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“God is good all the time”

Since: May 07

Longmont, CO

#1 Jul 1, 2007
I’m really curious about the attraction that younger men have for older women I’m usually approached by younger men on weekly basis, not sure if its because they think I’m younger (age 42 on 7-11), seeking a sugar mama, sexual fantasy or really into order women. Majority of men that I know said as a kid they saw older women such as teachers and friends mother as fully developed and something beautiful to look at. Also heard from some of these same men their first sexual experience was with an older woman. Two of my friend’s son has a crush on me, I never even consider having a fling with them for the fact its my, friends son which can cause conflict between our friendship and the fact that I’m not into younger men although they’re looking buff and handsome.
Sally Ann

Stockport, UK

#2 Jul 1, 2007
Its coz you're a very hot chick Samira.
Stone cold

United States

#3 Jul 1, 2007
I think it's because you have an incredible smile! If that's you on the picture, you are quite the looker!

“Arrive. Raise Hell. Leave.”

Since: Jul 07

Newark, New Jersey

#4 Jul 1, 2007
And so you don't think I'm just being funny, I don't usually post on this forum, I just happen to see your picture on the bottom of the page I was on and had see who that cute lady was! But I'm sure you have other nice traits about you other than just good looks.

“God is good all the time”

Since: May 07

Longmont, CO

#5 Jul 1, 2007
Stone cold wrote:
I think it's because you have an incredible smile! If that's you on the picture, you are quite the looker!
Yes it's me, thank you for the compliment its appreciated Stone.

“God is good all the time”

Since: May 07

Longmont, CO

#6 Jul 1, 2007
Stone Coldxxx wrote:
And so you don't think I'm just being funny, I don't usually post on this forum, I just happen to see your picture on the bottom of the page I was on and had see who that cute lady was! But I'm sure you have other nice traits about you other than just good looks.
I always leave that up to the individual becasue we don't see ourselves as others do. Most of my friends call me, Sweet as a nickname.

“*Shittin Me*”

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Since: Mar 07

Summer Hill

#7 Jul 1, 2007
Stone cold wrote:
I think it's because you have an incredible smile! If that's you on the picture, you are quite the looker!
YES SHE IS!....if she allows you, you should get to know her personally....she is absolutely beautiful!....my god this woman is soooo fine....anyways. i am like you all....any man and some women would love to get with her.....and i say her because samira doesn't fit her. here real name does....she is a joyous person with good morals and high ethics. i love this woman....(smiling), and she knows how much!.. lol...

“Arrive. Raise Hell. Leave.”

Since: Jul 07

Newark, New Jersey

#8 Jul 1, 2007
Your welcome.

“God is good all the time”

Since: May 07

Longmont, CO

#10 Jul 1, 2007
Big Jake wrote:
<quoted text>YES SHE IS!....if she allows you, you should get to know her personally....she is absolutely beautiful!....my god this woman is soooo fine....anyways. i am like you all....any man and some women would love to get with her.....and i say her because samira doesn't fit her. here real name does....she is a joyous person with good morals and high ethics. i love this woman....(smiling), and she knows how much!.. lol...
Jake chill with that darling you’re trying to mess up my “Angry Black Woman,” image that some people have of me on this thread. LOL Don’t forget my birthday 7-11.

“GONE!”

Since: Dec 06

Los Olivos, CA

#11 Jul 1, 2007
Sally Ann wrote:
Its coz you're a very hot chick Samira.
Sally Ann, hots a bit much isn't it? She not a bad looking female, but hot? Hmmm!

“GONE!”

Since: Dec 06

Los Olivos, CA

#12 Jul 1, 2007
Lucas8 wrote:
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Hi Samira - I agree with your points here. Younger men do find older woman attractive. I think it's partly that whole maternal/nurturing/she's gonna treat me like a prince the way mums did. And there's also the idea that older women are gifted and more experienced in bed, making love rather than having quicky-sex!
Is that true L8?

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Since: Feb 07

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#13 Jul 1, 2007
Lucas8 wrote:
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Hi Samira - I agree with your points here. Younger men do find older woman attractive. I think it's partly that whole maternal/nurturing/she's gonna treat me like a prince the way mums did. And there's also the idea that older women are gifted and more experienced in bed, making love rather than having quicky-sex!
i agree Lucas8 but don't you think there is more social stigma attached to older woman & younger me, it seems like its more acceptable in the reverse situation, what do you think ..?

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Since: Jul 07

Oceanside, CA

#16 Jul 1, 2007
Samira wrote:
I’m really curious about the attraction that younger men have for older women I’m usually approached by younger men on weekly basis, not sure if its because they think I’m younger (age 42 on 7-11), seeking a sugar mama, sexual fantasy or really into order women. Majority of men that I know said as a kid they saw older women such as teachers and friends mother as fully developed and something beautiful to look at. Also heard from some of these same men their first sexual experience was with an older woman. Two of my friend’s son has a crush on me, I never even consider having a fling with them for the fact its my, friends son which can cause conflict between our friendship and the fact that I’m not into younger men although they’re looking buff and handsome.
Consider it a compliment and move on. If you're not into younger guys, so be it. But I'm sure your ego is not bruised by a little flattery and attention.

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Since: Feb 07

Location hidden

#17 Jul 1, 2007
Lucas8 wrote:
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Depends on the age gap. The wider it is the more the relationship would be frowned on. And of course there's a stigma attached, people love to judge. If the couple are genuine, strong and happy together, what should they care what other people think?
Absolutely friend of mine dated and then later married an older man, there was almost a 25 yr age gap. They got put through hell so they could be together, people couldnt see nothing but is age, but truth was she could not have met a nicer and more genuine guy.

“White man Jesus (Devil) ”

Since: Jun 07

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#18 Jul 1, 2007
From my experience with older women I have found out that older women are more laidback. Older women they don’t hesitate to tell you what they want. I think if you’re a young single guy dating an older woman would benefit
You, because older women are straight forward, beautiful, and they can teach you how to respect women. Having someone with real relationship experience is always a plus.

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Since: Feb 07

Location hidden

#20 Jul 1, 2007
Lucas8 wrote:
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Were they strong enough to walk through the hell? Families/friends etc. can really break a relation if they try hard enough.
yes there are solid as rock but they moved away for a while, i think if they hadn't, it might have caused them to break up by the stress of other people intent on breaking them up, trust me it was unbelievable...and all because of an age difference, people can be so superficial

Level 1

Since: Jul 07

Oceanside, CA

#21 Jul 1, 2007
ubee wrote:
From my experience with older women I have found out that older women are more laidback. Older women they don’t hesitate to tell you what they want. I think if you’re a young single guy dating an older woman would benefit
You, because older women are straight forward, beautiful, and they can teach you how to respect women. Having someone with real relationship experience is always a plus.
True. I agree. I've always been attracted to older women for the reasons you stated. Younger women, as a group, tend to be hung up on a guys looks, his clothes, his car, if he's hip, flash, bling, if their friends think he's cute, etc, etc..... Older women, as a group, tend to be beyond such petty and temporal busllshit. Older women are generally more experienced, more intuitive, know that they want and what they don't want and they generally are not consumed with the, "Hey! Look at me, don't I look good! You know you want me but I don't want you", juvenile narcissism. IMO.....

Since: May 07

Washington, DC

#22 Jul 1, 2007
Samira wrote:
I’m really curious about the attraction that younger men have for older women I’m usually approached by younger men on weekly basis, not sure if its because they think I’m younger (age 42 on 7-11), seeking a sugar mama, sexual fantasy or really into order women. Majority of men that I know said as a kid they saw older women such as teachers and friends mother as fully developed and something beautiful to look at. Also heard from some of these same men their first sexual experience was with an older woman. Two of my friend’s son has a crush on me, I never even consider having a fling with them for the fact its my, friends son which can cause conflict between our friendship and the fact that I’m not into younger men although they’re looking buff and handsome.
Ephebophilia perhaps?HAHAHAHHAHA!

“God is good all the time”

Since: May 07

Longmont, CO

#23 Jul 1, 2007
I'm very impressed with the feedback.

“*Shittin Me*”

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Since: Mar 07

Summer Hill

#24 Jul 1, 2007
Samira wrote:
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Jake chill with that darling you’re trying to mess up my “Angry Black Woman,” image that some people have of me on this thread. LOL Don’t forget my birthday 7-11.
watch out for 7-11...lol..

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