Black women are jealous of black men.

Black women are jealous of black men.

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honestbw

Middleburg, FL

#1 Apr 16, 2011
I'm going to be completely honest...

The African American race is the ONLY race in the world where the men are seen as more attractive than the women.

As a matter of fact, black men are the most PHYSICALLY desired men in this country, whereas black women are the least desired of all females.

Why are we the least desired? Believe it or not it has nothing to do with the weaves, the ghetto attitudes, the out of wedlock kids... All of these things have happened as a RESULT of us being the least attractive.

The beauty standards have always been that white is feminine and black is masculine. On top of that, slimer features (smaller noses, thinner lips, less curvy bodies) are seen as more attractive on a woman. And the hair is actually the biggest issue.. Most AA women have naturally kinky hair. Every other type of woman has straight hair.

So we black women feel cursed because of the way that we naturally look. But we see that you black men are worshipped by all races of women because you are deemed the most masculine.

We're women, we're emotional, of course we're jealous.

What would you do if you were a black woman in America?

No matter what we do we will always been seen as basically worthless.
honestbw

Middleburg, FL

#2 Apr 16, 2011
And something else I wanted to say...

For all you black men who complain that black women only get with thugs and deadbeats, well you have to realize that these are the only men who approach most of us.

You can sit there and say "well if you did something with your life better men would want you" but it isn't true. I know good looking black women who are sweet as pie, smart, and accomplished, who are only approached by players and thugs.

We may look different than other races of women, but on the inside we're the same. We have feelings and we want love just like all women.

We were just dealt a bad hand.

Since: May 10

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#3 Apr 16, 2011
Don't be so hard on yourself, honestbw. You'll find someone who loves and accepts you one day. Until then, try to enjoy life.
:)

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Since: Sep 07

Ann Arbor

#4 Apr 16, 2011
honestbw wrote:
I'm going to be completely honest...
The African American race is the ONLY race in the world where the men are seen as more attractive than the women.
As a matter of fact, black men are the most PHYSICALLY desired men in this country, whereas black women are the least desired of all females.
Why are we the least desired? Believe it or not it has nothing to do with the weaves, the ghetto attitudes, the out of wedlock kids... All of these things have happened as a RESULT of us being the least attractive.
The beauty standards have always been that white is feminine and black is masculine. On top of that, slimer features (smaller noses, thinner lips, less curvy bodies) are seen as more attractive on a woman. And the hair is actually the biggest issue.. Most AA women have naturally kinky hair. Every other type of woman has straight hair.
So we black women feel cursed because of the way that we naturally look. But we see that you black men are worshipped by all races of women because you are deemed the most masculine.
We're women, we're emotional, of course we're jealous.
What would you do if you were a black woman in America?
No matter what we do we will always been seen as basically worthless.
Please speak for yourself only.
candy mixed girl

Haslemere, UK

#5 Apr 16, 2011
Oh i see orange park florida woman is back begging for sympathy and kisses.Shutup will you and tell us what happend to your Jewish husband who liked to f**k you like a pig(your words)

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Since: Dec 09

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#6 Apr 16, 2011
honestbw wrote:
I'm going to be completely honest...
The African American race is the ONLY race in the world where the men are seen as more attractive than the women.
As a matter of fact, black men are the most PHYSICALLY desired men in this country, whereas black women are the least desired of all females.
Why are we the least desired? Believe it or not it has nothing to do with the weaves, the ghetto attitudes, the out of wedlock kids... All of these things have happened as a RESULT of us being the least attractive.
The beauty standards have always been that white is feminine and black is masculine. On top of that, slimer features (smaller noses, thinner lips, less curvy bodies) are seen as more attractive on a woman. And the hair is actually the biggest issue.. Most AA women have naturally kinky hair. Every other type of woman has straight hair.
So we black women feel cursed because of the way that we naturally look. But we see that you black men are worshipped by all races of women because you are deemed the most masculine.
We're women, we're emotional, of course we're jealous.
What would you do if you were a black woman in America?
No matter what we do we will always been seen as basically worthless.
Black women are beautiful, we just have to a better within of ensuring that yall know this..

“Love”

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Since: Sep 09

Beach Bunny <3

#8 Apr 16, 2011
Um... sorry but I don't have a weave or a ghetto attitude. I've never lived in any ghetto or anywhere near one, and I'm a black girl who gets a lot of attention. I think you're a Black guy or something writing this. Either that or an ugly Black girl - sorry, but don't act like your experiences are the same as every other Black girl around. Its annoying when unattractive girls who don't get attention blame it on their RACE! Wth? There are a lot of hot Black girls who Black men are probably jealous of, especially the gay Black guys.

& on top of being pretty "attractive" or "cute" to a lot of guys who meet me (just being honest), I'm also in college and doing more with my life than a lot of Black guys ever will, so I don't have any reason to be jealous of some guys. Seriously, I would never want to be a man anyway! I love being a girl too much.

If you don't like how Black women are treated then change yourself. Stop trying to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders and just focus on YOURSELF and not "Black people". I've learned not to care less about Black men at all, why would I? Its my life, lol. Plus for me not growing up with Black men it made it easier. I don't care about Black guys or what they do.

& they aren't "most desired", I think the ghetto ones tell themselves this because they sit inside watching rap videos all day where the guys have women around them, but in reality a lot of girls do not want a Black guy. Thats the truth.

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#10 Apr 16, 2011
Babby daddy drama wrote:
<quoted text>
Get yourself a African or Carribean man then. They seem to be more into Black women. And many of them are very well educated in America.
Get yourself an East African man most of them have nice features.
Before you tell somebody Carribean men love BW please google the IR statistics in the UK.
Candy

Haslemere, UK

#11 Apr 16, 2011
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>Before you tell somebody Carribean men love BW please google the IR statistics in the UK.
Yes thats something for them to think about but remember the women are not too far behind with their ir dating either.

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Since: Dec 09

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#13 Apr 19, 2011
sassyntrashy wrote:
<quoted text>Before you tell somebody Carribean men love BW please google the IR statistics in the UK.
And the African guys are right behind them too over there..
candaycoated

Wichita, KS

#16 Apr 19, 2011
I've dated a black man from the U.K....he was crazy. I thru him back to the white women bye bxtch.
Sad

Silver Spring, MD

#17 Apr 19, 2011
sassyntrashy-MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>Before you tell somebody Carribean men love WW please google the IR statistics in the UK.
MACEO

Serena looks better than the lowly fat WW that your currently dating!

Again, I have no problem with IR for AAM or AAW; but your hard on AAW, I think because you hate us so much.

Of course, if your Mother, Aunts or female family members look anything like you then I'm sure Serena would get plenty of "Kudo's".

I actually think that since your just a very unhappy AAM. Alot of your unhappiness is contributed to not being able to attract a Mixed race/very attractive AAW as well as how you see yourself.

Nobody put you in your current position but YOU!

Many of your problems stemming from AAW is things that you bring upon yourself or what you percieve which is not always true.

As Ive told you many times prior, AAW don't want men who lack "character, integrity, morals and are habitual liars. The classy AAW that I know wouldn't accept your crazy "Controlling behaviors" nor would they allow your disrespect that you doled out to yoru former WW as well as the WW that you had ANAL SEX!

Classy attractive AAW want men who can "Man up" and respect women.

You said AAW don't want AAM and now I can point to your "Behaviors" on why AAW dont' want AAM. After all, why would any intelligent AAW select a broke AAM with no morals, disrespectful, lives immoral and has no pride in his race or culture?

To be honest; there's "Far too many Disrespectful AAM" in the race!

Thats why when I see an AAM who are Christian who are not perfect but attempt to live upright; mainly living God's Word not only do I tell them but I uplift those men since there so "Rare" in the AA race.

There's too many AAM who do wrong, live wrong and enjoy supporting other AAM who live the WRONG way. Not only do you give each other "Kudo's" but many of you encourage wrong behaviors in each other.

What I don't understand is if someone points out your wrong behaviors you and your freinds are "Insulted" as if you have "Free Rein" on insulting and abusing AAW becasue because they don't deserve it.

Yet, you kindly give slutty WW/other races "Free pass" and ingnore their beahviors and say their better. I believe you do this becasue they allow you to disrepect them due to their low self esteems.

To be honest; your just a "Confused, Disrespectful, Old Man" who enjoys harassing AAW. Yet, your living wrong, a hypocrite and have double standards.

What I don't understand is why?
Sad

Silver Spring, MD

#18 Apr 19, 2011
trueasiaticblackman wrote:
<quoted text>
And the African guys are right behind them too over there..
As well as African women are marrying White men now.
Frank

Southfield, MI

#19 Apr 19, 2011
honestbw wrote:
I'm going to be completely honest...
The African American race is the ONLY race in the world where the men are seen as more attractive than the women.
As a matter of fact, black men are the most PHYSICALLY desired men in this country, whereas black women are the least desired of all females.
Why are we the least desired? Believe it or not it has nothing to do with the weaves, the ghetto attitudes, the out of wedlock kids... All of these things have happened as a RESULT of us being the least attractive.
The beauty standards have always been that white is feminine and black is masculine. On top of that, slimer features (smaller noses, thinner lips, less curvy bodies) are seen as more attractive on a woman. And the hair is actually the biggest issue.. Most AA women have naturally kinky hair. Every other type of woman has straight hair.
So we black women feel cursed because of the way that we naturally look. But we see that you black men are worshipped by all races of women because you are deemed the most masculine.
We're women, we're emotional, of course we're jealous.
What would you do if you were a black woman in America?
No matter what we do we will always been seen as basically worthless.
Interesting....

You sound like a rare, intelligent black women who is more precious than gold and blue diamonds!

The MAJORITY of blackwomen are worthless, but sistas like YOU are WORTH MORE THAN GOLD!!!!

:^)
Frank

Southfield, MI

#20 Apr 19, 2011
honestbw wrote:
And something else I wanted to say...
For all you black men who complain that black women only get with thugs and deadbeats, well you have to realize that these are the only men who approach most of us.
You can sit there and say "well if you did something with your life better men would want you" but it isn't true. I know good looking black women who are sweet as pie, smart, and accomplished, who are only approached by players and thugs.
We may look different than other races of women, but on the inside we're the same. We have feelings and we want love just like all women.
We were just dealt a bad hand.
I never thought about it from that perspective.

You make a good point.

However, we can't overlook the THOUSANDS of treacherous blackwomen that cheated on their boyfriends and husbands!

Just like theres THOUSANDS of players and thugs, there are THOUSANDS of WHORISH, DECEITFUL, TREACHEROUS, LYING, DISAGREEABLE BLACK WOMEN out there!
AxeMeAnything

Chicago, IL

#21 Apr 19, 2011
The way Frank stews in his own hatred of women, has it occurred to anyone else that his rantings and ravings could easily be profiled as those of a serial rapist?
AxeMeAnything

Chicago, IL

#23 Apr 19, 2011
auntie bee wrote:
<quoted text>does that include serial DLER?
NATURALLY!
Sad

Silver Spring, MD

#24 Apr 19, 2011
I actually think that since your just a very unhappy AAM. Alot of your unhappiness is contributed to not being able to attract a Mixed race/very attractive AAW as well as how you see yourself.

Nobody put you in your current position but YOU!

Many of your problems stemming from AAW is things that you bring upon yourself or what you percieve which is not always true.

As Ive told you many times prior, AAW don't want men who lack "character, integrity, morals and are habitual liars. The classy AAW that I know wouldn't accept your crazy "Controlling behaviors" nor would they allow your disrespect that you doled out to yoru former WW as well as the WW that you had ANAL SEX!

Classy attractive AAW want men who can "Man up" and respect women.

You said AAW don't want AAM and now I can point to your "Behaviors" on why AAW dont' want AAM. After all, why would any intelligent AAW select a broke AAM with no morals, disrespectful, lives immoral and has no pride in his race or culture?

To be honest; there's "Far too many Disrespectful AAM" in the race!

Thats why when I see an AAM who are Christian who are not perfect but attempt to live upright; mainly living God's Word not only do I tell them but I uplift those men since there so "Rare" in the AA race.

There's too many AAM who do wrong, live wrong and enjoy supporting other AAM who live the WRONG way. Not only do you give each other "Kudo's" but many of you encourage wrong behaviors in each other.

What I don't understand is if someone points out your wrong behaviors you and your freinds are "Insulted" as if you have "Free Rein" on insulting and abusing AAW becasue because they don't deserve it.

Yet, you kindly give slutty WW/other races "Free pass" and ingnore their beahviors and say their better. I believe you do this becasue they allow you to disrepect them due to their low self esteems.

To be honest; your just a "Confused, Disrespectful, Old Man" who enjoys harassing AAW. Yet, your living wrong, a hypocrite and have double standards.

What I don't understand is why?
Sad

Silver Spring, MD

#25 Apr 19, 2011
Frank-HonestBW-MACEO wrote:
<quoted text>Interesting....
You sound like a rare, intelligent black women who is more precious than gold and blue diamonds!
The MAJORITY of blackwomen are worthless, but sistas like YOU are WORTH MORE THAN GOLD!!!!
:^)
MACEO

I actually think that since your just a very unhappy AAM. Alot of your unhappiness is contributed to not being able to attract a Mixed race/very attractive AAW as well as how you see yourself.

Nobody put you in your current position but YOU!

Many of your problems stemming from AAW is things that you bring upon yourself or what you percieve which is not always true.

As Ive told you many times prior, AAW don't want men who lack "character, integrity, morals and are habitual liars. The classy AAW that I know wouldn't accept your crazy "Controlling behaviors" nor would they allow your disrespect that you doled out to yoru former WW as well as the WW that you had ANAL SEX!

Classy attractive AAW want men who can "Man up" and respect women.

You said AAW don't want AAM and now I can point to your "Behaviors" on why AAW dont' want AAM. After all, why would any intelligent AAW select a broke AAM with no morals, disrespectful, lives immoral and has no pride in his race or culture?

To be honest; there's "Far too many Disrespectful AAM" in the race!

Thats why when I see an AAM who are Christian who are not perfect but attempt to live upright; mainly living God's Word not only do I tell them but I uplift those men since there so "Rare" in the AA race.

There's too many AAM who do wrong, live wrong and enjoy supporting other AAM who live the WRONG way. Not only do you give each other "Kudo's" but many of you encourage wrong behaviors in each other.

What I don't understand is if someone points out your wrong behaviors you and your freinds are "Insulted" as if you have "Free Rein" on insulting and abusing AAW becasue because they don't deserve it.

Yet, you kindly give slutty WW/other races "Free pass" and ingnore their beahviors and say their better. I believe you do this becasue they allow you to disrepect them due to their low self esteems.

To be honest; your just a "Confused, Disrespectful, Old Man" who enjoys harassing AAW. Yet, your living wrong, a hypocrite and have double standards.

What I don't understand is why?

YOUR THE AAM THAT MOST AAW RUN FROM ALL THE TIME! I'm talking about your "Character"

As you said yourself;

BAD MEN do BAD things and draw BAD women
Good Men do good things and draw Godly women!

VEry true..........so why are you so evil?
Frank

Southfield, MI

#26 Apr 19, 2011
AxeMeAnything wrote:
The way Frank stews in his own hatred of women, has it occurred to anyone else that his rantings and ravings could easily be profiled as those of a serial rapist?
That's nuts!

I'm not WHITE!

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