Do you like Bdsm ?
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Since: Feb 08

Baltimore

#1 Feb 8, 2008
This question was just in my head. If your african american and know about our history with slavery and our bondage as a people, is it ok for you to participate in bdsm with a partnerm being a black women and now about the struggles we suffered during slavery. What if you want to participate in bdsm with a person of another race?
Loverthang

Towson, MD

#2 Feb 8, 2008
wow. I have no idea what to tell you. I like to watch bdsm but that's it.

Since: Feb 08

Baltimore

#3 Feb 8, 2008
I really want to know. This is a question that I've been talking about with my friends for a very long time. We can never agree. I want to know what people think. This is not a troll, its a serious question!
silverado

Sheffield, UK

#4 Feb 8, 2008
Is this just a hypothetical question, Damiana, Or are you considering having a go...? ;)
Damiana_17 wrote:
This question was just in my head. If your african american and know about our history with slavery and our bondage as a people, is it ok for you to participate in bdsm with a partnerm being a black women and now about the struggles we suffered during slavery. What if you want to participate in bdsm with a person of another race?
Dextra

Towson, MD

#5 Feb 8, 2008
People like what they like but I doubt any Black women like bondage! I don't like it myself and I'm not even black!
silverado

Sheffield, UK

#6 Feb 8, 2008
My girlfriend, who is black English, of Caribbean origin, has got a whip and handcuffs. She used to be into it with her former boyfriends (and girlfriends) but we haven't really explored that yet, together. I have the occasional fantasy of her whipping my white ars* but I haven't plucked up the courage :D
I think she likes being stroked and teased with the whip; you know, the anticipation?

Since: Feb 08

Baltimore

#7 Feb 8, 2008
silverado wrote:
Is this just a hypothetical question, Damiana, Or are you considering having a go...? ;)
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Hypothetical and I'm considering it[with the right guy].

Since: Feb 08

Baltimore

#8 Feb 8, 2008
silverado wrote:
My girlfriend, who is black English, of Caribbean origin, has got a whip and handcuffs. She used to be into it with her former boyfriends (and girlfriends) but we haven't really explored that yet, together. I have the occasional fantasy of her whipping my white ars* but I haven't plucked up the courage :D
I think she likes being stroked and teased with the whip; you know, the anticipation?
Your very naughty aren't you!*giggles* But I mean for like ... well yeah pretty much the same thing. So your both ok with the bdsm?
silverado

Sheffield, UK

#9 Feb 8, 2008
Hmmm... And what put these kinky ideas into your head, hummm? Have you perhaps been surfing on some dodgy websites...? Naughty, naughty, very naughty ;p
Damiana_17 wrote:
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Hypothetical and I'm considering it[with the right guy].

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Since: May 07

Dodge City, KS

#10 Feb 8, 2008
Damiana_17 wrote:
This question was just in my head. If your african american and know about our history with slavery and our bondage as a people, is it ok for you to participate in bdsm with a partnerm being a black women and now about the struggles we suffered during slavery. What if you want to participate in bdsm with a person of another race?
so what's that exactly so I can figure it out
silverado

Sheffield, UK

#11 Feb 8, 2008
Hmm... She likes me to use my strength to force her into some pretty contorted positions :o
silverado

Sheffield, UK

#12 Feb 8, 2008
But I think I'm too much the cuddly teddy bear type to be too far into that outer limits stuff.
Bye for now x
;)
Cococabana aka Wifey

Lawrenceville, GA

#13 Feb 8, 2008
Candella88 wrote:
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so what's that exactly so I can figure it out
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/B DSM
That is what is...I looks like 'torture' sex. Sigggh, I wish I didnt what it was(how VIRGIN of me).
silverado

Sheffield, UK

#14 Feb 8, 2008
Hmmm... We could have a good thread going here. If only all the eejits will stay away. Just me and a load of sexy black women ;)

Since: Feb 08

Baltimore

#15 Feb 8, 2008
Candella88 wrote:
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so what's that exactly so I can figure it out
Basically, its rough sex rbdage[being bound and tied] and a man using a little extra force. Is it ok for us as black woman to participate in such things with other race man and same race men?

Since: Feb 08

Baltimore

#16 Feb 8, 2008
silverado wrote:
Hmmm... We could have a good thread going here. If only all the eejits will stay away. Just me and a load of sexy black women ;)
lol. Behave silverado.:D

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Since: May 07

Dodge City, KS

#17 Feb 8, 2008
Damiana_17 wrote:
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Basically, its rough sex rbdage[being bound and tied] and a man using a little extra force. Is it ok for us as black woman to participate in such things with other race man and same race men?
hmmmm I don't like being tied up...I've heard some horror stories

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Since: May 07

Dodge City, KS

#18 Feb 8, 2008
Cococabana aka Wifey wrote:
<quoted text> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM
That is what is...I looks like 'torture' sex. Sigggh, I wish I didnt what it was(how VIRGIN of me).
awwww hell naw...I'll get nightmares for sure

“LMAO @all the Haters!!!(:”

Since: Jan 08

Catania

#19 Feb 8, 2008
Damiana_17 wrote:
This question was just in my head. If your african american and know about our history with slavery and our bondage as a people, is it ok for you to participate in bdsm with a partnerm being a black women and now about the struggles we suffered during slavery. What if you want to participate in bdsm with a person of another race?
whats bdsm?

“LMAO @all the Haters!!!(:”

Since: Jan 08

Catania

#20 Feb 8, 2008
Cococabana aka Wifey wrote:
<quoted text> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BDSM
That is what is...I looks like 'torture' sex. Sigggh, I wish I didnt what it was(how VIRGIN of me).
oh my...lol....

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