Well Just Saying, I can speak for SBT but I have stated from the start that I have always been more attracted to white men and they were my preference for a husband. I know I get a little too rough on black men and have tried to curve this but just because I married a white men it doesn't make me white so I still care how black men represent the black race which I am a part of.<quoted text>
I'm not telling bw not to tell off black men or any man that disrespects them. I do it myself if someone gets snappy. What I was trying to convey was that if a bw has a genuine interest in someone outside their race that's fine. What is not good is when someone is dating outside their race based on hatred for their own race and they keep throwing it in each others face.
Honestly the black men should be asked the same question also especially it was black men who publicly started throwing the first stones at black women as they openly worshipped white women.<quoted text>
I have read wm on this thread laughing at bw about how they have turned on their own. It makes bw look stupid. If someone dates outside their race there is no reason to keep disrespecting your race to another race. White people are not doing this so why should blacks.
Ok Cindy I do get your drift and understand. Sorry if I sounded rude on the previous posts.<quoted text>
In terms of you feeling I was trying to scold someone, that's false. I have genuine concern for Sadbuttrue and don't want her hate for bm to make her be bind and fall prey to the wrong white man. She probably doesn't need my concern, but I throw it out there anyway. There is a lot of racists there and would hate to see her get used by a wm who is just experimenting with a bw or just wants to harm her in some way. Not every wm is good. Anyway,I have seen bm put down bw and I have put them in their places. This is not one sided. This is still Cindy, but it's a new year and I'm trying to do better.