How White Men Can Start Dating Black Women

[Adam White]

Hello,

I am the author of a new book book, "The White Man's Guide To Dating Black Women" ISBN: 1435702891, which is available on Amazon.com , excerpts can be read online at the publisher's site, www.Lulu.com . My blog is currently at interracialbook.blogspot.com I am starting up this new line of discussion because I have not seen a lot of practical, ready-to-implement advice here or much of anywhere else on the topic of how White males can go about getting involved with Black women (one of the reasons I wrote the book). The book is based on my own experiences, things I have heard over the years from other White males and Black women, and social sciences research, meaning books such as "Black and White Mixed Marriages."

The first thing that anyone who dates interracially needs to know is that people stare at you when you are with a Black woman. Whites geenrally stare and look away, Black males seem to feel a need to keep staring at White men involved with Black women, but never seem to do so when they see Black men with white women, anyone have a comment on that?

I will have a lot more to say on the topic of dating white men dating Black women, but I think the best place to start is the public reaction that such relationships attract....

[L ALL OVER]

You have put a lot of thought into your book from what I skimmed over. It seems to be very practical.

What will you say to those (both male and female) who bring up slavery and the unequal social relationships of the 60's as a barrier to BF/WM IR?

This title of the book deals with dating.

What about marriage? I believe that strong marriages are the foundation of a solid community/society.

Considering that bleak stats are tossed around quite frequently for BF as far their rates of marriage and out of wedlock children how is that dealt with in your book?

[Chocolate Princess]

You are kidding me right???

A guide to how black women think? What we do and do not like to see in white men? As if we are interchangeable? Personally I find this insulting. Snd I am in an IR...but if he ever acted as if there were some 'guide' or process to dating me...he would be gone in an instant.

Black women are NOT A MONOLITHIC ENTITY. And the implication that we are...shows in my mind a discernable lack of respect.

Had you confined this to the implications of IR, public reaction etc etc...I'd say bravo...but the fact that you have a guide to how to bait us like it is bass fishing...repulses me.

[taylor maid]

beautiful: http://www.youtube.com/watch...

[Kathy Kat]

Adam White wrote:

Hello,
I am the author of a new book book, "The White Man's Guide To Dating Black Women" ISBN: 1435702891, which is available on Amazon.com , excerpts can be read online at the publisher's site, www.Lulu.com . My blog is currently at interracialbook.blogspot.com I am starting up this new line of discussion because I have not seen a lot of practical, ready-to-implement advice here or much of anywhere else on the topic of how White males can go about getting involved with Black women (one of the reasons I wrote the book). The book is based on my own experiences, things I have heard over the years from other White males and Black women, and social sciences research, meaning books such as "Black and White Mixed Marriages."
The first thing that anyone who dates interracially needs to know is that people stare at you when you are with a Black woman. Whites geenrally stare and look away, Black males seem to feel a need to keep staring at White men involved with Black women, but never seem to do so when they see Black men with white women, anyone have a comment on that?
I will have a lot more to say on the topic of dating white men dating Black women, but I think the best place to start is the public reaction that such relationships attract....

please stop the madness.

[Marie]

Lol @ this thread!

[taylor maid]

DrDoom80 wrote:

<quoted text>UGLY and SO ARE YOU!!

nope, it's beau-ti-ful and so am i ;)

[Mack the Great]

Adam White wrote:

Hello,
I am the author of a new book book, "The White Man's Guide To Dating Black Women" ISBN: 1435702891, which is available on Amazon.com , excerpts can be read online at the publisher's site, www.Lulu.com . My blog is currently at interracialbook.blogspot.com I am starting up this new line of discussion because I have not seen a lot of practical, ready-to-implement advice here or much of anywhere else on the topic of how White males can go about getting involved with Black women (one of the reasons I wrote the book). The book is based on my own experiences, things I have heard over the years from other White males and Black women, and social sciences research, meaning books such as "Black and White Mixed Marriages."
The first thing that anyone who dates interracially needs to know is that people stare at you when you are with a Black woman. Whites geenrally stare and look away, Black males seem to feel a need to keep staring at White men involved with Black women, but never seem to do so when they see Black men with white women, anyone have a comment on that?
I will have a lot more to say on the topic of dating white men dating Black women, but I think the best place to start is the public reaction that such relationships attract....

Get the fhuck outta here with that lame ass book. My black women aren't some monolithic entity that require a special approach to dating them! No wonder why black women have no respect for white male trash like you.

[uti possidtis]

The best thing anyone can do to date anyone is to be yourself. Nothing better than a person knowing what they are getting, rather than getting a red flag surprise.

[IamMe]

Adam White wrote:

Hello,
I am the author of a new book book, "The White Man's Guide To Dating Black Women" ISBN: 1435702891, which is available on Amazon.com , excerpts can be read online at the publisher's site, www.Lulu.com . My blog is currently at interracialbook.blogspot.com I am starting up this new line of discussion because I have not seen a lot of practical, ready-to-implement advice here or much of anywhere else on the topic of how White males can go about getting involved with Black women (one of the reasons I wrote the book). The book is based on my own experiences, things I have heard over the years from other White males and Black women, and social sciences research, meaning books such as "Black and White Mixed Marriages."
The first thing that anyone who dates interracially needs to know is that people stare at you when you are with a Black woman. Whites geenrally stare and look away, Black males seem to feel a need to keep staring at White men involved with Black women, but never seem to do so when they see Black men with white women, anyone have a comment on that?
I will have a lot more to say on the topic of dating white men dating Black women, but I think the best place to start is the public reaction that such relationships attract....

Culturally, both black men and black women are more upfront about things they don't like than whites. So whites will look away and talk about you behind your back and blacks will look you directly in the eye and cuss you out to your face. But overall more blacks (both men and women" poll as being more accepting to IR than whites.

[Interracialbook]

It is always delightful to encounter those who are so smart that they can comment on books they have not actually looked over. Golly, I sure wish I was as smart as those people. Those of us who have actually looked over the book, as well as that guy who wrote it, know that many people shy away from initiating interracial relationships because of opposition on the street, at home and in the workplace.About half of the book involves building up the a mindset to counteract the undending public stares, etc. interracial couples encounter everywhere they go.

Black women ARE different than White women, starting with the inconvenient fact that loads of Black women have had their mothers tell them "don't bring any white boys home," something that I have yet to hear any White mothers tell to their White daughters, anti-interracial propagandization. It's hard to be yourself with someone like that......

Incidentally, large numbers of Black women were curious enough about White men to buy my previous book, "The Interracial Dating Book for black Women Who Want to Date White Men" ISBN 1581128002. A common thread of the customer comments on Amazon.com was that they did not understand why White men acted in certain ways. There is actually an academic field called sociology that studies group and societal differences, I am sure that a few people posting here woudl benefit from knowing more about that subject.....

[DobyTheDoggy]

And you're qualified to "teach" someone else about dating a Black woman because????????

IDI0T!!!

[CocoCabana]

Marie wrote:

Lol @ this thread!

I am laughing too!

[joe w]

DobyTheDoggy wrote:

And you're qualified to "teach" someone else about dating a Black woman because????????
IDI0T!!!

I agree, I'm white and I can pick up a black girl using my own peronality, not what a book says.

[CocoCabana]

"Black" must be the new fad, in 2000, correct? How can you write a book like this? Who I choose to or not date is my business, my preference...Even some blacks that are 'comfortable' around whites try to convince me to date a white or mulatto man. Ugh. And now, someone has created a 'Brainwashing Book' I swear, you all are so obsessed with us...I am so confused as to why? Can you answer that for me...What is the fascination with Black women...Blacks in general? I am so lost...
Oh, and by the way, my boyfriend is BLACK like myself!!!

[Flycity]

Adam White wrote:

Hello,
I am the author of a new book book, "The White Man's Guide To Dating Black Women" ISBN: 1435702891, which is available on Amazon.com , excerpts can be read online at the publisher's site, www.Lulu.com . My blog is currently at interracialbook.blogspot.com I am starting up this new line of discussion because I have not seen a lot of practical, ready-to-implement advice here or much of anywhere else on the topic of how White males can go about getting involved with Black women (one of the reasons I wrote the book). The book is based on my own experiences, things I have heard over the years from other White males and Black women, and social sciences research, meaning books such as "Black and White Mixed Marriages."
The first thing that anyone who dates interracially needs to know is that people stare at you when you are with a Black woman. Whites geenrally stare and look away, Black males seem to feel a need to keep staring at White men involved with Black women, but never seem to do so when they see Black men with white women, anyone have a comment on that?
I will have a lot more to say on the topic of dating white men dating Black women, but I think the best place to start is the public reaction that such relationships attract....

Wow! So I guess you're advertising your book on this forum cos it won't sell on the outside right?

If it's not selling maybe you should write about something else then, if you write a book about how to make money, dude! I'll buy one in a heart beat.

[wondertoworld]

DobyTheDoggy wrote:

And you're qualified to "teach" someone else about dating a Black woman because????????
IDI0T!!!

LOL! THAT A STRONG POINT !

[joe w]

Adam White wrote:

Hello,
I am the author of a new book book, "The White Man's Guide To Dating Black Women" ISBN: 1435702891, which is available on Amazon.com , excerpts can be read online at the publisher's site, www.Lulu.com . My blog is currently at interracialbook.blogspot.com I am starting up this new line of discussion because I have not seen a lot of practical, ready-to-implement advice here or much of anywhere else on the topic of how White males can go about getting involved with Black women (one of the reasons I wrote the book). The book is based on my own experiences, things I have heard over the years from other White males and Black women, and social sciences research, meaning books such as "Black and White Mixed Marriages."
The first thing that anyone who dates interracially needs to know is that people stare at you when you are with a Black woman. Whites geenrally stare and look away, Black males seem to feel a need to keep staring at White men involved with Black women, but never seem to do so when they see Black men with white women, anyone have a comment on that?
I will have a lot more to say on the topic of dating white men dating Black women, but I think the best place to start is the public reaction that such relationships attract....

I do believe that you are in violation of the Topix advertising clause.

[Chocolate Princess]

Interracialbook wrote:

It is always delightful to encounter those who are so smart that they can comment on books they have not actually looked over. Golly, I sure wish I was as smart as those people. Those of us who have actually looked over the book, as well as that guy who wrote it, know that many people shy away from initiating interracial relationships because of opposition on the street, at home and in the workplace.About half of the book involves building up the a mindset to counteract the undending public stares, etc. interracial couples encounter everywhere they go.
Black women ARE different than White women, starting with the inconvenient fact that loads of Black women have had their mothers tell them "don't bring any white boys home," something that I have yet to hear any White mothers tell to their White daughters, anti-interracial propagandization. It's hard to be yourself with someone like that......
Incidentally, large numbers of Black women were curious enough about White men to buy my previous book, "The Interracial Dating Book for black Women Who Want to Date White Men" ISBN 1581128002. A common thread of the customer comments on Amazon.com was that they did not understand why White men acted in certain ways. There is actually an academic field called sociology that studies group and societal differences, I am sure that a few people posting here woudl benefit from knowing more about that subject.....

No...I'd not benefit from reading up on sociology since I have a doctorate in psychlogy. And I disagree that the differences are as great as you posit...but anything to sell a book and make a buck correct?

Ever heard of the theory of 'individual differences'? I suggest you look it up.

As a black woman...I've NEVER heard the 'do not bring a white boy home'. However a white man I dated was told "don't you ever bring a black girl home!" His father even told him...sleep with one if you need to but for God's sake DON'T MARRY ONE!

So you can stuff the whites do not spread anti-interracial propaganda BS...because you are full of it.

I've never needed a book to tell me how to interact with white men...where do you find these idiots? In the darkest of inner city slums where they have never interacted with whites before? This type of book is hardly something a suburban raised black woman needs...and I still find it insulting.

If your book is sooooooooo great...why do you not have excerpts? All we can judge by is the blurb you put on the net...and I read it...and it seemed weak...and insulting.

[Chocolate Princess]

Flycity wrote:

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Wow! So I guess you're advertising your book on this forum cos it won't sell on the outside right?
If it's not selling maybe you should write about something else then, if you write a book about how to make money, dude! I'll buy one in a heart beat.

You know...his book is being published on a vanity press...meaning he had to pay THEM to print it. It is not being published by a regular publishing house...