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#367 Jan 4, 2013
Carol wrote:
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Thank you for this honest post.... and sad part is that blks accepted WW into our communities...
basically giving them victim status....
and all they did was look out for themselves.....by increasing their pool of men to draw from...
Taking resources ....basically men from the blk community and adding ZERO to it....
In the 30 years of blk men dating, etc WW...what did WW give in return to the blk community?
Black girls are still being raped, walking thru dangerous areas on their way to school....
Black boys like my son have always loved mama and were very affectionate...
unlike WW, blk women never took advantage of their affectionate nature....
WW are all over the country taking advantage of young boys in schools, sick...
and they took advantage of underaged blk boys in Detroit, in the 80s.
cosign..
not that WW "owe" (debatable)the black community anything, but they have not fought on behalf of the BM...30 years are sexing them, "loving" them, marrying them, and birthing their children..and WW have never declared a movement against WM for BM (as many BM are doing against BW to favor WW)...yet BM claim WW love them and are their best friends..giving them an even higher position in the Black community than themselves <smh>
What WW did do is declared a movement against WM (and men in general) when it was in their interest..but supporting a BM above a WM isn't..so they don't fight against racism or racial oppression against the BM...but why should they..when BM have never called them out for the feminist movement which was started and heavily supported by WW...they would rather blame BW for the small amount of black feminists...although the majority of BW were involved side by side with the BM during the civil rights movement...taken the same physical abuses...
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#368 Jan 4, 2013
WW have no reason to change...they are a protective group by both white and black men...you will catch both groups of men complaining about the feminist movement and women in general..and the unfair practice against men..but none of them challenge WW who started and heavily supported a movement to reverse the traditional gender roles...
You have WW who heavily divorce both white and black men..yet they both will still declare WW are good/better in relationships..
You have WW standing side by side with WM throughout slavery and BM declaring them angels and victims..
You now have WW standing side by side with BM..and WM blaming the BM...
as far as BW are concern..imho..no BW should be uplifting WM or BM as a group....they belong to WW..
BW just look foolish..when both groups of men go out of their way to uplift WW, protect, provide, defend them..
BW should only uplift individual men who are with BW..protecting, defending, uplifting, and providing for a sista..
Peshewar

Hollywood, FL

#369 Jan 4, 2013
harley davidson wrote:
you sheboons can start by stop swelling up the welfare roles and forcing us taxpayers to take care of your boon kids.
Hmmmm...

Harley I would like to ask you something .Why is the caucasian answer to black problems always start with our fertility?

It's never that when Caucasians seek to provide help to other ethnic groups...

I mean it could be a disease outbreak,a flood,an earthquake or any other type of disaster...Yet before you bring medicine,water,food ,blankets or anything else- you start throwing around condoms and birth control pills.

Why?
all1234

Minneapolis, MN

#370 Jan 4, 2013
Carol wrote:
<quoted text>
Thank you for this honest post.... and sad part is that blks accepted WW into our communities...
basically giving them victim status....
and all they did was look out for themselves.....by increasing their pool of men to draw from...
Taking resources ....basically men from the blk community and adding ZERO to it....
In the 30 years of blk men dating, etc WW...what did WW give in return to the blk community?
Black girls are still being raped, walking thru dangerous areas on their way to school....
Black boys like my son have always loved mama and were very affectionate...
unlike WW, blk women never took advantage of their affectionate nature....
WW are all over the country taking advantage of young boys in schools, sick...
and they took advantage of underaged blk boys in Detroit, in the 80s.
You are so right, but not only has the white woman not only taken from the Black community, but she, but she also gains benefit from the poor state that our community is in. Do you believe that if the black community were as prosperous as it once was before integration and Black men could provide for their own and not need a white woman, Do you believe that they would be running after these low caliber white women to take care of them or help them climb social latters? No, and these white women know that too.

And if the Black family were in tack and had fathers in the home so that these black mothers could be home to teach our daughters to be real women, do you think these black men would be running after that low caliber white woman rather than all the beautiful Black Queens that would be walking around here? No, and that white woman knows that as well.

WW have benefited over and over again from the black community from slavery up until this day and has not once, put back into the pot in a significant way that would have a real impact on our community. Because she benefits from the destroyed state of the Black community and knows that she would lose the position that she's found herself in and would have to go back home to her evil wm.
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#371 Jan 4, 2013
Pure Uncut wrote:
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You are asking me why good BM & BW aren't finding each other and I believe the answer is the road taken to achieve wealth & education is riddled with indirect digs at the black race. As you ascend in the corporate world and academia you concede personal beliefs and replace them with the beliefs of your employer and/or teacher.
As a result you have blacks with money and or education that conveniently associate all that they have and accomplished with adapting to white agendas and perspectives.
By the time wealthy BM and BW finish assimilating into white corporate America they are brainwashed to find other blacks unappealing as is.
Like you said. They want more up front from blacks.
I've been down this road. Right now as a BM I suggest BW stop looking only at BM for blame. Theirs no point in BM accepting responsibility if the discussion ends right there for BW.
Do you think there was a problem in parenting of BM and BW? I asked because of your question about raising black daughters(and sons can also apply)..if Black people were raised to have more pride, believe in unity, racial preservation, respect for their own culture, community obligations...then no amount of outside influence is stronger than the "root" of who you are..as we see other groups of people don't tend to "sell out" when they "make it" because certain qualities and expectations are embedded in them..so they seek their own and to benefit their own from their personal achievement.. the opposite is too true when it comes to some segments of Black people... to "arrive" only to give back and support the white power structure..render the Black community in an almost permanent place of "bottom-feeder"..
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#372 Jan 4, 2013
all1234 wrote:
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You are so right, but not only has the white woman not only taken from the Black community, but she, but she also gains benefit from the poor state that our community is in. Do you believe that if the black community were as prosperous as it once was before integration and Black men could provide for their own and not need a white woman, Do you believe that they would be running after these low caliber white women to take care of them or help them climb social latters? No, and these white women know that too.
And if the Black family were in tack and had fathers in the home so that these black mothers could be home to teach our daughters to be real women, do you think these black men would be running after that low caliber white woman rather than all the beautiful Black Queens that would be walking around here? No, and that white woman knows that as well.
WW have benefited over and over again from the black community from slavery up until this day and has not once, put back into the pot in a significant way that would have a real impact on our community. Because she benefits from the destroyed state of the Black community and knows that she would lose the position that she's found herself in and would have to go back home to her evil wm.
AGREE!
Let's be honest here.. WM outnumber WW by 4 millions...so before BM took on these low caliber white women..they lived alone and was known as the cat ladies...
WM never wanted these women..hence why they do not put up much of a fight to stop BM/WW it isn't a threat to the White community..in fact..it benefits them..securing their position in the world..as biracials from such unions has always played buffers..this is also why they are currently promoting WM/BW to do the same..IRBP are securing white power...
but non-IRBP are doing it as well..but destroying and heavily mis-managing their own relationships, families, and community..
Clovespice

Denver, CO

#373 Jan 4, 2013
I am married to a white man. He used to be a bit chubby. He later got plain old fat. He was already balding! He is successful in his career because I helped him navigate his way to the top but... I cheat on his fat ,sweaty ,smoke like a train , heavy breathing, sleep apnea having ass all of the time! All my affairs have been with black men of various nationalities!!! I regret the day I decided to marry this fool because there didnt seem to be any good black men around. Just stacking up the paper enough till I can comfortably take my kids & leave. Being in the arms of a black man just feels so right. I've never been attracted to white men no matter how attractive. They always say or ask some really stupid racial stuff. & mine always sides with whites if I'm clearly insulted by one of them.
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#374 Jan 4, 2013
Peshewar wrote:
Yes,yes,yes,...The acceptance of WW in our communities...
I tell the black American male all the time: It's not The WM you better watch out for ,it's that WW."
The WM does most of these horrendous things to us with her prodding and consent!! WW have gotten more ABM killed and maimed than any simple WM-BM rivalry.She has caused whole black families,towns,hamlets to be destroyed on a lie and a tear.She's the main one dumbing down our children in these indoctrination centers they call 'schools'.
Yeah Carol I ain't sleeping on the devious,deceptive,manipulative stealthy WW a minute!
Sometimes I wonder if BM are scared of WW..they never challenge them on anything..their role during slavery (in fact..you have BM pretending WW were angels and victims themselves even in the face of known facts)...
WW's "anti-man" movement..you will see BM list a million and one reason on how the feminist movement destroyed the black family and community...took jobs away from the BM...and turn around an expect BW to answer for a movement WW started? <smh>
Peshewar wrote:
On another note,we must be careful not to overly-romantisize the past.There was a reason why we seized upon the bogus promises of the Civil Rights Movement so readily.
interesting..explain further please

“I love being a Black Man”

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Since: Nov 09

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#375 Jan 4, 2013
Clovespice wrote:
I am married to a white man. He used to be a bit chubby. He later got plain old fat. He was already balding! He is successful in his career because I helped him navigate his way to the top but... I cheat on his fat ,sweaty ,smoke like a train , heavy breathing, sleep apnea having ass all of the time! All my affairs have been with black men of various nationalities!!! I regret the day I decided to marry this fool because there didnt seem to be any good black men around. Just stacking up the paper enough till I can comfortably take my kids & leave. Being in the arms of a black man just feels so right. I've never been attracted to white men no matter how attractive. They always say or ask some really stupid racial stuff. & mine always sides with whites if I'm clearly insulted by one of them.
Well you probably should get a divorce then. Hopefully he can find a nice Asian woman and you can find what you are looking for.
Carol

Oak Park, MI

#376 Jan 4, 2013
NoNameHere wrote:
<quoted text>cosign..
not that WW "owe" (debatable)the black community anything, but they have not fought on behalf of the BM...30 years are sexing them, "loving" them, marrying them, and birthing their children..and WW have never declared a movement against WM for BM (as many BM are doing against BW to favor WW)...yet BM claim WW love them and are their best friends..giving them an even higher position in the Black community than themselves <smh>
What WW did do is declared a movement against WM (and men in general) when it was in their interest..but supporting a BM above a WM isn't..so they don't fight against racism or racial oppression against the BM...but why should they..when BM have never called them out for the feminist movement which was started and heavily supported by WW...they would rather blame BW for the small amount of black feminists...although the majority of BW were involved side by side with the BM during the civil rights movement...taken the same physical abuses...
Absolutely ...this needs to be told!!!!!

I would like to state my reasoning behind my position....

WW selfishly took and never gave anything in return....

and all this was going down in Mama's house....

White women gained legitacy in the blk community because mama and sistas accepted them into their homes...

basically gave WW a pass that blk women have never been given....

a many a sista have been beat up for messing around with her friend's man....

WW came in sleeping their way thru blk families, neighborhoods...and Nada/nothing...

It took blk women 30 years to wake up and still many are giving them a pass...

WW/BM irrs would have never increased the way they've increased without the hospitality ( or stupidity) of blk women towards white women.

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Since: Nov 12

Memphis, TN

#377 Jan 4, 2013
MumRa wrote:
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Well you probably should get a divorce then. Hopefully he can find a nice Asian woman and you can find what you are looking for.
That's not a BW, that a poor pathetic pitiful BM playing around on the computer!
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#378 Jan 4, 2013
Carol wrote:
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Absolutely ...this needs to be told!!!!!
I would like to state my reasoning behind my position....
WW selfishly took and never gave anything in return....
and all this was going down in Mama's house....
White women gained legitacy in the blk community because mama and sistas accepted them into their homes...
basically gave WW a pass that blk women have never been given....
a many a sista have been beat up for messing around with her friend's man....
WW came in sleeping their way thru blk families, neighborhoods...and Nada/nothing...
It took blk women 30 years to wake up and still many are giving them a pass...
WW/BM irrs would have never increased the way they've increased without the hospitality ( or stupidity) of blk women towards white women.
I "recall"..WW first target hispanic men before BM...but those latinas started slicing those WW's faces and beating azz...then WW got smarter or sneakier this time..and befriended gullible BW first and then started "collecting" BM..and BM aren't any different..they are just as dumb..the "wiggers" did/are doing the same thing..embrace the BM..just to gain some legitimacy within the community for access to BW...both WM and WW turn around and insult their same gender black counter-part..once their foot is firmly established and they no longer need a Black person to attract another black person.. Black people simply don't protect their boundaries..allowing others to have an even higher seat in their world than they do..nobody does this...in Egypt..it's a known fact..that blonde hair and blue eyes is valued..but when those men do marry a WW with those features..she still takes a backseat to the women..in fact...they are known for making those WW scrub their mothers' floors on their hands and other treatments that don't glamorize them.. WW have been complaining about this for years..only in the Black community are WW welcome with open arms above the men, women, and children.. pathetic

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Since: Jun 08

DC

#380 Jan 4, 2013
Everytime I see a black women with a non black man, I see them the same way I see a black women with a black men. I know nothing about her nor do I or any man want the responsibility of deciding HER faith. That's for HER to decide.

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Since: Jan 13

Minneapolis, MN

#381 Jan 4, 2013
Carol wrote:
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Absolutely ...this needs to be told!!!!!
I would like to state my reasoning behind my position....
WW selfishly took and never gave anything in return....
and all this was going down in Mama's house....
White women gained legitacy in the blk community because mama and sistas accepted them into their homes...
basically gave WW a pass that blk women have never been given....
a many a sista have been beat up for messing around with her friend's man....
WW came in sleeping their way thru blk families, neighborhoods...and Nada/nothing...
It took blk women 30 years to wake up and still many are giving them a pass...
WW/BM irrs would have never increased the way they've increased without the hospitality ( or stupidity) of blk women towards white women.
You are right again. My husband is always pointing out to me that with the increase in ir dating, there has also been an increase in seeing white girls and blacks girls hanging out. He says that these ww are trying to learn from bw how to replace them. And we're teaching them

“I love being a Black Man”

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Since: Nov 09

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#382 Jan 4, 2013
sweetgirl102 wrote:
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That's not a BW, that a poor pathetic pitiful BM playing around on the computer!
That makes sense.
Carol

Oak Park, MI

#384 Jan 4, 2013
NoNameHere wrote:
<quoted text>I "recall"..WW first target hispanic men before BM...but those latinas started slicing those WW's faces and beating azz...then WW got smarter or sneakier this time..and befriended gullible BW first and then started "collecting" BM..and BM aren't any different..they are just as dumb..the "wiggers" did/are doing the same thing..embrace the BM..just to gain some legitimacy within the community for access to BW...both WM and WW turn around and insult their same gender black counter-part..once their foot is firmly established and they no longer need a Black person to attract another black person.. Black people simply don't protect their boundaries..allowing others to have an even higher seat in their world than they do..nobody does this...in Egypt..it's a known fact..that blonde hair and blue eyes is valued..but when those men do marry a WW with those features..she still takes a backseat to the women..in fact...they are known for making those WW scrub their mothers' floors on their hands and other treatments that don't glamorize them.. WW have been complaining about this for years..only in the Black community are WW welcome with open arms above the men, women, and children.. pathetic
Standing ovation, truth and nothing but.

Haha those Latinas will still slice them and any other woman who tries to move in on Mario....

WW use the media negative stereotyping of blk women to try to make sure their sons esp wealthy sons stay away from blk women....

and contrary to WW's media image, they're pure evil when WM even glance in the direction of an attractive blk woman...,

Only blk women are gullible enough to play second fiddle or mammy to a woman of another culture.
Carol

Oak Park, MI

#385 Jan 4, 2013
All1234 wrote:
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You are right again. My husband is always pointing out to me that with the increase in ir dating, there has also been an increase in seeing white girls and blacks girls hanging out. He says that these ww are trying to learn from bw how to replace them. And we're teaching them
Thank you...these silly heffas are introducing nasty , do anything WW to their pool of men, even if it's their family members...

Then you see white women with a blk dude and the blk chick is the third wheel or dateless...

These dumb heffas are helping WW replace them, incredible stuff.

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Since: May 10

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#386 Jan 4, 2013
Peshewar wrote:
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Not to sound dismissive,but it comes simply down to a lack of power in all nine areas of human activity.We have no land,no resources,no military,no industries, no community in a traditional sense,not even our own language!
It's not that we allowed these things to happen;in our severely weakened position , we have no way to stop it.
Listen, our leaders should basically have asked for the same deal as was given to the Native American..We need land, free no-strings-attached QUALITY education and massive psychological counseling .
We as a people have been severly damaged...And for as our oppressors go..It's very cruel to break a man's legs and then blame him for not being able to adequetly compete in a race.
did you ever see the documentary on black wallstreet?

in case you haven't:


i just find it amazing that whites could destroy this community so completely, taking so many lives. and aa without any compensation from insurance companies or anyone else, rebuilt black wallstreet and made it better than it was before.

**but then integration happened and the place became a ghost town!

doesn't this tell you that the real problem is the mind of aa?

aa were highly organized with great leadership during the jim crow era. the government gave aa a little integration, killed off all your best leaders, paid off the rest to keep their mouths shut, and then proceed to attack the aa community with what i would call a social engineering war.

this included, pumping hard drugs into the community, while designing a criminal drug policy targeting the aa community. expanding a welfare system and divorce policy that decimated the aa family. there may also of been a CIA connection to feminism and 'black feminism', which legalized abortion, promoted black single female headed households, and normalized promiscuity. gangsta rap promoted fratricide, and a new disdain for education was born (outta nowhere?) in the aa community.

imo, the battle has always been for the minds and souls of black america. to keep you in a state of mental slavery. that's why i asked the question the way i did...

all the things you listed as the things aa don't have, will come only after there's a real cultural/identity revolution in the aa community.

aa need to understand not only who they were, but who they are and will be. when you come into the full knowledge of self, everything else should fall into place.

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Since: Jan 10

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#387 Jan 4, 2013
AAMech wrote:
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To be honest I have no idea what you are talking about.
All of the black women I know got it going on. Enjoying life,career,family,etc..
Even my mom is having a good time and she's over 90yrs. old.
You must know some of the most dumbest and loneliest black women on the planet.
Conditioning is not always out in the open and widely discussed but that doesn't mean it's the effects of it isn't there.

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Since: Jul 12

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#388 Jan 4, 2013
Carol wrote:
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Blk women definitely HAD the chance to sell blk men out...
BUT you bonafide inferior cretin.....
We didn't....
It is and was you inferior toms, selling out blk women and kids....
You toms are the most inferior species on the planet.
But see now bw are the very thing that they've proclaimed to be against now! today they are inferior cretins as well' go figure.

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