it.
Manipulation of the ego

Bw - stroking the ego of bw - positive
Bm - trashing the ego of bm - negative

Negative mind control

Repeat the negative until people start seeing nothing but negative.

Positive mind control.

Repeat the positive until people start seeing nothing but positive

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#10 Apr 22, 2013
oh boy. some people need to learn to be better not bitter.
SadButtNia

United States

#11 Apr 22, 2013
Nia_ wrote:
<quoted text>
While I love good brothas, there are some very interesting points worth considering in the post.
Good brothas? Who are you kidding?

Brothers like Trayvon, Martin, Bell were all "MADE GOOD".

The only "GOOD BROTHAS" to you is a dead brother are some brother that belongs to the men's auxiliary of S.C.U.M.
SadButtNia

United States

#12 Apr 22, 2013
Aziya Shines wrote:
oh boy. some people need to learn to be better not bitter.
What you're looking at is far worse than bitter.

I quote.

" CUM will couple-bust -- barge into mixed (male-female) couples, wherever they are, and bust them up.

SCUM will kill all men who are not in the Men's Auxiliary of SCUM. Men in the Men's Auxiliary are those men who are working diligently to eliminate themselves, men who, regardless of their motives, do good, men who are playing pall with SCUM. A few examples of the men in the Men's Auxiliary are: men who kill men; biological scientists who are working on constructive programs, as opposed to biological warfare; journalists, writers, editors, publishers and producers who disseminate and promote ideas that will lead to the achievement of SCUM's goals; faggots who, by their shimmering, flaming example, encourage other men to de-man themselves and thereby make themselves relatively inoffensive; men who consistently give things away --money, things, services; men who tell it like it is (so far not one ever has), who put women straight, who reveal the truth about themselves, who give the mindless male females correct sentences to parrot, who tell them a woman's primary goal in life should be to squash the male sex (to aid men in this endeavor SCUM will conduct Turd Sessions, at which every male present will give a speech beginning with the sentence:`I am a turd, a lowly abject turd', then proceed to list all the ways in which he is."

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#13 Apr 22, 2013
SadButtNia wrote:
The OP is none other than SadbuttNia

Sadbuttrue | 7 hrs ago

I hate Black men! lmao

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/T7H42IB3I756EQ1 ...

Sadbuttrue | Friday Oct 19

I know your losting Black women's support fast which will lead towards your extinction ! lmao

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/T9JK304U1VR3Q2L...

Sadbutrue | 2 hrs ago | Reply

If any person is constantly bombarded with a lie that is is never or rarely ever refuted, any person will believe it's the truth

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/TCB029337T42L1O ....

The master at PsyOps (Psychological Operations) was Goebbels. He did say over and over again: "If you tell a lie big enough and keep repeating it, people will eventually come to believe it." He would also say that "the lie can be maintained only for such time as the State can shield the people from the political, economic and/or military consequences of the lie. It thus becomes vitally important for the State to use all of its powers to repress dissent, for the truth is the mortal enemy of the lie, and thus by extension, the truth is the greatest enemy of the State."
Stop it. I'm not the OP

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Since: Feb 11

Reality

#14 Apr 22, 2013
SadButtNia wrote:
<quoted text>Good brothas? Who are you kidding?

Brothers like Trayvon, Martin, Bell were all "MADE GOOD".

The only "GOOD BROTHAS" to you is a dead brother are some brother that belongs to the men's auxiliary of S.C.U.M.
Cut the crap!!!! I laude good brothas like the everyday joes who stand in the gap and take care of other men's children, who take care of their own, hold their families down, work hard everyday without thanks and love their women with all their might.

They exist but the problem is that many "bum dudes" out number them...i.e. the frustration found in the OP's post.
SadbuttNia

United States

#15 Apr 22, 2013
Nia_ wrote:
<quoted text>
While I love good brothas, there are some very interesting points worth considering in the post.
I read about you.

You admitted to being a cracker, you cosign with a racist, defend Asians and call AA's coon?
-------
Nia_| 3 hrs ago

You're obsessed with this "crackka"

*rolleyes*

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/TDT6JHFSP9TLFBN...
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Nia_| 5 hrs ago

Bubba wrote: <quoted text>

Everyone ignores your threads because they're BORING.

Exactly
Nia_| 3 hrs ago

You know why?? You should have asked me instead of assuming.

She was in another thread making fun of asian men's penises and called them disgusting. I didn't appreciate the comment because it was racist, mean and unwarranted.
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Nia_| 9 hrs ago

Bless yours coon :)

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/TSJA3LRL8RQBGDB ...

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Reality

#16 Apr 22, 2013
SadbuttNia wrote:
<quoted text>I read about you.

You admitted to being a cracker, you cosign with a racist, defend Asians and call AA's coon?
-------
Nia_| 3 hrs ago

You're obsessed with this "crackka"

*rolleyes*

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/TDT6JHFSP9TLFBN...
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Nia_| 5 hrs ago

Bubba wrote: <quoted text>

Everyone ignores your threads because they're BORING.

Exactly
Nia_| 3 hrs ago

You know why?? You should have asked me instead of assuming.

She was in another thread making fun of asian men's penises and called them disgusting. I didn't appreciate the comment because it was racist, mean and unwarranted.
----------

Nia_| 9 hrs ago

Bless yours coon :)

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/TSJA3LRL8RQBGDB ...
You're a cut and paste idiot!!!!!

You can't even decipher sarcasm from the truth.

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Since: Feb 11

Reality

#17 Apr 22, 2013
SadButtNia wrote:
<quoted text>Manipulation of the ego

Bw - stroking the ego of bw - positive
Bm - trashing the ego of bm - negative

Negative mind control

Repeat the negative until people start seeing nothing but negative.

Positive mind control.

Repeat the positive until people start seeing nothing but positive
Hi The Relic aka Redneck Snapper....

keeping changing your name idiot.
SadbuttNia

United States

#18 Apr 22, 2013
Nia_ wrote:
<quoted text>
You're a cut and paste idiot!!!!!
You can't even decipher sarcasm from the truth.
Hello white b!tch, how's that litter of bastards of yours.

Can you decipher sarcasm.

.

You admitted to being a cracker, you cosign with a racist, defend Asians and call AA's coon?
-------
Nia_| 3 hrs ago

You're obsessed with this "crackka"

*rolleyes*

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/TDT6JHFSP9TLFBN...
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Nia_| 5 hrs ago

Bubba wrote: <quoted text>

Everyone ignores your threads because they're BORING.

Exactly
Nia_| 3 hrs ago

You know why?? You should have asked me instead of assuming.

She was in another thread making fun of asian men's penises and called them disgusting. I didn't appreciate the comment because it was racist, mean and unwarranted.
----------

Nia_| 9 hrs ago

Bless yours coon :)

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/TSJA3LRL8RQBGDB ...

Level 3

Since: Feb 11

Reality

#19 Apr 22, 2013
SadbuttNia wrote:
<quoted text>Hello white b!tch, how's that litter of bastards of yours.

Can you decipher sarcasm.

.

You admitted to being a cracker, you cosign with a racist, defend Asians and call AA's coon?
-------
Nia_| 3 hrs ago

You're obsessed with this "crackka"

*rolleyes*

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/TDT6JHFSP9TLFBN...
------
Nia_| 5 hrs ago

Bubba wrote: <quoted text>

Everyone ignores your threads because they're BORING.

Exactly
Nia_| 3 hrs ago

You know why?? You should have asked me instead of assuming.

She was in another thread making fun of asian men's penises and called them disgusting. I didn't appreciate the comment because it was racist, mean and unwarranted.
----------

Nia_| 9 hrs ago

Bless yours coon :)

http://m.topix.com/forum/afam/TSJA3LRL8RQBGDB ...
You wish I was white because you hate sistas.

Go to hell, bytch!!!!!!!!!!
SadbuttNia

United States

#20 Apr 22, 2013
Nia_ wrote:
<quoted text>
You wish I was white because you hate sistas.
Go to hell, bytch!!!!!!!!!!
Where are those "clones" that suppose to agree with you. If they don't echo your sentiments, they hate sisters.

Sorry to spoil your pity party and disagree with your victimized bull shyt. I'm not your clone.

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#21 Apr 22, 2013
SadbuttNia wrote:
<quoted text>
Where are those "clones" that suppose to agree with you. If they don't echo your sentiments, they hate sisters.
Sorry to spoil your pity party and disagree with your victimized bull shyt. I'm not your clone.
We're definitely not clones. I'm not dumb enough.

It's not about you agreeing with me, but when I ask you what you need to heal and forgive BW... You talk crap and lash out.

You really don't want answers. You don't want to solve any problems. You just want to talk shiit about sistas.

I guess your champagne has gone bad.
SadbuttNia

United States

#22 Apr 22, 2013
Nia_ wrote:
<quoted text>
We're definitely not clones. I'm not dumb enough.
It's not about you agreeing with me, but when I ask you what you need to heal and forgive BW... You talk crap and lash out.
You really don't want answers. You don't want to solve any problems. You just want to talk shiit about sistas.
I guess your champagne has gone bad.
Hello white b!tch

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